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socialmediaman:
Will these be her full time job or she’ll be able to keep up with their daily work and other life doing all these?

Lmao.
She will find a way to balance it with her job.
I am only trying to help a sister out.
She said guys have been hurting her.

quintessence007:
Good day everyone. I am a lady that has never cheated or double dated in a relationship, I usually cast my love and attention on whoever I'm dating but I realize that men don't appreciate loyalty. Eventually you'll be taken for granted (they prefer girls that won't have time for them) I wish I could be one of those smart girls the have the grace to double date and still be cool. Pls my fellow ladies how do you do it. I really need some tutorial pls help a sister.

Let me help you out.
First, get a guy that is better than your current bf; in terms of money, looks and care.
Two; Learn how to control your emotions. Love yourself selfishly; that way, none of the guys will matter to you. You will just use them for sex, money or to cure boredom.
Three; Put your WhatsApp, Facebook, Telegram and all social media on lock.
Nobody should be able to access it except you.
Put a fingerprint on your phone or use a strong password no one will be able to decode.
Always clear your WhatsApp messages, text messages and never leave any trace.
When you are with the first guy, put your phone on Silent and turn the phone face down.
If you are pressing the phone beside him, put the phone in aeroplane mode.
Finally; Learn to be a user.

Barrister026:
My wife left me December 18th during the festive period to her home town, til this moment I haven't had sex. Trust me it hasn't really been easy we can't fight nature.
All the temptations at work and along the roadside when am on wheels my eyes are seeing.

So I decided to visit a popular relaxing spot this evening to while away time, ordered gulder to quench my taste... to my surprise they were girls displaying their markets.

At first I ignored, but body just did me one kind, I signalled one to come sit with me bought her drink and from there ask her how much she charge.

(Which she told me, saying she go do me well)
Then I had a war going on in my mind, hope you know say you be married man?.

Seriously I got married since 2019, I haven't had another lady apart from my wife.


So we went to her room, I gave her money..she was about to pull her top.

I don't know what got into me, I say "hi please don't bother....." She was surprised.

I went outside sweating.... the money I gave her didn't pain me.

What pain me is am so ashamed of myself for even having that thought.

Even though I didn't do the act, I feel like have cheated already for entering her room.

(This feeling didn't come because she's a prostitutes, I know I feel same way if it's a normal lady)

So married men how do you confidently cheat on your wife without remorse?

You are still learner when it comes to cheating.

frozen70:
Starting a relationship with false is as bad as a time bomb

You had those kids out of problems and you understand yourself better than anyone

It's now up to you to change your behaviour and attitude to accept things and relate with yourself

Now the main issue here is that you have to inform him about those kids else you loose him wjek he finds out even if he finds out a day after wedding if he wants to opt out of the marriage he will

So summon the courage seat him down and open up to him

He is still the one to decide if to stay with you or not

https://www.nairaland.com/6930511/single-mother-1-married-actually#109205232
Read this.
That is the update.

frozen70:
Starting a relationship with false is as bad as a time bomb

You had those kids out of problems and you understand yourself better than anyone

It's now up to you to change your behaviour and attitude to accept things and relate with yourself

Now the main issue here is that you have to inform him about those kids else you loose him wjek he finds out even if he finds out a day after wedding if he wants to opt out of the marriage he will

So summon the courage seat him down and open up to him

He is still the one to decide if to stay with you or not

You are late to the party.
Kasala don burst already.
Let me help you search for the link to the post by her husband.

OP, see your wife's profile on nairaland

OP, is this your wife?
https://www.nairaland.com/6846859/scared-wedding-month-havent-told

Why are you still holding on to a woman who is no longer interested in you. Let her go. Move on with your life. You have tried your best.

bigpicture001:
My girlfriend whom I have planned to settle down with simply started acting cold and eventually stylishly slide out of our relationship because I sat her down and made a family financial support proposal to her in which she will be financially committed to running the proposed family we intend to raise...

These are the proposal...

1. She earns about 80k wile I earn about 300k.. I asked that we jointly contribute for all the children's Career funding starting from when we get married even before any of their birth.. I proposed 10k monthly from her and 40k from me to a trust account. From it we plan to fund all the children's Career from kiddagatten to varsity or which ever path they choose..

2. That sh choose between Nepa bill or DStv or gotv sub monthly..just one for her

3. I will be responsible for rents

4. We pay into another joint account for vacation once in two years..like sh puts in 20k I put in 50k monthly..

5. I provide all the heavy food stuffs required in the house in large quantities including gas ND change of electronics, but sh provide all the daily food supplements to mk mine complete.

6. She buys her clothes ND I buy mine but we can both surprise ourselfs with gift to the other..

7. I will buy the family car ND maintain it. If she buys no p.

8. I didn't rule out surprise gifts once a while and outting which I bankroll ND expect her to do same occasionally..

Plz oo nairalanders are these responsibilities to a wife too much for her, I mean one who works and earn over 50k...?

Oga, you are selfish. Thank God she left you. You are the head of the family so all the responsibility falls on you.
Will you also share house chores with her? Will you share pregnancy with her? Will you share the stress in the Labour room with her?
You are just being selfish. Man up and take all your responsibility and stop acting like a gigolo.

Babara1994:
There is this lady I liked. We met three months ago. Recently, she asked me to lend her 5k, adding that the money will be returned back in a week's time.

I had the money, but I knew from experience that lending females money, especially the ones you're crushing on is a waste of money. I declined and told her I wasn't interested in her any longer.

4 hours later, one of my male friends asked me to lend him 10k, stating that he would repay in two weeks' time. I sent him the money immediately.

Did I do wrong?

You are just a stingy guy.
Cover your face in Shame.
Ordinary 5k, you couldn't dash her.

Kelvinhunta:
It's easy if you follow the blueprint of people that has been there before.i can show the first 5 people for free that will chat me on WhatsApp,08023599931. It's not a bet odd or MMM ooo . You must be willing to be trained/mentored, have or download zoom on your phone and have internet.

You guys should be careful of this guy.

Kriss216:
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She collected the money from you ist semester final year.


Let's assume you lash her 3 times a day for one year.

30 days in a month minus 4 days of menustration period.,

26*3 = 78 lashes monthly
78*12 = 936 lashes a year(final year)

N500 per lash*963 = N468,000.


How you take dey owe her up to N10 million? Is her kpekus laced with raw golds

How can you calculate 500naira per lash. Some pussies are not cheap o. The minimum is 10k so he is definitely oweing her.

Fred166:
I married my beautiful wife January this year, I Love my wife so much, I have never cheated on her since we got married. I opened a business for her worth 900k. i've already promised her a car this coming year (well I ride camry muscle and I'm tired of sharing the car with her).

My wife is too lazy, all she cares about is her eye lashes, make-up, nails and watching Zeeworld all day, She goes to her shop 10am and return 3pm, She barely take care of the house. Sometimes the plate I used for breakfast before going to work would still be on the dining table unwashed when I return. Her make-up tools and bag littered everywhere in our sitting room.

We're expecting our 1st child, Now that She's pregnant (4 months) she's worst. Na so so chop chop, I will jokingly say babe Pls don't go out of shape I won't look ur side again, Is like the more I beg, the more she chop chop. ...weird food carvings. Coconut water and bread, shawarma and pepper soup with sugar cane in her hand, I dare not buy it for her otherwise I won't sleep.

I still cook when I'm back from work. Anytime I tried to talk to her, she would say can't I see she's pregnant, she's having waist pain, leg pain, Infact body pains. I wanted to employ a maid she refused, she spoke ill about maids, she said they are husband snatchers e.t.c.

3 days ago, She asked me to renew our dstv sub and I refused. Yesterday I noticed she has done it (first time). I saw her watching Zeeworld, laughing sheepishly and pointing to the TV, I needed to watch man united match so I changed the channel, she dragged the remote control from me and changed it bact to Zeeworld, she said I'm too stingy, I didn't sub for her, I refused to buy her a car.

I don't know what to do. With her lazy attitude I'm scared during delivery she would be saying I can't push o.

Experienced men help a brother.

Oga, Congratulations. You married a Slay Queen. This is what happens when you marry for beauty and big yansh. So please get a maid and deal with it. The bitter truth is that she won't change. Things will only get worse when she gives birth so brace yourself up for it.

Myexdisturbs:
My mom--50k

My dad--60k

My mother/father-in-law= 25k

So you gave your mum 50k and your dad 60k.
Seems you love your dad more than your mum.
Hmmmmmmmm.

Greatn3ss:
Good day Nairaland family

My sister has been married with 3 kids for 5 years now, she works with a company that pays her 80k every month, the husband also earns the same amount though he works in a different organization.


Problem started when they recently parked into their new apartment they managed to build, the house is very much far from their work place that they had to return very late from work everyday (between 10pm-11pm) and when they calculate the cost of transportation everyday in a month they are left with nothing, and on the same hand the kids will have to stay in their neighbors place and wait till when their parents are back.

Now the husband is suggesting the wife should stop working so they can put out things in order, but the wife is insisting she won't quit her job knowing well that the husband's salary alone cannot sustain the family.

Please what do you suggest can be done to help this situation?

The wife should not quit her job or else they will all suffer with the kids.
3kids in this Buhari era with 160k every month is not even enough not to talk of slashing the salary to 80k.
The husband and the wife should rent a place closer to their work place and rent their building out.
The previous decision they made by moving into their house was penny wise, pound foolish.

ahmedaturboy:
There is this girl at my work place i always liked and vice versa. The feeling grew to the extent that my line manager called me to ask what's in-between us both. But since I was yet to ask her out i said nothing...along the line she started given me attitude and i just immediately distant my self from her guessing someone else has come in between us.

The dating didn'tast and she came back trying to mend things. But i rejected her cos i was pained with what happened. She latter won my heart but whenever i request for hangout she do always give one excuses or the order..lately, she started having an affair with another guy in my work place..I've tried avoiding her but since she's under me she needs to report to me every evening....

The problem here is i can't control my feelings for her anymore and given the environment where i work am scared of being set up cos my work place is a devil's kingdom...

Advice on what to do pls

If I was your Boss, I will sack you so you can concentrate on the lady.
You don't care about your job at all.

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Philip4564:
Hi fellow nairalanders. As we are approaching Christmas what are you planning or what gift do you intend to give your parent this festive period? Let's hear from you guys

I am buying a Gift Hamper(it contains milo, milk, cornflakes, semo 1kg, macaroni, pringles, Quaker oats, Custard, Eva wine and a medium kings oil) plus 5k chicken.
That's what I can afford.
The economy is not smiling and my son resumes school next year.

emmanuelewumi:
It still boils down to the fact that you don't understand why you want to buy or pass.

Answer the questions
Yes or No
That's what we want to hear.

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Smoothbabykong:
Hi guys,
I need your honest opinions about my relationship.

My girlfriend and I have been dating for quite a while but I don't know what is happening at the moment.

The problem is this, we both live in the UK. We have made plans to get married and we have plans to start up a business in Nigeria. The truth is that she kept some money with me and I used it to sort some debts out but was planning to give the money back to her when she is ready to leave for Nieria.

What really happened was that there was a certain money given to me by another to help him send down to Nigeria. Out of trust, I told another friend of mine to handle the transaction but unfortunately it all went sideways. So I had to use the money with me to sort the debt out while I recover the other from my other friend.

My girlfriend has been asking me for the money and I lied to her that it's in my account but there has been sort of a problem with it which she believed. The day she was suppose to go to Nigeria, she still asked about it and she told me if I was busy my friend (she knows the guy) can pick up the money for her because she needs to sort some things out enroute to Nigeria. I called my friend and told him to lie to her that the money is with him and I will know what to tell her till I can recover the money from him.

Later that day, she called me and was crying that I betrayed her. She told me everything that happened to her money which means my friend must have told her. She hung up. I tried calling my friend, he has blocked me. Lots of things were through my mind. Dont know what to do. She sent me a few messages and blocked me on both WhatsApp and via calls. When she got to Nigeria that same day, she unblocked me. She told me I have to pay and I said yes I will. I admitted I lied and I tried to explain to her why I lied. Its been a week. I have tried apologizing twice. She read it and ignored me. I told her send me the account she wants the payment. She didn't reply. Fortunately I have her brother's account number and sent her 70 percent of her money and I sent her the receipt too. I only managed to get that amount after selling my car off with a few gadgets and electronics in my house.

I don't know whether to just forget about her or to wait till when she is ready to talk.

She has done outrageous things in past which I have overlooked also. I have even resulted maybe she has another person with in Nigeria and I should just move on.

Thanks for your opinions

You are a liar and a thief.
Your gf trusted you with money, you betrayed her, yet you still have the mouth to come to naira land and say nonsense.
That girl is too good for you. She deserves someone better that knows her worth.
You deserve urgent 2k girls.

Raymond0008:
Try abuja men

Abuja men are worse.
They are parasites.

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omlueh:
Madness begot Madness, the oromoni family are very gentle and weak, in cases like this, you just let it rest for like four years, and all those names mentioned or associated with his death including members of the school authority trying to cover up for this dastardly evil act will be ELIMINATED one by one from this planet to the last person. Bastards

Thank you.
I support this.
An eye for an eye.
Do me I do you.
The problem with Nigerians is that they always leave everything for God.
I am sure other parents will come out and deny that their children were not involved in the incident.
Trust Nigerian Justice system, no one will be held responsible.

Sctests:
That Kashamu must be the leader of the cult group.

I swear.
Same thing on my mind.
An Apple doesn't fall far from the tree.

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