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If you feel this strongly against the Igbos, is that not a more reason you should support Biafra actualization so they can go and leave everyone else in 'peace' ?


We want a restructured Nigeria at least and without people like Kanu ,Igboho the FG will do nothing.

Sufferingboy:
Look no need for all this,first I am not in support of the fulani agenda but you see this Igbos their own too much..

It is just like the same way southerners see even Igala,Kanuri,nupe,gwari as huasa or fulani.

If there an uprising today in the south against fulani,even innocent hausa's will be killed.Nupes and gwaris will be killed because southerners see them all as fulani or even hausa......

Looool...burst who? I'm from Ute-okpu, let that sink in.

Igbos are not our enemies! Personally I don't like Kanu tactics but from your intonation, this goes beyond Kanu.

As far a North is concerned, you're Igbo. Do not be caught there during an uprising claiming Ika, you won't be spared

Sufferingboy:
Keep quit,you Ika impostor.How many times I done burst you here say you be impostor? You Igbo man pretending to be Ika.......



No tribe can forgive Igbos after all the insult and propaganda.

I'm Ika myself but you're insulting an entire tribe because of one man. Even if it's because of several people, you shouldn't do that. I see hidden celebration in your intonation as though Nigeria will become better due to this arrest.

We're too divided in the South!

Sufferingboy:
The greatest mistake of Igbos is they are very arrogant(Know it all mentality).

I have been saying it here for long,Igbos should learn to carry others along and seek alliance.They should learn to be humble.

As powerful as tompolo,he know his boundary,He will never come out and start spreading propaganda against other southern tribe or insulting them.Tompolo may not be highly educated,but he is smart to respect other oil producing tribe.


When Gen Irabor was appointed as CDS,Kanu and his followers started spreading propaganda about him and we young Ikas were watching with keen interest.

Life no be about chestbeating and been loud mouthed like Igbos do.If you want to fight NIG government you need aliance,not blackmailing snd insulting other southern tribe who did not wrong you.Igbos learn to strategise and make friends in southern Nigeria not enemies.

Learn to respect other people decision.

Make your comment abeg.Igbos are not really wise,they just loud mouthed.

You would be surprised that even those fighting for Oduduwa and Niger Delta Republics will be happy that Kanu is arrested. Very surprising indeed!

Remove enerst shonekan from there ...he was head of interim govt for 3 months....nobody voted for him

sweetshisha:
Then you know nothing about rotational politics

Look at that picture and see how Ex President are distributed per region

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I don't live in denial!

end1999constitu:
......and you're also among the black race

Show a link that says Lagos did not receive allocation for 8yrs otherwise it is beer parlour gossip.

Besides a Yoruba president was in power at the time

DCatt:
Untill there is another state in Nigeria run for 8 years without allocation Tinubu was and will remain the best governor to come out of Nigeria not only for bringing the best to replace him but holding Lagos together without a kobo of allocation and Lagos didn't feel a thing. Any other state would have collapsed and have its refugees rushed to other states. Tinubu is the man we need to straighten out Nigeria, we need him to perform the same magic in Nigeria.

Tinubu 2023 tested and trusted.

People say Bubu is building infrastructure but he is doing these little infrastructures with 100% borrowed money to be paid by future govts. So the question is who did the infrastructures, Bubu or the payers being the future govts?

Black race....always gravitating towards crime....crazy race!

You must be daft to believe a one sided story. A girl who could kill a man, a billionaire for that matter and still remained calm to withdraw his money cannot be innocent neither did she do so in self defense

DWJOBScom:
Noone wants to listen to her story

He locked the door to have his way - why??

She wanted out and he wouldn't let her - why??

For those screaming she withdrew money - she was given the credentials.

I think alot of media personnel have been paid to scream - murder

This is self defense , thank God he was found on the floor confirming the struggle.

He lost it as a stupid confident man he is. He believed as amateur boxer that a lady would never outwit him.

She said NO and wanted to leave!!

Women kept themselves in the kitchen till this day. Most ladies still depend on men even when they have better education. The girl child has equal if not better education nowadays but they still depend on money from their boyfriends. We are not talking of the minority of women who may be exempted but certainly the majority!

SenecaTheYonger:
We’re our forefathers also wise for keeping women in the kitchen?

You're living in denial..you might be among the 10% doesn't mean you can deny reality.....

If you do not help your fellow man like you claim you help ladies then what does that make you?

lexander:
its guys like you that make women see us in a bad way, yes some guy do that but not all. Are you actually trying to tell me you can't assist a lady until you're interested in sleeping with her or unless she accepts to sleep with you?? Sex is so overrated it's supposed to be wanted by both parties and not used as a medium of exchange, mind no amount of sex can ever be equal the money or assistance I can offer and likewise no amount of money can make me have sex with a woman I don't like.

You're probably still young and thus carefree.

With time you'll know that nature does not allow a vacuum. A word is enough for the wise. Have a good one

Divoc19:
As I dey so, any man ask for my account number I will give freely.
Whether you like me or not. Na another thing.

I don't blame anybody for appreciating the good work of God.

@OP, check if the girl loves you. Marry her and send the yahoo boy packing outta her phone.

If he needs a refund tell him to give him to give you time to pay back. Just face you life jejely don't follow nairalanders that have no experience, some of them are not qualified to advice.

Women waiting to be chased is their albatross and certainly not a blessing. It means they cannot go for what they want but wait for whatever comes to them making them technically second choice.

Where the hell did you hear that you can't slap a woman that slapped you first? Don't be a sissy, return every slap given to you by a woman...she disrespected you first

daddymummy:
I have always said that as far as relationship is concerned, women are always taking what is good and leaving the bad ones for men.

These 2 scenarios also go a long way to support what I used to say.

Anything that is appealing is what women collect in a relationship, leaving the bad ones for men,

but men are so naive to see that women are exploiting them.


Anything that is good is what women grab.

Things like: A man's money belongs to both the man and woman, but a woman's money belongs only to her.

2)A man must approach a woman first so that she can feels desired, attractive and important.

3)A woman can slap a man, but a man must not slap a woman.

Anything that would make a man look important, women must oppose it.

That is why women condemn other women for fighting over men.

Because by fighting over men,it shows that men are important.

That is why women oppose other women for fighting over men.

But that doesn't stop women from fighting over men.

They would continue to fight over men.

Also if a woman is humble enough to approach a man, other women would hate and fight her, because she is making a man to feel important.

Like I said, anything that makes a man important,is always very painful to women.

But men are so naive and sex-focused to notice what women are doing against them.

I wish men can,at least for few months, stop running after women,stop staring foolishly at every woman who is passing on the road.

That is when they will start seeing women for who they are.

Too much sex mindedness is blinding some men to the reality on ground.

If they can do these,it is women who will come and be begging them.

But their desperation to have sex is even driving women away and is causing women to take the best part in every situation.

A person whom you feel you cannot do without may decide to stay with you only if she can take the best part of the relationship.

That is what is going on because men are so desperate to have sex.

I want to say the reason some women use the moniker "M" here in Nairaland, pretending to be male

Most men who use the moniker "F" here on nairaland, do so maybe just for the fun of it,or to dupe unsuspecting members of this forum.

But women who use the moniker "M" here on nairaland, do so to elevate their own female gender.

A statement could be made and suddenly a female with moniker "M" will come and speak in such a way that is demeaning to the male gender, while making the female gender look superior and desirable.

Men would think it is a man behind that moniker and they will be supporting her not knowing it is a woman posing as a man.

She is trying to sell an idea to the male gender that "Look, women are more important than you.Women are superior and males are inferior"

She is posing as a man because she believes that men are more likely to buy an idea that is demeaning to the male gender, if such idea comes from another man.

Before you know it, men would buy her idea because they would think: since a fellow man thinks we men are below women,then it could be true.Let me also look down on men"

Before you know it, men are fighting themselves and looking down on other men.

So you see how wise women are.


Like I used to say: Any thing that elevates the male gender is always very painful to women.

That is why they would do anything to make men appear sexually undesirable and inferior


While a man is using the moniker "F" just for the fun of it or to dupe unsuspecting members of the forum,

women are using the moniker "M" to promote their female gender while also trying to make males look inferior and undesirable.

Those who look in one direction have their neck stiff in that direction!

According to your logic, how's it married men's fault that girls are offering them their bodies?

Divoc19:
So? how is it the woman's fault that men are toasting and sending money to her?

Am only saying not all girls are whores, we all face the same challenges with men. Op should be her guide here so next time she'll handle it better.

God bless you...so much intelligence here

MasterShifu010:
If u date the wrong girl all u get is sex, but if u date the right girl ,u get the following
* companionship
* friendship
* teammate
* an extra set of brain to pick when urs get clogged
* connections
* good food (my favorite)
And maybe sex, which to me is overrated .
But the thing is the right girls no plenty. Mind u guys just because a girl is Godfearing or a church goer does not mean she’s right for u.
U might find her in the jungle where weed and narcotics are peddled

The longer you abstain, the shorter you'd last due to over excitement. Practice makes perfect. Have frequent sex like 3 times a week and you'd naturally last longer. Go second round and you can control when you'd come technically.....Infact you get to a point when you cum only when you concentrate on cumming. If you know you know

ruggedtimi:
Abstain from sex for Atleast two months and see if you will last long

The challenge with women is that you people think you're wired like men and when we tell you the mindsets of men, you don't listen!

When a man goes out of his way to help a woman 90% of the time he wants to sleep with her. If he did not sleep with her doesn't mean he didn't intended to do it, it could just be he lacked the courage or the opportunity to ask for something in return. For yahoo guys in this case, it's 100% legit that they'd wanna sleep with the lady, it's just a matter of time.

In the things of men, try to listen to men.... we're wired differently. What a man can do for sex, you cannot even imagine!

Divoc19:
If he was my brother I'll tell him to take it easy on her. Not every girl her age is smart.

You may want to be honest but fear the out come of your honesty until you're rest assured you're safe to be honest. Nigerian Police use this format to interrogate suspects.

So what's wrong if she wanted the money. Do you think it's every man that must sleep with a girl to help her? No. Some men are just nice or nice in advance. It's simple.

Most married women wait for their husbands to initiate sex...if the man initiates sex once a month then their sexual contact will be once a month. So sex in marriage has been deprioritized by women so men do what pleases them.

You can do your research with married women and men and they'll confirm this

Rozcol:
Statistics have shown that modern young men do not last long sexually anymore except with the help of drugs and herbs which in long term have so many negative effects on them.Take a look at bbn Praiz,with all the muscles one will think he'll take you to the moon and back in the bedroom but it didn't turn out to be so. As a staunch Christian who is against premarital sex how do we now test our men to be sure of been capable of cultivating their farmland so as to produce healthy fresh fruits. Every Young men out there should try and quit reckless lifestyle because if you fail your wife in the other room that will be the beginning of the end of the marriage. Live a healthy lifestyle to avoid stories that touch.Ilegend you need to spread your gospel to them if what you share all over nairaland hold waters.Shalom

Move on....nobody is indispensable

Girlfriends are more fun than wives many atimes. Gfs wanna make you happy probably because of your money or to prove to you that they're better than your wife but some wives see it as a duty else they'll not do it.....not out of romance certainly.

But again...our wise forefathers married multiple wives...now we know they were actually wise because the effect of one man one wife is many unmarried women competing with the married ones, many sexually starved men because most women sexual drive is so low that you need several women to satisfy one man. Imagine not getting sex atleast twice a week and the wife will ask if sex is food. Is there any organ in your body you don't use everyday? Sex should be like 2 times per week and according to expert, to reduce the possibility of prostate cancer, sex should be 22 times per month. Can one wife handle this? Our forefathers were very wise.

No sane girl happily walks into a yahoo guy abandoning someone that has done some traditional rights.....you don't expect a yahoo boy to be dating only you how much more marriage.

She obviously wanted the money and continue with her fiance but it doesn't walk that way. You and I know she'd sleep with the yahoo guy for money and if she becomes pregnant, dump the child with the fiance.

You mentioned they'd learn transparency, you don't learn honesty....it's either you're honest or dishonest. Now that he has seen the handwriting on the wall, it's his choice if he wanna continue but again the stick you see cannot blind you.

I also know if the fiance is your brother you wouldn't advice him to ignore this gross misconduct

Divoc19:
Am defending her cos nobody is an expert in these things. We don't always have to be self-centered or negative.

They are a young couple that need experience to learn and to grow.

She and her husband to be are learning how to be transparent...trust me, it's not easy.
They'll both learn how to handle situations like this better in future.
Mind you, she's not into the Yahoo guy. If she was, she would have walked out on her man and the Yahoo boy can buy her another phone. Shebi he is rich?

Nope....what's important is a partially married woman collecting money from another man and not telling the fiance.

Never ignore red flags when you wanna take a life decision.....the stick you see cannot blind you!

Why are you defending this act? Something you can comfortably do?

Divoc19:
Nope. Based on the write-up, she already blocked him on WhatsApp before, that was why she put her phone on flight mode because text or calls can still come in. And remember her boyfriend was not aware by this time.
What is important here is that she already regards him(op) as her husband to be. Toasters will always come and get worse after marriage.

Point to where Yorubas and Hausas are. that's the request by the person you quoted and not stories!

Besides if Biafrans says they wanna leave Nigeria due to incompatibility, what's the issue here?

MalcoImX:
While all the Biafrans have avoided this thread, if you can notice, you have shown by this courage, the man that you are.

But if I may ask, what historical or ancestral connections do you have with the lands of present-day Cameroons to have adopted their names?

Until recently were you not the ones telling us that Biafra was indigenous to Igbo, that Bia means come, Fara means take; that Biafra, therefore, is a compund Igbo name meaning Come and Take.

She blocked him when she refused to give him her phone cos she knew he'd check....she probably deleted some chats. It's basic and I expect you to know

Divoc19:
For her to have blocked his line on WhatsApp, it means she is trying to lay him off.

At least she is open to work with you against the maga.

Tell her no more lies.
That girl like you o.
Marry her.

Lagos then far more organized than now...what an irony!

Niger Delta oil money being wasted on bandits.

Niger Delta people, una see una life?

Tinubu contribution to Lagos was less than Lagos would have been if Tinubu wasn't there!

What exactly did Tinubu transform?

irepnaija4eva:
Nawa oo..

But i don't get why southerners are so docile..
What exactly do they want from Tinubu?

Why do they see him as a threat?..
Somebody worked so hard to get this far, transformed a state from a slum to the third highest financial capital in Africa.

If the Northerners had someone like Tinubu's acumen, do you think they will tolerate any form of political intimidation on their son?

Funny enough his most vocal prosecutors are from his own kingsmen.. Bode george comes to mind.. In as much he might have few skeletons in his cupboard but please tell me who is a saint..?

Infact the southern political folks na reall mumu.

And i also believed that Tinubu would have gather more southern sympathy if only he avoided some annoying political statements against the south just to seek favours in the eyes of the North..

The Op wants us to pretend that Bubu is not a tribal bigot.

Can you show a credible link that suggest Onu never contested?

In any case, you saying Lagos-Ibadan press has been misinforming Nigerians for ages!

Removing someone does not prevent him from telling the whole world if he is courageous. As a former occupier of that office, he already had access to credible data but probably look lacked courage

valentineuwakwe:
My Friend, pls KEEP QUITE!
who told you Hausa are the majority in Nigeria? Is it the cook up or inflated census their British master handed over to us. Why are the fulanis not group and numbered separately?
See, the yorubas are the largest followed by the Igbos, so stop this 1960 mentality of yours. Ask any sincere chairman of National census board, they will tel you the truth.why was festus odumegwu, the brewery man removed as the census board chairman? He saw many anomlities n wsnted to tell the world the truth.

Anyway, continue to ride in northern sentiment!