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What a miracle. It's very possible, its a genetic mutation etc bla bla bla

if you believe all that BS, you are way too gullible
The only possible scenarios

1. Mama did it with white man with dominant genes
2. Mama did artificial insemination or such and things got screwed up
3. Refer to 1 and 2.

Remember the basic law of fatherhood - Only the mother knows

If I was the father, I wouldn't even ask questions that hv already been answered. The marriage is over.

she is all yours to tame as u want. You will be the one to determine if she will like it or hate it. So you better be good, even tho she won't be able to compare it with anything else.

Every girl and rider out there was a virgin once dummy!

apocalypse:
@ deniyor
If I'm to pick criteria to consider in women before marriage they'd be arranged thus

intelligence
character
mutualism/compatibility
respect for others
love
good home maker
education
beauty
sex

cooking would come under home make and you'd see both qualities are not highly placed on my scale but cooking still ranks higher.

I believe you and I believe you when you say sex is the least of your criteria for women. The thing is, all the criteria you have chosen goes outta the window when the sex sucks. Well that is if you are the type that doesn't cheat on partners. Cos if you cheat based on the bad sex, you really didn't get a wife, you got a housemaid. Out of curiousity, do you hv a low sex drive? Also pray your woman doesn't hv a high sex drive. All your criteria are important and smart. I just disagree with the order.

apocalypse:
I assume say most guys wey don answer for dis topic be bachelors , how can you choose sex over good home made cooking ?. Anyways great s3x doesn't feel so great afta a month of continuos bleeping but great cooking never loses it's flavour for decades.

P/s : There's nothing like great s3x , it's all in your head.

I disagree to all of the above. Bros, you are either boring in bed or your partner is.

Loveaflame:
I will go for the one that can cook.What is sex without adequate food to nourish the body.You can always teach her

how to do the kind of things you want her to do in bed.If you go for the sex maniac what gives you the assurance you will be the only who will en joy her.
Beside after a while you will be tired of intimacy with her.But no one can ever be tired of food.In Africa any woman that can not cook is not a complete woman.

If you go for the the other one that is a German machine,what will happen when your family comes to visit will she give them a Mr Biggs food to eat.

Abeg. choose the one that can cook so far she has a good character to match her good food.

1. I disagree with you too. From experience, some people are just not going to become freaky in bed. What you see is what you get.
2. If you satisfy a good woman sexually, I don't see her going out. And nothing says she isn't a good woman. Just a bad cook.
3. Employ a good chef/ cook.

Don't mind all those who say you should keep cheating  (190) What you should do is have s3x / make love with all your male friends and his close friends, one at a time or in groups should be ok too. That way you get the cheating out of your system b4 you tie the knot

u better be comfortable with her physical look now b4 u commit yourself.

PS nothing wrong in looking at other busts in futre . Just don't get caught looking and do nothing else.

Goodluck with that. Maybe he wants to do your friend and vice versa. This has absolutely nothing to do with marriage and will impart his marriage decision really.

Why don't you just tell him that you would do it only on one condition. You also have a triple sin with a friend of his choosing. It should shut him up real good.

In a committed relationship, a 3som is a way to cheat legally

Mobo444 (nl drama queen and trouble maker) / Korean diplomat (with service in many african countries) / Muntairi ( odionisemua@yahoo.com - nigerian living in the UK and looking for love) / nigerian nysc brother amongst many other possible heritage. Which one are you sef?

And to think you actually went crazy on LOVE.4BUG on being a scam artists (and falsely so). Na waoPot calling white paper black.

Would be interesting to see how this pans out

[quote author=Naija_Sisi link=topic=481633.msg6410739#msg6410739 date=1279542034]and " mr anus, there is nothing wrong with her grammer, just one simple mistake, not putting a 'w' before the word 'what' but im sure u can guess what she is trying 2 say!

mehn some ppl r just so picky over the smallest things![/quote]sister watching out for another sister on nl

All the talk of you not wanting to sleep with her cos you will break her heart is BS. The question is how much do you love her? If you do, and I mean romatically, ask her out. That in itself is a gift. If you don't love her romantically, don't even waste your time sleeping with her or buying her a gift. Any of them is just salt on injury.

Any gift that is thoughful is nice. doesn't hv to be expensive.

nope

ok we have met you.

scammers prepare for action. You hv the basic info

Nice to meet you. now vamoose!

Brownteeth is going to jail

190/Papa190 lets hook up

9-0 Dammi carries the day
Ladies that should be a good indicator for you

I hope you have your credit card ready or I will send you my account details so that you can wire me some money.

Haha just kidding, don't worry I'm not selling anything or about to scam you. Can't blame you tho, with the way we naija always ready to do anything for money. Like I said spend some money on yourself. Buy clothes, look good, smell good, appear confident and shed some wowo look. If you still lack the confidence as a late starter, get some self help/ dating cds/dvds. I can recommend one that works for people like u. Years ago when I needed to step up my game, I used it. The tricks there are a part of me now. And don't think its just working on white women, it works on everyone and I find you might end up being less a mugu for women.

Anyways go the this website. You might learn some things there.

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/

It's a major requirement . Other characteristics will determine the kind of relationship we have. There are many options, casual, longterm , and serious wifey material. Moreover her cooking can always improve.

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]^ _{It be like say u never encounter tigress 4 bed b4 ehn?}[/color]

Actually, being a tigress is a minimum requirement in a lady for me. I will eat her bad cooking with love. At least she is cooking, some will not even carry the day. Dammi carries the day totally.Tell bimpe she no get chance.

Akobaje, I sympathise with you. It seems you have lost your driver for sure. As per your wife, if you can get over the shame thats cool. It's all up to you.

PS. stop spending all ur time chasing that money and spend some time with your wife(or next wife) attending to her sexual needs. It will save you the stress of looking for a driver, gardener or houseboy again. Goodluck

I will take Dammi pls,

It will cost you. If you hv some money and you are ready to spend some money on your self, I can give you some tips.

That is with the assumption that we will go crazy everytime our lady is in bed unclothed? Abeg jo, make I continue to enjoy that premiership game . She knows where the 'painkillers' are.
When I need the sex, I will not do any of the above. and if I do, I always keep it in my mind that she wants it as much as I do. In my case tho, p*orn is more satisfying if she says no. She will come beg for it later on.

how did this become a religious argument. When it comes to religion, there is no point arguing, people just stick to their guns.
This thread is about why Men find it more difficult to accept infidelity and not if divorce is biblical or not

Nombali
don't mind the husband jo. Come and cheat with me instead

Nombali:
Oh I'm very real Oyinda. I actually joined this forum to have a general insight into how (some) Nigerians think. I love love Nigerian men. I will say the ones that I deal with somehow see me as not being Nigerian and therefore it is ok with them. I am the type that men cheat with. I can't really say where I'm from as I will do anything to keep mu unanimity.

Totally suspect! But go with the flow.

Girl846:
Lord God, please help all the ladies of this generation! The kind of men boys that we have to deal with,

Lord God, please help all the guys in this generation. The kind of useless and childish women (including the manga loving ones) that you have discarded our way to deal with

Nombali:
I'm an African woman and I spread my legs easily, no point pretending, if I want and its on offer I go for it.

It's not only about spreading your legs easily, are you any good?

Acidosis:
Men with those qualities are married and you might just be the 'worst option' for the few left

I agree with you 100% jo! See the yeye girl, she even add rich to the whole thing.

@poster
Useless gold digger, who says a rich man will want you. Look for a young God fearing man. He will be faithful and you can make your riches or poverty together. Stop looking for a ready made man Yeye!!!

Oyinda,
Can you stand the burden of a faithful man? Think carefully before you answer.

eldee:
This is where we have to draw he line . . . if it 'animal instincts' in the sense I think it is, I'll have to ask, since when did having sex make someone less of a man??
Isn't this the age of pro-choice??
Why should one section impose their opinions of what's right on another set of people??

I do not get what you mean or are referring to?