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CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh On A Date With Mayor, Prince Kpokpogri’s Friend. She Clears The Air by Depressed101: 9:38am On Nov 15, 2021
Rydermaverick:
You don buy market from am before? undecided undecided
i know people wey don buy market from her, how about that huh
TravelRe: Illegal Immigrant, Jubril Deported, Banned After 'heroic' Act In Spain (photo) by Depressed101: 8:09am On Nov 15, 2021
Konpresor012:
https://www.kossyderrickent.com/2021/11/illegal-immigrant-jibril-deported.html?m=1
this is. Misleading post, this didn't happen anywhere near Spain, it happened in Louisiana USA, the man is from Mali and also he didn't do any heroic act, he is just a normal man whose visa God expired
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh On A Date With Mayor, Prince Kpokpogri’s Friend. She Clears The Air by Depressed101: 8:06am On Nov 15, 2021
Wetin concern us, na known ashawo for abuja here,
CrimeRe: A True Life Story. Its Been 3years You Left by Depressed101: 12:25am On Nov 15, 2021
That's some chilled shit bro, take heart
RomanceRe: How Do I Make Mum Forget About My Ex?? by Depressed101: 8:34pm On Nov 14, 2021
mhizace:
It's almost a year since I broke up with him, and I've moved on with my life, but mum won't stop talking about this guy,I can't deny d fact that d guy was very supportive when we were together,yes he was,but I can't be with a guy whom he's mom don't want us to b
together...very simple
get a new one that's better than him
AutosRe: S-O-L-D-Clean Title Accident Free 2010 Lexus RX 350 ***3913 Silver Color by Depressed101: 4:35pm On Nov 14, 2021
Is it sold?
Christianity EtcRe: My New Pastor Goes To The Beer Parlour To Drink; Now We're Loosing Members Daily by Depressed101: 4:19pm On Nov 14, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
Hello nairalanders.

I will not call the name of my church for some reasons, but my church is that type that dosn't have a parmanent pastor.

So, we always have a new pastor almost every four or five years.

Recently, a new pastor was transfered to us, this my new pastor is very good when it comes to preaching the word of God, and things that helps in the development of a church.. infact, so many good things have been going 'on' in my church since his arrival.

But the problem is that, he is that kind of pastor with swag, He goes to beer parlour to drink, he can go to gathering to play draft, (imaging the kind of people u see in a beer parlour of draft gathering), and because of this things he does, some people (expecially other churches) use it against us the members..

People we be like, una pastor wey dey drink beer.. And we don't even know how we can deffend him or ourself when we are being attacked by these people..

We are currently loosing members on a daily basis, and i'm not happy with it.
While it might not be wrong to take alcohol, but as a pastor and leader in the church he is supposed to show a level of discipline for the Bible says
Romans 14:21 - "It is good neither to eat flesh, nor to "to drink wine, nor anything whereby thy brother stumbleth, or is offended, or is made weak."



1 Corinthians 8:9
But take care that this right of yours does not somehow become a stumbling block to the weak.

Mark 9:42
“Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him if a great millstone were hung around his neck and he were thrown into the sea.

1 Corinthians 8:13
Therefore, if food makes my brother stumble, I will never eat meat, lest I make my brother stumble.

This is not good, he should stop it
CareerRe: Should I Bet On Myself?; I Need Your Advice. by Depressed101: 3:21pm On Nov 14, 2021
Lorex6:
Hi
Thank you for opening this post. Your contributions will be greatly appreciated!

I am barber, just turned 19 few weeks ago and I am supposed to start my uni education tomorrow but that is not the problem.

I earned upwards of 40... Maybe 60k most of which I aid my siblings with. But it's too demanding, like 14 or 15 hours a day everyday. And I have some skill trading forex but I don't do it now.

Right now I want to drop barbing and possibly school to learn blockchain development. My mom will prolly take me for deliverance. Lol.
I am buying a laptop tomorrow. Already dropped social media, right now its just Reddit and NL.

I am greatly worried about my future and tired of living inna trap.

I remember learning about Bitcoin like 7 years ago but couldn't get in till this year.

My parents can give moral advice but I need you on this one. Thanks

Cc. Tensazangetsu20
Airsaylongcome
Lindner
Ezechidera
Ypeace
i didn't read your post, but I saw blockchain in the heading, so yes
FamilyRe: Her Parents Sponsored Our Wedding, Should I Be Worried. by Depressed101: 3:19pm On Nov 14, 2021
Tonero5200:
Hi.

Honestly speaking am really worried, have dated my fiance for sometime now. So we finally decided to tie the knot.
She suggested we do it this year November and I concurred, so we've been saving towards it ever since.

Last 2 months I made my intentions known to her family, that I will like to marry their daughter. Due to the conversations I had With her parents, I told them I wanted it small.. because am not financialy buoyant.

But To my surprise, her dad said I shouldn't worry about it, they are going to support me ( which is most likely Normal)

(They gave me traditional rite's, which I sorted out by myself)

With the traditional right drawing close, last month I learnt from my fiancee..her parents are planning to buy 2 cow for the traditional and white wedding. (I was surprised)

The following week, the hall she choosed for the reception of the white wedding, has already been paid for by her dad which was about 500k excluding the decorations which they also took care of ( even though I opted we could have done the reception in the church)

But my fiancee told me her dad is inviting alot of well-wishers home and abroad to come celebrate with us.both his fellow staffs and all.

* I bought 2 bag of rice and groundnut oils

* We paid for the cakes

* We paid for drinks

* We sorted things out (invitation cards, pre shoot photos)

But was surprised 2 days to the traditional marriage, more expensive drinks were rolling in.

On the d day of the white wedding, I realised, they cooked more than 8 bags of rice ( coconut, jollof, banga and fried) meats were surplused.
Alot of people came from her family's, while my own families were just there.. they did get the message.

Someone even said it to my mom face. THAT THIS GIRL PAPA TRY O.








please, I don't want to sound like am a bad person or I don't know good.
Offcus I appreciate her parents efforts, but am just a little bit worried.


As a man, won't this come to haunt me in the future?

Lalasticlala
i dont know how this will turn out, but I hate people dictating how I plan my stuffs especially family matters. I do my stuffs on my own terms wether money dey or not, na man I be, if my in-laws wish to contribute to my wedding as I have told them I want it low and not flamboyant, they can fit their plans in ours by doing the respectable which is seating down discus how they can be of help, I will most likely accept cash gifts so that I and my wife to be will plan our day the way we are supposed to build our lives together, you don't use my day to shine just because you want to help me. Anyway na yoruba way of life, I just hope this does not give them the impetus to be shooking mouth in your family matters when they are not supposed to.

I man deserves his dignity, no man should take it away from him because of help,. I can tell that feeling you are having right now is not a good one, they have reduced an inch of your confidence..

Anyway the did is done, just watch for any unnecessary insult, and don't fail to let anyone who tries that in the name of what they have done for you know that you do not tolerate nonsense
TravelRe: Nigerian Man Warns People Do Not Travel To Belarus (photos, Video) by Depressed101: 3:08pm On Nov 14, 2021
walkbrazil4k:
You attacked me, The guy you are fighting for is talking about the Belarusian aggression and goes ahead to call my write up sick and I am trying to mislead people,how did I mislead people? He is saying the same thing I posted, we are not talking about the Belarusian aggression, we all know the president is the one that invited those migrants to cross, the point is, don't go to Belarus with the intention to cross into poland, I would stop replying you trolls on nairaland, I am too old for this
oga which president invited what people.? huh Everything you read on CNN you believe hook line and sinker?

The border crisis between Poland and Belarus on been so for a long time, people go through Belarus to Poland, on their journey to more stable countries such as Germany, Denmark and UK, Belarus does not have a stable economy to survive immigrants and the immigrants know this so they always cross over to Poland on their journey to Germany and the rest of Europes stable economies, until Poland closed its border about a year ago, Poland is just being a Winnie bitche, they should let the immigrants go through their border, provide for them as long as they can, their people are immigrants in countries such as Germany and the UK.
PropertiesRe: ₦95M: 5 Bedroom Detached Home For Sale In Ajah (Photos) by Depressed101: 5:35pm On Nov 13, 2021
This is actually better in deal than those #1b ones
FamilyRe: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Depressed101: 9:27am On Nov 13, 2021
Fredamanda:
Please guys ignore the grammar, I need urgent advice because I am dying slowly towards my wife altitude.

I am a young guy working from home and I try all my best to make my wife happy always but there is one attitude in her which I am not comfortable with and I don't know how else to explain to her after I have tried so much for her to start up something.

She is a graduate with good result but she does not want to do anything rather she prefers staying at home maybe because I am working from home. My problem now is that she is pregnant and she got admission for her masters in one of the Eastern Universities while we live in lagos which she does not want to go and owning to the fact that she is not doing anything in the house and she is not working, I really want her to go for that masters and is causing big issues between two of us.

Please kindly advice me on what to do.
if you force her to go out, it will turn to cheating, just let her be
PoliticsRe: 1500 Cows Killed In Air Strike In Taraba by Depressed101: 7:51pm On Nov 12, 2021
dynicks:
People should just avoid crowded areas in certain places up north....Else you'd be mistaken for an enemy!!

Person livelihood!!
for your mind this story na real? huh
PoliticsRe: Tordue Salem: Man Confesses To Killing Vanguard Reporter In Hit-and-run Incident by Depressed101: 3:46pm On Nov 12, 2021
Gondonu:
sad And why did it took so long to find the remains? No body witnessed the accident? And you're just confessing now.Imagine what you have put his family through during all these periods of suspense.Too many question about this unfortunate incident.RIP.
abeggi leave this government, assassination here and there, the worst is they don't know how to lie, so hit and run, his body was on the runside for weeks and nobody saw it?
PoliticsRe: Bianca Ojukwu Celebrates Her 27th Wedding Anniversary (Throwback Photo) by Depressed101: 3:38pm On Nov 12, 2021
Impeccable Beauty shocked eyes of the sun
BusinessRe: Kuda Bank Releases Statement On Accusations Of Reporting Clients To EFCC by Depressed101: 8:22am On Nov 12, 2021
[quote author=Okortor post=107541918][s]You all ran to kuda because of the convenient banking system and easy KYC documentation. Now the chips are down...you all still spilling trash...

I use kuda and av got millions in my account which they won't dare report me to EFCC because I don't accept suspicious or fraudulent Transactions neither inflow nor outflow on my account.

I'm a financialist n I know what's right n what's wrong.

I can't count how many suspicious accounts n transactions I've reported to the CBN as regarding AML.

STOP JUSTIFYING FRAUD, WHAT'S BAD IS BAD. IF YOU ARE LEGIT, YOU HAVE GOT NOTHING TO FEAR N WORRY ABOUT IRRESPECTIVE.

Great weekend guys. TGIF. [[/s]/quote] so cryptocurrency is now fraud? huh
CrimeRe: Is UBA Aware That Someone Has Access To Customers Information? by Depressed101: 8:19pm On Nov 11, 2021
GeorgesDiary:
THE MAN FROM UBA

It's been a very busy week here in Lagos as the International Trade Fair begins to gear towards the end.

Some years ago, I was at United Bank for Africa to open an account. That was going to be my second bank account and to my disappointment, they told me I will need at least NGN25,000 before I can open an account and that the least I can have in the account is NGN25,000. I left and would later have a Diamond Bank marketer open an account for me with Zero Balance.

Fast forward to November 2021. This woman walked up to me here in Lagos and asked if I have an account with UBA. Long story cut short, she opened an account with a Zero balance, I funded it and got my debit card that same day. An Igbo adage says "ebe onye oso ruru, onye ije ga eru" which means "there is no rush in life." I didn't open a UBA account because I needed it badly, it was because I wanted another account for a certain purpose. Also, it was convenient.

That's not the main reason why I am sharing this story.

A day after I had opened the new account and gotten my debit card, I got a call from a supposed UBA customer care agent. He sounded very proficient.

"Good morning Mr Onyedika. Once again, congratulations and thank you for choosing UBA. We do this routine call to inform our new customers about the need to protect their information against scammers. Ensure that you do not give anyone sensitive information concerning your account" he said

I felt a bit relaxed, I concluded it was just the usual security briefings that we have already gotten used to. I kept being attentive with some occasional "okay" to make him know that I am on the phone with him. He kept going

"Before I continue, kindly confirm if this is your account number 2222xxxxxxx" he called out the account number. It was correct and I affirmed. He continued "kindly confirm if you tried making a payment or withdrawal with your ATM card and it wasn't successful"

Candidly, I had tried renewing a subscription using thr new debit card and the transaction wasn't successful. I affirmed and he continued

"I am sorry about that Sir. This is exactly the reason why I called. Kindly give me some minutes while I run a check on your account" I could hear him work on his keyboard and the ambience sounded like a banking hall. I was relaxed and thrilled at the same time on how UBA could notice errors on the customer end without the customer even filing a report. I had to check again to be sure that I wasn't speaking with a robot. After a while, his voice was back "Okay Sir. When you got your card yesterday, a code was sent to you for the card activation"

"Yes" I affirmed "and I changed the code as I was told" I added

"Okay, Sir. Kindly disregard that code that was sent to you yesterday as we will be resetting your card so that you can be able to make transactions with it. What this means is that you'll be getting a new code that you'll use. When I call out this code for you, kindly write it down and use any ATM of your choice to change the code"

"Alright" I responded as he continued

"The code is 8235. I repeat, the code is 8235. Remember Sir that for the safety of your account, do not share your card details with anyone as it will make your account vulnerable to scammers"

"Alright," I said. I was going to get my card, go to one of the closest ATM stand and so as he said. Then he went on

"One more thing Sir. To validate the process, kindly call out the code you changed to yesterday"

"You mean I should call out the new pin of the card?" I asked. I was getting the whole picture now

"Not exactly Sir. As I said, the card has been reset and your default code is the one I called out to you. When you change the code to your preferred pin, your card will start working. But I'll need to know the code you changed to yesterday. This will help us in validating your card, Sir." He sounded calm and persuasive but he can only tell that to a naive fellow.

"That won't be a problem," I said "I am very close to where I opened this account. I think it's better I just walk up there and they help me sort out all of this"

"That is fine too Sir but not necessarily because we can validate it over the phone. I'll transfer you now to my manager, you can speak with him" he said, I could sense some kind of disinclination in his voice.

"Listen, Mr Man, I can't give my sensitive details to anybody and not even your manager or the CBN governor. I'll go to the UBA branch close to me to sort out the card issue I said" he hissed and hung up.

I wasn't intending to go to the bank to verify anything, I knew it was a scam but what is startling to me is how he got my account information, how he knew the date and time I opened the account and how he even knew I had a failed transaction. It can't be a guess work especially for an account that wasn't even up to 24hours it was opened.

Could it be that there is a staff of United Bank for Africa who releases this information or could it be that someone else has access through a backdoor to United Bank for Africa's database? This is a question I have no one to ask.

Stay woke... These guys upgrade on daily basis.
same story as mine, check out here

https://www.nairaland.com/6788169/experience-uba-bank-new-customer
PoliticsRe: How The Ignorance Of IPOB Led To Adjournment Of Nnamdi Trial by Depressed101: 3:08pm On Nov 11, 2021
jmoore:
Nnamdi will spend the Christmas in jail.

So the court should allow 10,000 spectators to enter the court? undecided

Ejiofor carelessness and naivety was obvious. He should have remained inside the courtroom.
. Get out, you don't have an argument, who called 10,000spectators?
PoliticsRe: How The Ignorance Of IPOB Led To Adjournment Of Nnamdi Trial by Depressed101: 9:52am On Nov 11, 2021
jmoore:
[s]He can wait outside till the case was done for today [/s]before he can ask DSS for permission to see his client. He's just an ordinary spectator and doesn't need to be inside the court room.
so it's outside spectators stay to observe the proceedings of the court, what happened to the provided pews in the court... Are ignorant or something
PoliticsRe: Senate Mourns 120 Nigerians Killed By Bandits In Sokoto Market by Depressed101: 7:50am On Nov 11, 2021
ivolt:
The governor should create a state's security arm.
He may not want to do it because many Northern governors are opposed to state police for political reasons.

This is not the time to play politics of hide and seek.
wetin be the work of hisbah?
RomanceRe: UBA User Please Be At Alert by Depressed101: 3:28pm On Nov 10, 2021
Offpoint1:
WARNING: All UBA users take caution and transfer all you money out, it seems the bank is under attack which they won't inform the Public. There has been series of complaints from customers about their account being debited. I was warned by a friend 3 days ago I thought it was a joke until I woke up this morning and met debit alert of transactions I didn't carry out. All happen around 3am, I receive N5000 debit alert 3 times, I had to quickly transfer all my funds out.
Please this has nothing to with you exposing your card details online, take caution. Most transactions are carry out in Lagos, no matter where you are.

You can check their facebook page to see the numbers of victims complaining...

Please don't ignore, I have 3 friends and 2 colleagues who are victims too.

Below are few screenshots from their facebook page...

I know Nairaland mods may not want to push this to frontpage for legal reasons, but please inform you friends and families

Seun
Lalasticlala
i was almost a victim, I even posted it here, but my God big pass them, UBA is A SC bank no two ways about it
CrimeRe: ‘meth’: Youths Flogged In Imo For Taking Drugs (Pictures) by Depressed101: 1:36pm On Nov 10, 2021
Whiteangel1234:
Methamphetamine Hydrochloride, popularly known as ‘meth’ in Igbo land or crystal meth/ Ice in some parts of Lagos state, comes in clear crystal chunks or shiny blue-white rocks. This new dangerous drug as reported by NDLEA is already sending Nigerian youths to their graves.

meth is a very addictive stimulant drug. It is a powder that can be made into a pill or a shiny rock (called a crystal). The powder can be eaten or snorted up the nose. It can also be mixed with liquid and injected into your body with a needle. Crystal meth is smoked in a small glass pipe. Meth at first causes a rush of good feelings, but then users feel edgy, overly excited, angry, or afraid. Meth use can quickly lead to addiction.


Video

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1045719049577068&id=100024169492631
very good, ice is for sell not for take... It's better to be wise In the village than coming to the city only to take drugs
PoliticsRe: Protest Against IPOB As Nnamdi Kanu Appears In Court Today (Pictures) by Depressed101: 1:29pm On Nov 10, 2021
Prosperous111:
Paid souls
young paid souls, I bleed for the youth, they are gone, generations are gone.. cry
EducationRe: What International Money Transfer Apps Work In Nigeria by Depressed101: 8:20am On Nov 10, 2021
Knames:
Does anyone know a secure and totally reliable international money app that works in Nigeria. People that are in Nigeria that get paid money from companies abroad. What app do you use to get the transferred money.

N.B
An app that works very well in Nigeria, that's secure and reliable. Thanks.
wise (transferwise)
FamilyRe: Pray For My Wife Who Is In Serious Labour Since Yesterday Afternoon. by Depressed101: 8:19am On Nov 10, 2021
Freestainworld:
Please guys, I need your prayers my wife has been in labour since yesterday afternoon for safe delivery, it has not been easy as the labour is taking too long and she has lost a lot of strength.
instead of you to call your pastor, you come nairaland where sinners fu huh
TravelRe: Accommodation Needed in the Netherlands by Depressed101: 9:29pm On Nov 09, 2021
Enddy50ty:
So you think every Nigerian abroad is dangerous, a criminal or into illegal stuffs...?
Even though this is a public space, you really need to watch the way you post things here.

People have gotten help from strangers simply because they're Nigerians or they share the same ethnicity, tribal or religious backgrounds.
You really need to see the way Nigerians love and help themselves while living abroad, there's a saying that if we can replicate half of the love we show ourselves abroad here, Nigeria would be a better place for all.


You don't necessarily need to come online and discourage someone who's legitimately seeking help all because you think you have something to say.
cheesy is that so. See the major reason I went into a rant is because I know majority of Nigerians armsterdam are drug dealers, so nothing new, and yes there are good Nigerians, but believe it or not there are more bad Nigerians especially abroad.
TravelRe: Owerri_chic & Orjisblog Appease The Gods Along Ohi - Orogwe Road by Depressed101: 7:34pm On Nov 08, 2021
TrajansKong:
Real or not, what do spirits and demons have to do with fixing a phockeen road??

In this part of the world we call babalawo or pastor before we call a civil engineer. In fact we will never call a civil engineer.
what does appeasing demons have to do with repairing road. Are you missing something here? huh
PoliticsRe: Maina: EFCC & Prison Officials Clash Over Who Should Detain Ex Pension Boss by Depressed101: 7:29pm On Nov 08, 2021
EFCC get prison. Them don convict the guy now, na wetin them wan carry the guy go do for office again..
TravelRe: Owerri_chic & Orjisblog Appease The Gods Along Ohi - Orogwe Road by Depressed101: 5:38pm On Nov 08, 2021
TrajansKong:
Why do we haff to bring spirits and demons into EVERYTHING?

Why can't we just fix de phokeen road and get on with life??!!??
BECAUSE THE EXIST, WE CHOOSE TO IGNORE THEM
BusinessRe: Earning dollars With Squadhelp and Brandable domains: A Guide For Newbies by Depressed101: 3:35pm On Nov 08, 2021
CornOak:
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submitted this second one a year ago, they rejected it sad shocked
BusinessRe: Earning dollars With Squadhelp and Brandable domains: A Guide For Newbies by Depressed101: 3:34pm On Nov 08, 2021
Ebukahh97:
First approval

Flame um

SH Owned
Let's hope for better approval/review rate this coming week
submitted this name not too long ago they rejected it
BusinessRe: Can A Man In His Early 30s Do Akara & Akamu Busines Without Shame? by Depressed101: 3:32pm On Nov 08, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
GOOD DAY NIRALANDERS

I wanted to start up a POS business with my savings of N65k, but the POS man that i consulted to assist me said i would need at least N150k to start up a POS business.

I've really been hustling everyday, doing hard works (especially on bulding sites), taking pain killer drugs on daily basis..

I don't think it will be easy for me to raised my savings up to that amount 'N150k' with the type of work that i do..

I wanted to travel to the city with my ND (National Diploma) result, so i can use it to look for work, I posted it here on nairaland, but 80% of the advice i got from this forum said it will be hard to see a paying job with ND result, while some said it is not even possible. So i couldn't travel again..

Now that my savings isn't enough to start up a POS business, i'm thinking of starting up a standard akara and akamu business and probably extend the business along the run..

As someone known by his people to have went to school, is the business worth the shame?
why not apply for jobs online from your current location, in your preferred city, jobs abound numerous in the city, especially low paying jobs from 30k-70k yes with your diploma, here in Abuja the most popular jobs for diploma with an atom of decency is estate jobs, especially facilities manager,commercial cleaning either by working under a company or by hustling yours, I recommend working under a company first. In addition you can skills online why you do the job you do, that's the best escape you have, digital skills is the altimate, I can't emphasize enough on it... Learn it. Practice it, there are threads here on nairaland where you can learn these skills for free, dedicate time and passion, you will get there..

For a start I recommend graphic designs, (it's saturated) but the reason why you should learn it is because it's a skill people in your life will want in the future when you come to the city, copy write, affiliate marketing, domaining (yes try domaining, if you learn your onions,you can raise a capital from it, I'm talking millions) Then the altimate of them all cryptocurrency, it's simply the future but you need money to invest, that's why I recommended those other ones once you make enough money from the others you can diversify into cryptocurrency trading and investments
Goodluck

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