₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: RegisterLoginWith GoogleTrendingRecentNew

Stats: 3,324,993 members, 8,419,846 topics. Date: Thursday, 04 June 2026 at 02:26 AM

Toggle theme

Divineappo's Posts

Nairaland ForumDivineappo's ProfileDivineappo's Posts

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 (of 78 pages)

BusinessRe: Which Business Can I Do With N300k As A School Teacher? by divineappo(m): 9:00pm On May 24, 2020
Kbs468:
indeed and in truth oooo

Although the money is in Bitcoin valued at $5,000,000 through an easy and straight forward way
u deserve a German slap
FamilyRe: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by divineappo(m): 6:54am On May 24, 2020
fulaniHERDSman:
Do not complicate your life. In life, the more simple, common and innocent, the better.
wow, this is a legendary advise. I will never forget this bro

U really spoke to me
BusinessRe: Which Business Can I Do With N300k As A School Teacher? by divineappo(m): 6:41pm On May 23, 2020
Kbs468:
if you are good in networking, I would have suggested that you visit my signature because with 10 people under you and each one connecting another 10, 10,000 people and only $2 can Land us $5,000,000

And I mean it
Lol

$5,000,000 indeed

Lol
BusinessRe: Which Business Can I Do With N300k As A School Teacher? by divineappo(m): 6:22pm On May 23, 2020
YADNUS11:
PAY UR TITHES first, very very important. Buy FG bonds open a Shop and start selling.
Lol

Very funny
Let me add to it: He should open the shop inside Mile-12 food market Lol
BusinessRe: Which Business Can I Do With N300k As A School Teacher? by divineappo(m): 5:09pm On May 23, 2020
ImmaculateJOE:
School bags and lunch box business..

Go to Young Shall Grow complex at Onitsha main market.. You will get it cheap there..
Be sure of 100k interest from goods worth 250k.
cool
HealthRe: Trump Sends 1,000 Ventilators To Nigeria by divineappo(m): 2:47pm On May 23, 2020
mark my word

the lady giving Buhari blowjobs, who is also the Minister for humanitarian affairs, she will sell the whole 1,000 ventilators
RomanceRe: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by divineappo(m): 11:22am On May 23, 2020
AkupeMBANO:
don't mind the Oloshi feeling funky! the girl na jobless thief with big eyes.
Lol

She is just like my ex

While I was earning #80k monthly and live in a room and parlor self contain, she was earning #32k monthly and living with her parents, she said we can't talk about marriage until I rent a two bed room flat and my monthly income hit #200k minimum

I was shocked. I thought she was kidding oo, she repeatedly told me she is Never kidding, she said she has big dreams. Later she needed #100k to start mini importation business (from my income she claimed was too low ooo). I gave my self brain immediately, I ended the relationship with the gold digger oooo

The bad mindset of some of these girls ehn, na wa
RomanceRe: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by divineappo(m):
Acmepreneur:
Well I know Shame wouldn't allow you to admit the truth on a public forum even if you did, anyway I just decided to support justice and fight injustice and thus if you were a rapist, you will be brought to justice. And that my loving boyfriend is 1m time better than you are, he doesn't spew thrashes or engage in social media wars like you do. In fact, he's extremely cool ended, comparing you both is an insult to him
ashawo, stop deviating from the real post u made

so ur boyfriend is now better? Lol
same boyfriend u brought to Nairaland for public discussion? I pray the guy dumps ur filthy ass and filthy pussy

U said ur boyfriend doesn't engage in social media wars, but u actually brought a war against your boyfriend on social media. Issues u could have quietly resolved with him, u brought it here to get validation why ur pussy is tired of an innocent hardworking young man

u are now tired of ur boyfriend because the lockdown affected his job

I av told u, las las, u go turn lesbian
Ashawo 20kobo
RomanceRe: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by divineappo(m): 11:04am On May 23, 2020
Op: U said he earns #90k per month.
Madam, how much do u earn per month? and are u doing your masters degree now?
Ashawo Gold digger we know ur type, las las, u go turn lesbian/Bitter Feminist
CareerRe: My 50-Year-Old Boss Shows Massive Cleavage Whenver We Meet, What Could She Want? by divineappo(m): 4:52am On May 21, 2020
Leece:
i sincerely dont want to do anything immoral with her, but we know how difficult it is to get a job especially with this covid drama, how do i keep my job and avoid this woman?
u already made up ur mind to bang her, why come on social media to tell us na?

rubbish
RomanceRe: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by divineappo(m): 11:24pm On May 17, 2020
funkmrflexx:
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.
Op: I do not pity your miserable destiny. Continue your foolish relationship with her.

Las las, we will read about your obituary on Nairaland after she uses anger & kitchen knife to stab your foolish heart to pieces

A useless girl spoke to your mum like that, and u are still considering remaining in the relationship with her. You are a big fool
FamilyRe: What Secret Is My Husband Hiding? by divineappo(m): 8:44pm On May 17, 2020
Mishydoo:
This is hateful and dumb,are you even educated?

What if he has a legit buisness he doesn't want you to know about? Granted people do scam but not everyone, you need to work on trusting him,else you will cause the end of your marriage and blame yourself!
a legit business?

this is the most senseless comment av read
FamilyRe: What Secret Is My Husband Hiding? by divineappo(m): 8:40pm On May 17, 2020
Tasha7:
Hello, I am a black woman born and raised in North America and married to an Igbo man. We have been in a long distance relationship for the majority of our relationship. We got married almost 2 years ago while still long distance and he recently immigrated to Canada in Jan 2020 under the spousal sponsorship. He has a wonderful bond with my mother and sisters. (my father has passed). I have met his family and we get along very well.

Everything was going well until I was looking up something in the search history of the laptop we both share and stumbled across emails he had recently accessed. Please note, I could not read the email itself, I could only see the subject lines in the search history. I will attach pictures if possible. It wasn't a normal email account like yahoo or Gmail. It was from a website called: Roundcube webmail. I had never heard of it before. Anyway, there were a bunch of emails forwarded from a hotel in Istanbul where people were being asked to pay their outstanding hotel bill (unfortunately I didn't take a screenshot of the hotel stuff). In addition to that, there were emails to 2 different women (named Wendy and Elizabeth) with the subjects: re: Thank you for written, re: back from customs baby, re: I am so happy our paths have crossed re: I am writing you with much sadness in my heart etc. I will try to attach the screenshots I took.

Lastly, within the same search history, my husband seemed to have been looking up songs like: 'what songs make a woman feel confident about herself' and 'what if I never get over you', and 'songs that make a woman feel beautiful'.

I confronted my husband that same night. It was 2am. He was already sleeping. I woke him up bc I wanted to catch him off guard. His explanation was that his friend in Cyprus had a bad internet connection and asked him (my husband) to look up something in his friends email account. He insisted that he had no idea what his friend was up to, as it was none of his business. In the process of me confronting him, he grabbed the laptop from me and deleted the search history. I told him that was making him look real guilty and I started packing my things to leave. He pleaded and insisted it had nothing to do with him, it was his friends email account blah blah blah. I wanted to believe him but some things just didn't add up...like why was he looking up those songs if he was just checking his friends email for him? His only saving grace was that the subject lines were written with poor grammar and my husband has excellent English speaking and writing skills.

Fast forward a few weeks later, my husband left the bathroom to put out the garbage and accidentally left his phone in the bathroom playing music. This is significant because he has never parted from his phone from the day he arrived. He sleeps with his phone beside him. He showers and uses the bathroom with his phone beside him. When he cooks, he keeps his phone beside him. The day in question, I went into the bathroom and locked the door shortly after he left the bathroom. Side note: I only lock the door bc sometimes he jokingly sneaks up on me to scare me while I am in the shower, so to avoid being snuck up on, I sometimes lock the door. I digress. I commenced using the bathroom when I noticed that hubby left his phone on the side of the bathtub with Nigerian gospel music blasting. I was shocked! It was the first time he was separated from his phone! I didn't touch his phone and started using the bathroom. Within 15 seconds, my husband started knocking on the door saying he really needed to use the bathroom and wanted me to open the door. He was saying he really needed to pee. I asked him to hold a minute, because I was on the toilet. He said he didn't believe me and then things escalated from there. He started pounding really hard on the bathroom door, demanding that I open the door because he really needed to pee. He was eventually pounding so hard and yelling to the point where he started to lose his voice! I was freaked out! I told him to hold on and I would be done in a minute! But he wouldn't listen and eventually broke open the bathroom door by force...there is literally a large crack down the bathroom door now. I was shocked. Beyond words. Once he broke down the door, he quickly did a scan of the bathroom and saw his cellphone was right where he left it. I didn't touch it. Then he was more calm. He then reiterated that he really needed to pee and went into the shower, pulled the curtain and turned on the water.

I started freaking out. I started yelling telling him that he was a liar and if there was any doubt in my mind he was hiding something, I need not doubt it anymore! He broke down the bathroom door NOT because he really nedded to pee, but because he was so terrified I was going to snoop through his phone! Of course he denied it. He was saying that if that was the case, the first thing he would have done is grab his phone. I responded saying that he's not stupid, if he grabbed his phone first, it would have made him look guilty. After that blow up, we stopped talking to each other for days...

And here I am today. If anyone could provide me insight into what is going on, I would be so appreciative. What is this hotel stuff and what are these msgs to multiple women? I am thinking he may be involved in a 419 scam or his friend is a yahoo boy....but why is he using such poor grammar when he speaks and writes excellent English?

I am so stressed over all of this that it is literally consuming my every thought. My husband only denies everything and gets defensive then ignores me if I keep pushing for answers. Outside of this incident he is incredibly loving and affectionate and treats my mother so well. He cares so much about what she thinks of him.

I have turned to this forum with the hopes that someone would have more insight into what is going on. Thank you so much to anyone who has taken the time to read this very long post and respond. I truly appreciate it. Again, I attached photos, but scratched out names just in case.

Thank you,

Tasha
Take this advise. u need to go undercover. Act like u are sorry. Apologize to him, Ask him to forgive u for doubting him. He needs to trust you, if he does. Then he will make a mistake, that mistake will help u discover what he is hiding. He would trust u to the point of dropping off his phone again someday or doing something that will give u hint
FamilyRe: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by divineappo(m): 12:53pm On May 17, 2020
samicine:
Greetings one and all. I'll try to make my lamentation as short as possible.

My mother accused me of stealing her 2k, but I assure you, I didn't. The money got missing on Thursday night according to her and my 13 year old brother. I won't do such a thing, because the times are hard and the pandemic is fueling this hard times. I'm not lazy, I kind of work from home, I write for opera news hub and to some extent I get money from there, currently I have 19k in my account. I have no motive of taking her money, but she insists I took it, and is currently threatening to throw me out of the house.

This is not the first time such thing has happened. When I was still in secondary school, money got missing often and she'll blame me, beat me and starve me for stealing her money, but God helped me and the culprit was found, my other brother was caught, he is 18 now and doesn't stay with us anymore. He stays with my dad. She never apologized for what she did and the scars of that emotional and physical abuse still ripples across my body. But this time I'm not sure I will forgive her if the money is found. I'm planning on leaving home and starting my life somewhere, it's hard, it might just be my naivety speaking, but I need your advice.

The only skill I have is writing and web designing, which I'm almost getting good at. I just need help and guidance. I'm a 200level student and I major in psychology. I'll be 21 by November.
hi bro, I sent u a DM, pls reply pls
HealthRe: My Experience As A Covid 19 Survivor. by divineappo(m): 4:43pm On May 15, 2020
nairamaniac:
Op pls dont answer this.

Tell him to be patient, when/if he gets infected, he would know the drugs.
that's a stupid response

Many people are infected in some states, and the NCDC guys in those states will never pick their calls. In situations like that, don't you think adequate info about drugs to use, will help that person treat himself while in isolation?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by divineappo(m): 2:26pm On May 15, 2020
evansjeff:
Recently I've been very bothered about myself. I'm a guy of around 30 but some things that still worry my heart is really disturbing. I will start like this.

1. Something embarrassing happened some time last year when I travelled home for visit. They bought a goat and was looking for who to kill it, me knowing I'm the most senior man at home jejely went into ghost mode, everyone started looking for me, in the end I had to come out but shamelessly told them I can't kill it. They had to call a 16 year old opposite neighbour to do it while my younger ones helped him hold the goat. I couldn't even stand the sight of seeing the goat struggling for life while receiving knife in the throat. I left there immediately.

2. You might think it's normal for goat until I tell you that I can't kill a chicken or rat, last Christmas, I badly wanted to buy a life chicken because I beleive it's more healthy, but who will kill it? Bae was around, I don't want any embarrassment so I jejely bought frozen chicken . There is a wall gecko strolling around my room for weeks now, but I can't kill it, it becomes embarrassing any time I have a visitor

3. The most recent is, there are two birds trying to build a house in my lobby, I kept destroying the house but they didn't give up, it got to a point, I felt bad for the poor birds, what if they don't have a house? what if I'm the one building a house with all my strength and government keeps destroying it? I had to leave them to build. My neighbour said he killed the birds that tried doing that in his house but me can i do that? No. i just tire.

4. Lastly, When travelling and there's an accident, people rush out to watch but I dare not else the trauma will remain for months, I can't stand the sight of blood and body cuts.

Any time I think about killing an animal, I ask myself, what if I'm the one being held by boko haram or killer herdsmen and about to be slaughtered? How excruciating the pain can be.

Any time I think about crushing a cockroach, I ask myself, what if I'm the one trying to cross the high way and dangote trailer crushes me?

So guys, am I normal? Do I need to see a doctor or a psychologist?
some acclaimed soft hearted guys like you can easily break an innocent girls heart and yet can't kill cockroach
Christianity EtcRe: I Had A Dream, A DHL Cargo Plane Crash Into My Compound by divineappo(op): 6:18pm On May 14, 2020
Kobojunkie:
Do you also seek interpretation of every other nightmare you have? Or was this the one that dug deepest into your bones? grin wink cheesy
have u seen any other thread I created about a dream before? or u just trying to sound funny?

Swerve abeg
HealthRe: COVID-19 Patient Dies In Delta State by divineappo(m): 5:22pm On May 14, 2020
slyfoxxjoe:
CNN just reported Covid 19 may never go away. We just have to live and deal with it like another strain of the seasonal flu we all get.

These lockdowns and curfews are pointless. The lockdown strategy in America was so that the virus does not overwhelm their healthcare system at once. They started reopening as soon as the number of cases reached a manageable level. What’s our own reason for lockdown when we have zero healthcare in Nigeria to begin with? We just dey do copy copy with no strategy behind it.

Let people go about their business and trust them to practice good hygiene. Those who are foolish will contract the virus and perhaps they deserve it. Experience is the best teacher after all.
our own reason for lockdown is because, Buhari is getting bank alert from international organizations, bail out, financial support.

For Buhari, since crude oil price has fallen, lockdown financial aid, is the new source of income. we av a bambiala president
FamilyRe: I Was A Husband: My Experience by divineappo(m): 5:13pm On May 14, 2020
Vyolet:
Everytime a woman leaves a poor man or reacts badly to him, the man always end up having a well paying job and the woman always want to come back...
Op, you forgot to write the part where she is willing to come back and live with you in Lekki grin cheesy.
thunder fire her smelly pussy if she even beg to return to the marriage

Such a woman doesn't deserve forgiveness
PoliticsRe: Buhari Meets Service Chiefs At Presidential Villa by divineappo(m): 4:56pm On May 14, 2020
from the moment Abba Kyari was declared positive (before he died), all the pics of the president since that time, he doesn't wear face mask in the midst of people

This is strange
RomanceRe: Help! A Brother Is About To Make The Biggest Mistake Of His Life. by divineappo(m): 11:15pm On May 13, 2020
Norman4real:
very cunning ideas you got here... grin grin
Unfortunately I don't stay with him and only see him rarely. We talk on phone often but I think I'll need to sit him down face to face if he's to see the light
follow the cunning ideas he gave u

Apply wisdom bro

if u go talk to him again, by the time u come back to apply those ideas, he will know u are behind it

Help ur brother, he may not reward u, but its the right thing
PoliticsRe: COVID-19: Lagos Lockdown Online Vote by divineappo(m): 10:04pm On May 13, 2020
Seun:
Salary earners who have not lost their jobs yet, single people who work online, essential workers, etc, will vote yes. Most others would vote no.

A lockdown is the most brainless way to fight the Coronavirus. Our leaders need to use their wits and imagination to figure out better, smarter ways.

We cannot afford to wreck the economy by locking it down. If we wreck the economy then where will we get the money needed to fight the virus?

Yet, we cannot afford to allow lots of people to get sick and be killed by the virus. The fear of being infected is enough to wreck the economy.

The only way forward is to use face-masks and enforce science-based infection minimization rules to protect lives and also protect the economy.

It is crucial to understand that, as a poor country with a large population, we don’t have the luxury of choosing between saving lives and saving the economy. We must get people back to work, and we must keep them safe.
pls send me your number, we need to discuss how we can move this nation forward

Lol
Christianity EtcRe: I Had A Dream, A DHL Cargo Plane Crash Into My Compound by divineappo(op): 1:03pm On May 13, 2020
paulGrundy:
good then that's the interpretation of your dream. it is only a plane that is directionless or the pilots is not trained, that would crash into a compound. probably that's what your dream is trying to tell you.
Lol

I hear you
Christianity EtcRe: I Had A Dream, A DHL Cargo Plane Crash Into My Compound by divineappo(op): 1:02pm On May 13, 2020
Kobojunkie:
You had a nightmare!
Do you work at DHL or did you happen to see a DHL delivery man recently? Did you see a DHL delivery van or plane recently? It is nothing out of the ordinary
nope
Christianity EtcRe: I Had A Dream, A DHL Cargo Plane Crash Into My Compound by divineappo(op): 7:10pm On May 12, 2020
paulGrundy:
whenever you have a dream that you don't understand, you ask the Holy Spirit for interpretation or you meet someone that has the gift of dream interpretation to interpret it for you. When it comes to dreams, there's no laid down rules or guidelines 2 meaning of dreams. it is the Holy Spirit who gives it to man that also gives the understanding of it.

To your dream, I see you as someone who has this indifferent disposition towards life. this kind of " whatever will be will be" person am I right?
Lol
am not that type of person

I believe the fate of a man lies in his hands
PoliticsRe: Buhari Appoints Ibrahim Agboola Gambari As New Chief of Staff by divineappo(m): 3:54pm On May 12, 2020
chloedogie:
Truth is Buhari has so many surprises in his sleeve. Wouldn't have ever thought someone from Kwara will be his chief of staff. That office is like the soul of the president. I am now believing the news I read few days back that a new cabal is cropping up.

To those who called president Buhari an ethnic bigot, bubu don surprise you oooo.
And to those who says he is too found of old people, baba don show say una dey correct cos the man na 75 years old.

My conclusion, he has a good biography and I pray he pledges his allegiance to both the president and the nation as a whole. May God help you do good and not be caught up in the politics and become useless AMEN.

And may he have the courage to tell the president whenever he is making a wrong decision or being advised to make a wrong decision.

And to those wishing Buhari dead, just pray you live as old as him o cos the man no dey die yet o and people that thought they will outlive him are gone and some terribly sick now ooooooo. May we all live long and may God bless the federal republic of NIGERIA. AMEN.

And to think he will go to the territory and abode of SARAKI to pick his new chief of staff baffles me ooooo.
there is nothing amazing about picking someone from kwara. This is their candidate, it just simply happened he came from kwara. He wasn't picked because he is from Kwara

If he was from Sokoto, he would still be the one.
CelebritiesRe: IG Withdraws E-money’s Police Escort, Orders His Probe by divineappo(m): 3:50pm On May 12, 2020
if u believe E-money's real source of wealth is legit, then u are the biggest fool

But las las, this is Nigeria, E-money will settle people with his ill gotten wealth, and he will be allowed to walk free, probe wil be swept under the carpet, except there is strong force in this regime that is hellbent on destroying him. Just like Evans the kidnapper, those who ordered his arrest knew about him for years. They had a fallout with him, and he became expendable

Even those who want to probe E-money are criminals

In summary, Nigeria is irredeemable abeg
Christianity EtcRe: I Had A Dream, A DHL Cargo Plane Crash Into My Compound by divineappo(op): 3:33pm On May 12, 2020
paulGrundy:
do you work with a courier company?
Lol nope
RomanceRe: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by divineappo(m): 12:20pm On May 12, 2020
Crazeman03:
Hello Nairalanders, Hope you guys are staying Safe. Please don't mind my writing, I will make it short as possible.

I met this wonderful lady Last year and everything has been going good until 7 months ago when she told me she was Hiv+. That hit me hard but that didn't change anything, she was surprised I didnt react and opening up to me didn't scare me because I'm negative though we haven't had sex yet before the moment.

Now it has been 4 months we've been having unprotected sex. I'm not afraid of contracting the virus, as she keeps taking med and her viral load is low. I made sure before we went for test before having unprotected sex. Her CD4 count is above 750 and viral load is below 20, which makes hiv undetectable in her.

Now one night around 3months ago, she woke me up in the middle of the night to ask me, why do I love her knowing fully well about her status because she could not believe she will ever have a relationship with someone negative not even in this Nigeria by the way they stigmatize hiv+ people. I told her the reason and I'm not afraid hiv is not the worse or the baddest of diseases. There are more killer diseases than HIV and HIV is not a diseases but a virus. Only attack your immune system and its no longer a deadly virus.

The problem I have now is that whenever I imagine myself having it and how I will popping drugs everyday, make me kinda moody towards her, because I always keep telling her to always take her drugs. Last night she discovered she is pregnant and I'm just imagining things how everything will play out, I know when she will put to bed she won't be able to breastfeed. People will ask questions. I really need to tell someone in my family but I don't know who. My mom my react and the other person I trust is my younger sister.

On her own part, only her elder sister and brother knew she has the virus. And she had it since 2007.

I only need an advice if I need to tell any member of my family, looking to settle down with her this October.
bro, Do NOT tell your family members, I repeat, do NOT tell ur family members

You wil regret it. Let it remain a secret between you and your girl since u said u truly love her

Also, consult your doctor for counseling as per the breastfeeding thing. There is always a solution
Christianity EtcRe: I Had A Dream, A DHL Cargo Plane Crash Into My Compound by divineappo(op): 11:22am On May 12, 2020
Zoharariel:
Since you did not specify the exact day the dream was revealed to you, I will just give you a random, albeit accurate interpretation.

The celestial body is just like a kingdom.

The Sun is the king among the planets with the rest acting as aids & advisors.

The Moon is the minister of state & the keeper of the covenant of the ruler.

Mercury is the king's scribe.

Saturn is the guardian of the vaults & treasury, as well as the General over the army & police.

Venus is both the queen & the maidens that serve the king.

Jupiter is the court's judge and master of fortune & finance.

Mars is the king's executioner & foot soldier.

Now, you posted your dream enquiry on Nairaland yesterday (Sunday) and since you said you had the dream "a few days ago", it means Sunday is out of the equation.

1.) Let's start with Saturday. If you had this dream on Saturday, it means - it was revealed to you from the Celestial Orbit of Saturn.

Saturday is the most Dangerous Day of the week, followed by Tuesday. It is dangerous because it is ruled by the planet of Saturn, and Saturn is ruled by the no-nonsense King's Army Chief - Kasfiel (aka Nin-Urta, Udu-Idim-sagus, Kayamanu, Shabbathai, Kevan, Zuhal & Kronos).

Kasfiel is the supervisor of all the celestial sovereigns.

If you were cheated, maltreated or wronged in anyway and you demand justice, invoke Saturn or Kasfiel on a Saturday before midnight and his judgement comes swiftly in form of death or total annihilation.

Saturn is the ruling planet of Capricorn.

Relative to your dream; A DHL cargo plane delivers cargo (goods or produce).

Saturn delivers Karmic Justice, Wealth (after you must have suffered & shed your karmic loads) and then Discipline.

It's either you have wronged an entity (could be a person or a company) and you will be served hot karmic justice.

Or

You will suffer a loss of Wealth or Fortune as a result of something you have done to an entity.

Nevertheless, since the parts of DHL plane that fell on your rooftop did not penetrate into your room, you will not die.

Note: Disregard this dream if it was not revealed to you on a Saturday.

2.) Friday. If this dream was revealed to you on a Friday, that means it came directly from the Celestial Orbit of Venus.

Venus is both the Queen & the maidens that serve the King, and she is ruled by Anael (aka Ishtar, Nin-si-anna, Delebat, Nogah, Zuhra, Zohreh & Aphrodite).

Venus is the ruling planet of Libra & Taurus.

Relative to your dream; A DHL cargo plane delivers cargo (goods or produce).

Venus delivers Love, Attraction, Fertility, Beauty & Harmony.

I am afraid you will lose the love of someone that is dear to you.

Or

Someone very dear to you will no longer find you lovable & attractive - and will replace you with someone else.

Or

A woman you have impregnated will lose her pregnancy.

Note: Disregard this dream if it was not revealed to you on a Friday.

3.) Thursday. Hmmm! One of my favourite days. If this dream was revealed to you on a Thursday, that means it came directly from the Celestial Orbit of Jupiter.

Jupiter is the court's judge and master of fortune & finance, and is ruled by Sarfiel (aka Bel Marduk, Mul-sag-megar, Neberu, Tzedek, Moshtari & Zeus).

Jupiter is the ruling planet of Sagittarius.

Relative to your dream; A DHL cargo plane delivers cargo (goods or produce).

Jupiter delivers Wealth, Affluence, Benevolence & Opulence.

I am afraid you will suffer the loss of Wealth, Benevolence or Affluence.

Note: Disregard this dream if it was not revealed to you on a Thursday.

These, Sire - are the interpretations of your dream. grin

While I was typing this comment, I don't know why this story I had read some years ago kept coming to me but I'll share it anyways.

Louis XI (1423 - 1483), The great Spider King of France, had a weakness for astrology.

He kept a court astrologer whom he admired, until one day the man predicted that a lady of the court would die within eight days.

When the prophecy came true, Louis was terrified, thinking that either the man had murdered the woman to prove his accuracy or that he was so versed in his science that his powers threatened Louis himself.

In either case, the astrologer had to be killed. grin

One evening, Louis summoned the astrologer to his room, high in the castle. Before the man arrived, the king told his servants that when he gave the signal, they were to pick the astrologer up, carry him to the window, and hurl him to the ground - hundreds of feet below.

The astrologer soon arrived, but before giving the signal, Louis decided to ask him one last question: "You claim to understand astrology and to know the fate of others, so tell me what your fate will be and how long you have to live."

"I shall die just three days before Your Majesty," the astrologer replied.

The king's signal was never given. The man's life was spared.

The Spider King not only protected his astrologer for as long as he was alive, he lavished him with gifts and had him tended by the finest court doctors. grin
simply means the astrologer knew what the king had planned to do. So he used his brain to save his life. He was smart enough to tell a smart lie. In summary, the astrologer used his mind/brain to determine his fate.

The fate of a man lies in his hands
FamilyRe: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by divineappo(m): 10:25pm On May 11, 2020
Nwodosis:
It is obvious you are not the talking type but the writing type, we have read your version, how do we get your husband's version? There is no smoke without fire!
this is a very sweet and intelligent response

We really need the second version
Car TalkRe: Toyota Corolla Or Mini Bus Suzuki. Which One Is Suitable For Transport Business? by divineappo(m): 10:13pm On May 11, 2020
Olunmercy56:
I love that Toyota is okay and durable, I have many friends using it. I pray that God will send helpers to buy it for me.
can I drop my bank account number? so I can buy it for you

Lol

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 (of 78 pages)