OP Just go for DNA, thanks to God you have the fund and pls make sure you do it on all your kids, with that you will confirm the Paternity of the children.
And more so you are the one that repent and have a forgiven heart, your wife might not be the same.

I keep telling people, if you have cheated on your partner the best is to change and keep it to yourself most especially men, ladies will only want to retaliate after you most have confess.

Your wife might not even love you in the first instance maybe she just use you as a stepping up to upgrade her life. baba go for DNA and if you found out that the kids or kid is not yours, i will advise you divorce her instantly or did you put her name in all your properties.
For a woman to cheat and still keep it or pretends as if noting happened then my brother that woman can definitely kill you.

I detest a cheating woman.

Good afternoon all,

Please i will like to know if any UK Universities have started admission for September 2024 intake M.Sc..

Kindly help with list Schools closer to London or Schools in London and a cheap one with deposit below 3000pounds.

Thanks

And you think this is best for the country, we all pray for better Nigeria yet we don’t want the change we all clamoring to witness. And how long do we continue to live in fear just because of fear of unknown. Yoruba do says “miolewaku kan okin je oye idile baba eni” meaning if you are afraid of death you cannot contest for a position in your father’s land.

Okealaaye:
No one disallows the youngster who would be leprous to so do, so long he's unafraid of living in the evil forest all by himself! Let Folarin Falana continue in the folly of showing the way to his Father's house with the index finger of his left hand. Na on Sunday e go know say Saturday no be day of rest.

The thing is that the policy is a good one, but Things like this will not work in a zoo country like Nigeria,
Those bank Managers was the first to sabotage the policies.
Our politicians are the second set of people.
And we the masses too.
Can you imagine i wanted to enter bus at oshodi to tollgate the driver said he will not collect transfer and i met a woman selling gala, she said i must buy 500 naira gala add extra 200 before she can give me cash of 1000. So can you now see that we the masses too are the set of people that make the policy difficult.
We always like to take advantage of each other.
The main fact is that there is no love at all in this country.

As long as your mum is a single mother, no matter who ever you bring to that house your mum will always feel reluctant to accept her even if she is the most religious, that second person comment says it all.
Most single women that raise children and not even a children you are the only child, bro if care is not taking you might never get married if you continue to listen to your mum on marriage aspect cos she will always feel any lady you marry will tends to be her rival.
You know the girl, watch her, study her and pray then if all you see is positive vibe bro kindly proceed with your marriage toward her.
Always use your brain...

I see many people telling you bolt all the way bolt this bolt that, my brother pls and pls never run your car on bolt every time everyday and never run your car all day, what they will fail to tell you is that those that make bolt their daily and all time work will always look for cash to repair their car when they need maintenance, a car that you drive daily will require more repair than a car that you drive ones or twice a week, the best advise i can give is never to quit your 50k work but you can run bolt for weekend, do this for like a year then you will know if you are to quit your work or quit bolt. And some people are saying that driving bolt will make you a free man bro, that is a fact lie if you are driving bolt and you did not meet up with driver scores and confirmation rate bro bolt will block you and might not open your account again.

if truly what you are saying is true then i bet you if you get married to her, you will definitely regret the rest of your life.

You are seeing the red light yet you still want to continue with this kindly of relationship.

Mr man you better run for your dear life if you love yourself.

If you love your life go and burn the ATM card, that card might be dropped by thief and you want to take it to bank in this current situation of Nigeria. I pity you. If you know you actually want to do good for that person just put fire and burn it.

How sure are you that he is truly ready for a change, maybe he is broke and he needed your help but knows you wont do it until you see some changes in him.
before you try to put him in any learning process, i will advise you first test him otherwise street guys are difficult to change
if you put him in a learning process and Oga talk to him anyhow you wont be surprise that he might stab the Oga or anyone that makes him angry.
First is to try and rehabilitate him because for him to grow up in the street till 24 nobi beans

Are you married? If yes build a house but if no brother look for all possible means to go to USA that will be the best for you, when you get there get marry to a citizen but don’t allow her to have kid or kids for you.

Hello House,
I will be applying for Student Visa for my Post graduate Program in the US.
and as a first time traveler from Nigeria what and what obstacles or possible documents I need to have
I will be sponsoring myself throughout my stay in the US
pls like how much can I have in my account before proceeding with the visa application process.
I already have two kids, will they be an advantage or not but they are not going with me.

What are people saying here. The landlord put tenant properties outside and you people are saying he did the right thing. Guy go to court police station nearby must have collected bribe from your landlord, he did absolutely wrong thing. Go to court and tell the court that you met all your properties outside while some were already stolen, tell the court that you are ready to pay him and he should provide all what he stole from your properties. How can someone throw your properties outside without informing you.

With the comments from people here, they will destroy the marriage, some infection can be coursed by toilet infection and if it stay long in the body it will damage alot in the system, some people that are saying it is only sexual infection that can course miscarriage na lie be that, if truly you love your wife take her to the best hospital for checkup or all those local herbs those that know what they are doing it will definitely be treated and her pregnancy will stay. Somethings might not be natural. If you know you know.

Why won’t he endorse Tinubu when his Son is already APC member and also a chairman of One of the local govt in Lagos.
Seriously if you still think political elite have the commoners in mind na joke you dey.
Better you fight for your life, if na travel you fit do or you find a way to join politics na joke you dey ooo
Let them continue to deceive themselves.
Tinubu wey be oganla for agbero na him wan become President.
Is okay

Good evening everyone, Doctors please there is always pains i do pass through at the lower right side of my stomach and have been to general hospital Gbagada, even general hospital shomolu they are just giving me Antibiotics, i did test FBC, run scan did urinary test one doctor even said it was infection and i took injections but yet still having the pains after completing my dosage. Is just this pains and the scan that i run said nothing is wrong with all my system yet i feel the pains.
Pls what might be wrong with me and what can i use for the cure.

Thanks

No matter what people say woman will always be woman, they are always wanted to be in control, very soon you will realize that she will colonies your family , your adopted child will be send away and your children will be the maid of the house very soon if you did not act fast, do you actually make some research or investigation concerning the husband that left her, what and what have you done before you allow her into your home, did you ask questions from those around her, you meet someone on Facebook and you think cos your children and her children are kinda bond together you quickly settle for her, do you know that it was cos of boredom or loneliness makes your kids feel attached to her family too quickly if you have been taking them out they might have not bond the way they did so to me that is not an excuse, pls if you still want your kids to be your kids when you are not at home the best you can do for your family is to send that woman far away from your house, she was so nice in the first instance, she is now changing gradually soon she will leash out the real stuff she is made of. I hope you have not been having sex with her yet. It is not that you will not get a new woman but first it is too fast just three month that your wife died, single mother is a no for me they can never be submissive, do you see the post of this man omokri in recent time talking about single mother that is exactly what they are, they will control all what you have build with your family. I never pity you but your kids. My mum too died this March and cos we are muslim people are kinda telling my dad to marry a new wife for him not to be alone, my dad will just be looking at them, if truly you love your wife as you said you won’t be be quick to allow another woman into your home. Even if it is cos of sex i will still prefer to go have sex with prostitude than any woman that will see a good home and want to come and destroy it.

Seriously, what many men are looking for, you are rejecting it, is better you accept the fact that she is a blessing to you and not all decisions you made will be positives in your life, why not give her the benefit of doubt maybe like two years and let her make the decision in your life maybe your life will be better than this, let me tell you many marriages you see today that last longer and successful if you look deep you will realized that mostly women control those home, forget about our African mentality that man must be a man or your decision must always stand. In yoruba “ ayen shee ee owa salo sibomi ni loju ayr ootoo” I know your type will have so much ego

you are the one giving yourself unnecessary headache, since she said she can only help you should be thankful with that, as long as she is willing to help brother i never see this as an excuse not to marry her.

Koni bo ninuee

Hello Doctors,

Ever since my wife gave birth to our new baby, the baby is now four months now but she have rashes on her face and the baby is always scratching her head, we have taking her to the hospital yet it keep coming back, some people said it is ‘Ella’ I don’t know that in English and we have made the herb yet it will go and come back, we have use msytatin too yet it will go and come back, this this has really made her hair not to grow and make her have sleepless day and night.

Doctors pls come to my aid and help my lil baby from this thing. She is not too fat baby but her neck is been affected

Hello House good evening

I just got a car which i intends to use for E-hailing, i will to know all the requirements needed to Be a driver on UBER , BOLT and other E-hailing companies that operate in Lagos. I learnt that they only needed drivers license but with this Lagos state wahala i think things have changed

Thanks

This is what you will do that will work for you dad to tell you who your real mother is. Go to him if you can get a gun it will be better or a knife tell him you will kill yourself since he is not ready to show you who your real mother is, i bet you no man will want her child to die in his present, he will definitely talk. Forget cry cos it won’t work be over serious on it and attempt to do it like trying so hard to kill yourself.

To those supporting the guy to do away with the lady, do you people have a perfect marriage and many of we Nigerians are criminals just like our politicians. The lady see an opportunity to steal and she get cut, she have apologized and admit her wrong doing which means she is ready to change.
Let your friend go ahead with his mindset if he think the lady won’t make a good wife let her go and if he think she will be a good wife, let her stay.
Even those that are married they do face many challenges but many keep it a secret within themselves and for your friend to expose his fiancé means he can’t be a good husband himself.

Pls just try and get cacatin, use it to rub the baby every day soon there will be changes and metillated powder.

Seriously I don’t understand most People on Nairaland, someone will drop his true life story for you to learn from and you will be saying its a fiction. I pity some people’s life. Just pray you don’t experience bad marriage

What a nice topic.

Women are trying but immediately you start praising them their head will start swelling.

I could remember the day, i do give kudos to my wife because from the very first day to the last day of her pregnancy she do go to work and with the stress of work and even the traffic from ketu to shomolu every blessed day she never missed a day at work.

We both went to work on that faithful day and i got hope lil late on a Wednesday night, we talked about it how she was feeling and she said she was fine and we both went to bed, but around 12am she work me up that she is feeling somehow, I immediately called our nurse and ask her if the sign means delivery and she said since that is her first it might be, immediately my mind wasn’t settled but as a man I don’t want her to notice but i just used courage to control myself and i went to do ablution and pray to Allah for save delivery.

The nurse couldn’t sleep too though she wasn’t close to us but is is always calling and given me word of encouragement that first timer won’t come so fast like that and when is is 5am we both went to the hospital.

Around 9am noting yet happened but this time the doctor has examined her and put his hand inside to check the head of the baby and she came outside to meet me again, i was surprised again to see her cos the doctor told her to be walking up and down, i just left for my work for me to put somethings in place and i told her i will soon be back.

I got back around 12pm yet nothing as happened but the matron have asked of me immediately i got there they gave me a paper to go and get the drug which i got and still went back to work but i was always communicating with her on phone and non of our staffs notice something is happen cos i was calm and even made jokes but within me I couldn’t focus.

To cut the long story short i got back to the hospital and she as been moved to labour room but the doctor still gave me something to go and buy cos they dont av that medicine in the hospital , maybe that thing is something that they want to give her or insert to force the baby out i dont really know, about 45mins while i was still walking around for the drug she just called me to come that she have delivered.

Delivery isn’t something easy even during pregnancy woman experience many difficulties, and it makes me wonder how did those that gives birth to 10 children made it cos my grandmother gave birth to 10children, they will experience difficulty during pregnancy and during birth yet they keep on having many babies

Almighty God is the only one who can give answer to that cos doctors are only trying.

Well you maybe from the high class lady or from a wealthy home but if you truly love this man i will advice you stick with him when he needed you most, if he is an ambitious type and not a lady type you will both get to that destination as time goes on, i was ones staying in a face me i slap you bus’s quarter not even the main house and my girlfriend got pregnant which i told her to go abort cos I don’t av a dime with me as at them but she refused and leave the baby two weeks to her delivery we got self contain apartment, did lil wedding, three years to our being together we got a car from though we might not av gotten to where we are going but i can tell you for the fact that we both plan together our daughter attend one of the best school in our environment. My sister pls if he is ambitious and not a lazy type plan with him and get greater together.

When a guy at 40years never think of marriage to me he is irresponsible, irreverent, how can you stay with such person till now yet he never do you well and you come online to ask for advise, my sister sit him down and ask him to let you know where you stand and let him tell you the reality, cos i bet you when he is through using you, he will dump you and by that time you will still come here to tell us and ask us how you will deal with the depression. My sister don’t allow him to finish using you as a sex machine, or house girl and later tell you he is done with you. Look for a decent one out of your suitor or pretend to him that you are pregnant and hear how he will reacts towards that, but be extra careful cos he might drug you if you tell him you are pregnant. Use your brain.

When a guy at 40years never think of marriage to me he is irresponsible, irreverent, how can you stay with such person till now yet he never do you well and you come online to ask for advise, my sister sit him down and ask him to let you know where you stand and let him tell you the reality, cos i bet you when he is through using you, he will dump you and by that time you will still come here to tell us and ask us how you will deal with the depression. My sister dont allow him to finish using you as a sex machine, or house girl and later tell you he is done with you. Look for a decent one out of your suitor or pretend to him that you are pregnant and hear how he will reacts towards that, but be extra careful cos he might drug you if you tell him you are pregnant. Use your brain.