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FamilyRe: My Friend Threatens To Divorce Wife Over This Issue by decatalyst(m): 9:25pm On May 22, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
Your friend should let go of the issue after all his wife has appologised, it's her money and she can spend it as she wishes.
Yes and the man can build a house somewhere and sell it and the buyer inform the woman later...its also his money, his wish to build and sell his first house!

What is wrong is wrong no matter who or what is involved! She ought to inform her HUSBAND!
FamilyRe: My Friend Threatens To Divorce Wife Over This Issue by decatalyst(m): 9:22pm On May 22, 2020
UjuJoan2:
Maybe she didn't tell him because she knew he will stop her.

Let me paint this scenario for you. She grew up abandoned by her father as a child and the mother raised she a d her siblings single handedly. Sacrificed every comfort to make sure they all succed. She remembered how her mother would come pick them up as kids and they would trek long distances to get home, come rain or shine. Her father had the means but chose to abaondon them for her mother to suffer and raise them alone. As a child she pledged to herself to make sure her mother enjoys all the privileges she sacrificed to raise them. . . .

So tell me, if you were here, who would get the car, your mother or your husband? Bear in mind that the mother is advancing in age and may not live for much longer. Won't it be wise to take every opportunity to make her happy before life snatches her away?

Marriage doesn't mean you lose yourself or neglect your family.

In any case the man did not contribute to the car so what is the big deal?
I get the scenario you painted. You are merely appealing to emotion!

But trust me, it wouldn't have been wrong or become a topic of debate if she bought it before marriage (during courtship) or as a single woman. Imagine it is the mama calling the husband to inform him.


She is married for crying out loud! The husband deserves to be briefed, if two has truly became one!
FamilyRe: My Friend Threatens To Divorce Wife Over This Issue by decatalyst(m): 9:08pm On May 22, 2020
Poorboy:
you don't understand motherly love.

You don't know the sacrifice the mother might have made to the lady in question .

It's not a matter of loving the husband but her own personal conviction that her mother deserves a car.

The boy(husband) in question is a jealous type, the wife knew telling him he won't allow her buy the car.


Don't compare mother with husband it doesn't fall in the same sentence.
The bold part will eventually kill the marriage!

Loving one's mother isn't a crime or a bad thing, but she is married to another woman's son and she supposedly share his vision and they are both on mission...for a better life. Why not carry him along?

This man will feel jealous.

This man will feel belittle.

This man will feel lost in the marriage.

This man will feel humiliated.

This man's ego is brushed!

He may call it quit!
FamilyRe: My Friend Threatens To Divorce Wife Over This Issue by decatalyst(m): 8:30pm On May 22, 2020
Poorboy:
So your friend is a lazy man, that says alot about you.
This is not about a lazy man.

What he woman did is fundamentally wrong. How could she go ahead to do such a fantastic gifting and not informing her husband. I thought two have become one.

The man need to correct this...though it is going to be very hard because most people will think he is not happy about his wife buying car for her mother and this could lead to an even bigger issue that may not get settled in years (family wahala).

Also, maybe the wife doesn't love the husband as much as she loved her mother.

Yoruba would say "bi ina ba jo eni to jo omo eni tara eni laa koko gbon " (If fire is burning you and burning your child, you will first put out the one on you).

Your husband doesn't have a car and you buy one for your mother first? The love is in question here. huh
CelebritiesRe: Burna Boy Shade Davido After He Called Himself And Wizkid 2 Greatest Of All Time by decatalyst(m): 7:40pm On May 22, 2020
Londonland:
Davido the trouble maker.
Maybe another track or album is on the way.
FamilyRe: Death Of Pregnant Woman Stopped By Lockdown Police Sparks Outrage In Ogun by decatalyst(m): 9:52pm On May 21, 2020
Wait, tell me this is not wickedness aimed at wasting the life of the citizens?

This is the height of insensitivity and just a fraction of the inhumane ways these crude men in black always treat those paying their salary and entitlements.

That is why I don't pity people...you don't have an idea of the callousness they are capable of.

Bunch of legalized poorly trained rogues

CelebritiesRe: 5 Days After Announcing Search For Serious Relationship, Man Shows Off His GF by decatalyst(m): 9:33pm On May 21, 2020
Just like that?

Science/TechnologyRe: Monkeys Killed In My Village In Abia (Pictures) by decatalyst(m): 5:50pm On May 21, 2020
Hunger and inhumanity are like 5&6

AgricultureRe: See The Grasscutter I Caught This Morning As I Went To Inspect My Traps by decatalyst(m): 5:46pm On May 21, 2020
Yuceeluv:
No matter how sweet bush meat is, Lord knows i can not taste one, this period.

Bros! wash your hands very well o after eating it.

PoliticsRe: Banker Commits Suicide, Leaves Note For Father And Girlfriend by decatalyst(m): 4:38pm On May 21, 2020
fuckingAyaya:
They wanted to detain all the tenant before investigation?chai NPF
NPF as a security outfit is a monumental disgrace

Too rotten set of unprofessional people.

SportsRe: Barcelona Fc : Luis Suarez Of 1955 Vs Luis Suarez Of 2014 by decatalyst(m): 8:16pm On May 20, 2020
eliyke:
bt e no dey bite
Eim no be the original one we know be that! grin grin


The 'biting' one scores for a living and bites as a sport grin
TV/MoviesRe: Did I Just See Awolowo's face on our 100 Naira Bill On "Money Heist" Movie? by decatalyst(m): 7:31pm On May 20, 2020
BrownLondon:
Common sense is far away from you.

Influential cities like Berlin, Tokyo, Rio, Denver, Lisbon, Oslo, Stockholm e.t.c were also used.

Your brain should tell you the above we used to gather viewers.
You must be senile! You are severely deranged mentally!


Of course a senile person may be blind to see humor... Analysing the alacrity with which you barked at my comment, with the aid of hiding behind your keyboard, you must be eating from the proceeds of questionable means of livelihood. Anofia!


Now, skedaddle for here!
TV/MoviesRe: Did I Just See Awolowo's face on our 100 Naira Bill On "Money Heist" Movie? by decatalyst(m): 7:13pm On May 20, 2020
The politicians here are the ones doing the heist!



So the producer and director merely found a way of subtly paying homage to them. grin
HealthRe: Why Female Nurse Undresses To Treat Male Covid 19 Patients In Russia by decatalyst(m): 6:52pm On May 20, 2020
chatinent:
So wh*rerisome.
Nah psycho woman!


How can she say she didn't know the PPE is transparent?


Abi ewo ni double punishment for the Covid patients cry
FamilyRe: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by decatalyst(m): 3:24pm On May 20, 2020
DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.
AutosRe: An Extremely Clean Toks 2006 BMW 325 CI For Sale by decatalyst(m): 11:45am On May 20, 2020
Bros, BMW doesn't use "V6" what they use is "straight 6".

Ask around man.
RomanceRe: Guys..have You Ever Rejects A Lady That Wanted To Bleep You Before? by decatalyst(m): 11:42am On May 19, 2020
JentuPrinz:
Back then in skul,a friend rushed to my room very early in d morning.I asked him"wat happened?"he said"d gal no allow him sleep".Lol,I think a gal slept in her room,they were both friends since 100 level days.My friend do tell us dat there is notin btw dem,dat dey were just friend.He said d gal tried to woke him up to had sex but he rejected.So later,d gal continue to touched him,even took off his boxers but d tin(manhood)no stand.Me i kanut laff.So he told me dat he was forming asleep and acting like someone dat was already drunk so dat d gal will just leave him alone.And he was praying in his mind dat morning should just rise.I was like so some guys still rejects sex from ladies.So my guy told me dat if d girl ask me if dat d way he do sleep dat i should answer yes coz me and d gal do talk.
Are you sure you are actually in school?

The way you write indicate other wise and it shocked mecry

Decay in the system... huh

CrimeRe: Oyo Islamic Cleric Reveals Who Was Behind His Twins Kidnap by decatalyst(m): 10:04pm On May 18, 2020
Omihanifa:
I really pity that guy cuz the way this Alfa man will render him useless ehen grin he won't live to tell the story undecided

That cleric will finish him spiritually grin he will tune him to a walking dead ( KOROFO)
He is useless already, he will only become walking corpse in no distant time.


Nah get rich quick syndrome go push am into that nefarious act.
PetsRe: What Is The Right Breed Of My Dog by decatalyst(m): 9:52pm On May 18, 2020
Staphylococcus:
Lekki shepherd
I was actually thinking it is Isheri Shepard oo grin

@ishilove coman see something grin
CelebritiesRe: xx by decatalyst(m): 5:42pm On May 18, 2020
Nicholehemsworth:
I'd like to put it out there that ,am not a bad or wicked person ..I wish well for everyone I come across ..
But I met this man and I immediately fell in love with him...we started dating just 2 months after meeting him ,I was scared he might lose interest if I let him wait longer...though a sweet guy and very handsome,he is still trying to find his balance financially,lately he's been calling me with different news of joy and the truth be told I felt bad...I started thinking if he gets a better job ,he will meet better girls,it he buys a car ,girls will notice him..and I secretly wishes him bad..I just want him home..I don't mind paying the bills...hope am normal?
Better girls?

So you are not the best that could never happen to a man? Ah! Lord save men. So you are self aware of your treacherous and wicked way.?


Lord save us from Crossing the path of these kinds of evil called woman!

CareerRe: I See No Other Career Except In The Military - Advice needed by decatalyst(m): 3:27pm On May 18, 2020
vikkimimi:
What level are you in school, if you're yet to begin your final year you can push harder for a good grade...the military can take you with a 2.2 especially if it's up to a 3.0 CGPA ...don't give up yet, your seminars, projects and some final year courses can still help give you a little boost in your grade... just try...final year favoured me.

By the way, the military is something I'm also looking forward to after NYSC wink
Well written dear.
RomanceRe: Is There Still Hope For Me? by decatalyst(m): 3:12pm On May 18, 2020
HarunaWest:
5 inch girth isnt small.Do you know your measurements?
Nah weight the humor dey talk about uncle
AutosRe: Mini Cooper 2008 Clean Used... 1.8m by decatalyst(m): 6:29pm On May 17, 2020
To talk truth, this looks so sweet
TravelRe: Pictures From Owerri Bicycle Street Ride (photo) by decatalyst(m): 2:58pm On May 17, 2020
dokiOloye:
Owerri,fine city.
No brown roof
Today is Sunday!

Shut up!!!

HealthRe: The Man Who Invented The Alabukun Powder. by decatalyst(m): 2:50pm On May 17, 2020
Legendary drug


Alabukun and 7up are...

RomanceRe: Is There Still Hope For Me? by decatalyst(m): 2:46pm On May 17, 2020
ceeroh:
5in girth??


grin grin grin
Carrot go even get weight pass am

CelebritiesRe: 'I Will Have A Child Soon, Married Or Not' - Ifu Ennada by decatalyst(m): 7:06am On May 17, 2020
Just hear yearn on the street of earth!


And some senseless ones dey see this one as role model too?

CelebritiesRe: VIDEO Liberian Dancehall Singer Canc Queen Gives Her Life To Christ by decatalyst(m): 7:59pm On May 16, 2020
Thank you Lord for the arrest of her soul.


May she never find cause to look back again.
Christianity EtcRe: Woman Breaks Into Songs Of Praise And Speaks In Tongues After Surviving Accident by decatalyst(m):
Yes, because she knows her protector and defender lives.



Give your life to Christ and experience peace, even in death.
FamilyRe: I BUY SCRAP RECHARGEABLE FANS by decatalyst(m): 10:48pm On May 15, 2020
surrogatesng:
I buy scrap rechargeable fans.If you have to sell call/whatsapp me 07067866986
I dey Ibadan

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