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Education › Re: How Uniben Students Fetch Water In Hostel..lwkmd! by DeRay98(m): 7:40am On Nov 27, 2015
This is Hall 3 "grin" Block. The underground tanks are no more functional?
I spent my 200L on this Block, 1993-4.
Our University Administrations don't really do much to make students life normal at all.
Health › Re: Breaking News! Nafdac Staff Begins Nationwide Strike by DeRay98(m): 2:50pm On Nov 20, 2015
Since this man Dr orhii took over NAFDAC, he has destroyed the legacy of the late Prof Dora Akunyili. He is owing staff months of salaries and allowances. It's just one more case of incompetent medical Drs running health institutions because he is a medical doctor rather than his mgt competence and failing to deliver.
When Akunyili (a pharmacist) left the office, political medical doctors fought hard to ensure that no other health care professionals get the job but a med.doctor. just as all our health care systems have been messed up the same process of dominating all health care systems in Nigeria.
Politics › Re: Photos See What Nigerian Army Recovered From Boko Haram by DeRay98(m): 6:16am On Nov 12, 2015
The Gallant Army we used to know but descicrated under GEJ into a running army.
God bless these Soldiers
Career › Re: In-sourcing, New Way Of Hiring Desperate Job Seekers by DeRay98(m): 4:16am On Nov 11, 2015
adollyboy:
I fall into that category of staffs.It is a very sad situation. My appointment was renewed recently after one year working with the Mortgage bank;after reading the content of the letter I almost shed tears.It is so pathetic. l hope one day the relevant authorities will do something.
Who are the relevant authorities? Until you take your case to them, nobody will do anything its you who must take your destiny in your hands...
TV/Movies › Re: DJ Arch Junior Winner Of South Africa Got Talent 2015 by DeRay98(m): 4:35pm On Nov 10, 2015
The No: 1 career in South Africa grin grin
NYSC › Re: Ebonyi State Slashes Monthly Allowance Of Corper Doctors From N130k To N15k by DeRay98(m): 5:40am On Nov 08, 2015
thinking behind this might be, since The Corners are non indigenes of the state why should we pay this much? grin grin grin
Health › Re: Unfortunate Deaths In Our Hospitals; A Nurse's Perspective by DeRay98(m): 7:00pm On Nov 07, 2015
Sanmel:
I'm a nurse too o.. JIC u av something special for Nairaland nurses.. smiley
its ok
Health › Re: Unfortunate Deaths In Our Hospitals; A Nurse's Perspective by DeRay98(m): 10:46am On Nov 07, 2015
Orikinla:
. Thank you. Why should any clinic or hospital without required equipment be allowed to operate? These horrible and terrible things happen, because of a corrupt and incompetent government where incompetent intellectual re-tarded politicians are appointed as Ministers and DGs. The Nigerian Medical Council should close any clinic or hospital without required medical equipment, so that they will not deceive ignorant people to mistake them for real clinics and hospitals. The Nigerian Medical Council or Association is to blame for these clinics and hospitals operating without equipment in Nigeria, because they are owned or run by their members.
Nigerian Medical Council should close any clinic or hospital without required medical equipment, so that they will not deceive ignorant people to mistake them for real clinics and hospitals. The Nigerian Medical Council or Association is to blame for these clinics and hospitals operating without equipment in Nigeria, because they are owned or run by their members.
Health › Re: Unfortunate Deaths In Our Hospitals; A Nurse's Perspective by DeRay98(m): 10:42am On Nov 07, 2015
Most of the problems in our health care are due to administrative incompetence and poor planning.
All Health ministers are Medical doctors, all health commissioners are medical doctors, all state and federal health management boards or committees are heavily dominated by medical doctors. All Chief medical directors of all hospitals are Medical doctors.
Therefore, decision-making in health care systems and institutions are dominated by medical doctors and since they are unquestionable and unanswerable to any other, they are to blame.
Nigerian Medical Association has become more of a political organization than an apex health professionals body, they claim to be fighting for better health care but all they do bully paramedical professionals, cover up mismanagement by their colleagues, blame non-medical professionals and allocate budgetary provisions to themselves, use appropriated funds to buy out-dated,substandard or refurbished equipment even when budget was made for standard state of the art equipment.
i have a friend who sells medical equipment, if you get to hear what he experiences in dealing with govts hospital and health ministry mgt.
No medical equipment purchase request can be approved or purchased without the admin or hospital management MDs (if not the commissioner) signing the approval.
Budget for medical equipment are made with prices for the latest or modern equipment with are usually very expensive (often 3-4x the actual cost, to provide for some %tage to some top officials). Once the budget is approved, the equipment eventually purchased is usually of less quality and specifications approved for purchase the rest of the funds is pocketed and covered up by the beneficiaries.
After a couple of years, often less than the warranty period, the equipment becomes faulty as expected, are left unserviced for a while and finally auctioned and bought by same Doctors for their own private clinics often at ridiculously lower rate than market price.
Any health care system is comprised of a team of all health care (Medical, Para-medical, non-medical) personnel. An experienced medical doctor is traditionally the head or captain of the team and as such carry the team along for effectiveness. All health care is not about Medical doctors alone, all members of the team have inputs that helps the MD to effectively manage the health of a pat.
But in Nigeria, these other health care team members are looked down on or disrespected by medical doctors. sometimes, MDs wants people to believe that these other professions are irrelevant and they can be done without.
Nobody else advises govts. on health care policies and expenditure other than medical doctors, if the policies are failing, facilities are under staffed, under equipped etc, blame for their failure to do the needful. the frequents strikes they embark of for better working conditions are often presented to the public as demands for equipment and facility, in fact, they are usually for their salaries, allowances and remunerations.
The consultants no longer have time to supervise their residents, they run around using govt time to attend private patients in several private hospitals or their private hospitals/clinics.
The worst culprits are the administrative doctors, event young medical doctors are victims too.
Until Nigerians begin to make hospitals answer questions on questionable deaths of relatives, the situation will remain.
The poor justice system in Nigeria also means that people cannot wait for the length of time it takes to get justice, the cover-up of questionable deaths and injuries by other doctors to avoid justice, the believe that doctors are demi-gods by many uninformed people also does not help matters. In the civilised countries, the fear of malpractice suits by aggrieved patients or relatives of patients put the doctors on the alert.
I expect fireworks from MDs and many uninformed doctors-worshipping wailers here undecided cool
Politics › Re: Abandoned: Yakoyo-agbole-akute Road Expansion And Bridges by DeRay98(op): 9:04am On Nov 06, 2015
maajin007:
ibukunle is d governor
Thanks for the correction
Politics › Abandoned: Yakoyo-agbole-akute Road Expansion And Bridges by DeRay98(op): 8:54am On Nov 06, 2015
Sometime in 2013, when the long overdue expansion of the YAKOYO-ALAGBOLE-AKUTE road(OGUN STATE) linking OJODU BERGER (LAGOS STATE) began, the long suffering populace in those environs hived a sign of relief. if you are familiar with those areas, you would agree with me that the non expansion of the road has and still wasting of people's time, resources, lives etc.
When I spent my 2014 holidays in Akute and I saw the project on going and i was happy that for once, we will have free road, eat less PANADOL for consistent body pains and less time to spend travelling on that road. A relative of mine who lives in Akute and works near international Airport, spend 5 hours daily on this route.
But in my recent visit to this area (AKUTE) shows that the project has been abandoned for about a year now,as shown in my pictures.
The other side part of this is that there was no alternative route made to alleviate the suffering of the people.
My question is, what has Governor IBIKUNLE AMOSUN done with the funds for the project? Will he complete this project before he leaves office in the next 4yrs?
Rumours have it that, during his preparation to run for the 2nd term in office, he met strong opposition from another contestant and he had to "settle" the contestant to keep his ambition and that's where the funds when to.

Romance › Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by DeRay98(m): 1:17pm On Nov 03, 2015
With so much doubt at this time? Call it off or you will be sorry later. A broken engagement is better than divorce. Forget the money you have spent. She will rule you like a dictator later....
Family › Re: Man Buys Honda SUV For Wife Who Gave Birth (pics) by DeRay98(m): 1:09pm On Nov 03, 2015
ststyreal:
Ohhhhh my geee! I love this. Where is that man that will surprise me with this, abeg show your face ooooo.
Where is your picture to attract such a man?
Politics › Re: Tanzanians Are Very Excited Because Jonathan Is Arriving Their Country. by DeRay98(m): 11:09am On Oct 19, 2015
erunz:
http://www.thisdaylive.com/articles/election-monitoring-tanzanians-laud-jonathan-s-exemplary-record/223223/?utm_medium=twitter
Good one, but Jonathan is not do this, obasanjo played same role the common wealth post 1979 as a member of the Commonwealth eminent person's group.
Travel › Re: Photos: Transport Ideas That Can Reduce Traffic/Accidents In Lagos. by DeRay98(m): 1:03pm On Oct 18, 2015
With so much money lying idle in govt coffers, why won't lootocrates do thing?
The underground rail or any other modern rail requires electricity to run but how much many billions did Obasanjo and GEJ" sink" into power that has not worked?
Let govt give us stable power and see how Nigerians (many in diaspora will return with ideas and knowledge and even resources, together with local manpower) will transform Nigeria overnight. But the politicians won't allow until we arise and stone them.
Sports › Re: U-17 World Cup: Nigeria Vs USA (2 - 0) On 17th October 2015 by DeRay98(m): 3:12pm On Oct 17, 2015
Sorry, I don't have much expectations of our current team. They came 4th in African Qualifiers, lacking quality and creativity. The team is built around 2 players; Capt and midfielder Kelechi Nwakali and Striker Osimeh. If these two fail to perform or gets injured, the whole team becomes lame.
I wish them well.
Family › Re: Hear What A Mother Told Her Daughter On Her Wedding Day by DeRay98(m): 8:08pm On Oct 15, 2015
ireneidiva:
This your grammar can kill!
All typo errors due hasty typing from phone
Sports › Re: Sports Journalist Felix Okugbe Is Dead - Naij.com by DeRay98(m): 11:45pm On Oct 10, 2015
searching4love:
[size=18pt]THIS IS THE ONLY IGBO MAN I EVER LIKED IN MY LIFE AND HE'S DEAD cry cry RIP SIR cry cry[/size]
Okugbe is NOT AN IGBO MAN, But Edo. And don't come here to show that you are one of those Yorubas who thinks and believe that Edos are Igbos. angry
Sports › Re: ‘Enyeama's Retirement Is Sad’ – Oliseh Opens Up On Crisis by DeRay98(m): 4:07pm On Oct 09, 2015
snowDiva:
oliseh...its ppl like u that deserve the poem "lie lie, pants on fire"
You dey there? After hungry bloggers don put salt, sugar and honey for story to sell, people like you go dey salivate...
Politics › Re: The Cement Roads Being Built By Ikpeazu In Aba. by DeRay98(m): 3:46pm On Oct 09, 2015
Obiagu1:
Hmmm, is this how to construct concrete roads?
Don't they know that concrete expands and needs gaps in between to breathe?
Its supposed to be in slabs and are supposed to be reinforced with rods like house deckings.

This road will be all cracked up in 8 months time without any vehicle running over it or rain hitting it.

The silly governor is even creating a bigger mess when it's time to remove this crap!
Bros, no be Engr dey oversee this work assuming the contractor is not an Engr? Their ministry of works no get Engr wey suppose know wetin you just observed abi them don take their share of the contract and turn their face the other way.
Nig society of Engrs go shout say govt no dey give big construction contracts for roads and bridges but se bi you see wetin them fit do?
Family › Re: Help! My Husband’s Sexual Demands Abnormal by DeRay98(m): 3:36pm On Oct 09, 2015
PunkyVeer:
Lol @ I can & will. You're right though, it's all about consideration at the end of the day. However, that lady sounds like someone that won't like anything other than missionary.
Make she dey complain till another woman steps into her position and take the man to the next level bedmatically...
Politics › Re: Don’t Use Ekweremadu As A Sacrificial Lamb – Ohanaeze Warns Buhari by DeRay98(m): 1:08pm On Oct 09, 2015
jlinkd78:
I v always known dat Ekweremmadu slot has been d APC cum Buhari greatest burden but unfortunately its one bitter pill providence has forced down on them because of their obvious disregard towards d SE from onset. All these roforofo fight against Saraki is b/c a PDP person and particularly an Igboman is d Deputy Senate President but its getting late by d day that APC is helpless. Nigeria is built on a tripod of Hausa, Igbo and Yoruba, d often contraption 'wazobia' but APC made it clear that d 'bia' leg must be cut off b/c of dia 5% designation but unfortunately God had a different plan for his chosen ppl. Haven't u imagined how come at d date n time of natn'l assembly inauguration, d APC members went for meeting with d party leadership even though d President had earlier sent in his letter consenting to d promulgation. Confusion u may say but dat was a devine masterpiece. Truth is as long as Saraki wants to remain as SP he must continue to align with d PDP/Ekweremadu who are d beautiful brides. U need 2/3rd majority to impeach d DSP and dat d apc cant ever get. If APC continue to push this matter which is naturally dying down, then d more they exhibit their poor knowledge of how democracy works. Apc had a choice of zoning d SP, DSP, speaker n deputy speaker but in a bid to make sure d SE and to a lesser extent d SS do not get any slot, they went against zoning so dat d SW n NW will take turns in addition to d VPn D President.
Did Buhari disregard the SE or SE outrightly rejected him? When they only campaigned against and rejected him they didn't think their decisions could boomerang against them. They have not stopped hating even after he won, yet they are placing demand or expecting favours from him. Shameless hate-full people.
Sports › Re: We Won’t Beg Enyeama To Stay – NFF by DeRay98(m): 12:13pm On Oct 09, 2015
From what I gathered so far from this event, I will state the following:
Enyeama is longest and most consistent goal keeper eagles have ever had. The most successful goal keeper too.
The frequent changes of managers (Chief Coach) and consistent NFF infighting during change of leadership means that such long serving players no longer have the respect for authority. Having been so successful as national player and surviving several unnecessary issues in the football admin mostly due to their personal interest the enthusiasm of the long serving players wane out.
On the current issues, Oliseh is fighting for time to get his team ready for great things and considering the fact that NFF wasted too much before appointing him, he is under pressure to deliver. Hence, he needs to be firm from the start in order to get the players used to his style. Both Oliseh and NFF are aware that Enyeama reached Belgium early enough but turned camp late. The players from Nig were having visa problems hence there was only one keeper(Ikeme) in camp. That Enyeama went for his mum's burial was not the issue but he got Belgium in time but reported late to camp and by then the coach would have made alternative plans for Musa who captained against Tanzania (when Enyeama was excused to go home after his mum died) to hold on the captaincy. Enyeama lateness was going to disrupt their plans. Then, he challenged the coach for announcing Musa as the Captain ( it may have been a temporary plan for these matches they have this week) that is where enyeama missed it. Besides, Enyeama is no longer the future of the team, we need to start building the confidence of the younger players by giving them responsibility and opportunity to grow. If we keep depending on the aging players we may find ourselves in a vacuum when they suddenly run out of form due to age or injury. This was the case when Enyeama and Ejide came to camp 2002. Ike shurunmu struck by iñjury and the inexperienced Ejide was called up preparatory to 2002 WC. His lack of exposure and experience showed in friendly against Scotland as he was jittery. He was later called up before Shorunmu recovered for the WC. It took years of inconsistent performances before Enyeama and Ejide gain confidence and consistency in goal. It's possible that both parties could have handled the situation better but the pressure on Oliseh and NFF would not allow them handle indiscipline with kids glove. Longevity in service is no excuse to challenge your coach in a crucial time as this. Enyeama has been coolheaded for years but he has also had issues with previous coaches ( Siasia and Keshi) under similar circumstances. He needs time off national team pressure to concentrate on his club career as aging is not his side save because he is a goal keeper.
Romance › Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by DeRay98(m): 4:17am On Oct 08, 2015
Ol boy if you no want enter one chance run for future oh!
That girl is like that she will give you hell in marriage if you marry her.
Save yourself while you still have the opportunity now.
It's not your duty to change her, she cannot change its only a rascal who would beat shege out of her that she can respect.
selfishness and satanic pride it the attitude of many modern women.
SAVE YOURSELF FROM MARRIAGE INDUCED HYPERTENSION AND EARLY GRAVE.
Education › Re: Funny Events That Take Place In Night Classes In Universities by DeRay98(m): 4:48am On Oct 07, 2015
UniBen Hall 3 boys reading in Hall 3 reading room, dem dey pull shirt showing their "Cartoon" muscles as if them dey want intimidate the book wey them dey read. grin grin grin
Family › Re: Woman! Know Thyself! You Are More Than A Ring And A Title. by DeRay98(m): 5:27pm On Oct 02, 2015
lonelydora:
"The beauty of a woman is her husband"......... So they taught me.

WEEK...... women's education ends in kitchen. So I heard in primary school. But my wife's own didn't end in kitchen though.

Proverbs 31......... told me something about being a virtuous woman. And verse 11 says "The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that He shall have no need of spoil"


I assume you are a christian, read it first and come back let's talk.

See Op, all these rich ladies are not happy they are not married. They cry in their secrets. Some of them confided in me and told me so. Ask Linda and Genevive, you think they don't want to be like Omotola?
You shot the bill's eye with this

See Op, all these rich ladies are not happy they are not married. They cry in their secrets. Some of them confided in me and told me so. Ask Linda and Genevive, you think they don't want to be like Omotola?
Politics › Re: Return ‘Arabic Ajami’ To Naira Notes – Muslim Group(MURIC) Urges Buhari! by DeRay98(m): 4:52pm On Oct 02, 2015
stinggy:
Talk please.
Call them their name, they are FOOLS!

Arabic language isn't an indigenous language in Nigeria and does not serve the same purpose as our lingua franca - English. Their argument of the bible holds no water. Bible was first written in Hebrew and a few portion in Biblical Aramaic. Early translation was to Greek and from then to English so as to gain wider reader.
It is nobody's fault that the didn't think of translating Koran to English until lately.

And btw, are there only two religions in Nigeria huh
MURIC members calling for the return of 'ajami' are crazy.
This just goes to tell you how much lies egomaniac religious bigot like this use their influence (Professor) to brainwash their ignorant and educated followers. Being a professor of probably Islamic studies, they believe him to be so well educated that he is correct.
What a shame on his title. This is how they tell lies about the Bible and deliberately misinterpret Bible passages to stair up hatred in their followers
Romance › Re: After Dating For 3yrs Without Sex..she Is Getting Married To Someone Else by DeRay98(m): 5:43pm On Sep 27, 2015
PunkyVeer:
Someone she barely knows? I wouldn't be suprised if 1)she's a fake virgin
2)she's been sleeping with the dude she's marrying because she actually loves him & only using the OP as her gullible cash cow.
My exact line of thoughts...
Family › Re: Guys, Can You Get Married To A Lady From A Broken Home?(separated Or Divorced). by DeRay98(m): 8:20am On Sep 25, 2015
ejeh121:
Am from a broken home and it didn't change my perception about marriage,infact my marriage is in TOTAL PEACE because I was thought how to deal with marital issues peacefully






PLS HIT the like button if your from a broken home,an amazing WIFE and a super MUM!
Thank God for you because, you were taught right but many girls are never taught or they are taught wrong and they carry on to mess their own marriages up.
Family › Re: Guys, Can You Get Married To A Lady From A Broken Home?(separated Or Divorced). by DeRay98(m): 8:15am On Sep 25, 2015
Shymm3x:
I'm good, sis...and you?

Lmao @ how many people from broken families do I know and have I met. grin

Well, I know gazillion of them and I'd say I know gazillion of them. Heck, most of the folks I grew up with were from broken homes and if you know how the black family is out here, you'd know that there are more people from broken homes than folks who had their
mums and dads in their lives.

Anyway, I agreed with him cos I've been with chics from broken homes and the emotional baggage that comes with them, is just too much pressure.

And you also have the nonsense their mums must have subconsciously instilled in them over time about men cos of their dads. So they always deal with guys based
on the image they have in their heads about men. That's just the reality.
You are very right....
Family › Re: Guys, Can You Get Married To A Lady From A Broken Home?(separated Or Divorced). by DeRay98(m): 8:12am On Sep 25, 2015
Shymm3x:
He's right though. Most women broken homes are somewhat problematic due to the lack of father figure in their lives, whilst growing up. It's a mental thing and once they get with a guy - they automatically expect him to provide what's lacking.

I don't know how to explain it...but you have to be with one to know how messed up they're.
You are right
Family › Re: Guys, Can You Get Married To A Lady From A Broken Home?(separated Or Divorced). by DeRay98(m): 7:56am On Sep 25, 2015
Timbuktou:
It's a risky proposition. Most children from broken homes haven't been taught how to keep a relationship or home together and make one work; and most of them never bother to learn. E no dey hard dem to divorce at the slightest marital inconvenience or check out emotionally. They are usually biased against the estranged parent and the parent's gender due to one-sided accounts from custodial parents.

Anybody intending to marry a product of a broken home would do well to ensure due diligence in determining their marriage ideals and conflict resolution beliefs and methods.
My brother you are realistic in your post, lots of other posters above you are assuming and that is dangerous.
They say, the taste of the pudding is in eating until you encounter one of such broken ones in a real relationship, you have no how messed up they (especially some of the girls) can be.
I am a testifyer, my marriage to one of such ended after 5yrs. She moved out after instigating a family row that engulfed her. She was warned to pick issues with her in-laws (who were not bordering her) but her hatred for her dad and her dad's family is too deeply engraved in her heart. She didnt know how to show love or receive love, she was not willing to learn anything beyond what she felt she knew even what she knew were mostly assumptions and based on her mother's view of things.
She look for opportunities to flame her hate by targeting anybody she doesn't like.
Before those ladies here who are quick to defend their likes starts to pick issues with me or accuse me of what they assume I did ( because as far as they are concerned men are always the breaker of homes) not even my ex can point a finger of accusation to me that I cheated. She knew very well that I could not cheat hence, she taught she had me pocketed and she could cause trouble between me and my siblings in other to isolate me.
My advice to any guy who is in relationship with such girls , you had better find out her relationship with her dad incase she was raised by her mum. A girl raised by her dad is more likely to respect men than those raised her mum. Do not assume anything, such messed up girls cover up their flaws till you are committed.

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