agbonkamen: Some Delta men are useless! Dem get pride inside poverty. Turn their women to bread winner while they stay back at home, drinking their future away. Especially urhobo, isoko, ughelli and itsekiri.
pansophist: In the end, it is men that determine the kind of women they are attracted to, and on the flip side, it is also women that determine the kind of men they are attracted to.
Because men preferring younger women sounds ridiculous to her ears doesn't mean anything, it is men that get to decide the women they want to get married to.
Lots of broke guys are single not because they don't want a relationship, but because women exercised their right to choose their kind of man, and such broke men were not desired.
It is painful for men to know that in all their sophistication, circumstances beyond their control (eg lack of job due to bad economy) kept them single, but women don't care, That's his problem.
He can either fool himself and argue that women should marry broke men because he can also marry a broke woman. Oya claps for yourself man, you have made a very good point.
But sorry, women don't buy that shit. So either go out and change your circumstances, or keep whining, and winning the moral points.
And same applies to men, A woman may argue unto eternity why men prefer younger women, but men are the one that decides the women they want, not women. I don't have to go far as explaining why a younger woman is better,
But if a woman wants to have her ways easier with men, she should know when men want, and stop being arrogant and thinking you get to decide for men.
You could have spoken in any language but you chose to speak facts!
Dimaya: In another video that is going viral, a man is lamenting that his girlfriend will never find another lover like him because she decided to abort their baby against his wishes. She said since she was still awaiting university admission, she wasn't ready to be a mother
In response, he thinks it's a great thing to have kids early so that by the time they're in their late-thirties, the children are grown.
Please watch and let him know: is there anything a man can do to prevent a woman from aborting his pregnancy against the man's consent?
In another video that is going viral, a man is lamenting that his girlfriend will never find another lover like him because she decided to abort their baby against his wishes. She said since she was still awaiting university admission, she wasn't ready to be a mother
In response, he thinks it's a great thing to have kids early so that by the time they're in their late-thirties, the children are grown.
Please watch and let him know: is there anything a man can do to prevent a woman from aborting his pregnancy against the man's consent?
MrBrownJay1: both of you are deluded IGNORAMUS! as much as this woman was foolish enough to have had unprotected sex with you (if she wasnt prepared to get pregnant)... just because YOU wanted a baby, doesnt mean that she must have one against her will, regardless of how she feels about it. is it? its obvious her uni admission is more important TO HER than starting a family with you.
as for you saying that she will never find anyone better than you, its the DUMBEST thing you can possibly say. she doesnt care about you and/or what you desire, accept it and protect yourself in the future! she can easily find someone 1000 times better than you. claiming that you are the best man a woman can ever have is not only deluded, its the JOKE OF THE DAY!
Interesting. It depends on the quality of men in her circle.
In another video that is going viral, a man is lamenting that his girlfriend will never find another lover like him because she decided to abort their baby against his wishes. She said since she was still awaiting university admission, she wasn't ready to be a mother
In response, he thinks it's a great thing to have kids early so that by the time they're in their late-thirties, the children are grown.
Please watch and let him know: is there anything a man can do to prevent a woman from aborting his pregnancy against the man's consent?
why are you guys advising him not to go to Akwa ibom. I think at 22, you need to learn how to make it on your own.
Take your 1M and relocate to Akwa-Ibom.
1. You will spend 200k on accomodation. 2. The remaining 800k will last you a year if you can live on 2,200 per day. i.e. 2,200 X12 months =803,000.
Right now 2,200 food is not enough for a 22 year old man living in akwa-ibom unless he has a farm that he grows some of his foodstuff.
Based on the money you have, you will be able to survive in Akwa-ibom for one year under management conditions, but you wont be able to do anything else. No soap or toothpaste, no electricity bills, no recharge cards, no internet, no transport, no clothes, tv, or new shoes.
In short, your money will just keep you fed alone.
About the business you mentioned, Akwa-ibom men are just like anambara men. You can not do business with them as a stranger and make a profit. That bike will be stolen, and your POS shop will be robbed. If you doubt me, i'll advise you to test it out for a month.
Travel to akwa ibom for one month. You can find the corper's lodge and beg them to let you stay there. Go the market in uyo and buy a POS umbrella and chair. See how long you will stay in the market before someone chances you out of 100k.
If that doesn't happen within a month, you can then stay for one year. But if you experience it by the first week, cut your losses and return.
In a video that has gone viral, a lady narrates how her boyfriend broke things off after relocating to the United States and married a woman from over there. She says her ex-boyfriend now trapped in a loveless marriage and she doesn't know what to do?
Please watch and let her know: is there anything she could have done to keep the guy from breaking things off?
PoliteActivist: How can you possibly compare that to someone you ALREADY married. Ever heard of bigamy? Plus you already done all the exorbitant expenses in money and energy surrounding marriage. What do you think is part of reason people stay in a bad marriage? Also, someone may be having a hard time over there but don't wanna say so. I didn't watch video
PoliteActivist: MONEY! Why don't you people look at that? Will you give him the money to go through all the expenses of traditional marriage, flight tickets, logistics, visa expenses etc, meanwhile he won't have a wife till she relocates. He avoids ALL that by simply getting someone over there!
Are you saying that if he was already married, he will leave his wife in Nigeria because of money? Those same things you listed above will still apply even to a wife you've already married. And why can't people discuss it properly rather than just ghost themselves.
Didn't you hear the lady in the video saying he wasn't outright honest with her and tried gaslighting her into breaking things off?
Zigzagman: With the ongoing subsidy removal, most families are having to find ways to make ends meet.
In this viral video, the speakers analyze how an increase in the woman's earnings places extra stress on the men. The boss babe disagreed and got destroyed with hard facts. DO you agree? What has been your experience? Are you placed under stress if your wife out-earns you? Does your husband feel stressed because you out-earn him? How do you manage the stresses that money imbalance brings?
Please watch the video and let us know your thoughts.
This isn't new. It has been happening since time immemorial. Most women across the world can not keep calm when they start making more money than their man.
It is well known that women don't want to share their money with their husbands. Know this and know peace.
it's because the women become arrogant when they make more money than the man.
next!
Zigzagman: With the ongoing subsidy removal, most families are having to find ways to make ends meet.
In this viral video, the speakers analyze how an increase in the woman's earnings places extra stress on the men. The boss babe disagreed and got destroyed with hard facts. DO you agree? What has been your experience? Are you placed under stress if your wife out-earns you? Does your husband feel stressed because you out-earn him? How do you manage the stresses that money imbalance brings?
Please watch the video and let us know your thoughts.
WHy is it that once people travel out of Nigeria, they seem to always break up with the person they are dating in Nigeria?
Why?
In the video below, this lady narrates how her boyfriend broke things off after relocating to the United States and married a woman from over there? Is there anything she could have done to prevent things from ending? After all we always hear that western women don't make good wives and that African women are more traditional. So why won't folks work to keep their Nigerian relationships?
Please watch and let me know: is there anything she could have done to keep the guy from breaking things off?
Zigzagman: Okafor’s law is always paramount tho.. Infact, it’s very much alive here. The lady is wanting some d of that ex as we speak..
She was just young and naive. She should just move on and take the learning. She should stop blaming herself. That's the cross we as human have to bear especially women. Pray for divine intervention in marital affairs. Parents should also pray for the girl child after doing their best in upbringing Shalom
In a podcast video that has gone viral, a young lady commented that she held on to a 5yr relationship with a "lazy" man for no reason. He has been unemployed and broke for the past 5 years.
The story flips as she concludes that she now gets annoyed anytime she sees anyone expressing love over phone calls
Watch full the video above.
This right here is a problem…. She’s so full of herself.
Zigzagman: After my last experience in relationship, I will, don't go for looks or body features, you will end up regretting it...
Lmao your breakfast was hot ehn? This is just all talk for now when you move on you will go right back to your old ways.
There is a reason billionaires and millionaires go for pretty women. How a man’s woman look is a direct reflection on the man. That is why rich men like to take their pretty wives/gfs to lavish parties etc automatically there’s this level of respect that come with been seen with a pretty woman.
Zigzagman: When dem dey rush you market, if you get Sense sell am, make He no go be say customer go finish you go come dey regret why you no take some deals.