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Did he loose 11 years of his life by marrying her? What makes you think a younger lady will leave as well? Are you assuming he learned nothing from this marriage?

Amberon:
Both parties are at a loss contrary to your opinion. You think a younger ,
hotter woman will love him? Lmao. She will only be there for his money and leave again and the cycle continues. Moreover, will he get 11 years of his life back?

Select unromantic scenes? The scene she acted with wale Ojo in Alter Ego nko?

wristbangle:
You have a point. It's good to have holistic view about an issue before judging. I think I will agree to an extent because her career went oblivion when she married. Omotola is married and that never stopped her acting career, though she selects the unromantic acting scenes which shows respect for her spouse.

Because you're waiting for moneybags. You have a company, why not settle with a guy that's isnt that rich but driven?

victorian:
The reasons are not baseless o.

Yes alot of ladies will pray to be in her shoes but not every lady would want to be in her shoes.
For example : all through last year, suitors were coming but they all. Wanted me to close down my company and be a full time house wife.

Why? They were scared men will keep wooing me even after marriage and it's best to lock me up and not work. Just eat, fucvk, drink and breed babies.

Sighs
I was virtually crying to one old man who's my friend at my office building. I told him why are men like this?

Why should I close up what makes me happy, give me joy and keeps my brain working. And Just stay at home and be watching telemundo day in day out! But why are men this selfish!
Why must I shut down this part of my life, just because I want to marry!

It's not fair! I rather remain single ,keep running my company, meet people everyday than marry and just seat at home and keep getting fatter everyday with kids running around. Why cant I have both!

Guess what the old man said?

But why did she accept to marry into the family? To change their lifestyle or isolate their son?

victorian:
What do u expect from a billionaire family, who wants to look good in the eyes of the public!
And it's not like she comes from a wealthy aristocratic home anyways.
They will always say, what will make them look good in the eyes of people.
This Akande family live in the eyes of the public. Everything they do, must align with what's acceptable in their circle of clicks and in the eyes of the public.
They are like the royal family of England. Too many rules and regulationsto abide to, as a wife.

If a wife coming in, is not used to such rules and regulations in her own quaters, she will eventually Run and leave the husband, not even divorce sef! Because they won't grant her one

Money is not the issue here.

The Akande are not broke!

Her lifestyle was simply over controlled and that's where cracks will form and start growing until everything collapse.

She is likely to start dating from one guy to another from now on cos most men will confirm she cannot stay one place. The Olumide eyes don clear, next time he will listen to his parents and marry a calm woman

victorian:
I'm not surprised.
I was expecting it anyways

I'm surprised they lasted this long!

.when a carefree woman is overly controlled in an aristocrat marriage, just to please everyone in the marriage especially the parents of the man. Just give her some few years, all hell will let loose if the parents of the guy, do not wear off their hold in the son's marriage.

Red flag I saw : She cut off her dada, that one alone ehn? It's finished in that marriage. Even though she agreed to cut it off. One huge part of her died already on that spot but the husband will not know the damage he has done to her inner being, just to please family and make her look the ideal wife in the eyes of the public.

Then making her a full time housewife? When she's a busy bee? So someonelse will not snatch her from him? I laugh in Chinese!

So tell me, Was she not snatched in the end? She couldn't even wait to be divorced properly before dating another guy, whom I believe will be a free spirited guy.

Guys what you fear most in marriage and try everything possible to make sure it doesnt happen, will eventually happen. It's life. Don't allow your fears over take the running of your once loving and smooth relationship before u guys get married.

All I see here is a free spirited woman who has set herself free from bondage called marriage. She thought she will be free like when she was single. She didn't know she will tied to all sorts of rules and regulations by the family. What a shock for her!

She's not going back to that family again she's gone for good.

Everything is not all about money.

Not any man. Dont generalize helplessly! She isnt that fine!

We4all:
Say what! I can't believe they are no more together. Truly, love doesn't sustain a union cos I can bet my life that in the beginning, they were so in love.

Dakore is pretty, charming, charismatic, and I'm not surprised that Olumide fell helplessly in love with her. Any man would. I used to think that he loved her more than she did, judging by the way he used to stare at her while in public together. It was like, he couldn't get enough of her.

Unfortunately, things had to go south, and I wish both of them the very best that life can offer. I'm just so sad to know that they have parted ways.

You ain't coherent here

Osaze007:
So shut up one Nigeria

Even if Nigeria breaks up, Igbos will still be in Oduduwa Republic just as they are in US, UK, Ghana, Canada etc so gas nothing to do with breakup

Osaze007:
Why can’t igbos move back to their region ?

You dont have public decorum. You need training!

DaBullIT:
Name the 12 new federal universities and the almajiri schools

And which minumum wage again? Which power project please which road did he build? Lagos Ibadan express was abandoned cos of non payment of contractors, if you have any memory, contractors claimed they were owed money and sued FG, buhari cleared that debt and engaged other contractors


This almajiri school issue has been discussed extensively here on NL, it's audio school northerners confirmed there's nothing like that



No new federal University or poly was constructed, what happened was repairs and alleged upgrade of existing ones


You are a bloody liar


A shameless one at that


Even if your claims were true, does that make the frauds perpetrated by GEJ and cronies lesser crime?



Bad belle element

Who voted for Bubu in the 2019 election despite his monumental failures? The useless and lazy YOUTHS!

Mouthgag:
More than 100 billion dollars since 1960


It won't be well with generation of 55 to 85 years... THEY MESSED UP EVERYTHING FOR US.

USELESS LEADERS

What are you afraid of? We were individuals groups about 150yrs ago

Waterview:
is it a must to break up?

SW doesn't support break-up period!

You guys just went into overdrive to be spamming everywhere with rail project progressed under GEJ as the only project Bubu is doing. Even Ameachi said he never knew we had rail this much when they came in 2015!

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.pulse.ng/news/chibuike-amaechi-i-never-knew-nigerian-railways-were-functioning-says-minister-of/qv5bf56.amp

Ask Asari Dokubo. He considers his people Biafrans. I'm from anioma, where are you from?

BeLookingIDIOT:
I saidly "hardly",no need giving me the few cases.Whenever you talk of Biafra outside the five Igbo states then at most you should only talk of behalf of the Igbo regions like Anioma.Stop lumping the whole SS as part of biafra,it's very annoying.We here don't consider ourselves biafrans.

Then you are myopic. People are not naturally greedy. A failing system kicks in the survival instinct and self preservation. That's what you see as greed. Yugoslavia broke up to about 8 countries and each one of them today is more successful than Yugoslavia!

dukeprince50:
if you go through my comments, you will know my state produce more oil than both SS and SE join together, but I do not shout breakup because I know our problem is not northerners but greedy people and even if we separate, it will not change

You deliberately forgot 12 federal universities,
rail lines, road network, power projects, almajiri schools, doubling of minimum wage, etc...You guys are just useless!

DaBullIT:
I will blame GEJ for being wasteful during oil boom and he had every opportunity to repair rotten Nigeria he met, instead he chose audio projects

Cassava Bread, GSM for farmers, stove for rural settlers not to mention oil money arms money that were stolen right under his nose

Kwale has oil and Anioma in Delta state is not minority! You can see that Lagos and Ondo has oil so why is SW jittery when breakup is mentioned?

BeLookingIDIOT:
First of all the oil producing areas in those SS states hardly extends to the Igbo regions,you should be thanking yakubu gowon for including some of you guys amongst them.Secondly,you still are minority tribe in the SS.You don't even have same origin with other SS tribes who mostly share same origin.
So Berra Kip quayet.

Taking responsibility whether you're directly responsible or not is leadership! Up PDP!

Everytime you people keep pushing GEJ's project as Bubu's own just to make it seem Bubu is working. Bubu has failed woefully!

NwekeUG:
IgbereTV reports that the 157km Lagos Ibadan rail is taking shape. This was Kajola part in Ogun state. It starts from Apapa Warf in Lagos to Ibadan, Oyo State. Started by Jonathan, continued by Buhari in 2017

Completion date is April 2020, according to Amaechi Rotimi, minister of transportation.

http://igberetvnews.com/1233606/new-157km-lagos-ibadan-rail-photos/

Answer the question! Has APC ever won Edo in a presidential election?

Osaze007:
No point of arguing with you 2023 is almost here

He was right on Saraki's impeachment as dead on arrival!

Sanchez01:
Pa Chuks, NONE of permutations or analysis have ever been right, even by half. I sincerely think you shouldn't involve in permutations so long it is politics.

SW was nowhere for years in the ruling class. Just 4yrs of Bubu with Osinbajo being enslaved and Tinubu afraid to speak, all of a sudden you wanna die ontop Igbo matter. Talking about bridge from generation to generation! Tinubu will follow Awolowo route

Oshigun:
You Igbos are not building any damn bridge. You are just being cowardly and scarred stiff of crushing defeat and humiliating rejection you know Nigerians will deal you in 2023 if any Party dare presents an Igbo as Presidential candidate.

Building bridges would be changing your everyday talk and behaviour so you are more acceptable to the electorate. You don't build bridges by refusing to contest an election while refusing to review the attitude, utterances, anti-nation bullishness , negativity and prejudices that made you very unpopular and unelectable in the first place. Common sense my friend.

If you objectively look at the numbers, Bubu won first term due to middle belt and Jega disenfranchisement of PDP strongholds due to different standards of voter cards distribution.
Second term was rigged, Bubu never won and SW difference in its entirety is about 200k, much lower than only Abia state votes to PDP.

Oshigun:
Indeed. This is what I was telling them above. Yet what do you expect? Is it not only Igbos who continue to feign ignorance of the political sagacity, efficacy, vision and greatness of Awolowo till date?

Tinubu they see as similar to Awolowo will ever get any acknowledgement or praise from the biggest practitioners of hate politics in Nigeria and perhaps the world? Can we not remember Igbos spamming all internet outlets in 2014 to claim Tinubu is a local champion, with influence limited alone to the SW, who can never help Buhari to Aso Rock? As they say, and to the disgrace of Igbos again, the rest is history and Buhari is two-term President with Tinubu playing a starring role in the two elections PMB won.

I too wonder how Igbos think and if indeed they are sick. I can only conclude that the loss of the civil war, and how they blame the Yorubas for that, has induced a psychosis in Igbos they are not able to dislodge.

He said Saraki will finish his Senate presidency,
dint he?

midolian:
In fact, the moment pachukwudi44 gives a prediction, it is safe to assume what will happen to be the other way round.

You can't use rigging to ascribe popularity. The elections under APC are highly rigged!

Oshigun:
All you Igbos do is think and talk emotionally and this is why you lose out 100% over events of the past 7 years in our politics. Whether it is predicting Buhari will never lead Nigeria, shouting "Tinubu's boy" (Gbajabiamila) can never lead our lower house or claiming Saraki is the smartest politician to live and that he will defeat PMB and Tinubu easily, Igbos always get it badly wrong. This is because your sentimental outlook leads you to speak based on what you want to see rather than what on-ground reality indicates is possible.

Firstly, PDP, or any Nigerian Party for that matter, cannot zone its Presidential ticket to the SE for now, or even the next 10 years, because Igbos are simply not electable as per our top job. Other Nigerians will simply reject any Igbo candidate presented in 2023 and several elections after that as long as everyday perception of Igbos, fuelled by what Igbos themselves do, remains the same. No Nigerian will be happy voting for Igbos who are the least patriotic elements in Nigeria, always agitation for secession, to lead us. No Party will therefore commit suicide to lose an election before even a single vote is cast by running with an Igbo Presidential candidate.

Secondly, claims Tinubu is no match for Tambuwal or Kwankwaso is just another Igbo-centric opinion and we know how flawed your opinions have been over the years. If you are not overestimating the strength of Saraki and Dogara you are downplaying the real influence and power of the likes of PMB, Tinubu, Fashola et al merely because of your tribalistic, sentimental and hateful approach to politics. Best to let you carry on with your anti-Yoruba analysis till reality sets you straight in the future as always happens.

It was rigged! No such votes!

mrvitalis:
The same region that gave bihari so much votes that if u remove all he got from south he still won

Those are the north

Crimes are not general. You may have kidnapping in east and north central, you may have money laundering and cultism in Lagos and Rivers,
you may have ritualists in Ogun, you may have terrorism in Kogi and North east etc...these require state police to prioritize and strategize according to their peculiarities. Also, there should be district policing. For Pete's sake, why not reapply standard practice?

Afamed:
You are repeating state police as if their mentality and personality will be different from same Federal police.From any informed mind, you have not said anything

You like a man pretending to be asleep, you're pretending not to understand. But who cares!

Afamed:
You are just jumping from pillar to post without a clear definition

Its going to be a formal organization with standard operating procedures. Have you heard of NYPD and LAPD? Headed by qualified high ranking police officers and not some àare kakanfo

Afamed:
Stop being clever by half. The professional police, are they going to be drawn from American cops / British police?

It will be professional police with constitutional backing....not local vigilante

Afamed:
And the state police will come from America and Britain?

We need to restructure and have state police. SW should quit this pretence!

That Ibadan-Lagos rail line was started before 2014. I saw it then while traveling from Ibadan to lagos.

Guestlander:
First of all, the Lagos to Ibadan railway project was started under the Buhari administration. If you are not daft as you are trying to convince me then you will know that it is absurd to thank Jonathan for it.

We know when the contract was signed and when the actual construction started, all under Buhari. If you are not dumb then you should know that the success or failure of this project can only be attributed to Buhari's administration and not Jonathan.
I bet when the second Niger bridge is completed you will also thank Jonathan for it. If you are not a kid then I'm sorry for you.

Is it the defeated Bokoharam?