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Family / Re: My Mom Doesn't Appreciate Me. How Do I Handle This? by dokkyelele(f): 4:58pm On Sep 21, 2023
Dealing with a situation where a parent does not appreciate you can be difficult and emotionally challenging. Here are some steps you can take to handle this situation:

1. Self-reflection: Begin by reflecting on your own feelings and reactions towards your mother's lack of appreciation. It's important to understand your emotions and how they are affecting your relationship with her.

2. Open communication: Find a calm and non-confrontational moment to express your feelings to your mother. Use "I" statements to avoid blaming her or making her defensive. Let her know how her lack of appreciation makes you feel and why it is important to you.

3. Seek understanding: Try to understand your mother's perspective as well. Is there any underlying reason that may be causing her behavior? Empathy and open-mindedness can help you gain insight into her side of the story.

4. Set boundaries: If your mother's attitude continues to negatively impact your well-being, it might be necessary to establish healthy boundaries. These boundaries can help protect you from further emotional harm. Communicate and explain your boundaries with love and respect.

5. Focus on self-care: When dealing with difficult relationships, it's crucial to prioritize your self-care. Engage in activities that bring you joy and surround yourself with a support system of friends and loved ones who appreciate and value you.
Also remember, healing and resolving complex relationship issues take time. It's important to be patient and compassionate with both yourself and your mother as you work towards a healthier and more appreciative relationship.
Romance / Re: I Need A Boyfriend... (requirements Included) by dokkyelele(f): 10:52pm On Aug 19, 2023
Hi!

My name is boredberry... I'm 19... And I need a boyfriend... He must reside in Abuja or be willing to travel to Abuja if he resides in other state... I don't discriminate but I would prefer a southerner, esp from these south-south states (Delta, Edo, Port Harcourt) or a south westerner excluding those from Ogun and Osun...

He must be tall... I'm 5.5 so he must be above 5.7...

I prefer dark men... Who doesn't love chocolate? But if he's fair and attractive I might consider...

He could be a Christian or a muslim... But I don't want someone who's too religious... I'm not really a believer but I'm very tolerant... I hate fanatics...

I need a man who's a lover of science! And mythology, astrology, history and so on...

A pan-African...

An avid reader...

He must be creative... Someone who sees things from many perspectives... Thinks outside the box...

He must be funny! And polite enough to laugh at my lame jokes...

Be considerate and kind... I need someone with a heart... Emphatic and with a vision to change the world in his own little way...

I need a man who is a lover of life! Drinks, smokes, enjoys going out and meeting new people...

Someone who takes risks... Loves adventures... Anything but common...

He must enjoy travelling... Excited by foreign cultures, esp those that are African...

Be a foodie...

I love public display of affection! So he should love holding me and being held... Kissed... Etc...

Be a dog person... Love the idea of having pets... I grew up with dogs and cats even chickens! So I love animals!

Someone who's childish and fun to be with... Silly and cute... I love men who are boyish...

He shouldn't be an alpha... He should love himself and all that... But I like men who are sensitive... So he shouldn't think feeling sad or even crying is a sign of weakness...

I'll continue... smiley



Do you have money.... Plenty money?
Politics / Re: Fashola: Nnamdi, Chike Ibezim (Reportera) Not In Our Custody - DSS by dokkyelele(f): 10:05am On Aug 15, 2023
Tntsi:
My own with fashola and that report is that, if your hands are clean and its just a rumor, may God prosper you and your family.

But if the report of getting involed to manipulate the presidential election in any form is true, then you and your generations will carry the pains and torture Nigerians are going through .

How old are you

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Romance / Re: I Regret Not Making My Marriage Work, And Now My Husband Is Happily Remarried by dokkyelele(f): 5:30pm On Aug 14, 2023
Vijuchoco:
Chai! It's really painful when you realize you can no longer right your wrong. I feel for her..

I have a similar regret cry

I am so sorry about that don't worry healing become to you
Romance / Re: How To Deflower A Virgin by dokkyelele(f): 1:21pm On Aug 13, 2023
Anny69:
😂😂😂😂

You are very funny I think I like you
Romance / Re: How To Deflower A Virgin by dokkyelele(f): 1:07pm On Aug 13, 2023
But if she doesn't mind then chat me up to take you to the next step of juice .
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Romance / How To Deflower A Virgin by dokkyelele(f): 1:01pm On Aug 13, 2023
[b][/b]Let me go straight to the point without further delay

Start with some good hugging and kissing and let her feel relaxed. UnCloth her very slowly, taking time, and kissing her as you slowly uncover her skin. Be really gentle and go really slow. By the time you have her fully undressed, you should have covered her body with your kisses....
Then wake up from your dream because what you are about to do is going to change your life and her life forever.

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Family / Re: What Do We Expect A 40 Year Old Man To Have Achieved In Nigeria? by dokkyelele(f): 11:31am On Aug 13, 2023
The achievements expected of a 40-year-old man in Nigeria can vary based on individual circumstances, aspirations, and opportunities. However, some possible achievements that individuals may aim for by the age of 40 could include:

1. Establishing a stable career or business: By this age, many people aspire to have a stable and fulfilling career or a successful business that provides financial security and personal satisfaction.

2. Owning a home or property: Acquiring a property or working towards homeownership is often considered a significant milestone for many individuals.

3. Supporting a family: It is common for people around this age to have started a family and taken on responsibilities as a spouse and parent, providing emotional and financial support to their loved ones.

4. Accumulating savings and financial stability: By 40, many individuals aim to have built a solid financial foundation, including savings, investments, and retirement plans.

5. Higher education or professional development: Pursuing further education, acquiring additional professional qualifications, or progressing in one's chosen field can be important achievements by this age.

6. Active involvement in community or social initiatives: Engaging in community development or social initiatives, such as volunteering, mentoring, or contributing positively to society, is often considered significant.

It's important to remember that individual goals and achievements can differ, and societal expectations can vary. What matters most is personal fulfillment and leading a purposeful life aligned with one's values and aspirations.

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Religion / Re: What Do You Think Of Christians That Go To Work On Sunday? by dokkyelele(f): 11:23am On Aug 13, 2023
I really don't have personal opinions or beliefs. However, I can provide you with information on this topic.

For Christians, Sunday is considered a holy day and is traditionally observed as a day of rest and worship. Many Christians choose not to work on Sundays in order to attend religious services and spend time with their families. However, it is important to note that not all Christians adhere to this practice, as work schedules and cultural norms vary across different regions and individuals. Ultimately, the decision to work on Sundays is a personal choice influenced by one's faith, work requirements, and personal circumstances.
Family / Re: I'm Tired, My Husband Is Mentally Challenged by dokkyelele(f): 7:17pm On Jul 30, 2023
I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult time. It's completely normal to feel tired and overwhelmed, especially when you're facing challenges within your marriage. Remember, your emotions are valid, and it's important to take care of yourself during this process.

Before making any decisions, it may be helpful to seek support from friends, family, or a therapist who can provide guidance and help you explore your options. They may be able to offer different perspectives and strategies for coping with the challenges you're facing.

Communication is crucial in any relationship, and it might be beneficial to express your concerns to your husband. However, navigating a relationship with someone who has a mental challenge can be complex, and it's important to approach such a conversation with empathy and patience. Open and honest dialogue might bring you closer together and help you both understand each other's needs and perspectives.

Lastly, it's important to remember that there is a way out of any difficult life situation. It may take time, support, and hard work, but there is always hope for positive change. Stay strong, seek the help you need, and keep believing in yourself.

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Romance / Re: Why Infidelity Is On The Rise In Marriages by dokkyelele(f): 9:19pm On Jul 29, 2023
You are right about your reasons but professionally I would say the following

1. Increased opportunities: Today's digital age has made it easier to connect with others and engage in extramarital affairs through various platforms. Social media, dating apps, and online interactions provide more opportunities to encounter new people.

2. Distorted perception of relationships: Unrealistic expectations of love and relationships can be a contributing factor. Media, movies, and other influences often portray idealized versions of romance, leading individuals to seek the thrill of new connections instead of navigating the challenges within their current relationship.

3. Lack of emotional fulfillment: When emotional needs are not met within a marriage, individuals may be inclined to seek fulfillment elsewhere. Feeling neglected, unappreciated, or unloved can create vulnerabilities that make people more susceptible to seeking emotional connections outside their relationship.

4. Impulsive behavior: Engaging in infidelity is sometimes associated with impulsive decision-making. Actively managing emotions, practicing self-control, and considering the consequences of one's actions can be challenging for some individuals.

It's important to remember that addressing issues related to infidelity requires open and honest communication between partners. Both individuals need to actively work on rebuilding trust, understanding each other's emotional needs, and identifying the root causes that contributed to the infidelity.
Stay bless
Romance / Re: What Advice Do You Have For A 35 Year Old With No Job, No Skill, No Wife . by dokkyelele(f): 11:02am On Jul 29, 2023
Sirchiboy:
He is my friend and is on the verge of giving up on life.
Please advice him

I understand that it can be incredibly challenging to find yourself in a situation where you feel like you have no job, no skills, and no partner. It's important to remember that you are not alone and that there is always a way forward.

Firstly, take a deep breath and give yourself some compassion. It's important not to be too hard on yourself during these challenging times. Many people go through periods of career uncertainty and feel a lack of progress in their personal lives. Remember that setbacks are a normal part of life, and they don't define your worth or potential.

Start by assessing your skills and interests. Take some time to reflect on what you enjoy doing and what you're good at. Identify any transferable skills you may have acquired from previous experiences, even if they weren't in a traditional job setting. Consider seeking out a career counselor or coach who can help you explore your options and guide you towards potential career paths that align with your strengths and interests.

In terms of finding a job, start small. Look for entry-level positions or internships in industries that interest you. Consider expanding your skills through online courses or vocational training programs if necessary. Remember that it's okay to start at the bottom and work your way up. Each step counts towards building a stronger future.

Regarding relationships, it's important to focus on self-improvement and self-love first. Spend time investing in yourself and building your confidence. Engage in activities that make you happy and allow you to meet new people who share your interests. Remember, a healthy and fulfilling relationship is built on mutual respect and love for oneself and the other person. Don't rush into a relationship just for the sake of having one; let it happen naturally when the right person comes along.
WhatsApp chat to me on 0803 481 2261 and also remember, there is a way out of any difficult life situation. Stay positive, keep an open mind, and take small steps towards building a brighter future for yourself.
Stay bless

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Politics / Re: Peter Obi Didn’t Take Pictures With Simon Ekpa - Vanguard by dokkyelele(f): 6:52am On Jul 28, 2023
The question is to check the source of the picture know who created it and how did it get on social media then you can start talking.
Don't be foolish let's be guided
Romance / Is There That Thing Call True Love by dokkyelele(f): 2:19am On Jul 14, 2023
When I was younger are you still believe there is something in this earth that is called true love but now I noticed there is none
I had experienced a lot of love
lost and affection but I want to be sure before giving up if there's real and true love if you have experienced something like this before please share

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Romance / To Whomee It May Concern by dokkyelele(f): 1:03pm On Oct 11, 2022
I have claimed the highest mountain
I have ran through the fields
Only to be with u
But I still haven't found what am looking for
I know I don't have that kind of funds to fullfil all ur dreams
Nor as younger and handsome as u think I should be but believe me..am gonna do everything to make u happy cause am going to love you till the end of time and am not gonna stop till my last breath
08027245356
Business / Re: How Do I Retrieve Money I Borrowed My Crush? by dokkyelele(f): 3:06pm On Jun 23, 2022
There are many ways to collect ur money back physically or spiritually but first let me ask u these two questions
How much is the money?
Have u touched her....like kissing ...romancing. Caressingly or sex.
Religion / Re: Free Sex Is Not Really Free by dokkyelele(f): 2:08pm On Jun 05, 2022
Am a virgin
TV/Movies / Re: What Is That Movie You Will Watch Over And Over Again?? by dokkyelele(f): 3:38pm On Jun 03, 2022
The Passion of Christ
Fashion / Re: Bum Shorts: Is This The Trending Fashion Among Men? by dokkyelele(f): 3:20pm On Jun 03, 2022
Aeon werey
Romance / Re: Lady Cries Out As Her Husband Calls His Sidechick To Cook In Her Presence by dokkyelele(f): 12:47pm On Jun 01, 2022
This mata get 2 side
First as a wife u should be able to do anything for ur husband vice visa cause girls and guys are out there ready to go extra miles for what is URS.
When ur husband says he want fish pepper soup....give him fish pepper soup. He is ur husband.
Therefore I won't blame him for using one of his life lines although it's wrong to call a side chick at this moment . He can simply place an order online or take the wife out for impromptu night shopping

The second side is to the husband
Understanding is very important in a marriage. U definitely v knew it's late and she just came back tired as u. U could have called her to do so in time or kuku take her out to get it for u. That side chick move was so wrong imagine her doing that to u
Well they knew themselves before getting married we can only look and learn but if u want real talk then WhatsApp me on 08034812261
Politics / Re: Sanwo-Olu Hands Over 180 Vehicles, 6 Troop Carriers, Other Equipment To Police by dokkyelele(f): 12:40pm On Jun 11, 2021
Dabronze:
All these just because of #June12protest
LASG realy mean it


Open your eyes
It's the 2023 war against APC
Romance / Re: Have You Found Yourself In Ths Situation Before by dokkyelele(f): 8:56am On May 19, 2021
blazepascal:
The kind of feeling when you are so tired of loving someone, but you can't tell him/her because you don't want to hurt them or you don't want them to see you as bad person
What a crazy feeling!!!!

It happens most times but you just have to hold on if you truly love them, but if not then wait for them to offend you and then you drift away and make sure you won't regret it but you will if the person really loves you

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Sports / Re: Do You Engage In Highstakes Gambling? This Could Help You Stop (Pics) by dokkyelele(f): 5:38pm On May 11, 2021
Pernotti:
Note: This is for those with real addiction who engage in highstakes betting and always lose more than they're proud to admit. But if you feel in control of your finances, then just read on anyway.

I want you to understand one thing..game wey wan cut go still cut whether you play am N1m or N100, so why not choose the latter and save your money for better things.

These are screenshots of bet slips worth millions won with just N100 and they're proof that it can be done.

And even if it cuts, imagine the peace of mind you'd get knowing it was just N100.




WhatsApp me please
08034812261
Thank you
Romance / Re: Why Is It That 90% Of Guys Love Yellow Ladies ?? by dokkyelele(f): 5:40pm On May 10, 2021
AmeLonRo:
Many men love yellow ladies or light complexioned ladies. Why is it so?
Are yellow ladies better than dark or chocolate coloured ladies?
That is the one question am answering in this short video. I know you are busy so I have made the video very short and straight to the answer.
Let's sit back and enjoy the video.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PP2FZlxQyr8





Funny but true
Romance / Re: Man slams girlfriend who turned down his marriage proposal by dokkyelele(f): 5:33pm On May 10, 2021
Ruben225571:
Even your father could not afford Volvo when it was N200 -- Man slams girlfriend who turned down his marriage proposal



What’s your stake on this?
Fake lo e
Health / Re: #JusticeForPeju, #JusticeForOmolara: FCCPC Begins Investigation by dokkyelele(f): 5:07pm On May 10, 2021
Fake bet and i can prove it
Romance / Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by dokkyelele(f): 8:43am On May 02, 2021
excel001:

So if she is interested you will link her up? Meaning the guys in question are singles. Are you sure they have the money to fund their temptation




Let him give it a try...
Romance / Re: Will Men Ever Be Comfortable Knowing Their Daughter(s) Will Warm Someone's Bed? by dokkyelele(f): 9:41pm On Apr 30, 2021
seyi360:


Your diplomatic dad put the words in a mature format using euphemism . In other words, " don't sleep around, wait for the one" A good daughter after becoming someone's wife will end up warming her husband's bed. Failure to warm that matrimonial bed is antithetical to the values of a good wife.
I hear you sir
Romance / Re: Will Men Ever Be Comfortable Knowing Their Daughter(s) Will Warm Someone's Bed? by dokkyelele(f): 2:52pm On Apr 30, 2021
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My Dad once told me....Billa, keep your body safe and clean for your husband to come. A good daughter is not the one that warm bed but warm hearts and keeps her family together.

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Romance / Re: Lady Falls Down, Cries As Her Fiancé Proposes To Her On Her Birthday (Photos) by dokkyelele(f): 2:36pm On Apr 30, 2021
Gently and jeje ni wahala sit down and trouble go wake am.
No woman no cry is what they say but...
Romance / Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by dokkyelele(f): 2:27pm On Apr 30, 2021

why are you telling her sorry, it's her that cheats

In this life you need to tell people you are sorry even they were at fault.
Romance / Re: Where Can I Find A Husband Material? by dokkyelele(f): 10:46am On Apr 30, 2021
Muna4real:
Married ladies please help.

Where can I find a husband material? No reasonable and responsible men anywhere. Where una de see these husbands sef?




I know one but you have to be a wife material and be ready.

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