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@showietee, should the man lie of his intention to marry more than one woman when asked?


He can only get away if he wasnt asked by the lady.
That is the reason the lady needs to ask all these questions

I read it all.
The list speaks my mind.

I dont think it has to be in a question and answer form. They are things to understand about the other person b4 taking the big step.

I have to keep d page in mind. I'll meed it for referencing.


It looks like the form mentioned in the family section.

. in ota, there is the big olumo rock in abeokuta you can hide behind before the dude arrived in molue dusty and dehydrated.




Hahhahahhhha

Seun is blessed. He has A whole olumo rock against terrorist invasion and is here shivering? Lol

NL member: May Allah help us against physically abusive husbands that will not be questioned for beating their wives

So now you agree you make dumb posts?


Shaytan using you to stop us from being patient? God pass you.

Audhubillahimina shaytanir rajeem.


@Op, shaytan is at work when people insult you and you insult them back.

@everyone, it is ok to realise that a post is dumb. Thereafter simply point out the dumbness, correct the ignorance. Dont allow shaytan to use you by replying with insults.

Logicboy03: This Ajibam guy is a joke.

To me, he should be like Deols- an intern of the older Mod, Maclatunji.

U sha like calling me out.heheheheh


What is it this time? Isnt it enough what you've been up to with your other moniker?


Ok. I have seen you.


@Ajibam, you are doing well o jare. Dont mind them.

And I wad reading that and then scrolled down fast...

My fitrah is...

Royal roy

May Allah help us against shaytan


May Allah help us to be patient with people who make dumb posts

May Allah help us to be good Muslims. Amin

Unfortunately, some people here cannot understand simple English

No one says they aren't ever going to make money.

I said, spending on the family would be a choice, not my responsibility.


Later some people want to claim they are men when a simple matchstick, they want to share the money for, with their wife.

'Honey, I have bought the tomatoes. Oya go and buy the onions...lool

Hey children, I have paid your school fees, tell your mother to buy food for the house. #Godforbid.





Rather,

My wife bought me those wrist watches. She's working afterall.

Or 'she gave us a surprise holiday. Thank God for a good job she's got.

'oh my wife is soo good at these surprises. I could never have made a better choice'


You see the difference?

Does anyone else find this thread interesting?


When I need some laughs, I pop in.


BtW, I need funds for my research. Who should I send my proposals to?

Illogic must be ready with a few bucks.

Dominiquez: My dear ur husband loves u and sees it right you join him.
Give Christianity 90days trial from the sincerity of your heart and come back here and share your experience.





Pls let's join hands and make our home a home for our kids.

Actually, you seem to not be getting the point. There is no reason whatsoever for her to taste christianity. She has lived with a Christian man for long enough to have had a child with him and she has not converted.


Husband needs to see her as a Muslim anf let her be the way she met him. Her self esteem needs to remain intact. She is an adult and should not be coerced by force or crook into something she does not believe in.

People never learn sha.

You'd think Turai presented the perfect example

Please Anvaller,

How many rakaah do you observe for subhi prayers?

bukatyne: What God has joined together, let no man put asunder. I am not one of those jobless inlaws who meddle about in what is no concern of mine.

My advice to the woman was the same that I gave the man

Making so much sense.

bukatyne: I will sincerely not blame the Muslims that want her to divorce the man.

If the husband is a muslim, I would tell her to divorce him if they cannot reach a compromise. Her salvation is much more important than any marriage. No body would ask if she was married or not.

I wish the OP's could read this thread. Him forcing her to become a christian speaks volume of his own salvation too. If he wants her to be a Christian, he should repent, work on himself and pray to God for her soul.

The last I remembered, it is the Holy Spirit that convicts and not man.

I pray the OP does that which she feels is best for her

I like that you are always so so sincere.
I am not going to ask her to divorce her husband. Family is a very big deal. So is her religion.


But the hypocrites on here know themselves.

@Op's decision and the consequences thereof are hers to bear eventually.

jumzzy448: See me see jamb question oooooo
Pls be truthful to yourself and tell me that if this man was to be your brother, you won't have done same.
Abegggggiiiii.....i'm sure if it was the man that did same, u would be among those who would advice her to leave her matrimonial home.

I am surprised that even more than two people supported this.

Well, I would never interfere in anyone(not even my most beloved brother)'s marital affair, let alone be the one to move anyone out. God forbid.

What I wont take, I wont present to anyone.

If the husband cannot take the desired action, it shows he is good with living like that.

Ever heard of gbeborun killing some people. Carrying someone else's matter on the head until the neck is broken?

God forbid.

Alright.

I thoughy Alhaji was atching the video.


But then, he should not have brought such a thing into his own home

Amin

Lol

Is this a movie?

On what moral ground did Alhaji beat the boy? Smh.


Hmmmn. This world sef

Good.

But Abuja doesnt truly represent Nigeria. Beyond the airport(towards gwagwalada and bwari), Abuja itself is a mess.


Nevertheless, there is nothing like home.

I don't see a reason why the pastor needs to say it out that he committed the sin. His repentance should be between him and his God.


I however just want to say it again that the one man one wife thing doesnt seem to work with pastors. God allowed polygyny for a reason.

With that, he would have had his urge satisfied in a legal way without having to go this embarrassing way.

The sisters should also start dressing well. It cant be easy seeing that much without the devil having a way into people's minds, pastor or not.



May the lord bless us all.

AbdH: "Deols, I just wanted her to know that the situation she has found herself in is a dicey one and the best way out of it is what I and few others have recommended. As for my style of presentation, I apologize to sweetmom115 if I have hurt her for that was not my intention. I hope that the PMs you send each other on this issue and on other issues eventually leads her to the right way.

It is ok

joker5180: urs is different because u r a man. islam permits muslim men to marry non muslim women if they r 'ahlil kitab' but prohibits muslim women frm marrying non muslim men. ur CHILDREN wil most likely grow up as MUSLIMS her CHILDREN will CERTAINLY grow up as NON MUSLIMS. as muslims we believe that islam is the ONLY true religion of GOD, how comfortable will u be been a muslim seeing ur children grow up in a life that will lead them nowhr? we should love for our children what we love for ourselves

How are you sure he had that in mind?

Fact is, not everyone knows of these prohibitions and it is wrong to lash out at them for the mistakes thereof.

I am sure many of us also make certain mistakes right now that we'll learn of only after sometime. I dislike the holier than thou attitude.

I can only imagine how troubled the lady is, already.

Dominiquez: Two Boko brothers caught in this thread.
JTF come with my bonus payment fast.

How so nice of you.