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When you tell them, don't advertise your success on social media, the days are evil and the heart of man is desperately wicked, they won't listen. Amongst friends and relatives, they will be some that may not be genuinely happy for your success and breakthrough, and it's a fact!

Always keep it low, please. We hardly can trust anyone these days. Advertising your plans and success will only make you vulnerable and exposes you to avoidable danger.

Such an unfulfilled dream!

Rest in peace, guy.

"Therefore, shall a man leave his mother and father, and shall cleave unto his wife, and the two shall become ONE"! Genesis 2:22 and Mark 10:7-8 KJV

Therefore, NONE! They should stay in their husband's house while I stay in mine. They can only visit and go back.

I thank God my mother is a very busy woman. She rarely has time leaving her business, not to mention going about inconveniencing her married children, unless when they put to bed. It's even with abeg that she can spend more than a month in their houses.

And none of us siblings live with our married siblings. We give them their maximum privacy in their marriage. We don't impose on them unless we're invited.

So mother-in-law and other in-laws should please take note.

End Time App.

Now, this is a delicate issue.

Congratulations, Prof.

Are people doubting it? He actually created jobs - in his imagination and finally,

in his dream.

Nonsense!

WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND

Prof. Jubril Aminu was once the VC of University of Maiduguri. During his tenure, there was an Aluta struggle and some students were rusticated.
Four of the rusticated students came to Gani Fawehinmi to challenge the action.
He fought the case to the Supreme Court and won. The students went back to complete their studies.

Later, Gani was arrested over his anti-SAP conference and was flown to Maiduguri, then driven to Gashua. At the Lagos airport, not knowing where he was being taken to by the security men, Gani played a fast one - he told his captors that he wanted to use the toilet.

He got inside the toilet and quickly scribbled on a toilet paper - "To whoever uses this toilet, this is Gani Fawehinmi. I am being flown to an unknown destination by security men. Please, let the world know". He placed it in a conspicuous place, flushed the toilet as if he just used it and came out.

When they got to Maiduguri, they had a brief stop over at the SSS office, where a lady officer offered Gani a cup of coffee.

Gani was hooked on coffee like drug. But this time, the will power of Gani came on. He told the lady officer -"so you people have got information that l can't do without coffee. You think you can poison me? From, today, I stop taking coffee ". That was how he ended his addiction to coffee.

He was later moved to Gashua prison, in a most decrepit cell where he collapsed after some substances were sprayed in the cell.

He was rushed to the University of Maiduguri Teaching hospital. When he regained consciousness, he found a doctor examining him and he protested, asking the doctor not to touch him.

The doctor, not wanting the security men guarding him to hear, he whispered to Gani's ear - "Chief, you are in safe hands. Can't you recognise me? I am....., one of the medical students rusticated whom you fought for our reinstatement. I am now a doctor. So, relax. You are in safe hands".

And that was how Gani's life was saved - reaping from the good deeds he did earlier, which he had forgotten.

Moral Lesson Of The Story:

Do good always and it shall come back to you.

© African History Archive

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RoyalBlu:
Thank you sis. Ill get there.

It's well with us all that's have to pass through this.

You are welcome.
Amen! Just try, ok?

Pray to God for divine revelation.

RoyalBlu:
It's been over three weeks now I lost my younger sister to death. I'm still finding it really difficult to get myself together.

The pain of losing her so untimely has shaken me to my roots. The tears won't stop coming.

I've been told to try and move on and be strong. But how

I have been there too, so I know exactly what you're going through. I know how deep the pain is, especially one so young, but you must try, albeit how hard, to embrace reality and find a way to let go. The scar will be there, you'll cry whenever you remember the things you used to do together, but you must learn to let go and move on.

See RoyalBlu, moving on will not be automatic and easy. In fact, it's going to be one of the hardest things you've ever done so far, but you really have to let go and move on.

I pray God to rest her soul, and give her loved ones the fortitude to bear the irreparable and irreplaceable loss.

April, 2023 was the fourth year I received that call that almost paused my own life too. The shock landed me in the hospital, but I thank God for the Grace to let go and move on myself.

It was one hell of a trial, but here I am now, advising someone else!

Even this time shall pass, no matter how long it drags.

*Hugs* from me to you.

Hotwest:
One late guy in the USA army gave alot of giveaways those days. I was once a beneficiary

That was HungerBad.

May God continue to rest his soul.

So sorry about your experience. Take heed of the numerous advice here to seek for medical help.

Forget about money and go run a scan and X-ray. Even Nairaland has kindhearted members that will be of help, if need be.

I pray God that the result of the scan wouldn't be something so serious.

Take care of yourself, bro.

Desusi:
You're more than Justice Funmi.l love you for being Frank.

It's quite disheartening seeing the one we love hurt us this much. Claiming love here and impregnating the other there.

I mean it doesn't always make sense.

Marry her. Or what else do you expect I advice you to do? Please let me know when the wedding aso ebi is out.

Let me tell you, you don't deliberately hurt the one you love and you don't cheat on them either!

So marry the one you impregnated and free the other to go find a man that will genuinely love her.

After the slap, he should make sure to remain in school because if he steps outta school gate, I go run am street.

How can he slap me on top my school fees, ehen?

They sell it at 3CHub, Awolowo Way, Ikeja. It's around Computer Village.

Fineman2 or whatever you call yourself, make sure nothing happens to your daughter out of your carelessness.

Love ko, lust ni! Not only was she there for you, she might even be the reason you were windowed in the first place!

It'll soon dawn on you that that Jezebel has no iota of love for you. What could a child have probably done that a woman, who ought to be happy that God has already blessed her with a daughter even before her arrival in that home, should now be the one maltreating her? And to think she's expecting to be a mother someday? Forget it, God cannot be deceived!

You better put her permanently in her place. Remember your daughter was there before she came, so it's not even a matter of who will leave for who.

Use everything you have to protect your daughter from harms way, at least to make up for cheating on her mother with your present wife. Because your marriage with her happened so fast that it's so suspicious. Moreover, how did your first wife die? You've to find out to be sure Jezebel has no hand in her death!

kpakpakpa:
That is what i actually want. I don't have a problem with been deaf, but its the noise that is killing me slowly. I don't want to hear anything again till i die, if i'm asked to choose one from the two problems, i will choose the deafness to stay and the noise to go, atleast i mastered the art of reading lips and can communicate in sign language very well

This is quite heartbreaking. I can't even imagine the trauma you're passing through, but I pray The Divine Healer to perform the impossible miracle in your life. He's our Maker and have the spare parts of our body.

I almost fell victim once and I remember sharing my experience in a post here on Nairaland, how that God used the hospital Pharmacist to disuade me from purchasing one of the antibiotics the doctor prescribed for me in a Federal Medical Center. She gave me an option of a less stronger drug and I purchased it without even thinking twice. And I was very ok after using it and never had the need of going back to the hospital for the same problem.

I don't even know what to tell you than to encourage you to keep hope alive. There must be a way out of this problem somehow. Solution must come. Don't you ever give up, ok?

Sorry please.

NoFucksToGive:
Will you shut up , all these slum dwelling classless , fake life leaving , hungry , post pertum belly having orangutan looking baboonesses who fill this forum ..

You are not even happy some fūck boys are chasing a low value cum bucket like you . I don't blame you sha, na Tecno cause am, otherwise how can such a low level woman like you access the internet if now via cheap low quality china phones like Tecno and shitfinix .

I am sure you have never seen an email and will.never ever see an email from high value men like me because like you rightly pointed out we were raised right and mama taught me that if you lay down with dogs you will come up with fleas so enjoy the attention from them fūck boys cause it's all you gonna get. Pigle

Instead of praising them for giving you attention you are ridiculously being a bìtxh about it.?

Chai I no blame you sha. Men no chase ugly ducklings in Nigeria hence your type dey open mouth .

See your neck like cassava plant Wen no grow well. With that your wig Wen be like best Wen mad chicken dey roost

@Mods
@Seun

Please handle this poster.

Thank you.

Antell95:
just below the "submit" tab

I will continue trying until I am able to attach the screenshot.

Antell95:
Something may have prompted me to but i doubt i did. can i see proof?

Please how do I attach picture, cos I can't find the attachment icon on Nairaland menu. What is available is Camera and files. Don't know how to attach from my gallery because I screenshot the DMs.

There are also in my mailbox.

MechanicMike:
Why is anyone emailing u....

1... Are you lightskin??

2... Do u have yansh? (No oofencssece)

I actually responded to your sad emoji thinking you're responsible. If I had come across this comment earlier, I wouldn't have even bothered.

MechanicMike:

I usually don't flourish in an atmosphere of abuse and hostility, that was why I took that drastic step/decision. I honestly don't want to have anything to do with any Nairaland guys. The insult is usually uncalled for, yet they keep pouring it without minding how we feel.

One even went as far as cursing my mum and late dad just because of an innocent question I asked in a post. I wanted a clarification over something and he jumped into the thread and started insulting me badly, inclusive my parents.

Even one commented here how that I am seeking attention. Unfortunately for him, he doesn't even know who he was referring to.

So I will keep on publishing their names until they learn to maintain their lane and let me be.

My decision on the matter stands, now and always.

The following underlisted Monikers should take note of this post, and please adhere. I am quite serious about its contents.

1. @Johnwegs
2. @Ramsinuah
3. @Antell95

Thank you.

chudez0147:
Op didn't talk about language barrier

Yeah, that's important. But there will always be a way, right?
Thanks for bringing that up.

davywillis:
Ivory Coast is a very sweet place to be and most of what the OP said are true. If you want to visit and enjoy Ivory Coast, you will enjoy doing that travelling by road which will cost approximately #200k naira (Allez et Retour) as the current exchange is about #1,178.00 to 1000 Fcfa, which means the Fcfa is presently superior to the naira. When I say travel by road, is to make you gain some experiences you can always refer to, and you can make references about some other countries like Benin , Togo, and Ghana. The longest distance between Nigeria and Cote d'ivoire is Ghana, if not you can arrive same day. The journey is about 18hrs. You can book your travel ticket from Young shall grow office in Mile 2 Lagos. You don't need a passport compulsorily, but a Nigeria national ID card will suffice. Hotels are not cheap here, but you can get very good ones for 15 to 20k FCFA.

Thanks a lot for your helpful input. I will plan towards visiting the two countries. Hope they have good cuisine, cos I'm damned too choosy when it comes to food. Help me God!

@Op, you'll live the remaining days of your life in regret and sorrow if you marry that woman.
A stitch in time saves nine. Quitely discard her now. If you let her know ahead, she'll either poison you or your son. And try make haste while the sun shines before she becomes pregnant for you!

Aside the numerous boys/men friends, even her spirit husband will join hands in making life unbearable for you.

Be wise, bro.

aboyaji:
Gambia is a very good place to be. If you have the cash.

Going to ivory Coast should take up to 80k. But you must factor hotel bills and normal itinerary too

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Thanks for the info.

Yes, I will like to visit the Gambia. And now that Ivory Coast is in the offing, I will try visiting there too.

@Op - How much do I need to travel for let's say, three (3) weeks vacation to Ivory Coast? I was considering the Gambia initially, but it's like I already have a change of mind.

I will advise you seek the face of God in this. Pray for divine direction so you won't make a regrettable mistake.

Wishing you the best.

KINGOFHEART4064:
Please, I need better advice.
I completed my youth services last year, and traveled to where my friend base to state a life and I am staying with my friend and his family.
To cut the story shot, his wife have a sister that is staying with them and is still in secondary school, I am falling in love with her.
Please I need your advice on what to do.

Did you say you completed your "youth services"? Like you're a graduate? There's much to be desired with the gibberish you wrote up there. I mean from your first sentence to the last! So it's not a case of typographical error.

You better go back and write like a graduate!