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ebubeson:
One of the killers of marriage is dating different wrong people before meeting the right partner. At this point, such a person may be so broken to the point that when the right partner comes, the feeling may be "adulterated" or "polluted" because of past hurts or frustrations.
You were so loving, caring and faithful to the wrong partners while dating, now you have the right partner and you are probably rude, watchful and careless..
Lessons: It is better to wait and marry the right person without dating, than dating several people before marrying.

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What of those that married the wrong partners and later moved on

They can still go on to find a better partner


It's more about each Individuals personality and how they view life

That you had a wrong previous relationship
Shouldn't cloudy your next relationship

I believe the wrong previous relationship rather makes you wiser, and teaches you how to note bad individuals and ways to have better relationship


I had a very bad experience in my previous relationship
But it never beclouded my view and perception

Rather it taught me very good lesson

I don't even regret the previous one
I am grateful I experienced it
It made me Wiser

There is this Igbo Proverb:

Ogori nuo di nabo omalu nke ka mma

When a woman marries two husband's
She will know the better one

DeTribalisedCit:
Stupid Government. Always putting the cart before the horse.

Any shop owner can:

1. Decide to stay at home on any day of the week; throughout the week or even a whole month or year. It's not the government's business.

2. If there is a security threat, why not arrest the security threat and publicize it? Give people the sense of security they expect and watch things come back to normal.

If those people should, out of fear of losing their livelihood too, come out and get killed by criminal elements, even if unrelated to the sit-at-home enforcers, how will the government take responsibility? Perhaps compensation but that life is gone.

Just that our people don't really believe in the courts, if not, a class action suit to yield weighty fine in punitive measures will make the government desist from making teenage decisions.

Oga cry all you want

You can't fight government

There's nothing anyone can do about it

Government are not using there power well that's why these miscreants have been reigning supreme

Brimstone77:
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Now can someone tell me the different between those enforcing sit at home and the enugu state government?

One is forcing people to stay at home while the other is forcing people to come out..

Remember both are using threats and force to archive their aim..


You want to boast your state economy and at the same time sealing shops..

Those that their shops were sealed will be restricted from doing business today and probably tomorrow being Wednesday..


Wisdom is ..........

It's a good strategy by the government

Obey sit at home and get your business sealed for two weeks

Let me know whether you will risk not making money for two weeks because of obeying one faceless animal

jmoore:
This is first class foolishness by the governor of Enugu state.

The idiots came with police to seal the shops but they don't assign police men that will protect the markets.

Business transaction needs customers too. If the traders open, will the governor force the customers out of their homes to buy? Maybe, he should go and arrest residents inside their homes.

They left Simon Ekperima and his gang to fight innocent residents. The governor has bullet proof suv. Is there any keke that is bulletproof? The police that should protect people are busy extorting motorist. If armed robbers come to your house and tell you to lie down, will you stand or obey? The governor is indirectly working for Ekpa because those businesses you are shutting down will have extra days to sit at home.
It is like the government taking over a farm because the owner refuse to come due to fulani herdsmen invasion. The traders should get a lawyer to sue the government for billions in damages.

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This Government strategy is a masterpiece

Seal shops for two weeks let's know whether they will obey a faceless Someone or risk not making money for two weeks

All South East governments should apply this strategy!!

Nice one 👍

FreeStuffsNG:
They will resume this morning to find their shops sealed. This is state power at work; after God na govt according to Portable. Check my signature for free stuffs!

Now government is working

This is a very huge step in the right direction

Seal shops and businesses of those that obey there sit at home directive
Seal the businesses up for a week or two
Let me know whether they will chose to obey a faceless Someone or risk not doing business for a week or two, not making money

Very good strategy

All South East governments should apply this strategy!!

Came4amod:
Thank God I am not talking about 1999 .. because we are in 2023 now ..no one is more capable than tinbu right now

That's why I said you guys are kids

Tinubu has no money before he became Lagos State governor in 1999

He became very rich from Lagos State treasury

Dangote we know him source of wealth
He came from a very wealthy lineage the Dantatas

Orji uzor kalu was very wealthy before 1999 as a young man

Peter Obi was very wealthy before 1999 as young man

You can compare these Men I mentioned to Tinubu

They already were very rich before 1999

Many of you think Nigeria started from 2000 no
Nigeria have been existing since
And there where Men who were made then

All these new money guys that cornered state resouy like ibori, Wike etc were paupers then

Came4amod:
We will happily drink thier tears .. they destroyed this country .. Igbos inflated this country .. go to China bring cheap stuff . Siddon for shop .. invent nothing .. triple the price .. killing the price system . Now the system wants the money back .. that's for them .. but this presidency .. they will never touch it .. it's doom for Nigerians if Igbos become president.. Buhari own sef Na mistake we do

Na yourbas dey rearrange this country small small .. no president has done what Obasanjo did to Nigeria .. so we need that original blood back .. all these miscreants don't even have capacity.. can anyone in the Igbo race face Tinubu financially .. how can a poor man bring riches to a nation .. let's think Na .. let's think .. whatever way Tinubu is more than capable .. no doubt.. all this tribunal Na for lawyers to chop money and to disturb the growth and progress Asiwagu is bringing

Where Tinubu get money

Who was Tinubu even before 1999

Peter Obi even had money more than Tinubu post 1999

Tinubu cornered the resources of Lagos State


If you want to call rich Yoruba men
You talk to of Bashorun MKO Abiola

Na small children like una wey Dem born in the 1990s go dey yarn nonsense

Tinubu no see money reach orji uzor kalu or Peter Obi in there younger years

The very rich Nigerians then were the Dantatas( from which Dangote emerged presently), Indimi, MKO Abiola, Ibru family, Mai Derive, Arthur Nzeribe, plenty big men for East like Ekene dili chukwu from Nnewi

Who be Tinubu where these Men were

Even his set like orji uzor kalu, Peter Obi
Them see better money before he cornered Lagos State resources

April396949:
This statement by Atiku shows his lack of understanding of the importance of political leaders and their impact on the nation. Removing Tinubu as president may not directly cause the heavens to fall, but it can have serious consequences for the stability and progress of the country. It is important to consider the potential ramifications and evaluate the abilities and track records of political leaders before making such assertions.

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Tinubu didn't even win this election
That's the Crux of the matter

Obasanjo
Yaradua
Jonathan
Buhari

All won there elections
Although there were irregularities


But Tinubu didn't win this election

From data he came 3rd position

That's the issue

And heaven won't fall

Even in South West many of his people are not really on his side

North they ain't that interested

South East not interested

South South not interested

So who will fight for Tinubu?

Then add the present suffering he is heaping on Nigerians

He should have left everything the way it was before

From all findings

It seems Buhari as bad as he was
Understand and managed the economy better than Tinubu


If anything happens
Tinubu will not be missed at all

SSpeter:
Do you even think I live in Nigeria that you will be bringing up lies...the most recent envoy to China was by blinken and it was still very recent and it was about trade, their previous meeting was cancelled because of the balloon issues...you either a joker or a kid typing just to past time

Not at all


100 years old Henry Kissinger went to China this last week

Henry Kissinger is the highest diplomat in the US history in these modern times

Had been involved since Richard nixxons era

What will a 100 years old Man be doing in China at this age?

VTJN:
Go to correctional centres across the 36 states and FCT. 95% are raised from poor home. The rate of Yahoo Yahoo is as a result of poverty. Parents now encourage their children into cyber fraud. Before you see one single rich man child useless or wayward then millions of poor men children are already lost. An hungry child can easily be influenced. You can never raise a responsible kids without money. Stop blabbing

I totally agree with you

Many poor people presently are raising irresponsible children

Many of them don't train there children well

Wasn't like this before
The Poor people before raised responsible children that do well in school and turn around there families fortune

But now many of them raise serious irresponsible, untrained children

I see it everywhere

Icrave4u:
Govt should enact a law to stop families for giving birth to morethan two kids.

According to statistics released by all these international agencies

Nigeria's population by 2050 will be around 450 to 500 million people

2050 will be next 27 years
Most of us here should be in our late fifties, sixties and seventies

Now we are 200 million people are crying 😭😭

Wonder how 2050 will be?

CuriousStudent:
Not only many children but getting married as well.
We only caution about birthing children but never marriage. When we know that it is not possible for a naija man to be living with his wife without pregnancy entering . When you marry,pressures from womb checkers push you to birth children even if you planned not to.

So in all avoid marriage if you don't earn well. But no,our naija brothers will cry and roll in sand if told they are not financially stable enough to have a wife

😂😂🤣 Shebi cry and roll in sand

What you said is true

Honestly I am sorry for those raising children now with less mean
It's terrible torture

My boss an extremely wealthy man has 3 children
2 girls and a boy
They are all in Secondary School

He Gives them the best of everything

They will definitely go for holidays overseas this summer
They don't miss it during long vacation

Then a poor man that can't feed his family will keep on birthing children everywhere

While the Rich that can afford plenty children birth very few

It's very very surprising

But honestly strange things are happening

The way some humans dey loose and wayward is very shameful

Lukuluku69:
When Reno Omokri was asking that MTN, DSTv, etc should be sent packing he doesn't realize that no Nation exist in isolation. Causes and Effects.

Based on your Policy, others can hit you back as we see in this case. This will only add to the Cost associated with doing Business which will be passed to the end Users in form of increase in Prices as we now experiencing .

Reno is a grade one novice

He doesn't have clue of what he was saying

How Jonathan employeed someone like Reno should be studied

He couldn't get anything Right

ManirBK:
https://leadership.ng/benin-republic-slams-cfa-2m-on-nigeria-bound-cargoes/

Buhari caused it with his I'll advised border closure of 2019

When Africa was talking of better intra regional trade

He went and blocked border trade with fellow West African brother country

Look at how EU does seamlessly with there inter European trade

But Africans can't trade with each other


Nigeria will bear the brunt of the border closure by Buhari

ibechris:
Pls, there is a growing menace of friends poisoning their friends at beer parlours, lounge or bars.

Watch out especially now that begging has increase among peers, friends and family members and close allies.

Just this morning my class mate was pronounced dead, as he was poisoned and left to die.

I saw another video of recent which was prior to this news, where a guy was poisoned and he died in an inhumane manner...vomiting blood and all sort before a doctor pronounced him dead.

Pls, watch and drink smart before the unthinkable happens.

People are just not happy seeing u do well.
Don't get it twisted as most people think it should be them and not u that is successful.

Be wise.

Na for those that drink in bars and lounges

Nothing concern me with such

Because if you drink in bars
Poisoning risk is very high

People should be careful

Dialpad:
50 million annually is peanuts, that's less than 5 million monthly.... such funds are not sufficient enough to sponsor a US education

Exactly

Most very wealthy big men children easily get it

Two guyy I know

One his Dad is a major importer of many brands
Went with Dad's account of millions of dollars transactions

Was also going to a top university in the US
Got it immediately

Another guy his Dad owns a well listed company in Nigeria stock exchange from the East

He got it immediately


Children of very wealthy men easily get Visa

onatisi:
two things working against you , first is tough luck, there is no expert when it comes to USA visa interviews, i know someone that gave complete different answers to what she wrote in the form, and yet the vo gave her the visa

the second thing that worked against you in my own opinion and even if i were the vo i won't give you is the fact that you talked too much, you trying to impress the vo with ur father's accomplishments and what you intend to do. it shows you were just trying to please. be natural with any lie you are given, if truly your father is who you say he is , you won't need to go into too much detail about him, you even mention how much he makes in a year (red flag), always keep your answers short and precise, no long talking

My cousin that got in his first trial didn't even talk much

Although he was fasting Sha
Na pastor for his school fellowship then

He was just favored

Heard recently he married a Kenyan girl over there

dimexy247:
It happens and has happened to me before. Those people are crazy.

Just move on bro and try again.

He should keep trying

One adewale guy I follow on Twitter was denied 8 times Visa to the UK

Later got at the next trying


Today he is a top professional in the UK

Has UK permanent resident

Earns thousands of pounds yearly

Travels round the world



Don't give up

Refine yourself and keep trying!!

bentenny:
U talk too much and end up crying too much!
We are going through an unavoidable economic crisis proudly sponsored by the balablu that you blindly and ignorantly support but its someone's humble and lowkey birthday celebration that you are using to pour your ajeepee of tears through endless shalaye
Una go cry tire.....

Na una wey dey reply the guy get problem


Someone that doesn't even understand himself

Jeremesmart:
All those ogas wey dey shout "there's no difference earning in ($ € £).., inflation go chop am or make am look useless,...una funny die

The rate at which u own online is not fixed like those pale looking monthly wages the government/private bodies are paying....the rate at which u earn online is faster n more promising....

Yes after earning online($), u go spend am in naira buh there's a difference, monthly salaries n wages are fixed but online earnings aren't (wether it's an active or passive online earning, it's more rewarding than what is being offered here by the government).

Yes o you can withdraw ur dollar earnings, convert am to naira n then inflation affect am. U go see shege o.......buh the ones wey dey earn locally here go see premium shege

It is well for naija our father land...(who know if our father never sell the land self)

The truth is I am not feeling this so called economic hardship at all


My resources are adequate and more than enough

People should just not be panicking at all

WAPINATION:
Exactly! it just shows again how gullible and clueless Tinubu and APC government has always been because common sense should have employed them not to do all these at once but no they just want people to hail them for signing and approving things and policies they don't really understand how to manage the ripple effects, same way and pattern Buhari took and landed the country into big mess. If they continue like this it may bring the end of Nigeria..ooo Master at grabbing power by all means but woeful in proper governance.

The scary thing is that although Buhari has been criticized heavily


But it seems Buhari understand economy more than Tinubu

Tinubu has completely messed up everything

Naira is on a scary free Fall

Very serious emergency on now

Nemere2020:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid026hsjED87T7UqsWaHhc3NV3nJ9mi1TvuvqXMUwPJEF5QLbKVHoyeDac9RKyxwMKEol&id=100063760314744&mibextid=Nif5oz

Previous Thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/7768701/2300-ghost-workers-discovered-abia#124489484

Abia PDP no get shame at all

Pootle:
africans and pleasure na 5&6....that why we have the most shallow mind of all the human species in the world

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So person isn't meant to have se x with his wife because he is African?

Oyibo no dey do sex with there wives?


Mtschew......

Archiever22:
Dey play, show us your teeth and let's be the one to judge. Why u go allow person drive can and he no use gear and steering. What kind of love is that?

You dey mind am make she dey yarn anyhow


Is she even married self?


That's how we know women not married or very far from marriage

tubolancer:
Don't mind all those comments there, look a woman can misbehave when it comes to sex. I have been married for fifteen years and I dated my wife ten years before marriage, even she also behaves like this, so just take it easy nothing dey happen, las las na you go suck that thing dry.

Na only akwunas do like that when one was growing up


I can never imagine that in marriage

Me I have complete access to my wife's own
She knows how much I like am

This is very strange

Completely unheard of

femijohn21:
Help me out with this house.

Is there any iota of true love when a couple is making love together and the wife places her two hands to cover her breasts so that the husband could not have access to them and also put her face away to avoid kissing her man?

This is about to cause separation in a marriage.
Opinion please.

Na ashaw.o or wife be that one


This is very strange

Na only hooker.s been do like that when we were small young men growing up


Your wife you must have access to everything

As a married man I have access to everything

She knows I like bobb.y very well
So anything I want do with it I do


This is very strange indeed

femisplash:
Alcaraz has come to stay,not a fluke. Novak was lucky he suffered a cramp in their last encounter at the french open. Novak, you're a champ but i'm sorry, i just want someone that would beat him silly like he did to Federer and Nadal.

Thought it was only me

Since Roger Federer and Nadal quit

I never liked Novak

Happy someone is now challenging Him

LIVINGICONREBOR:
You did it for me boy. If you know you know. Mehn, that was one hell of tennis.😀

Novak don try. Make the young ones breef, don't suffocate them.

After Roger Federer and Nadal quit tennis

I don't take interest again

Seems we are having an emerging talent now

Happy he beat Novak

Will begin to take interest in it again

Jackanda1:
lols you know nothing about sercular music industry. No matter how talented you're, the forces in the industry would never let you succeed unless you consult them. That industry belongs to the devil.

I've tried music b4. When you get close to some big artiste associates in the industry, they'd ask if you're willng to pay ur tithe or apply science(juju).

Most of the music stars u mentiond all have altars and shrines they bow to. Google 'Alo Inas'.

You think success is easy?

That you tried and failed while others succeded you now claim it's one thing they consulted

We Africans are very funny

What you can't attain
You claim one spiritual power that others have that did it


Anyone that works hard at his talent consistently get in

RightToReject:
What has been happening to her relationship-wise has nothing to do with her, or family, financial and social standing in general. She's just a special-needs person, which most people don't know.

So, the only type of man who can retain her (and who most importantly must be the kind of man she envisaged for herself) after knowing her well for a long-term meaningful relationship/union must be the kind of man who has affinity for special-needs children (persons). Provided that he's discernible to see her for who she is from the inception, accept that that is whom she's inherently, and has the grit to pilot the relationship, he'll be able to help her gain stability without losing himself (sanity) in the process.

She can't help herself much, no matter how hard she would wish to. Some women with similar conditions like hers are on this forum and everywhere else.

Most importantly a Man that truly loves her
And able to tolerate her plenty bull.shit

I have been around such kind of people
Ordinary relationship with them
Can be something else
Talkless of marriage

enemyofprogress:
Cuppy no get ori oko from heaven now, she is not destined to be married to a big boy. If she wants to be married and happy, let her look for a Mr nobody that is struggling with life. That's the only way she can be married and also be happy in the marriage. The earlier she takes to my advice the better for her.

People like her won't even rate the Mr nobody

But marrying a Mr nobody is the only thing that will likely bring her peace

A Mr nobody she will support, uplift and submit to

There are many of them, very good ones out there
If only she can find them

Na God go help am

If not she will just be turning round the circle