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Are you a teenager? Do you want her as a girlfriend or not? If yes, why are you scared to ask her out? If no, why not let her know its leading to nowhere, relationship wise?

With all the problems in Nigeria, you nor know wetin dey worry you

wheelzcoded:
I've been in love with my friend's sister for a year now, the whole family are cool with me. I and the girl has been so close , we fight, settle, she apologizes immediately when she's wrong, I do too , when we're together there's no boring moments as she keeps creating funny jokes and discussions even if I'm out of words.

So many times I try to understand and dictate signs she loves me , even situations where there are guys with cars whenever we're walking and they stop to talk to her , the reactions from her shows to them she's my girlfriend. Even though we both know we're not dating.

Many times people tend to ask her the state of the relationship or who am I to her , sometimes she says her boyfriend, sometimes her manager because we're in a business together.

My question here is despite she being supportive and understanding, can a lady go into a biz with a guy who she doesn't see the future with? Like she does more of the commitment than I do sef, whenever I talk about the future she doesn't laugh she only says if it's God's plan no one can stop it but she always tells me "I'm not ready for a relationship now, you're not my boyfriend, I just need to focus on my growth"


This is one girl that understands my kinda person and I do understand her too
We fight and settle just immediately.. so many times I lockup and don't want to talk to her she does the checkups and communication. I'm not pushy, the stuff is just balanced .

Even encourages more and sacrifice for me like a wife even some girlfriend's wouldn't do for their boyfriend's...

Few days to my birthday she wrote on her status
"My love's birthday is loading"". Soon I viewed it she deleted it .

How long can I keep accepting this you're not my boyfriend words and I'm your girlfriend attitudes....

Why are you insisting they're not Igbos? Are you from these places? I'm telling you I'm from same place as Okowa and we're Igbos and you insist otherwise. I can hear 80% of Anambra speaker. My Dad speaks Igbo well and attends meetings

LilPeezy:
Oga when the east speaks they understand themselves....Forget all those talk....Igbo man will never understand the language of this people u r claiming to be Igbo...U can never understand Okowa language as an Igbo.....Forget those em talk of being an Igbo man, all for d politics.

Mention the amenities Lagos have from what i mentioned, not score. Just mention them

rayahmad:
All these that you have mentioned, Lagos crosses the average mark on it. I will still give it between 6 to 7 out of 10 in these amenities. Other states in Nigeria cannot boast of 3 out of 10 for these amenities. Lagos is moving faster to secure the adequacy of these amenities. And it is a result of good brains and teamwork.

Even Ebonyi speak their own language different from Anambra too but they're still Igbo. Haven't you heard Okowa say he is Igbo? What about Amaechi? I myself, I'm Ika and I'm Igbo

LilPeezy:
Lol do they speak Ibo language or their own language? Cos all dis people u guys are claiming speak their own language that doesn't even sound like Igbo. Just cos they bear Igbo names that makes them Igbo abi....Yoruba for dey mek noise on top Itsekiri people since Itsekiri people dey answer Yoruba names with different language.

You got it wrong! The reason we're making noise is to create awareness in the minds of docile Christians who always take things for granted that this should not be taken for granted. It's an existential threat to christendom!

KingofAnambra:
Because they know in their heart of hearts that Tinubu will win the 2023 presidential elections even with a Muslim-Muslim ticket.

Think about it for a moment

- If it is true that Muslim-Muslim ticket is political suicide,

- If it is true that Muslim-Muslim ticket puts Tinubu at a huge political disadvantage,

- If it is true that majority of Nigerians won't for a Muslim-Muslim ticket,

- If it is true that all Christians won't vote for Tinubu because of Muslim-Muslim ticket,

- If it is true that opposition party will win because of Tinubu's Muslim-Muslim ticket,

- If it is true that Tinubu's 2023 presidential ambition will fail because of Muslim-Muslim ticket etc,

then shouldn't Tinubu's haters be so happy and cheering him on to do it, in order for them to gain the political advantage and defeat him?

But they are not happy. They are angry, frustrated and miserable about it. They are wailing day and night 24/7 and giving us 1 billion reasons why Tinubu must not run with a Muslim-Muslim ticket and making trillions of all sorts of threats per minute.

This is simply because they know Tinubu will win the elections with a Muslim-Muslim ticket, they know a Muslim-Muslim ticket will give him the majority of the votes. Tinubu haters know that ethno-religious sentiments will play a critical role in the elections. They know a Muslim-Muslim ticket actually tilts the political scale in his favor instead of against him.

How Tinubu haters suddenly chose to become his number 1 special advisers on which religion his VP should not be speaks volumes about their hopeless condition of inevitable loss should he run with a Muslim-Muslim ticket.

Tinubu haters want him to heed to their "warning" at all costs, they suddenly have the "best interests" of Tinubu's presidential ambition at heart. Who is fooling who here?

But unfortunately for them, we are fully aware and not blind to the truth that even if Tinubu picks Pastor Adeboye RCCG or Pastor Maduka Chosen or Reverend Oyakhilome Loveworld or Catholic Pope as VP, IPOB social media bandits will still not vote for him.

They will still unrelentingly scorn and hate him with unrivaled pleasure. IPOB social media bandits will be voting for The pandora thief Peter Obi regardless of Tinubu VP's religion. Peter Obi is the anointed IPOB candidate they are counting on to help them destroy the zoo and actualize Biafra.

But none of that matters because Tinubu will run with a Muslim-Muslim ticket and win the 2023 elections. If Tinubu haters like they should wail from now till eternity, nobody cares!

Lagos is the 6th largest economy in Africa by virtue of being capital for 77years. Lagos should be comparing itself with major states/ cities in Africa!

Kagd10:
Yet Peter Obi lives in Lagos.

Do Anambra have electricity and drainage.

Every state that often experience flooding need to improve their drainage system btw.

The reality on ground is mentality! If a Yoruba man doesn't wanna be with me, why should i fight to be with him?

We cannot progress if we force people who do not like us to be with us. Can two walk unless they agree?

Viscuz:
I’m telling you the reality on ground I’m not here to fight or argue with you . If you don’t form an alliance with the aforementioned groups then forget it. You can go and protest in Abuja then I will be hear for you to come tell me the outcome

Is Ika the name of a tribe? What about the people from Aniocha? We're Igbos!

666Advocate:
Igbo is not the name of a tribe in South South

You must be an illiterate to think that Lagos started with Tinubu.

Now tell me, does Lagos have pipe borne water? Does Lagos have constant electricity? Does Lagos have good drainage and waste management systems? Does Lagos have affordable and decent healthcare services? Does Lagos have top notch emergency services like 911/ fire services? Do you know the economy of Lagos is the 6th largest in Africa yet not having the aforementioned that makes a world class state? Can Lagos be compared to Cairo, Cape Town, Johannesburg, Kigali, Pretoria,?

Tinubu has destroyed Lagos!

rayahmad:
Lagos did not miraculously become the best state in Nigeria, It is a product of a masterplan and a mastermind (Tinubu)

Please if you did not listen to the audio file, don't comment!!.

Tinubu knows how to formulate economic problems and also is a master at proffering solutions.

https://www.dropbox.com/s/09sfsq5dlnckav9/tinubu%20%281%29.mp3?dl=0
Download File.
https://www.dropbox.com/s/09sfsq5dlnckav9/tinubu%20%281%29.mp3?dl=0

There are still Igbos in South south. I am Igbo from Delta state

666Advocate:
So wetin come happen
The Niger Delta we know is South South

If Ijaw wants to be alone, let them be. Why do we cling to people who do not want us? The ijaws and almost every nationalities in Nigeria were on their own for thousands of years before the British came so how can the British experiment of a couple of hundred years determine people who have existed for thousands of years?

Viscuz:
Ijaw can never I repeat can never ever break from Nigeria without Joining alliance with either Biafra , oduduwa or Arewa so they can keep making noise about Ijaw Nation/Republic

Imo is Niger Delta, Anioma is Niger Delta,
Igbo parts of Rivers are Niger Deltans

GreatBoss:
Niger Delta is owned by atleast 30 tribes.
The Ijaws control this Region.
Times without number different groups have cried out that Ijaw Marginalize and lord it over all Niger Delta groups.


Where Ijaw occupy in the Niger Delta is as big as Igbo land and Ijaws are now tired of playing big brother roles to the Niger Delta groups hence the issue of Ijaw Republic for only Ijaws unjustly balkanized into Ondo, Edo, Delta, Bayelsa, Rivers and Akwa-Ibom States when all Ijaw areas are fully together and share perfect boundaries with each other and are not scattered by God.



The Ijaw Republic is bigger than the 51 smallest countries in the world including Israel and Rwanda.
Ethnicity Ijaw 100 percent.

These are the 10 largest tribes in the Niger Delta



1.Ijaw
2.Ibibio
3.Urhobo
4.Bini
5.Annang
6.Esan
7.Afenmai
8.Ogoni
9.Ikwerre
10.Efik


Only Cross River State have over 15 tribes.

Nothing like Southerners!

Ttalk:
Anger kee you there.

The topic is about southerner being president, it is only a dead brain that would factor Atiku into discussion that is centred on Southern candidate

GEJ defeated Bubu in 2011 because SW, SS and SE voted for him. If you don't want Atiku, vote massively for Obi. Tinubu esp with Muslim muslim ticket, his health and his baggages is not an option

Ttalk:
Look at how egocentric and clan ish you are. Tinubu is a candidate of the ruling party that has structure in every nook cranny of this country yet only Obi from an unknown party you want Southerners to vote so Atiku can have an easy ride.

You can't speak for Southwest! Speak for yourself!

There's nothing like South but SW, SS and SE

Ttalk:
You see the problem I have with the Obidients, their brain is filled with dust and their reasoning is so dangerous even to themselves.

You want me to vote Obi but where there are just 2 choice to pick from, you'll rather dash your choice to a stranger.

How old are you to be reasoning like a toddler.

Go and vote your Atiku but never you except any SWner to vote you. You will definitely harvest what you sow

There is nothing like North and South but NW, SW,NE,SE,NC,SS

DEmejioba1:
It would be a dangerous thing to allow a Northerner to be president for another 8 years making 16 years on a row. For the spirit of equity and fairness the presidency should come south.
Those that are clamouring for ATIKU to be president are doing so just to grab power by all means so that they can start their own looting in earnest not that they have any new thing to offer, some people are even saying TINUBU is old why ATIKU is older and not healthier as well.
The power should be rotating between north and south. it's the turn of the southern part.
Give us TINUBU OR PETER OBI.

Since Agbado man is following Bubu, did Bubu pick Muslim vice?

I like the fact that Agbado picked Muslim vice, talk about burying yourself by yourself

VoteTinubu2023:
This is PMB sitting in the Mosque. Did that stop him from overwhelmingly winning the Northern Muslim votes?


Vote Tinubu 2023. Vote APC.

You think its a joke? Let Tinubu announce him and see how we inform Nigerians of his role in the chibok saga. Someone who did not inform the then president for 3 days that 250 school girls were kidnapped. Someone Wike told as minister of state for education not to hold waec in chibok based on intelligence

naija4life247:
No, you forget to include that Shettima is responsible for the Civil War of 1967, the Umuleri and Aguleri war, also buying arms and ammunition for UGM, ESN, and IPOB

There are options but once Christians insists they're not voting for Muslim-muslim ticket,
that ticket might draw massive vote from muslims who might see it as religious contest. We must educate them that we equally oppose Christian-Christian ticket

immortalcrown:
You people sound as if BAT and APC are collectively the only option. If you do not want Muslim-Muslim ticket, vote either for Muslim-Christian ticket or for Christian-Muslim ticket. Stop acting as if there are no alternatives. Or, are you indirectly saying your vote must be for APC whether good or bad?

Do what you like, we would do what we like

garfield1:
And awareness of Pandora scam

If he votes for Christian-Muslim ticket quietly
some people will think its a non issue snd vote for Muslim muslim ticket. If he makes a lot of noise then those docile people would wake up so it can be collectively rejected. The noise is better than just 1 one.

immortalcrown:
You people sound as if BAT and APC are collectively the only option. If you do not want Muslim-Muslim ticket, vote either for Muslim-Christian ticket or for Christian-Muslim ticket. Stop acting as if there are no alternatives. Or, are you indirectly saying your vote must be for APC whether good or bad?

When the time comes we will create awareness of his bokoharam linkages

garfield1:
Suspect you say

Shettima thats responsible for the kidnap of chibok girls? A bokoharam sponsor?

vicdom:
With Shettima, Tinubu's chance of emergence has risen and coast is clear for his winning.

Garfield1 Fergie001 Kyase

Be bold to say you want El Rufai

seunmsg:
I like Shettima but I will prefer a running mate from NW.

I dont have time for little minds who vehemently defend mediocrity

wandyvirus:
Don't miss an opportunity to be educated. You won't find this opportunity around you. Don't tuck your tail in and run like a scared little dog.
Face the issues you raised and let us talk about safety and enforcement. Offer solutions and let's debate it.

I'm not an IPOB

YorubaNiBaba:
but you believe your lord and saviour will win abi, talking with and ipob is a waste of time.....

Another agbado urchin. Run along

Esama:
Did you go school at all.

I'm through with you!

wandyvirus:
Now you are concerned about the people that died. That's a good first step to realizing what the real issues are. The poor defending the rich? Bipolar?

Incoherent? You are just matching words that makes absolutely zero sense. Again I know your genetically Inherited brain cannot fathom how to make your points and offer your argument in a way that typifies logic.

You jump from Safety and enforcement to Tinubu, then back to people who lost their lives. Let's pick one. Then we can have a conversation.
I will help you.

You're defending mediocity with all your might. What are you benefitting?

Look at your incoherent response like a bipolar person. So the people that died are not humans?

I wonder why the poor defend the rich that care less about them. Abeg run along

wandyvirus:
Mr enforcement, go and stand in the middle of the Lagoon and enforce like a traffic warden or go take a mat, spread it and wait for a recalcitrant ferry operator at night so you can stop him or better still arrest anyone who wants to travel at night via ferries.
Apòdà, Your type lacks the tiniest ability to even reason fluidly. I have time for your very slow brain which you genetically inherited.

We are talking boat mishap and your almighty safety rules and you jump to Tinubu. Can you Father ever be in your own lips every second as irrelevant as your father is? You jump from a serious issue and try to derail to another because sound arguments are like calculus to your lineage. Purile, pedestrian conversations keep you all together. If you don't talk about people your small minds think about s£x like the he-goats you all are.

So instead of realizing that the subject you raised was above your thinking grade, your very small inert mind did what it knows how to do best-talk about someone else, someone your entire generation to the 500th can NEVER ever achieve 0.000001% of what he has done this morning alone.

Get a brain booster and face me with superior facts. I don't talk about people.

If you like lie down on his mandate, you aint benefitting anything other than feel good if he wins. But he will not even come second!

YorubaNiBaba:
i still stand gidigba on Tinubu's mandate

Insofar Muslims will not accept Christian-Christian ticket, we will not also accept Muslim-Muslim ticket. We cannot sell our birthright due to docility!

immortalcrown:
You are the one trying to be clever but you are not. My advice goes to everyone that uses religious sentiment in politics. My comment does not try to favour any candidate. You are sounding as if I am trying to defend Tinubu. Use your brain. I am not a supporter of Tinubu. My reasons for not supporting him are many but do no not include religious sentiment.

You're trying to defend Tinubu, you're not thinking straight. This is one too many accidents so whatever rules and regulations the Lagos state govt put in place, it aint working. There is no enforcement and thats why the accidents keeps happening.

Stop defending mediocrity!

wandyvirus:
Sometimes I wonder how some of you made it through school or if you do have a brain at all.

Did you read the news article or you just saw the headline and jumped to bleat like a he-goat. Safety starts with rules.The first rule I use safety jackets. They didn't.

The second rule is don't ferry passengers at night. They did.
The LASG has setup a ferry system where idiots like you can actually own a boat and put it to very good use and make money.

All we know how to do very well is critique, castigate, condemn.
Go to all the ferry terminals (Old and new) and see how serious the State takes ferry transportation.

Last week Thursday I saw the condolence register opened at an office in Ìkòyí, where I went for a business meeting. A very beautiful young lady who was just confirmed, wh had her life ahead of her; lost her life in that Ikorodu mishap. She like you only know how to complain. She didn't use her safety jacket.

How many people use their seat belts? How many use pedestrian bridge to cross the express?
Nigerians don't value their own lives. Govt makes simple safety rules, builds simple bridges.... Nigerians will rather cross a six lane express than think of safety.
How will any govt take us seriously? People who will complain to no end yet ascribe very little value to their lives....like you?
Safety system kóò,Syncro system ni.