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akereconfi:
You are a shame, what did the previous administrations do about it,


Talk about double standards.


That train in Nigeria is far better than some of the trains in England here. I use them always so I know what am talking about.

If you Google for pictures of trains in England, what Google will show you will look like custom gold plated trains

show us the pictures....oya we dey wait.

olumidazz:
Come on doctors in the house, have you guys ever heard of anus or arse hole ache? But that's what I have been experiencing for about a week now with difficulty in passing stool and sometimes with blood and mucus. Any helps in the house?

Two things came to mind....Pile or HPV A

oboman:
Why are people blaming it on poverty? Is Edo the only poor region in Nigeria? In southern Nigeria, there are states on meagre budgets like Osun and Ebonyi State but we hardly hear their women on a trip to Italy for prostitution. I think it has to do with prostitution being culturally somewhat acceptable among the people of Edo. Are these girls and their families naive after all these years of awareness? No. If majority of the people in Edo start seeing prostitution as abhorrent, then we gonna see a decline. if the parents start saying over my dead body will my daughter leave my abode for an unknown destination, then we gonna see a downward trend in girls making that dangerous journey.

you are.not only a.fool.with this commment but....dont make me sstart with all you asswipes talking shyt about edos.You have the gut.
Your own tribeswomen are they doing same in uk,giving one child to highest bidder all in the name of citisenship,credit card scam and false marriages?. What a nerve.
Most of these girls were lied to and sponsored abroad under the guise of decent jobs just like your tribes men are using foreign women as drug mules.....best you keep your useless comments to yourselves

laroux:
Prisoners are the dregs of the society and shouldn't be have any rights whatsoever. This country never falls to amuse me all the time. Where on earth has it been heard that prisoners have the right to exercise their bloody franchise? They lost whatever rights they had the day they were convicted. Nonsense. I'm so surprised so these folks on NL actually support this crap.

And you also need to know not everyone in.prison were actually guilty.Many were victims ot circumstances,so many are awaiting trials yet still in jail.

lalasticlala:
BENIN—A Federal High Court sitting in Benin, Edo State, has held that prisoners in Nigerian prisons have the right to vote in all elections conducted in the country.

Justice Mohammed Lima, who made the ruling in a suit by Victor Emenuwe, Onome Inaye, Kabiru Abu, Osagie Iyekepolor, Modugu Odion (for and on behalf of inmates of Nigeria Prisons), against the Independent National Electoral Commission, INEC, and the Controller-General of Nigeria Prisons Service, also directed the defendants to ensure that the applicants were not disenfranchised.

The plaintiffs had, in the suit, asked the court to determine “whether, having regards to the provisions of section 25 of the 1999 Constitution, as amended in 2011,and section 12 (1) of the Electoral Act 2010, the plaintiffs are not entitled to be registered as voters by INEC.”

They had also prayed the court to determine, whether having regard to the provisions of Section 77 (2) of the 1999 Constitution and Section 12 (1) of the Electoral Act 2010, the plaintiffs were not entitled to cast their votes at any election in the country.

They had also asked the court to determine whether the failure of INEC to make registration and voting provisions for the inmates in the custody of Nigerian prisons does not constitute an infringement on their rights as citizens of Nigeria as enshrined in section 14 (1) (2) (a) (b), section 17 (2) (a), section 24 (b), (c),section 39 of the 1999 constitution and Article 13 (1) and Article 20 (1) of the African Charter on Human and People’s Rights.

In his judgment, Justice Lima, said: “Act byINEC to deny inmates the right to vote is unconstitutional, illegal, irregular, unlawful,null and void and of no effect whatsoever. The defendants do not have the constitutional right to deny the claimants their voting rights.“Being an inmate is not an offence that impedes their registration and voting right under section 24 of the Electoral Act; and that the exclusion of inmates in elections conducted in Nigeria is illegal and ultra vires.”


http://www.vanguardngr.com/2014/12/prisoners-nigeria-right-vote-elections-court-rules/

Hahahahahaha..anything to keep the clueless one in power....why not first decide in court if citizens in. the diasporas have the right to vote....we all know wht the result would be.

9jafreak:
My opinion:
1. This is the MOST PERFECT & MOST SUCCINCT summation of Nigeria's history, woes, and potentials ever!
2. Once again the Yoruba Nation will decide who 'lords over' over-centralized One Nigeria. But we are no fools. We mostly supported President Jonathan in 2011 and will mostly support Gen. Buhari in 2015 but the core question of our unfettered capacity to properly govern our nation within the Nigerian experiment remains at the height of our deepest desires.
3. And by God we will pull out of Nigeria if the General refuses to heed the words of wisdom.
4. To be honest, we have nothing really to lose in 2015. Jonathan in fact may lead Nigeria faster to the seemingly inevitable disintegration than GMB. We wait even as we plan...

I was in a bank while reading this,sniffing and wiping tears as it trickles.down my face.
This man spoke my mind and this piece of article need to be shard across all social media platforms.
Thanks OP.

TheRealMrStan:
http://olorisupergal.com/latasha-nwugbe-unveiled-as-konga-ambassador-for-plus-sized-women/

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...Now...... this ......is ............A Woman!
#Teamfullfigure.

Beesluv:
Hmmmm, speechless

Thank you for contribution sis.

Sisters....if it happens "down below" oozes pls get this...Gyna Guard.Tested and confirmed.

Beesluv:
The best thing is to pray and abstain as much as possible from doing those acts

Ok..but what if....desperation...and i mean serious desperation could make one commit such act....where is forgiveness in this regard after confession?

IdomaLikita:
Lolzzzzz! No bros! My Guy is Jukun from Taraba State!

Oh ok.Cos this our paddy...na one of those that use to brag "i can marry foreigner,i cant marry southy"...after he spent big on his naija wife and got her permit to come here...the babe don already dey do kerewawa with anoda naija man in Abuja.
To cut long tori..she divorce old boy...d guy nearly ran mad.

Today if u see his Southy babe.....hmmmmm...ground get levels abeg.

IdomaLikita:
Similare thing happened to a Family Friend who quit a Lucrative Job in SA to come marry and be with his wife in Abuja here! She vehemently refused to join him in SA.(She has worked in SEC for a while)! What did he get in Return? A Divorce for reasons too spurious to post here!
Its not about the Location, its about the Selfishness which many women are wise enough to keep Recessive but fools allow to become Dominant parts of them!
My Advice?
Since he has some money to throw around and is free! Challenge the matter in Court and try to prolong the case as long as possible! If she gets married again, instigate a case of Bigamy against her (to ruffle her own marital bliss a bit too), then clear your name and move on!

PS: Diaspora women don dey support the woman now because na Woman do the Ditching! If na Man now, una go begin rain insults on am!
LaffLaff! Preach jare!!!

My guy...abeg no vex...could this dude you talking be a yoruba guy now currently got an offer with an oil firm in Naija?cos Just last week sunday we went to pay lobola for his God sent South African wifey...No need to mention names....just confirm or otherwise pls.

blaise26abj:
There is something about UK that I can't seem to understand. This kind of story seems to be the end result of MOST that venture into that geographical location as bf/gf or hubby/wife.

The poor guy shld let go and pursue his career diligently. His happiness is paramount. OP, since you are single, go and stay with him during this trying time. It will boost his Morale

PS- I almost dated a girl with marriage in mind until my close friend told me " his mind doesn't agree with the babe" and I restrained myself for further observation. Alas I saw her true xter soon after. My point? Op shld have told his friend directly his concerns.

Precisely.My ex once took me to both her parents and introduced as "oga to be".Family introductions were done...guess what, as soon as she got UK visa...she revealed true self.Ol boy...i was mesmerized.
But here now is fate...she got into UK..pursued her masters..got a nice job...But no decent bobo to settle down with.When she comes to Naija...she runs from one mountain to another,one prayer house to another...seeking "solution" to her marriageless situation.

When a man is made and peppeh rest well well...forget....beta woman wey fine pass the old babe go surface.Na so life be.

The saying "Say the truth and shame the devil" was constantly drummed into our hearing as we grew up.In fact, some of our elderly ones use to share with us how confession to certain naughty deeds spared them harsh sentences.Confessing to a wrong as we were taught would set your conscience free and obtain possible pardon or lesser punishment from the aggrieved.

However,it seem as the world and people ages,time evolves and people become the more MEAN.

How do you rationalise a case where a woman, after series of guilty conscience, confessed to some wrong doing in the past,in order to set her conscience free and seek forgiveness from aggrieved partner.But rather some consideratrion on her willingness to clear her slate and record..she ended been damned,ridiculed,subjected to mental and most times physical assault.In some instances,she would be told to her face she cant be forgiven.

An underpaid but overtly used domestic worker,at a time made away with madam of the houses set of 40 carat gold ear ring.All effort to find and recover the lost item proved unsuccessful.Yet after 6 months,she willy nilly besought the madam and confessed to doing the deed,pleading for pardon.Rather than consider her wilful confession and possible grief to repentance,she was assaulted,cursed and locked up in a police cell.

A company staff in finance dept with "itching fingers" have made away with good lump sums of money.His actions caused distrust between employer and his colleagues.3 years after,he sought his employer to seek possible restitution,but in return he ended up in jail after severe torture in the hands over zealous SARS officers.

Now the question for everyone with conscience i would like to ask....Is confession or restitution really worth it, despite such a noble step to right the wrongs of the past?
Or perhaps,its best to the past remain in the past.

Lets air our views and candid opinnions.

Rat? Ah! maybe you can educate me on this.Isn't Lassa Fever,a viral disease caused by rats?.

emmadejust:
As an african man who is entiltle to marry/wed more than one wife(polygamy), in the situation where he have the wedding ring of his first wife and then Gotto to marry the second wife While wedding ring wil be exchance, When he already have the ring of his first wife on, What can he do Like ......
* wearing the two ring at once or

* removing the ring of first marriage to wear second marriage

but on this situation I think removing the first marriage ring is Like you have divorce your first wife to marry the second one only....

give your own suggestion About this matter Which has not been communicated to many

How many fingers does tthe man have? if first wife wedding ring is on the left fourth finger,then place the second wives ring on the third left hand.Abi na curse if ring no dey the third left finger ni? .. in fact he can place the second wife ring on his right fourth finger.Fingers full ground to carry rings abeg.

TheRealMrStan:
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This is how to place a snail in preparation for chopping off just the tip.

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With a butcher's knife or machete or even a hammer, chop off the pointed tip of the snail to create an opening for your butter knife or whatever you'll use to turn and squeeze out the snail.

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These are all empty shells, the snails have been removed without crushing or boiling them live. no messy slimy floors after cleaning

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After chipping off, insert a table knife in the part you chopped and continue to push while turning your hand like you do with a key

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Once the inserted table knife is turned inwards, snail pops out like here, some snails fall out completely, you remove the knife and push out the snail

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Cut and squeeze limes into the snails, lemon can also be used but it doesn't clean as much as these limes.
Yeah, don't worry about that, always appears when I take sugary drinks and disappears when I successfully stay off: Allergy

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With your fingers, pull out the entrails, the black and white stuff

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Cut off unwanted stuff while cleaning

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Cut washed snails in halves like this picture



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Colour changes when snails are cooked. Do not over cook please

SOURCE: http://www.nigeriafilms.com/news/30527/71/how-to-prepare-snails-for-cooking-pictures-from-sc.html

Her nails are pretty.i like hey.

wetdspace:
Hmm I can derive real truth from this, but she can't manipulate you if you the the law of stick and chop.....
She go believe she's controlling until you show her.

this my broda no go kill me with lafta...

wetdspace:
Yes bro... Well said. And they act like they're tough. One only need the secret to break their defense.

True.But bro Apha Females are naturally endowed with cunning,witty and manipulative skills to always have their way.They are die hard go getter.Once an Alpha female sets her mind on an instance and is determined...she uses all resources to get what she wants.Shes hardly a failure.In all her ambition and pursuit.

An Alpha female is A Domina.

faqman:
yes oo..

wow...who would have thought an islamic nation would have a social system where the women calls the shots.

Zeemoor:
Are the alpha females attracted to strong, assertive men, just like them or beta males?

Precisely my dear.Alpha females have strong attrction to alpha males with equal or superior intellectual tendecies.While on the other hand,Beta males are devastatingly attracted and much committed to Alpha females, not the other way round.Remember "Domination".."Power", is the key here.Its either she have it her way or you walk.

An Alpha female would rather keep a discreet connection with alpha males while still in involve with beta males.As most times,Beta males are in their book more of a Pet than Partner....(sound harsh but true.Imagine what you do with your lovely pet to get a clearer picture).

The word "submission" in a union is a call to war with Alpha females unless...the male is the one to submit.

An Alpha Male knows how to "tame" Alpha females by utilizing their weak points,a feat most Beta males would rather abstain from in the interest of peace

faqman:
A good number of Malaysian women have this characteristics....

Really? despite been a largely popularized islamic nation?.

heheeh why do you think Men become boys while with a woman with fantastic bobi?...while he was a child...he was sucking mommas milk factory...when he marries...his woman take over the reign ....till his last breath.

Chiadanin:
Well I'll be damned!!

Bona fide alpha female.

*singing bey's "gurls run the world"......

Proud member of this here sorority since the 1980s.


Oh no....dont get it twisted. Respect that....

I play this game well. Hate the game not the player.


Ask the few men who have the pleasure of knowing me intimately and they will tell ya.......

I made them feel like a man. They still wore the pants. And I wore the skirts, and heels.

Like it. Hate it. Tweet that # dont give a rats @$$. #

*CLICK*

and that's difference between an Alpha Female and a feminist.However they been made to feel as a man still revolves round your calls and rules.
An Alpha female wont mind been in a relationship as long the man " learn to cope" with her whims and caprices.Core course 001

lilmax:
And they are not in Nigeria

jaburata

Oluwatosean:
Hmmmm, tnx buh i dnt need such woman in my lyf

Lol....do you know if your current sweetheart is one.There are many alpha females out there in recession mode,awaitng the right moment to unveil their personality.

These pointers here are just pointers to inform you of who men ended up with. There are Alpha females,Beta females and....Alpha females wanna-be.

wetdspace:
Hmmm I need a woman of such?
Where art thou woman?

They are every where but more notably in the following areas:

Politics,Judiciary,Media,Education,Religion and High Profile Business empires.

mikolo80:
she is unmarried,lonely, angry and bitter. he heheheheheheh

On the contrary many are...and their word is power in such union....except with Alpha Males of cos.

dechandel:
Op sweetie. Pls define feminism for me

my dear..feminism was piloted by Alpha Females.

Most men who do not see nor aware of these traits in women before been committed often find themselves at loggerheads with such women.

As per your request...Feminism is an idea,a system of belief and a movement (political) that seeks the equal rights,treatment,power,benefits,opportunities,as same as men and re-definition of roles of women in any society.

Source: http://gmwilliams.hubpages.com/hub/Ten-Characteristics-of-the-Alpha-Females

The Highly Successful, Self-Confident, and
Independent Woman

The alpha female is supreme among other
females. She is also the queen among them.
Other females often look to the alpha female
for leadership. However, there are some
females who feel threatened by the alpha
female because this female tolerates no
nonsense and does not believe in gameplaying
and upmanship. Now here are the ten
characteristics of the alpha female:

(1) She is never embarrassed to ask for what
she wants.
Assertive is not a word that she is
uncomfortable with. In fact, being assertive is
second nature to her. She believes that all
right thinking people should be never been
hesitant regarding having their desires and
wants met.
To her, you should be able to be responsible
for your own life and take care of yourself.
The very idea that a person who refuses to ask
for what he/she wants is a total anathema to
her. Does that person want to be rescued?
Asking for what one wants is what life is all
about. Her motto is that life is for the takers
and participators. Being indecisive and wishy
washy is not in her vocabulary.

(2) She enjoys being on an equal or superior
spar with men.
Why not? The idea that she
must subvert her intelligence and other strong
attributes and characteristics because she is a
woman is so 19th century. She believes that a
confident, intelligent, and mature man is not
threatened bya powerful and highly successful
woman.
In fact, such man welcome such women
because they are on a par with them.
Furthermore, she believes that men are just
other people, no more, no less. She does not
believe in playing the weak damsel in distress.
In fact, she is loathe to play silly, coquettish
games of any kind. In fact, this inane
affectation would sicken her to say the very
least. Her motto-weak and insecure men need
not apply!

(3) She is not passive regarding the pursuance
of any type of pleasure.
To her being a woman
is not equated with being passive. Not at all.
She is oftentimes the initiator regarding
seeking all avenues of fulfillment. This often
including the sexual arenas. To be passive in
her eyes means to be acquiescent in life and
she is anything but acquiescent. In her eyes,
that is equivalent to being owned and she does
not want to be owned-not by tangle and/or
intangible constructs. She is proactive
regarding approaching her life. To her, life is
for the active and aggressive!

(4) She does not mind being wildly and
uninhibitedly feminine and sexy.
To her, being
feminine, beautiful, and sexy are not antitheses
to being independent, powerful, and liberated.
In fact, the former words are quite analogous
to the latter words. She views sexual
stereotypes is limited and atavistic labels that
limits the full human being. She believes that
human beings are beyond stereotypes which
are only artificial constructs to describe the
full human being. To her, the old stereotype of
being a feminine woman is morbidly
suffocating to her. She refuses to view the
being beautiful, feminine, sexy, liberated, and
independent as oxymorons.

(5) She does not mind at all if a man earns less
than she does
....as long as he contributes to the
relationship and upholds his end regarding
household responsibilities. Who says that a
man has to earn more than a woman? Not her.
She does not subscribe to such outdated and
utterly sexist paradigms and philosophies. She
believes what a person earns is not based
upon gender but by measured and
immeasurable qualifications. She feels that it is
quite normal and acceptable in some
circumstances for a woman to outearn a man,
so be it. She does not mind being the
breadwinner in the family if need be.

(6) She believes in having a career to establish
her self-worth and independence.
She believes in being a contributor to life. She feels when
one contributes to life, one is truly a full and
authentic person. She also feels worthwhile as
a consequence of being a contributor.
Furthermore, a contributor always leave a
posthumous mark to the society and world at
large. In other words, the contributor have
made an imprint in life.
For her a career does that. A career is why for
her to use and exhibit her intelligence and
talent for the world to see. She also gets a
sense of self-actualization regarding a career.
In her eyes, nothing makes a woman more self-
fulfilled and self-actualized than to have a
satisfying career. It is the ultimate aphrodisiac
and elixir in her eyes. Besides that, having a
career means power and power has its own
rewards. Being powerful means calling a shot
caller which translates into OWNERSHIP.
Nothing makes an alpha woman happier than
to own and be in charge of one's destiny.

(7)She thrives on being in responsible positions
and being in charge.
Being responsible for others is equate to power for her. She is highly, if not prodigiously, intelligent. She also
believes that she is more than highly capable
of the task at hand. Since she knows that for a
fact, who is better than she to assume high
powered and responsible positions. She is THE
BEST at what she does and NO ONE can do it
better than she.

Furthermore, power means being a mentor and
of help to others, cultivating, encouraging, and
develop their human potential for her good
and that of the firm. To her power is an
integral part of the human construct. Either
one has power which means that one can be
highly proactive and influential in the events of
humankind or one is utterly powerless, always
being at the behest of others. She refuses to be
on a proverbial leash, only answering to
herself.

( She refuses to believe in the antiquated
concept that one becomes less agile and more
infirm with age.
Age is just a number to her.
Besides, it is such an artificial construct which
means nothing in the scheme of things. She is
the type of woman who often remains vital in
her old age.
She thinks that anyone who succumbs to
atavistic stereotypes regarding aging needs a
good psychiatrist or better yet should starting
broadening his/her life perception-and fast!
She, for one, is not going to become an old
lady.
Think of Betty White, a nonagenarian, and
Rita Moreno, an octogenarian, quite youthful
ladies who totally exemplify that one is as
young as one believes one's self to be. These
ladies keep being fierce and get even more
fiercer with each passing year!

(9) She does not believe in complaining and
whining.
She sees complaining and whining as
abject passivity and refusal to improve the
negative circumstances of one's life. She
furthermore view complaining and whining as a
sign of being a borderline psychotic. She
figures that if one is mentally healthy and
mature, he/she should remedy his/her life if it
is less than positive and/or satisfying.
She believes that everyone's life has some
percentage of difficulty and hardship in it. To
just complain and whiny is a total waste of
energy. That energy is better served in
assessing, challenging, and solving what
adversities, difficulties, and/or other problems
one may have. Besides she maintain, other
people, unless they are close to you, are
uninterested in listening to your lamentations.
She staunchly believes that complainers and
whiners are total wimps who should be
horsewhipped into sanity and maturity! There
is no need to say on this issue!

(10) She takes no quarter and believes in no
excuses.
She believes if one makes one bed,
he/she should lie in it, either for good or bad.
In other words, one reaps what one sows. If
one exerts little or no effort, do not expect to
reap tremendous rewards.
She finds it totally nonplussable that many
people want success and other types of
rewards in life but refuse to put in the
necessary organization, planning, and sacrifices
to obtain their goals. When they do not
achieve their desired goals, they blame
everyone and everything but themselves.
This excuse making really incenses her to the
multillionth degree. Stop with the excuses
already, she reasons. To her, people find it
easier to make numerous excuses if their lives
do not go the way they want than to look into
the issues at hand. Her motto is that each
person has what he/she strives for and
deserves, nothing more and nothing less!
In summation, the alpha woman is a no-
nonsense woman. She is supremely confident
and self-assured. She knows what she wants,
how to ask for, and obtain it. She is also a true
realist, no sugarcoating life situations for her.
She likes life at its most unadulterated essence.
She appreciates the good and can learn and
improve from the bad in life. She also knows
how to make the bad exceedingly beneficial for
her.

She does not believe in antiquated gender
stereotypes for that does not even tough the
iceberg with her as far as she is concerned.
She is beyond stereotypes.
She is a take charge
woman who makes no excuses in life. She is
and has what she earns and deserves. Now you
have my synopsis on the ten characteristics of
the alpha female. The alpha female is totally
unique among other women! In fact, she is a
prototype of women in the 21st century and
beyond.

Jezebel in power