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cruchenuti:
So I have this question that caused controversy today while I was hanging out with some female friends from church. About 8 of us. 2 Guys, 6 ladies.


So I said jokingly that I would never marry a lady that has never cooked for me OR that I have never eating her food. If a lady says she can cook and I have never eaten her food, How do I then believe that she can actually do what she says ?

O boy, come and see how these ladies reacted angrily. Saying stuff like Oh, So you want marry a servant that would just be cooking for you, Women are not your servants oh, blah blah blah.

Their main point was: If a lady says she can cook, A man should take her for her word. She can decide to cook out of her own will, she can also decide she will never cook while courting

I had to just calm the ladies down with jokes & pet them, make dem no come break my head.

And I'm wondering, Does this even make any sense ?

Well yes! But I see no big deal in a woman cooking for her man. I agree she shoukd not be forced to cook but what kinf of woman would date a man and not desire to cook food for him? She may say she will not eat in his house(some traditions do not allow a woman eat in a mans house until he sees her family and buys her mouth)

Hexdude1:
obviously, you are a castrated goat....poke nosing to other people's affairs

he goat is useful na. Dont you eat he goat? I thought you would even use a more degrading word sef. Oya go back and find a more degrading word to define me.

obowunmi:
Hi everyone,

My name is Obowunmi. I've been a Nairaland member for many years now under different monikers.

I started dating this girl early January of this year however we have had too many ups and downs because I have not shown or told her that I have money. She thinks I am just a loser.

When I first met her, she was very nice but not anymore.

Once in a while, I buy her expensive gifts but I haven't divulged to her what I do, the type of job I have or any of that stuff. Maybe this is her reason for being so heartless.

Over the months, we have had one altercation where we didnt talk throughout the month of May. Today, I've had to block her on WhatsApp and other channels because she is just mean, doesn't communicate, would rather spend time on twitter than talk with me.

We have kept our relationship secret so far and my heart is heavy and I think at this point, I'm tired and ready to move on.


I like her. I really do like her. But I dont know what else to do. I dont want anyone to date me for my money so I will not tell her that I am a multimillionaire.

Pls I need your help. I am tired of it all. My heart is heavy. I am ready to settle down.

What kind of character do you have? A good woman would soon get tired of your money if you do not have giod personality and characte If you are testing her stupidly to see if she will eat shit in tge name of love then you may not find a good woman who will be willing to trade her happiness in the name of love. Just as you niw may be passing through tests but see that you can not live with the ups and downs in the name of love too.
Since you are a multi millionaire and you want a woman that will not love you for only tge money, I can help you find a wife o. I know a good girl that will fit your multimillionaire status.

omokab:
They will say polygamy is not good instead they will prefer to divorce their wife to give them opportunity to marry another one. Hypocrite! The one you divorced who are you expecting to marry her after four children? Copying western culture since 1900

What about sticking with one wife and making it work as opposed to kicking them out instead of working on himself?

agarawu23:
that's not him

Oh my! So he died? This is sad

HungerBAD:
Interesting.

I am HungerBAD and i don't approve these pictures.

An African man has to get married to somebody with at least some flesh. When HungerBAD come across ladies like this, the first thing that comes to my mind is that they will starve me of food in my house, since they are watching their weight.

Not happening.

Team Small Orobo/Medium Orobo/Plenty Orobo.

your name sef don show say you nor dey play with your bele.

The igbo jews have lost their history and identity. How can they practice true judaism if they do not know how it was done by their ancestors? The way they practicing it now is the way the white man practices it. They can start now. Never too late to seek out elders who know bits and pieces of their history to tell them what they know. They should atart writing it down. They should seek out past knowledge. Nsibidi should be taught to keep it alive. . This one they are doing, behaving like the jews in isreal to ke is a joke. Those ones there sef dey behave like exreemists.

By the way OP, why the competition? Dem never start sef you don dey pitch Christians and Jews who plenty pass? Why cant humans just be sef. Religion is tearing the world appart instead of building it.

Even Oyinbos take Chtistianity like Nigerians too. They may not be fanatical and biggoted like the average tribalistic Nigerian who loves to hate and hates to love all the while hiding behind religion.
Did you know?
The jews do not believe in Jesus they believe he was a jewish apostate who abbandoned his true religiin. They do not believe the mesaih has come hence Jesus doesnt have that respect from the jews. Their torah teaches that the mesiah would bring peace while Jesus said he did not come to bring prace but to cause a divide between mothers and daughters, fathers and sons.

As for why a church is not situated in Mecca? Thr average Muslim thinks that anything not conforming to Islam is an abbomination. There is no room for maybe or sitting on the fence. Mecca is considered to be their most holly labd hence they do not want any unclean practice there.

Intrepid01:
Your sense of comprehension, coordination, interpretation and most importantly assimilation is obviously in a state of mess....the message and stand point was just to difficult for you to decipher....my sincere advise is this....strip youself of pain and hate , it is affecting your sense of rationality.....

As for your question on bibles stand on the issue of my neighbour....the bible never said i should love my "noisy" "hate-filled", "pained" , "chest-beating" neighbour more than myself.....atleast.

Hate? What hate na? I still never see hate o. Juat a few days ago on NL soneone called me an Afonja now you calling me an Igbo person full of hate . It shows that I am doing something right. Strip myself of pain? Pa Adeboye and those other men listed did not offend me na why would I be pained? My point is, Do not let foolishness lead you into a battle that you will later find out those you fighting for have no interest , desire, weapons and ability for. In the end your hatred and foilishness would lead you to fight alone a war you shouldnt be involved in in the first place. My mom calls it mumu death. Shebi you be christian? If this man wasnt exposed today, I am sure his followers would have said the same thing 20 years in the future after he has grown big churches and made a name for himself and graduated from backyard shrine to remote control one.
As for loving people....
Go read that bible again. We can not be talking about the same book here. The one I know teaches love to all men and bless those that hate you. Besides, you can not tell me that every igbo man on this earth hates you. Stop throwing/droping your bible to teach people lessons. Being a christian is not a seasonal or ocassional thing. Love all men. Owe no man anything except to love one another.

bitcoinvin:
well said jareee

Na so dem be. Haters of mankind turn christians when you call thrm out. They dust their bibles and start quoting. I remember a thief once rejected swearing because bible forbids it
It is all good to trust whom you teust but do not stone others because they do not hold the same view. Unfortunately he dragged those men into a battle even they wouldnt have started. Adeboye would noy come out to say Ibos are beefing him.

escodotman:
No sir/ma. My Bible doesnt teach me to swear. You have the right to choose which to beliv..... Whether they are true men of God, the choice is yours but whatever your choice is, its aint gonna affect the work of God they've dedicated their lives to do.

He clearly wasnt talking as a Christian so I believe that passage doesnt apply to him. Therefore he is not bound by any book. He spoke out of hate saying they are beefing the yoruba men. Una dey remember bible only when e suit una ba? Sellective believers. hypocrites
Picking their bibles only when they need to take advantage of it.

escodotman:
What is it with you and swear kwan Must evrytin evolves around swearing? Why dont you lead them by swearing with anytin that they've visited a shrine before?

I can not na. I no dey follow them 24/7 o. I no know where dem dey right now sef. Na only Gid dey see heart of men so no man can claim he knows something when he really doesnt. I ask that brother who is saying they are saints to swear that it is the truth. Abi you sef dey fear to swear?

greymiles:
Ogbeni sharap!!

slowpoke talkin trash from a red mud district.
Backward set of jewdas

Hahahaha, before I talk plenty sef, you be christian?
Oyinbo pays primium for natural green homes these days o. Red mud aka Adobe is making a come back.

sorextee:
See ehn, back then, my dad will be talking, I will walk out of him angrily. Sometimes even slammed the door sef... Due to d fact that my dad doesnt smell thngs, it gave me d liberty to smoke in my room. I was feeling like one big boy, not knowing I was a big fool.. Wen I came back to my senses(repented) I cried dat day, thinking about all the things I did in d past.. Now, wen I go visit him, if him dey para for me, I still dey kneel down apologize... Even though im 30..

So the op doesnt know what hes saying I swear..

Yes o. I know he feels like there is plenty of time because he sees dad regularly. Just that he doesnt know that each day is a blessing to be enjoyed. In a flash things can turn uoside down and that dad that was talking up and down will not be talking again. I hope he and his family get to patch things up and enjoy dad.

Wish them only the best.

Olalan:
Just like seeking for a virgin in a maternity ward.

Who says you cant find one there? What if she is there to assist her relative?
Good girls sometimes go to clubs. Friends or family can drag a good girl to a club. Nothing is impossible in this world.

OP, when you go, look well you will easily identify a good girl by how she carries herself in the club. Not talking about the girls that reject men because of pride and longthroat o(Those ones who dont dance until someone they consider money bag comes along) look well and you just may find one if she is there that is.

Please talk to him oooo. Mine is dead I wish he was here to talk like a parrot. Believe me, you will miss these days someday. Abeg you guys should allow him talk. Listen or pretend to listen to him. He needs company. Someone to chat with. As time goes by and he comes to realise that you guys are on his side, he will not talk too much again.

Na wa. All the best bro. I dont know anywhere in Lagos.

Okoyiboz3:
The things really pain this one o. See long epistle on. small matter. If China Ashebe write grammar like this, e for win Nobel o.

Yeye dey smell pain me say you like dog pass woman?

When you write yours come post photo join, no be epistle but when I write mine you remember say Nobel prize exist hahaha Wahala dey o.

HungerBAD:
You know what?that is true.

Will reach out to the Bank via some people i know.

Goodluck to you two. I hope you get to reach him.

I think he is alive. He lost an eye but is alive.

https://www.nairaland.com/3853025/police-officer-survived-robbery-zenith/4#57396722

asuustrike2009:
Yes I can beat my chest for them

Good. You would make a good foot soldier. You can sacrifise family and limbs for those you support. Your kind is rare.

[quote author=Okoyiboz3 post=57399320][/quote]Na choice na. I know you practice b£a$tiality so e nor surprise me. You chose the one that satisfies you in the other room. I cant blame you for that.Beter for my sister it is an abomination to live with men who have a special thing for dogs.

HungerBAD:
If any of the MODERATORS can verify the info and send it to me privately, i will instruct the amount i promised to be wired to them directly. My late Dad worked in one of the security agencies in Nigeria,and i can relate how it was for we the kids when he died.

This help to the late Policeman's family is personal for me.

Eiyaaa! Bless his memory.
Who knows, maybe you could start from the bank? Someone(co workers) in that bank may have his phone number or contact detail.

Okoyiboz3:
It is people like you that made Charles Darwin say humans evolved from monkeys.

Unfortunately, it appears your evolution is incomplete, your brain didn't evolve.

You want to swear on yours or you dont trust them enough to take the risk? Mr complete Evolution.

HungerBAD:
Nah.

That will be the death of me as everybody will start bombarding me for money.

Learned my lesson from Nairaland from the link below.

https://www.nairaland.com/3405889/toke-makinwa-agrees-give-n10k/5#50195326

I was suppose to give out a 100k plus on that thread, but as at Tuesday last week it had gone past the ONE MILLION MARK with the odd 30k and 40k for help here and there.

But after my experience last week, the Nairaland door has been shut.

And moreover, the facebook thing is risky as it carries my personal info, as compared to Nairaland that i am anonymous, and even the Nairalanders that were beneficiaries from me received money directly from one of my Lawyers.

Very true. I thought about the fact that people may put two and two together and link it back to you. Lets hooe someone who knows how to reach him will respond.

HungerBAD:
Moderators to

Post it on facebook maybe it will go viral.

Intrepid01:
Lol....even when you pretend to be free of pain n hate...we could still smell it lol...

what lesson are you talking about, my brother from the land of the rising sun?...deliberately I didn't take you up on yr position on those "men of God"....cos you have right to your opinion....
But why don't we all do as the bible says...test the spirit....the spirit can't lie...a man can pretend to be what he isn't but his spirit.will tell his true nature....why don't you find out what it takes to hear the spirit and make your own confirmation.......peace my brother

Hahaha spirit? My opinion? I had no opinion concerning anyone even if I had one on this mater before, please I permit you to throw it away and take up on my position for just this once. I said if you have such strong opinion that they are as good as you claim, seear that you are 100% sure.(you still shying away from that one sha but make we talk say liver cut you and You have found out that you cant guarantee for just anyone even those MOG) Quoting the bible when it suits your case ? What did that your bible teach you about your neighbours again? Oh I forgot you did not recall that part because it doesnt suit your deep rooted hatred for Igbos. Spirit filled? What spirit filled you? filled by spirit of hate? Cos your first comment did not show you as being filled with that same spirit of Love Jesus was talking about at all. Hahahaha I cant shout abeg. Peace to you too.

If I can safely guess......... Nigeria has abbandoned him. Bubu went abroad to treat ear infection while those serving the country get treated in slaughter houses called hospitals.

who dey kill am? When him dey spend money pursue that case wey him want frame Edward and that governor, him no remember the starving people of Kogi state ba? Birds of a feather who remember the starving masses only when they hit rock.

Use any face cleanser with salicylic acid I think Palmer's skin success has one made for the face containing it(That was the brand I used)
If you cant use that, thrn make sure to wash your face with regular black soap(buy good one from the market not the industrial ones like dudu osun) Use a good skin moisturiser on your face after washing with the black soap. The mistake many people make is not moisturising their face after washig. It makes your skin prone to pimples. I use sheabutter(small quantity) after washing my face.

Intrepid01:
Lol...the pain and hate is evident all over your stupid posts....but you need not continue to suffer in silence just locate the nearest lagoon....lol

Pain and hate? pain and hate who? yeye dey smell.
Look well read my first comment I dont have time for pain and hate I call a spade a spade. Abeg learn the lesson I have just taught you and stop hiding behind LOLs and whatvever else you talking about.
By the way, Send me a list of all the lagoons you can find.

#So you can not swear that those men are 100% clean ba? And I thought you knew them personally to know that Igbos are beefing them o.

Intrepid01:
Lol...I don't exchange wrords with those whose life and that of their unborn generation isn't valuable to......you just displayed what we know....a child born of hate and pain. ...

Moral of the story. Dont stick your neck where you can not guarantee 200% what you are talking about is true. People like you only bring shame and disgrace to themselves because they are quick to stand for what they do not know just because they hate one of the party involved in the case.People like you cut off their nose to spite their face. You are the Child born out of hate and pain here. You it is who has turned your hatred for Igbos into making tribalustic comment not me. I simply asked you to stand by what you just quoted as truth in your opinion yet as usual and as expected, you can not stand by your word.