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The gains are worthwhile, after all.

We don't have to queue all of the time if we would just embrace a non expensive technology. When you get into a public place, there is a machine( dont know what it is called) that gives you a number on a paper.

seats are provided for everyone as they wait. When your no. is called, you get up and do what you have to.

I like Sissie's suggestions. Hausas usually have their events like this.

I keep changing my own plans in my head. I could inculcate a few things- becoming perfect as the days go

[quote author=SIR KOL!]That's the problem with our skul system in Nigeria. Every skull wants to gets as many student as possible, without looking into the childs upbringing, the teachers of 2day only teaches their subject aeas to student nd go ahead minding their businesses they don't think of inculcating moral values into d children nd dats y in almost every skul Primary or secondary, u definately find hoodlums. If this is not put into consideration, expect more threads like dis!!! A word is enough 4 d foolish because he would. Not understand many!!![/quote]did you read the story at all?


Hoodlums use schools as hideout at night. These ones got very bold to have used it in the afternoon as well.

Public schools are easily accessible to them due to the low security measures in place.


I hope the government would do something about this.

May God give the family the fortitude to bear the loss.

They should.

why not?

tbaba1234: Question

How do you intend to manage your nikaah? What if you want no music/free mixing but that gets you in considerable conflict with family? Would you just do the nikaah with no reception?

This will certainly be a bone of contention in my family as they will be expecting some kind of 'owambe' reception that is not going to happen. If anything, marriage is one area, i will stand my ground.

In the AFrican or Nija context, the wedding is not just about you. They should enjoy it as well.

If they wont agree with how you want it, you can have what you want and leave the venue afterward. The singing and dancing is usually after the main event.

You leave and they do their thing. If you can convince them to have it your way, that is the best.

redsun: Nice,nigerian women are becoming daring in their style.I prefer skimpy to hijab any time any a day.People(adults) should never be restricted from doing what they choose to do as long as they are not harming others in the process.A woman that chooses to play around even when she is supposedly married must be missing something her man does not have and the earlier he gets the message,the better for him.

Moreover,dressing skimpily does not automatically mean waywardness.

and hijab must mean that you are restricted from doing what you want?

tbaba1234: Question for the sisters

Scenario: Imagine you are married to a man for 20 years. Good husband, fulfills his obligations etc.

One day, he comes up and tells you that he has another child. One he denied when he was much younger, before you got married. Now, he wants to be able to play a part in the child's life or maybe the child was troubling the mother about who his father is. No more running can be done.

You were unaware of this. This comes after 20 years of marriage.

I. What would be your reaction to this?

It is unimaginable, what I'd do. The situation at the time would determine it.


I want to marry a virgin man. This wont happen with one

This says a lot and is so so true for many.

The end is sarcasm. She did not really mean that

congrats @tbaba

Jarus: If at all they saw something, then it's Jinns.

A dead person can never come back to life (until resurrection), but it is possible the jinn(working with qareen) takes his shape to deceive and mislead people.


If at all they saw something, then it's Jinns.

A dead person can never come back to life (until resurrection), but it is possible the jinn(qareen) takes his shape to deceive and mislead people.

I remember the story of Imam Ibn Taymiyyah that one of his students said he had problem in Damascus while Sheikh was in Saudi, he called Sheikh and he appeared to him and solved his problem. When he narrated the story to Imam Ibn Taymiyyah on his return to Damsacus, Imam told him it was not him he saw, Jinn must have taken his form to deceive him.

Could be jinns really.

hikmoj: u may cal it what eva u like.d sheikh is a senegales we know him very wel many of us saw him b4 he passd away in 1975 &his portrait is every wia.d 2nd sheikh (bulala)4rm offa kwara st he passd away in 1989

and so what? what does seeing him do to you? Does anything in Islam attach significance to the dead?

many of these practices of seeking from the dead are alien to Islam. Muslims should stop trying to be like people of other religions.

We rock!

moscobabs: I love Islam even though I'm a Xtian

The same you said you left Islam because of salat.

Dont you think you need a proper understanding of the Islam you left?

think about it.

mendax: He forgives ALL sins, if its not too late (for definition of "too late" see for e.g. Q4:17-18). Meaning as long as you are alive, He will forgive you if you turn to him even if its shirk. However, when you die, He can forgive anything EXCEPT shirk.

Read the verses following Q39:53 for more explanation.

I meant after death.

You are right

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Mr Aboki: Na wah o!!

Imagine all the things wey I go dey reason when I get problem?!


Na small pikin problem this OP get. When you get matured problem.. You go know..

what is a mature problem?

No matter the problem you have, have a positive attitude to it.


That is the simple deduction to make from the Op

Mr Aboki: No Pictures!!!

Like seriously!! You wan snap Ghost Picture?! You think say na Nigerian film Ghost be this?!

There is another thread with more pics. scary!!

dont go searching.

Mr Aboki: Okay!



Azhak Allah sinnaka

what does that mean?

Mr Aboki: Asalam Aleikum Deols..




But what article did you read that part in, because me I no see am o!

alaikal Islam

I was talking of posts above yours.

There is nothing Islamic about this. It is either that

*an artist got busy overnight

*or that jinns are at work

*or that some people are hallucinating


The real miracles of Islam are in the Quran.

Mr Aboki: Wow!! So can we call it the 'Muslim Holy Spirit' or a Muslim 'Holy Ghost'??!


Ghost in a mosque... <sub>Coming soon to Movie Shops near you..








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and of course, you did not see the part where Muslims condemned it to be non Islamic?


It is not a Muslim holy ghost. It is the devil at work.

astaghfirullah.


This is totally wrong.


But why do people believe this rubbish?

adisarasaq: It is true, i was there this morning and i saw it myself but you have to believe before you can see it

You have to believe to see?

It is in your head bro.


This reminds me of the story of the garment that only the wise could see. The king wore it but was actually naked. He could not admit that he was unwise.

Nothing more than a psychological play.

I also need to sleeeep.


Friday is my only free day which means it is d day for washing,cooking, etc. I finished all that.


Now I need to sleep for a while and then study after waking up.

#keepthefungoingplease

they should provide the address

who won the debate?

#mbtinzzz

#83. Allah forgives all sins.


except shirk(associating partners with him/worshipping other gods or dieties)

#12.

You dont have to breast feed your children for two years. You are advised to.

I don't even understand what the demands are.

Cant yet figure out how difficult it is for the government to meet these demands.

It is still odd that the most important things to the populace are the most neglected.

The profession is being dragged through mud and the government is just plain irresponsible.


o ga O.

she complains of pain and someone tells her to use antibiotics?

seriously?


Please see your doctor. And people should stop using antibiotics anyhow.


Antibiotics, if not a doctor's recommendation should never be used. it is tantamount to drug abuse.