₦airaland Forum

socialmediaman:
OP I didn’t read what your sister had to say about the situation, or doesn’t she have a choice in this?

Does she have something going on for herself by the way? Ladies should learn to be more self sufficient before getting married, you should encourage your sister to do same. Starting a family is zero achievement if you can’t give those kids the best in life.

Having said that, if she’s going to depend on him in their marriage, then he better be able to provide for both of them and future family... and most people don’t have the greatest experience living with in-laws so make sure she understands that before making her decision

Inconclusive: define what you mean by the best don't mislead people here

This is not the place to find solution to that issue.
Trust nairalanders at your own peril

We forgot tradition that's why we are facing this mess. Why can't we marry into our family's house? Why can't we allow our families to fix our marriage? Why can't we stay in our parent's house till we make it? Why can't we marry before we finish school? Why can't men marry 2 and above women? No love? All these just needs adjustments not total eradication for western culture for all I know.
It's the eradication of these customs and traditions that is causing some good fine girls not to see husbands even after 35years. Those girls in the name of peer pressure will get themselves disvigined expose themselves to STI, start changing boyfriends, start finding rich guys to pay their bills while time is ticking. Imagine a single guy disvirgining 10 girls and dropping them after defiling them. How can you have sex with 14 men before marriage and expect your child to behave well for your husband? 14 men don climb u and an innocent child will use head pass through that vaults its wrong. May God help us all.

Fabulouzjoseph:
If it's serious then go to a hospital and conduct test. maybe it's sign of std or any other infection.

STD after wearing boxer? Ah go a read more sir!

These names are the problem LaI, kyaRI, GambaRI, BuhaRI. Theses people won't drive us to the RI.....

Ugly behavior from an ugly man

IGBO AMAKA

mrvitalis:
Lagos was built by Nigeria ...all major project was carried out by the federal government 3rd mainland bridge to the airport to the seaport

Yoruba claiming Lagos is like north claiming Abuja

If yorubas was hospitable as they want us to believe ...none yorubas would full ibadan ,abiokuta and other yoruba cities but that's not the case


Lagos is Nigerian project and that's a fact

In short Lagos belongs to ibos abi? While Abuja belongs to Ibos too? Oun to daa wu ole. Anyway I'm a Yoruba man i never claim Abuja. But ibo will claim south south, lagos and even Abuja ahah pray against coveting your brothers properties.

SLAP44:
I will be selling barrels of palm oil to you at our Biafran/Nigerian border at Ore

The border at Onitsha bridge you mean?? Don't covet your brother's properties. South-south is not igboland.

Leave while you can

If that fuel nor enter #40/litre I am unimpressed

She is more fertile than fertilizer and loamy soil. She is the goddess of fertility herself.

Buffalo soldiers come from America
I don't know the song's lyrics.

The driver can do it for him. Coronavirus was his last driver.

Mrfeel:
Both you Hausa's and Yoruba's united and did worse evil to Igbo's during Biafra war, whatever Igbo's do to you can never be compared to thee evil you did to them

It is called war. Two wrongs can't make a right. The war is over. Why are you still living in the past? Move on.

Panraannrann pon pon poranranran. Its not our household and. Family's portion in Jesus name.

LORDofODDS:
https://punchng.com/80-of-kano-coronavirus-samples-positive-buharis-panel/

A former ambassador. He also went for jumaat service while waiting for his coronavirus test. Ahhh ahhh in north we have 90% Educated illiterate. Now you have killed them all. That una stubbornness na him go finish una. The FINISHER

Local form of "The avengers"

Men no dey rape na animals dey rape. Olosho too plenty outside. Fine fine gals with shiny laps. With better mouth action and numerous diseases @ affordable prices.

Invest in the building.

My God please help us all. Shey we would now stay at home hungry ni? God please intervene

Is FCT Abuja a state in Nigeria? The death ratio is too high. We need intervention.

This Governor to me is the best in the history of Nigeria. I served in Anambra state. I am a Yoruba guy. I used to fear igbos before. But now my eyes are opened I understand they are the better part of Nigeria. Especially Anambra people. I love everything in Ekwusigo local govt. I love the Governor. God bless Nigeria.

Eulalia:
A disciplined man will wait. Besides penetration is not the only way of relieving/satisfying sextual desires. The woman can help with other methods to relieve the hubby. So many ways.

You are a woman. You don't have balls. You can never understand us. Abi who understand why male fowl runs after female fowl with no payments involved. It's called balls. Monogamy is a scam. There is nothing like discipline men. We all have testosterone-producing inside our blood. We need woman we don't care sometimes who the girl is. Our nature is not monogamy. Women don't worth the stress with all the problems you people dump on us. If not for sexual urge and procreation we won't go into the black market. Now, that we have crazy libido it puts you in advantageous position. Don't misuse it. Give what belong to caesar to caesar.

Holy mary!!! Blood of Nebuchaddenezar!!!!
God rescues the trapped amen.

Going by ur story u er in 200l now and her ex has a car. Lol. Shift first lemme talk to the gal. Sweetheart dump dis mugu. U have successfully used him to whirl away time. His future is uncertain babe japaa.

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Rickbronze:
It will always beat me every time as to why a man who hasn't achieved financial success is worrying/thinking about women. That's why I love naija girls, they'll put you in your place so fast your head will spin.

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Life is not always like that. Success before marriage is a mirage. Think deep. Life is what you define it as.

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Sex sex sex......

Lack of it causes wahala, too much of it causes wahala.

What I have learnt is, no matter how much it gets, if its done right, you won't get tired of it.
Have you talked to Oga, about the pain you feel ?
Maybe its your mindset ?
You could try opening your mind to enjoy it too, it would make a lot of difference.


If you see it as a chore, or "disturbance", you would end up feeling pain, because its not been done with the right frame of mind


Please tell oga to read my post here, you can read it too, it would help.

https://www.nairaland.com/5727914/not-been-able-sex-yet#87318647



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Ur husband has high libido
U have low libido obviously
Go and marry another man you will still complain. You better give to cesaer what belong to Cesar

Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

Something is not right about your mindset. Don't end up with 4 children with 4 different fathers.

You want the lockdown lifted here we go!!! Let's see who begs the government to lock it down.

Shut the Bleep up. Action and reaction are equal and opposite. Nothing good comes easy. They your lane. If an church u think say go give u rich man then go if na olosho business then do. None of them are easy. You cant expect person wey dey do juju steady to find men make him no see. Bible say seek u shall find. After all this men came to you and u turn them off in the name of decency. Now, then do juju make money come go for olosho. You still dey complain. Abeg waka make I pass.