Mrscarter: Anyway i have a high value husband and i dont share him. Dont need to dont want to n never will. Unless im there to enjoy the part Na im joking. But seriously tho he dont wanna be shared anyway hes satified wella
So u are telling me ur husband is only fucking ur pussy??
A loyal high value man is a feminine imperative myth
Mrscarter: Your logic is flawed. Ive dated broke men who had nothing but love to give and i know others whove done the same. Maybe in nigeria men value respect more than love but overall if u love someone u respect them anyway. Not all women are after money. Plenty marry men who have no riches to offer. Plenty marry for love. As for need yes people in relationships need each other but not always for money. They need love they need understanfing they can need all kinds of things. Everyone is different. Everyone views things in their own way. Ppl have different values. Morals. Beliefs. U gotta remember nigeria is just one country in a world of many and relationships and values can vary in from place to place. So if you think this way maybe its all youve seen or known. But i can tell you everyone has different views on love and cheating. If 2 rich ppl marry who has what leverage by your logic? U may not have loved a woman unconditionally or been loved unconfitionally maybe some day you will. I hope for you that you do. I dont see the need for sex outside of ypur relationship. A good wife/husband should be able to satisfy in every aspect. This is y ppl should be more careful who they marry. Get to know each other very well. Different aspects of relationships are more important to some than others. Some ppl pride themselves on their morals and maybe that includes loyalty and faithfulness even if the sex isnt the best theyve had they stay faithful. In a good relationship you should be able to work on anything thats an issue for one or the other and make it better. Thats what marraige is. Working together to build a happy life with the partner u chose to love so that life is good and happy for both. Bringing in outsiders can only cause stress n pain n drama. But there are some couples who have agreements like open relationships. So like i said everyones different and not all people see relationships and cheating the way you do.
Marriage is not about love but duty, responsibility and family building. Disney love isn't reality.
I for one don't believe women build, they just move in.
Women love opportunistically and can never love unconditionally. If their man doesn't provide security for them, they monkey branch to another man. That's how women love.
Women cheat Men only have sex
Women view sex differently from men
Men only cheat if they are not providing financial security to their wife or wives Women show love through fidelity ie no being a hoe
phantomx360: DEMZEE DEMZEE is a self proclaimed high value alfa meil, he wants to be the top dog in the manosphere, anyone who doesn't support patriarchy is low valued, mgtows to him are low valued, his testosterone levels are obviously over the top but has notin to show for it, take the redpill with sense.
DONT BE LIKE DEMZEE.
Mediocrity is not an excuse. Poor and average minded creatures can never and will never experience true wealth.
That's why poor and average people are more than wealthy people.
This life it's either u are big or u are small. Redpill is not a reason for mediocrity or average life.
Orpazpjr: In all of our studies GUYS this is the truth. A Woman that knows God for real will only be concerned in making heaven and praying that you change.
Any one with that vacuum will call out your bullshit and walk. The spiritual lady will be concerned with building a home and involved in prayers and stuff. True words
Just make sure she's still giving you steady hot monkey sex tho
Ninejaywon: There are always exceptions. In my case, my mother is financially richer than my old man. But she is still the most humble woman to him. Oldman na hyper, almost pushing 80 but my mother is so gentle. My mother told me the reason she sticks with my old man is because he made her what she is today. That statement has stuck to my brain like glue. But the modern woman of today is very different and selfish.
Only low valued beta male simps are attracted to ambitious ladies.
Women don't build, they just move in especially in this 21st century
mekaboy: A guy meets a girl, they get her talking. He takes her out once or twice and the next thing she has a problem and asks him to help her with 30k to 200k.
Most guys out of shame will squeeze out the money out of their scarce resorces and give, hoping she will someday agree to have sex with them or date them.
While the guys that understand that money is a a medium of exchange for goods and service, immediately demand sex in return. They tell the girl to meet them in a hotel or home.
Then the girls will always use this line to blackmail the lily livered guys. " What do you take me for?" ," because of common 30k?" ," You can't give me 30k but you want to date me?" you think i am cheap?".
Yes dear, you are cheap. If it was that common you would have it. The guy goes out to exchange a product or service for that money. Why would you want to get it for free?
Most of these girls travel to other towns and sleep with strangers for money in the name of hookup for less.
Now a guy will toast them pay more for what they charge less in transaction.
The girl that would sleep with a guy for 20-40k a night, will now ask a guy for 40k favour. The guys gives, hoping for the same sex.
Tomorrow she asks for 25k, he pays. Next time she asks for 30k and he pays. Finally they have sex and thats it.
See how much he has spent when he would have asked for it in return from the first day she asked .
Now dating is different. When you are dating, you can give any amount to your partner as long as she is understanding.
But these girls that claim they want to know if you can take care of them by asking you for money, are runs girls. Don't be shy to ask for sex as soon as they ask for money.
Its better the friendship ends early enough and you save your money than to start paying. Because once you have paid the initial 30k, you will be hopeful, you will pay another 50k. And now you have invested 80k and you can't just walk away. You will still pay 100k.
So as soon as they start asking for that money, dont be shy to ask for something in return. Money is legal tender, used in exchange of goods and services. The only thing you owe a girl you are toasting is to take her out on a date. Buy her food and drinks.
That's why men must be direct with Wat they want from the ladies they ask on dates. No playing of games, there are so much ladies out there in the world. Every fucking day a girl is turning 18yrs old jeezzzz. Abundance mentality!!!
After 1-3 dates if u haven't smashed her then she's finessing u. Women make rules for betas and break rules for alphas.
dapadawee: sincerely most, if not all single mothers need relationship rehabilitation. if you're in a relationship with a single mother and she's not giving you headache her parents must have done their assignment or she her self have worked on herself. on the other hand you as a guy involved in a relationship with a single mother after years of having canal knowledge of her and series of promises, you now all of sudden after u have finished enjoying her wee organ and milk factory and no longer derive satisfaction in her because you now have eyes on someone else God go judge you. if na Genevieve you go leave am.
Toks2008: Even guys diminish so what is the big deal. Don't get me wrong...guys cheat for the fun of it but if i ever want to be with another lady i get a concubine...simple. I think it is stupid to cheat on a lady when you can simply get another lady as a permanent option.
Why should i indulge in adultery when i can simply marry another lady or even marry as many as i want and enjoy a sinless orgy if needs be? and talking about getting another lady, ii dont need to do any big wedding...i simply get any young lady with body to die for, pay her parents her bride price and get one small apartment for her ...thats all, no long thing. Go to states like Benue, rivers state, akwa ibom and several other states and see young ladies praying for a man to just marry them and their parents will package her for you if you are ready to marry and train her...you don't need to worry your head with these so called sophisticated oversabi ladies that may ruin you with their crazy demands.
As a guy it is either your spec or die single. I don't believe in all those shitty talks of behaviour over spec. You can get your spec with the type of behaviour you can at least tolerate.
I had that issue too where people were wondering why i was still single despite my good looks bla bla bla but i tried to tell them that i have not found my spec but i was just sounding like a broken record to them.
Any guy who is married to a lady that is not his spec especially physically, will either end up fantasising over his spec for the rest of his marital life or may end up having a side chic that matches his spec. But when you get your spec, it will be very difficult for you to even contemplate cheating on her.
Men are designed to be promiscuous that is why we want quantity and we are after variety. U can't fight ur biological makeup dude.
Beauty is vain and will always diminish as every year passes even ladies know this.
PeaceJoyLove: A man who can love a woman and vice versa will enjoy this life. Only fo.ols cheat. Most successful people who have succesful marriages usually are faithful with their partners.
Draslo: Relationship na poverty alleviation scheme for most Nigerian women. Give them an inch and they'll just take a mile.
I remember inviting one nice girl to a family function because I didn't want to go alone. After scanning and sizing up my family, next thing this vagina told me was how her car is always developing problems and how she needs a new one and that she had only 30% of the money. I asked her to go to any recognized dealership and get a deal where she can pay in installments from her salary. Next thing this girl told me was to borrow her the money. This is someone we've been together less than a month. I told her I'm not her father and our relationship was purely for benefits. She said she doesn't care. I jejely continued eating the coochie occasionally and treating her like a side chic while postponing the remaining 70% loan.
She's obviously useless and can't add value asides sex in a relationship.
Wittyglam: I preach and scream this a lot. Women are blessed by God and have the gift of making their own money but most of them don't want to but want to sit and eat from others. That is wrong, I made a video on this topic you can share it with friends and family https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bu1Q9qmlJqI
Once a lady becomes more successful and makes more money, relationship doors begin to close for her
Once a man becomes successful and makes more mone, relationship doors begin to open for him
Leave relationship alone, you need money to make him feel special
Money is very key, don't allow anyone tell you otherwise It is even money you will load on your phone to call him
Don't allow them embarass you.
On his birthday
You are everywhere writing epistle and posting pic mix everywhere
One correct babe with cash has bought cake and lovely things, booked flight to go with him to a cool destination, Paid someone to blow trumphet
You even borrowed 200 naira from MTN to call him to wish him happy birthday
It's not your fault you don't have money And if he starts giving her attention It is not his fault
Everyone likes to feel special and loved
If you are broke like a church rat
Go and think of ways to make money, so you can afford basic things like transport money for keke to see him
WTF!
This is trash for bleeps sake
Men should not consider relationships if they are fucking broke.
A woman can never b ur financial backup plan.
Women are not built for leadership and cannot handle masculine problems. Once u become vulnerable to ur woman, she losses attraction and arousal for u.
A woman's job is to support u in the relationship and not to edge u financially.
U are the man and the authority in the relationship, she's ur flight attendant and ur assistant.
Only low valued beta male simps are attracted to how much money a lady has to offer in a relationship.
Mrscarter: Hahaha u think so? Relationships arent about leverage. People who think so will never know the true meaning or value of unconditional love and loyalty.
Lol
Men must create their value Women are born with value
Women love opportunistically Men love idealistically
Women can never love unconditionally, they can only love men they respect and that respect comes from Wat the man can give them. Women don't know love but they do know respect.
Women only love their children unconditionally.
And yes relationships are all about leverage. He who needs the other the most is the one who has the least power in the relationship.
This is bullying and I won't tolerate that here. I just came into the thread this morning and I see the way you just can't handle a mature conversation without plenty insults.
Being profane is your way and your signature? ARE YOU FOR REAL?
Do please take your signature away from here. You radiate bad energy and it stinks
Long before joining Nairaland, I had committed so many red pill sins. But the most regretful one was validating women and placing them on a pedestal.
How, you may be wondering? A lot of it was on social media. Stupid unsolicited DMs, and remarks that added me to a joined list of SIMPs.
Looking back, I could figure out why many times I came off as weak or at worse a creep.
I kept falling for thirst traps because I held women too highly. But all that has changed. I do not advise any man to be hateful, but
Be an exception to the rule
While our lost brothers are validating women, you are increasing your value. I make mistakes even now, but they are more calculated and not as a result of simping.
If others are complaining and doing nothing about their lives, you shouldn't. When guys are settling, you should be ambitious.
I've realised many men don't rate themselves well enough, and because of that SIMP and never increase in value. Hope we keep improving.
Ritzybeauty: You are slightly wrong, women don't love based on opportunities but most times the potential she sees in you or she wants short term because she knows you both would never end up together, we makes mistakes which is normal for humans, sometimes karma or destiny decides fate..
Women love opportunistically. They only love men for Wat they can provide for them.
Women don't build, they just move in especially in this 21st century
Romance › Re: Why Is It That When Men Cheat, They Are Happy With It by DEMZEE(m): 5:06am On Apr 25, 2021
