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Only about 100Nigerians will qualify to make heaven,even the 100 not so sure-maybe 5.hypocrisy is now a part of us.
mixing worldly virtues and religious doctrines is the norm,everything is false,just a scheme to make money.
Find your salvation within you,all these fake pastors will chop your money and leave your soul more lost.

These guys are liable...this post is not on point.china is not Nigeria,you commit an offrnce you get punished.I think Nigeria jails are even worse,where the jail rooms smell like shit.

Oyaxindeed: Dnt yu knw dt owt of d 1.8 million cndidat dat applied 4 jAMB only 520k wud b admitted?

Why are you stating the obvious?
Do you know how many people applied for cambridge and other institutions overseas,at the end of the day only 10percent gets admitted.It is not peculiar to jamb alone.think b4 u talk...u sound like a kid.

NnamdiN: I don't see any thing wrong with this statement o. Y'all attacking him as if all you "need" to do to gain admission in naija is to "study" hard. I know many people with very high jamb and post utme scores yet they couldn't gain admission. These f u c k e r s keep increasing the jamb fee every year as if these candidates are cash cows. Truth is, if they had succeeded, I wouldn't be sorry for him. B4 una even talk rubbish come my side, me don grad o

Very dumb and irrelevant comment.

The hope we have is for we the people to come together and decide our faith,either we want to move along together or not-if we fail to dialogue and determine our fate peacefully,leaving it to Nature to decide is dangerous,cos no one can determine or forcast the outcome.Nigerians let us demand our government face the situation in the face,we all sit on a round table and state our stakes.

2sexy.us:
Then why are encouraging people to join you in your miserable and redundant ideology?

I wonder if you had a million naira you would give to this same people you are calling on.

The problem with many of you is that you allow sentiment to cloud logic reasoning. Most marriages fail today because people do not follow ideal rules set aside... They want happiness , yet they date and marry trouble.

Sexkillz has said it; you need to work for your happiness.

A lot of you will allow what you watch on TV and movies dictate your decisions...

What do you expect?

How many of take note of what your partner say? every minute analysis is imperative, but NO you wont.

By their fruit, we shall know them!

Bleep you,either you contribute to the thread reasonably or Bleep off.
Die slow if you want,you were not invited to comment on here.idiot.

CAMEROONPRIDE: I keep saying, e b like NAIJA men just discovered sunglasses lmao.
Indoor sunglasses

From Nl beauty contest to several others thread.no sense of fashion.

your fada,guy leave this space...this na nairaland-go join cameroun land dey talk trash-if i catch you walahi i go use you do suya.

pro01: This one wey our bros wear sunglasses inside room dey browse Nairaland for laptop, shey e go see wetin im dey browse for the screen so?

when eye don dirty,u need to cover am-ask Sani Abacha.

The Sly: That explain why they have spent 8 years fighting illiterate Talibans and still nothing to show for it.

very dumb statement,more than 50percent of afghan youths are ready to be recruited.American's aim was not to kill all the Taliban,but to scare them and deter them from trying to hurt America or its Allies/interests.
you can not kill an ideology or end it,you can only minimise its effect-except you want them to annihilate the entire Afghanistan.

American women especially the whites are Dogs,the only reason Naija boys like them is because of their dollars.it aint surprising when they sleep with goats,pigs,dogs.
If you dash me American woman to marry i go only manage her cos of green card.

Saudi women fresh die,Saudi men no get too much game...If na me,i go knack apako.

2jideofor: That was how a neighbor died in 2007... Just because of this same doctrine.

The 3kids are orphans today.

Common sense tells us that drugs are mostly from food or plant extracts, many of which are from what God created. How then is wrong to give drug?

Everything comes from God...the source of life "Energy" is never created or destroyed.
Nature provides us with everything.
Let Jah be praised...

nana: Been eating noodles for so long now and there isn't any trace of cancer in my body. I don't believe in it being cacinogic. If it really is,i dont think Tesco would be selling it.

wise up,so many poison is sold in market-sardine,geisha,most canned foods,ciggerettes,spirits etc.
its a capitalist world.save yourself and wise up

martyns303: six is "only"?

Boko haram has killed more than 5000people,in Syria almost 60,000has died in this vein-6 is only.

zannie: So 6 people is now ONLY 6 people??
When will we start seeing human life as precious and sacred in this country?
God help us! Respect to the dead. So sad

Almost 200,000 civilians died when America invaded Afganistan/Iraq,almost 10million people die in second world war.
there will be more civilian casualties-in a war people die.the earlier the Northern elites calls their foot soldiers to order, the more lives will be saved.soon the drones and jet bombers will set in and the civilian casualties will jump astronomically.In Syria almost 100,000 people have died and more still dying,so its nothing new...or are you naive?
If a full blown religious war breaks out due to the incessant killings of Christians,millions of Nigerians will die-hence its better the military does all it can to exterminate all terrorists/their sympathizers/their families/supporters and sponsors- they should all be destroyed to avert a civil war and the killing of millions.
it aint no ones wish,but it is inevitable.

vanstanzy: How does JTF know the civilians amongst the Islamic militants? Abi JTF carry charms too?

This is a warning to all Northerners-if you shield terrorists,you either get killed by them or you will die in a confrontation.if you got nothing good to say-shut your stinking mouth.Boko Haram that you are supporting does not fight for you-they fight for their commanders.if they see you,they probably will kill you.You are a big fool.

Multi National force carried out the operation,and it was in the borders between Nigeria and Niger and Chad-most of the people in such areas are sympathizers to killers and terrorists.i guess all of you here downgrading and bad mouthing the military do not know what it means to come under fire and rocket propelled grenades from mindless killers.instead of you blaming the military y'all should be thanking them and praising them for laying their lives on the line to save your miserable lives.
If not the military by now most of you will be slaves to these dumb terrorists.
Thousands of Innocent people being killed deliberately by boko haram aint humans abi?
anything that will rid Nigeria of terrorists i support.even if it means destroying a whole town or state of sympathizers/sponsors.
God bless Nigerian army.

take dat: Omojuwa Beware, this government does not welcome criticism

Does he tell you he aint aware of that.
If everyone is as scared as you we would have been eating crumbs from politicians table today.scared asshole.
Nigerians irritate me when they complain bitterly in private,but too scared to air their views in public.
If we all protest,they can not arrest or kill us all-change will definitely come.

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tables are turning...men are begining to think like women.selling the essential commodities.

This girl no be am...anyway sha,happy married life.

smart dude.see how he geared up in suit while looking for the job.nice post.
this guy will make it big cos he have the mind of investing in his future.

GraceBestowed: [color=#CD3700] This is one of the most reasonable post I've read this week!

Marriage is not a do or die issue, I will continue to say that, and if you wait for the right time, it will happen. I fully endorse the institution of marriage, as God intended, but it becomes an issue when people jump into it for the wrong reasons!

Please, don't get married, because;

- Your parents, or family, are putting you under pressure
- You feel 'stigmatised'
- Your 'mates' are all married
- You feel like you're getting too old

Entering a happy marriage at 30 is better than entering an unhappy union at 25.

God will give us wisdom! [/color]

Thanks for buttressing my point.am not saying marriage is bad.am only saying ladies should not allow themselves to be cajoled into marriage due to pressures from family and friends.

val_dee: Op, you got a point, but it will take a lot to get this attitudinal change her.

With our culture, which, encourages marriage against all odds, embracing this idea is a long haul.

But I feel as the reality dawns, the more this truth will hit home that Marriage does not guarantee happiness.


But I love this institution called marriage, I will give anything to be in it and will make any necessary sacrifice to make it work.

Marriage is not a walk in the park, if you are not ready to gice your all to make it work, if you wanna do it to please traditions, they you might as well stay away.

Always better to please yourself than please traditions.
Traditions don't care what you are going thru.
Wake up,life is all about U first.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]So, should you make yourself one, because they are? [/color]

This is not about me or you-it is about
"what is"...so many marriages today are failing due to infidelity,lack of understanding/cohesion,too much pride etc

sexkillz: [color=#000030]These comparisons don't count. We are talking about marriage and happiness, how about you stick to that?

If you are not keeping up with God's commands, don't think everyone else doesn't. Learn to speak for yourself. [/color]

Take a chill pill bro...you are looking at an ideal situation when reality that stares in our faces shows more unhappy married couples than married ones.
60% of Nigerians are hypocrites-even most pastors and elites are.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Nothing guarantees happiness. Being un-married doesn't guarantee happiness either. It's even worse to remain unmarried cos as human beings, we have an innate desire for companionship. And when I say companionship, I don't mean randy sex affairs, having "a cool calm lover to satisfy emotional cravings". Companionship is way above that league.

Marriage was instituted by an all knowing creator. No one knows the value of marriage more than him. Asking people to remain unmarried because of blah blah blah unhappiness is pure crap. No one is perfect, no marriage is perfect, but there are rules and guidelines you must follow and stick to, to have a happy married life. Disagreements will surely come, but the ability of a married couple to resolve their differences before it graduates to "world war III" is all it takes. Marriage is a union of 2 people ready to forgive freely.

It is the mental irresponsible attitude of the majority that makes everyone choose the easy way out. No one wants to work for a happy relationship. They want it to happen magically, like in the movies, or they decide to wait for fate. That this popular mental disposition is what is guiding the majority doesn't make it right.

Happiness doesn't occur randomly in nature. You must work for your happiness. If you fail to attain it, don't talk down on others who have found theirs through marriage.
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my guy so many things that God instituted today we are not keeping up with.
God says "love your Neighbour as yourselves"
do you do that?
God says "thou shalt not commit fornication"
don't you do that?
God says we should not lie-today everyone is a liar and hypocrisy is now a norm.please spare me that line about what God commands-we all know that.
A cool calm lover aint a randy sex mate,when i say lover i don't mean a senseless he goat,neither do i mean all he will do is to fu-ck the lady.
please try to look from both perspectives.

tpia@:
Op

Your third line is in error.

Thats bad advice, if i'm reading you correctly.

The rest of your write up, could still be considered ok depending on the context ( or maybe not, especially with all that lover stuff)

But that third line e get as e be.

It is fair exchange man,the man would be getting a lot of gratification to be with a woman-so the woman has a right to benefits if the man is willing.

rokiatu: FrontPage please.

African people think the pathway to happiness is marriage.

For many the pathway to unhappiness is marriage!!!

some marriages are living hell,most couples would confess they enjoy the courtship more.
If the marriage will not be bliss,no need to be in there.

My dear beautiful African Nigerian women-live your life to the full.
Never be pressured into marriage or into marrying who you do not like or love.
Feel free to use that man to step up,you are not obligated to get married to him.
Remember at 30 you are fresh,explore yourself,set up a business or find a new hobby
At 40,if you have a kid,spend your time nursing the kid-forget about the talk about a kid with no father-dis and dat.most kids are ending up in broken homes and worse off.most kids go through the torture of watching their parents enact world war3 everyday...build your investments and get a good calm lover to satisfy your emotional cravings.
At 50 live life to the full,take trips and experience the world.
Never settle for less.A man and a woman are same to me,you have the power.live your life.

i agree,marriage is overrated.better to be single and free/happy than married in a cage filled with sadness.

very sad indeed.
Nigerians let us desist from loving money over Values-the more we worship money,the more anarchy sordid news we will be hearing everyday.
When our old mothers and fathers in the village love money more than their sons and daughters they are promoting evil,when the people vote for evil,criminal politicians they are promoting evil.
by empowering one evil man,you have empowered 10,000 evil men.
Nigerians let us choose to support good today to see good in our Nation.