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dmz:
If I have cheated before, I'll confess right after her and we will discuss the way forward. If she cheated first we will still talk it over. Satisfying my physical urge is not one of the reasons why I would want to get married so I won't be ending the marriage because of it unless of course she wants out.

Your opinion! A very fair one.

dBard:
Cos, generally guys view sex for women as an emotional tin...get a guy in a room,strip n you'll probably not have t do anything else t get him t sleep wit u,but f females, u at least ve t get them emotionally aligned via words n actions..
So a woman cheating is viewed not just as a betrayal of a physical nature but of something far deeper.
It's difficult t explain

It's indeed a difficult matter.

RiffRaff:
I wont Forgive that lai lai.. If the role were reversed, i dont expect her to Forgive me too.
It is the only thing i know i can neva eva forgive.

Me too. It's the ONLY thing I can never let go. Period.

Sophyrocks:


You are gonna commit murder huh?

I'm doing my best and also praying that such a disaster doesn't befall my home.

Sophyrocks:
That day the heavens will fall abi? Hehehehe.

Dear, the fury will be worse than hell. It's not a matter we even discuss amongst us....

Sophyrocks:
You can say that as a man. Which is why you always get caught. Its not the same for a woman. A woman can cheat without getting caught. For many years. This is why many men always wanna feign ignorance of cheatin in women. The perfect skills in women helps to feed the ignorance. which is good. We women are awesome.

The day we find out......

tobechi74:
Rub pepper on the hand

Haba! For a baby? That's extreme.

Our son sucked his thumb around the age you described above. Somehow he stopped the act a few months later.

Our daughter, Sophie, has just started sucking her thumb. It seems these kids derive some joy or relief from this habit. She is a few days above 3 months, but I think I will also deploy this procedure along the line.

A few hours ago, I was with a group of friends, and suddenly this topic was brought up by one of us. He insisted every man is jealous of his wife, else he doesn't love her. I took the opposite stance. I insisted I had never experienced the emotion called jealousy before and almost everyone shouted ' its not possible,'

Can we love someone without being jealous? Isnt jealousy an indication of fear and insecurity?

I believe jealousy isn't part of love.

What's your opinions, people?

Experience has shown me that our wives don't just disrespect us; we must have given them reasons to be rude. Women are a very perceptive group of people.

If we own up to our expected duties, our wives will respect us. Women aren't fools......

OP, please dispassionately look inwards; you may find reasons why she's behaving the way she does....

The society is really skewed against the women folks. They are almost always blamed for whatever challenges a marriage suffers.

Happy birthday to you!

tintingz:
Ofcos I can forgive her but I don't think i can forget such scene will still be ringing in my head.

Indeed it's an ugly scene a man will never relish nor forget. It's a murderous scene!

I assure you that the scene will creep up whenever you go anywhere near her. It's a killing thought.

Things are not actually expensive; it's just that you can't afford them!

From most of the comments so far, I believe many of us are yet to understand the difference between the gift of the Holy Ghost and the Holy Ghost baptism.

Once a sinner repents, a measure of the Holy Spirit is immediately imparted to them; for He's the seal of their salvation. No one becomes born again without the Holy Spirit's conviction.

I believe I don't need to explain what the Holy Ghost baptism is!

lilmax:
Cheating wife? Impossible

Unimaginable! It's worse than death!

Wendy80:
They parted for good oh. He said he can it bear it if in d past but not while he's dating her. He couldn't just push it aside and continue so he left.

Hmmmm

bukatyne:
Apologies to all for hammering the same point however, who are the society who expect a wife to forgive her cheating husband? If a woman decides not to forgive, what will happen to her?

If a woman decides not to forgive her cheating husband, she's seen as not doing enough to preserve her home. It's the way it is.

Somehow, the capacity of women to tolerate sone extreme nonsense seems a wonder to me.

Forgiveness is a choice, and I don't think I have sufficient grace to forgive a cheating wife...

Happy Sunday, dear.

I don't tithe, and I don't feel guilty. However, I also do not castigate or condemn those who do tithe.

Every single month I give more than 25% of my income to my extended relatives and other Church brethren. That gives me more blessing than tithing.

Raphaelson:
Awesome

It wasn't by my power. I watered, and God gave the increase. ..

Raphaelson:
U

How long after your marriage did it happen?

A few months. Precisely 5.

abdulwastecx:
I believe when I marry a woman, I marry her because is the best and someone I will spend the rest of my life with not because of her virginal. .. the problem is religion and society view women as a mere working virginal or ses object.

sex is part but never 5% of what marriage should be all about...in such a case, bleeping another woman will never come to mind becuase all women have virginal why risky your life on some LovePeddler because of something you will get readily available at home at your own comfort

That's a good stance.

Answer is in Acts 2.38;

Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptised everyone of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. KJV.

Make I leave the first question abeg! It's a question most people will lie about since their wives may have been pregnant before the wedding day....

Question 3:

I was extremely happy and joyous when the pregnancy test came positive. The thought of becoming a father in a few months, brought both relief and confidence to me......

It's a feeling that transcends description.

Sophyrocks:
So from the responses, men would rather not be told. Women una dey hear? Cheat but dnt get caught and dnt open ur big mouth. Men be hypocrites o. Dem no dey forgive but want forgiveness. Carry ur confession go grave o.
#catwalks out of thread#

Sophie, with the above comment, you really rock.

Thanks for all your comments so far.

It's obvious only a few men will both pardon ad continue to live with such a woman.

For me, I just pray it never happens to me.

Imagine another man riding your own beloved wife. ....Hmmmmm

darisgod:
Tie gele sef



So na woman dey no fit forgive
if na man now na just ordinary begging
If na woman na family meeting

Na so e be. For now, there's little we can do to change that.

Seriously, the world isn't fair to women. I believe that will change in the coming decades.

I will never share my wife with any other man.

If I find out, e don be!

Iceg:
I dont care if she confessed,,hw am i sure she wasnt blackmailed or threathed,,the only way i will remain with her is if she already hav children 4 me,,jst 4 d sake of d children...but if dere is no child, then each of us to our seprate ways.....i nor fit shout.

U even get grace. ....me? Leave that matter.

darisgod:
Ummm

The matter tie wrapper!

Teespice:
why?

because your egos are involved or could it be that you can't digest the fact that wifey cheated. could it also be that society frowns at a woman cheating and it's something you can't live with.

Dear, call it ego or indigestion or whatever. I can't share my wife with any other man. Never. Never.

Wendy80:
My Hubby won't forgive oh lai lai. He said it while we were dating. His ex while they were in school cheated he discovered and relationship ended despite pleas from d girl.
How much more a wife. No oh.

What can be more tormenting than the thought of another man having slept with your beloved, curved wife?

I no fit shout Abeg!