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I av been reading a statement here, repeatedly used by different users on this forum that:

"you both had your past, so you have to forgive each other and move on"

This is damn wrong, 100% wrong.

Point of Correction:
If you are in a relationship today, you do not need to apologize for your past, except you killed his/her family member in the past unknowingly or knowingly. I can't be apologizing to a current girlfriend about how I had sex with a girl in my past or how I received Mouth Gig or how I lived a couples life with my ex while in school. Apology for what?

Openness, Honesty and Sincerity should be valued and appreciated, instead of demonizing a girl/guy that was open enough to trust you & tell u her past.

In relationship, if you both chose to discuss your past, its simply a discussion to understand each other well. There is no need to apologize for how you banged ur ex, and gave him different style. You should only apologize if you have committed a crime

horpigee1:
I will mention few.

both parties would try different type of sex styles. e.g *doggy, girl ontop, prison break, fingering and lots.
*the lady will surely suck his d!ck
*the guy will surely suck her breast
*both will bath together, every night
*they would bang themselves like mad on the night of their last semester exam.
*they would engaged in series of abortion

Any guy who is having a second thought about his girl because he discovered she lived a couples life with a guy in school years back, the guy is not only silly but also an idiot

For goodness sake, the past is in the past

The only reason I can end such relationship is, if the girl is still emotionally attached to her ex. I can't be banging my legally married wife and in the middle of it all, she is having an image of another guy in her mind

Op:

Both of you are silly

The guy:
Why are u angry she lived with a guy while In school? why is that an headache to you now? this is just insane, so u are simply angry her ex enjoyed her body alot on steady basis 24/7 while she was in school, and u feel her body is a left-over of what her ex had done justice to, u are silly.

As for the lady, she is still in love with her ex, most probably because many girls have a soul-tie towards the guy that deflowered them. If that guy approach her secretly, she will still wanna bang him probably

In summary, both of you should just end your silly relationship, because u are both silly and not serious for each other yet

looks like a fabricated story, I don't even trust the weblink/source of this news

I know that they fabricate stories a lot, they know Nigerians won't bother to verify

The story, something doesn't add up

they should test his teeth, the destiny of the yoruba race is hidden there. the virus could hide there too

Beremx:
While 20k is being shared in the north west and north east and given a bag of foreign rice each, every other part of Nigeria is given expired food items.

The north will still remain POOR!

and we have some idiots up south defending this useless government

ValCon888:
These animals were the real bad guys back in the day. Man was just a tasty snack like bush rat and life was like living in a nightmare.

Back then, a 40yr old man was considered a very old man because the mortality rate was so high.

If not for the Chicxulub Event, human beings (Homo Sapiens) would not be the Apex predator that they are today.

I remember that period vividly, at age 7, I use to go hunting wild animals with friends, life was really fun that time. The eldest man with us then was very jovial and friendly, a vegetarian, died at 70. He taught me lots of things, including how to live long, he predicted Seun will create Nairaland, and Lalasticlala will keep promoting snake posts

Pls where am I self? Am so bored, dis lockdown should end jare

the video editor is currently working, forging out the video they wil play on NTA

Useless people

cause of death not disclosed because it is corona virus, and the governor already ordered that the corona virus death figures be kept secret

Am in kano, cemetery officials av been asked not to speak with journalist about numbers of burial per day

If its not corona virus, why is the useless governor demanding #15billion to fight corona virus

if its lassa fever, why is he not saying he wants to fight lassa fever?

Nonsense

Blossomfirst:
Coronavirus. Kano is covering figures

yes oo

even the indigenes confirmed to me that the death is more than the figures we hear of

Very sad

Tolani0167:
Most of these pastors are con artist with my personal experience

"with your personal experience "

U trained the fake pastors?

exaggerated figures

WHO is compromised, and being heavily funded by those who actually created the virus

sarrki:
In as much as you are trying to make a point

The truth is you are not making sense

Am sure in your family 95% of them can’t have good testimonies about you

he is making sense, ur inability to read and comprehend English language is the problem, or probably the virus had infected your brain

this guy is an idiot

How can u make such suggestion on LIVE TV.

Such silly suggestion should have been done privately, so that the medical experts can correct him privately

Nonsense

Dganji:
More than ever am not happy with my mom.

I have this younger sister who was adopted by my dad from his younger sister (her father is late), she's just 10 years of age and I really don't like my mom's attitude towards that little girl. In the past when i was much younger, my mom had many quarrels with the mother of my adopted sister which I really can't give accurate count on who's right or wrong, but for the record my aunty (younger sis mom) is very troublesome no doubt.

She started living with us June last year and I noticed she's always very happy when me or my dad comes home. I was thinking it was because we were very nice to her, not knowing the kind of pressure she was going through at home.

Several occasions I have seen my mom saying too many harsh words to that little girl which I am not comfortable with but I've had to keep my calm. I feel reacting would make my mom hate her more as she might feel the little girl has turned her children against her.

The saddest part of it is that our last born who's 15 years is taking the same part with my mom in frustrating that little girl. Today Ilost my cool and reacted and truth is I'm not willing to continue keeping calm again.

My immediate younger brother (we are 3 boys and no girl) decided to start taking this my little sister out for jugging cos she's too fat. She always returns home crying cos of the pressure they put on her to jug. My mom on hearing her cry today came out and started beating her and saying hatefull words to her, including insulting her mom, calling her mom names which honestly would get any child angry if they are told same about their parent.

Out of annoyance I got up and shouted at my mom to leave her alone that it's becoming too bad for her as a mother to treath children like that. Instantly my mom kept calm and guilt was written all over her face. I'm honestly not happy about disrespecting my mom but I'm no longer keeping my calm.

There was a time when my dad had to take similar action against my mom and it didnt go well for anybody, the little girl suffered more hate from my mom and my dad wasnt really happy with my mom that period.

Returning that little girl back to her mom is never an option as the environment where her mom is very negative and would no doubt worsen her situation.

Talking to my mom calmy about it has been done by me and my immediate younger brother but problem still persists.

My worries are.
1, the little girl
2, my youngest brother who is taking after my mom
3 me disrespecting my mom.

Nairalanders your advice would be appreciated on this situation. I already have what to do in mind already but I will love to hear from those who have experienced similar situation and how best to handle it.

keep shouting on your mum whenever she does all that to the little girl, defend that child always, right now, you are all she's got, u must protect her

if u don't protect her, God wil punish you

Lorazepam:
Yes i do The virus is very real

but NCDC figures is not real
Simple

Oga tell us the truth, u hyped or fabricated this "7hours of sex" story in order to get interested customers to order the burantashi from you

Nothing do u sha, How market now?

Ariyatech:
With little experience I have gathered around me it's a good advice for a man to go for a woman that is younger in age than that of 30years and above


1. 30years old lady may not agree to adjust her attitude to an extend

Marriage is all about learning, and the best time to learn is when you are still tender, for instance imagine you at the age of 30 learning how to solve quadratic equations how do you think you can learn it without forgetting it within few days or how challenging it might seem to you

Character modification is best done when you are much younger so a 30years old woman who doesn't know how to respect her husband will never learn that after 30years



2. 30years old woman might have exhausted the extra oil

Do you actually know the meaning of 30 Years? , that's simply means 30men in her life, but in most cases there are few one that are reserved though.

But when it comes to those women with much experience is difficult for them to stay under you without comparing you with ex boyfriends

FULL DE
https://www.kogipress.com/2020/04/before-you-marry-woman-above-30-years.html?m=1

are u based in Kogi? I av an enquiry as per Kogi state

A female egungun with rusted and over bloated pussy is about to cross express

lies, the figures are just exaggeration

Corona virus is real, but they are inflating figures to create more fear, and justify lockdown. Trump knows the truth, that's why he is working on reopening economy

Bastards. I was deceived, now I know the truth

after he surrenders, Buhari will grant him amnesty, he wil be given a mansion in Ikeja area of Lagos

someday, he will run for president

Useless country

Nat404:
Very true. One thing about female medical students is that you need to always keep them on their toes. But unfortunately, the OP didn't do that.

exactly my brother

The truth is, we have more girl breaking the hearts of innocent guys, only that, we guys don't often come to social media to shed tears, we accept our fate and move on. Also considering the fact that the global population of women is triple of men

There are more wicked, heartless, and loveless girls out there. most of them are all after the money. That's why I don't pity many of them who are still single @ 32

Maobichek:
. Dear, I must encourage you to be strong, time heals wounds like this. I made this mistake despite friends warning me that it's not good to use money as a bargain for love, I even attempted commiting suicide but God saved me. Go close to God cos He alone understand clearly how and where it pains you most. The food you like or any other thing you enjoy doing, do it. I'm now with a beautiful damsel who does not give me pressure and even if I didn't give her money, she still loves me, God will help you, Time heals this kind of wound ok.

this is the best comment and advise I av seen on Nairaland this year.

I will screenshot this. I won't talk further

I learnt a big lesson today

let me tell the bitter truth, she played you from around 200-300level, from that time, she already knew she will dump you las las, she played you. she is a smart and wicked girl, she never really loved you.

She had no intention of learning how to plait hair, she wanted to extort u finally probably, and abscond, she already prepared her excuse that her mum wanted her to come home, even before asking for the money.

Bro, u were played by a smart and wicked girl. Find peace, encourage urself and move on

How can you claim u love a guy, and for almost 4-5years, u didn't know ur mum/parents won't accept him. Na lie

She has another guy, whom she loves more dearly.

Adeboye - the text book definition of a Religious Con-man, wolf in sheep clothing

he is locking down the girl

Amotolongbo:
Guys in the street are not smiling o.

Nairaland babes sha.

When they just uploaded sexy pictures on their nairaland profile, that is when you start seeing them creating threads that provokes guys into checking their profile

the Op was even displaying the pussy part of her body, and yet telling us of how guys don't listen to her message but want romance

Op, ur do is already seducing us.

Hypocrite

remaining Buhari insha Allah

the question is, does she love you? are u just want to marry her because she sabi Bleep?

What is the real reason u want to marry her?

Also, stop judging her. I can marry a prostitute, if she loves Me, gives me her word that she want to quit the life, if am personally convinced she truly wants to quit that life and settle down, if am convinced she loves me, what else should stop me

Bros, if she loves u, love her too, love is all that matters

that's where okoya gives her doggy

zukky79:
Wow. Trust Nigeria and Nigerians to be involved.

Boys want to cash out big via COVID 19. Too much spare time because of lockdown.

in as much as I don't support fraud

But Buhari & Nigeria's federal govt is also cashing out big time

Ilefoaye:
good move.
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