₦airaland Forum

Kaymicheal852:
Ask why they mostly employ female marketers only first

banks mostly prostitute out their female staff. they expect them to use their sex appeal to acquire depositors and this is very wrong.

once those ladies age out of the dating pool, they get dropped like a used condom

seniorgozman:
I am aware, even me wants to relocate abroad. I don't think I will bring any babe there. I don't know the type of spirit that rules them over there

If you must travel with any girl, you must know her from childhood and trust that her parents will side with you if she fumbles. Otherwise, OYO is your case o

Rinoxy:
Hmm, my brother, they kuku know what they're going into.

Jman06:
This is not true! My mom got married at 15. By 30 she was already done with childbearing and if you see her today with my eldest sister, you'll think they're sisters.

Nature endowed women with everything they need to bear children and raise a family early enough. Mental maturity is relative. The fact that you're not matured even at 30 doesn't mean there aren't 18yo girls who're matured enough to raise a family.

Please tell them.

Let them know not everyone is buying into the madness of the west.

ogawisdom:
As if salary should be their only source of income?

Yes they should marry a productive woman earning something too and expand their source of income

what do you mean by this?

Nice2023:
I am a level 10 officer going to 12.

My salary is #127,000.

In fact,I thank God i came from the private sector to join them.

With the way things are,I doubt if anyone can survive without stealing.

My only saving grace is that, i had some investments before I joined them.


This is not a good place for anyone who has an ambition.

I have planned my exit already to concentrate on my side income.

I understand your pain. The struggle to keep ones moral compass upright as a public servant is a hard and lonely one.

Princessdainty:
Africans and breeding like rabbit.

Imagine the quality that makes a wife, ability to breed. Not your brain.
You wonder why you're the world Poverty Capital dormain!

When women make money, they typically don't share it with their husbands. If a woman can't bear children, then why would a man bind himself till death unto her, especially if he wants kids?

I'm asking questions o

Zigzagman:
just be direct.

if the guy has no plans, him go vamooose immediately

Nothing clears love from a single man's eyes faster than the following:

When are we getting married?

I'm pregnant, and I'm keeping it.

Rinoxy:
My brother, it amazes me how those from outside are arguing with someone in the system.

The amazing one is when people spend millions to buy job slots only to make 70K monthly after taxes

Can you imagine?

Zigzagman:
What did she expect. The man is from benue state.

The relationship was even long distance.

who engages in a long distance relationship with someone living in benue state?

Benue people will not forgive you o

Just saw the shots you fired up there

achimendy:
There's nothing right about that decision. You talked about rent, do you pay rent every day?? The rent pattern here in Nigeria is yearly, and two months salary is enough to get you good accommodation, depend on the state though.

Nobody wants to live in poverty, and also not allowing him to get you pregnant wont still change the family situation, that's why as couples you must join hands together, come up with rich financial idea that will turn your family financial situation around, that's what sensitive women do, not to sit there and say I won't get pregnant if he earns 100k

Facts!

Sonnobax15:

The man even have time... Personally I've made it categorically clear to my banny that nothing should make her abort my baby or something else I will arrest and she her for murder.. In fact, any body wey go support her,I go arrest am join

Hmmn arrestor

seniorgozman:
The truth is, it's very Risky taking a woman abroad. The man must have done his research very well before taking his decision

If you know the number of Nigerian men whose wives have falsely reported them to western police. I'd advise every man to be sure that his woman is loyal af before relocating with her. UK no be Nigeria o

Zigzagman:
So what do you hope to achieve by starting these conversations on nairaland?

People need answers that are practical and work for them where they are. I can't count the number of people I've met who are currently relocating back to their villages from the big cities because of the high cost of living.

People need to share their wisdom on how they're handling the present inflation of basic commodities. I hope to hear ideas we all can use to survive and thrive

Nice2023:
I am a civil servant,to be honest with u...being a civil servant is like a curse today.


If it is based on this meagre salary,there is simply no hope.

What's the pay like compared to the prices of food items?

And how do you cope?

tosinhtml:
Uk cost of living is more about crazy housing cost, council tax, energy bills than food. Every country has their own wahala, Nigerian's own is food & fuel.

Imagine comparing the UK to Nigeria. You need to compare the percentage of daily income spent on food for average citizens in both countries.

Darlingme:
It is a general problem. It's a problem in the whole world right now.
Due to the fact that love for one another is going into extinction, Everyone wants relationship and marriage for his/her selfish reason.
true love in real life is becoming difficult.
The greatest miracle in this generation right now, is, finding someone who love you, care for you and take you the same way you do to them.


True love is scarce. Just manage

This is so profound.

victory36:
No, please stop propagating poverty in the name of God will provide. Having children of getting married is not an achievement. It's high time society learns that. There are millions of unemployed graduates in Nigeria, the future looks bleak . I don't think anyone in his/ her right mind would bring poor children into this world to suffer given the present and likely future conditions at hand.

You have a point. Hopefully, we should be able to discuss about how to structure society such that young people can earn enough to start new families.

If you're a young man who's getting married, your wife's age is linked to her ability to bear children. In today's growing fertility crisis, lots of young families are forced to undergo assisted fertility treatments to conceive. And the costs are expensive with unpredictable results.

For single ladies, it's important to prioritize getting married by 25 particularly if they want to have children.

In a podcast with a leading public health physician, he makes a compelling argument why young women across Africa who want to have a family, should prioritize getting married by the age of 25.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3a3jkN-6dOw

A study published by the University of Edinburgh in the UK reveals that 90% of a woman's eggs are used up by 30. Most first time mothers-to-be find it difficult getting pregnant in their thirties.

https://www.ed.ac.uk/news/all-news/ovaries-280110

How sustainable is 120K on food for eachember of a family. That means that if she's married with 2 kids, her family of four will spend almost 480K monthly on just food.

That's why people were laughing also

People have problems o

Zigzagman:
99% of women only realizes that they were actually the problem in a relationship after break up, while in there they won't accept or realize it.

If you like call the whole community to talk to her, instead of owning up to her mistakes she will use manipulative emotions to curry pity to her side

All these Men-are-Scum feminists are actually the scum in any relationship, they hardly learn!

If the guy had paid for everything, we won't have heard anything o