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I also saw the headline on City Press Newspaper and took a snap with my fone. Don't mind the poor quality ne. |
Economic Freedom Fighters leader Julius Malema is set to follow in struggle stalwart Winnie Madikizela-Mandela's footsteps – by visiting Nigeria's foremost charismatic preacher, TB Joshua.http://bulawayo24.com/index-id-news-sc-religion-byo-34449.html
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#Somebodytelladebisi, she should sue adeyanju and the nigga that collected. N1.5 milla from her.Yes, the story must change as the shyte has hit the fan. Now they blaming her for paying for bogus service and also have her arrested. Heartless bunch. A whooping N1.5 million..kai...some people are heartless. |
philfearon: The main reason why i stated this type of women is for u to be able to recognise earlier b4 u go too deep into that relationship.....You should date,but be sure to run away whenever u notice this traits,especialy,after you have tried to Change them or talk it with them and it stil lingers on..!!Thanks.I've got a lady who is supportive.but your write up is good. |
Bro Philo...See as I weak.You so right but, Which woman is then suitable?? |
jidewin: @DonodionD bros.Morning to you o.Longest time.Hows your side?Its been a while you have been on NL.Thanks for your contribution.My princess so far is cool headed and well,still observing but for now,i can say quite a lot positive about her and her people.You even need to visit botswana,kai,the place is nice and fine too except for their govt wahala.But anyway, lets keep the thread alive and interesting.I know say if it hits the front page,perhaps many more may contribute.I hail o. |
SniperInADiaper: I didn't read... can I still post?hmmmm ok..so whats your own story...the thread is open and very promising. |
[quote author=pri3stess][/quote]Thanks priestess.Many of our guys are in situations like this in the name of love and affection.So many entered with their eyes wide open but too late to pull out.Besides my situation was even fair.Ive met men here who's assets and properties had been converted to their foreign wives behind their back.Just one more trip home and before they arrive from Nigeria, change of ownership have taken place without their knowledge.Some women could even go as far as hide our kids from us in the name of getting back at us. There's a story here of one of our brother killed by his foreign wife,over what? http://lindaikeji..com/2013/01/nigerian-man-stabbed-to-death-by-his.html I'm not trying to cast aspersions but the world need to hear of our plights too.Shame most these guys are either not aware this thread is on or just outright ashamed of who gets to read about theirs. |
[quote author=Mrs.Chima]Did he say heterosexual marriage with foreign women only? Do they have homosexual marriage with foreign women? WTF [/quote]Da fvck is, this is about (naija)man to woman relationship (heterosexual) experiences and not (naija)man to man(Homosexual)relationship.Also, having to do with foreign women and not home girls.You dig? ![]() |
Ho ho ho.Several views yet many still hide either in shame or perhaps embarrassed.I'm here to say there is nothing to be ashamed of if you have been played,used or even setup.This post is meant to be informative and educative for our fellow men out there,who may be starting a relation ship with foreign women or had been and may not know what they are into. Let me add a little into the works some of us may loosen up a little bit more. I am Nigerian and mechanical engineering graduate with bias for diesel sets of engines. I am also a legal resident in Kimberly,South Africa. My first serious encounter,as many of you might have experienced happened during my first 1year and 8 months in Johannesburg.I was residing then in centurion but our main office was in Johannesburg. As usual, you have friends and lady friends to rock weekends with, and perhaps hopeful you may find a suitable one amongst the lots.Allow to me add,im not among them that seek for students.I like my women ripe and full of age.Perhaps as im posting this,somewhere on the web the lady may be reading. We met at a wedding reception and after much chat and jokes, we exchanged numbers,bla bla bla...and well the romance began.She works as senior clerk at the municipal,takes care of herself, have her own house,car,have a son from a previous relationship but no attachment (you know what i mean if you are in SA)and shes got a job.So whats missing from the equation? The first 2 months or so was eventful,amorous,et cetra etc cetra but we never really stayed together.She have her place and i had mine.Short stay visits,eat outs,attend events together and by the third month,it was required we become more intimate as peeps now see us as item.Thus she request i begin to stay over some week days.All along,i never knew she was HIV positive and she kept it a secret.Probably cos of her consistent use of the ARV and exercise,she looks fit,attractive and well compose.But all those were part of the bait. It started with little monetary demand for fuel to come and see me.Then to electricity,dstv,her nails,her hair,and gradually even her groceries and part of her credit account settlement at clothings and shoe stores.As a naija guy in love,will you consider that as a biggie? of cos not.....(second mistake). After i got another contract offer with a different company with the location not far from her house,she felt why not move in with me and reduce cost of transportation.Besides that seemed appropriate isnt it? Wohzah!That was when the fencing strategy started. First,i cant be online for long while with her,either on phone or on the pc.But she could for its always either my mum,or uncle or one cousin.Secondly,if i come home after her,i must prepare for interrogation.If i must speak to my people at home,it must be in her presence.No outing beyond 10 mins.I suppose all this were for real affection until one day,i saw her car at an eatery.Coming out with her was the baby father.well i drove along as i was test driving one of ours clients car and when i demanded where she went during lunch hour,she claimed there was an old classmate in town and when i probed further,she said baby father as she just had to meet him to discuss his plans concerning the son they had together. Little did i know the assole even resides in town and they been seeing often.Although,i found out she was making attempts to make the guy foot the child welfare bill but after the guy demanded for DNA test,she backed down.All this dawned on me,most probably even the son does not belong really belong to the so called baby father,yet they meet,exchange sms,and even calls before she gets home. My suspicion started when she would go for braai with friends after work and return home sometime 9.00 p.m.As much as i gave her freedom,it became a problem when she started attending outside events alone and sometimes comes back 12 midnight, some minutes to 1.00 a.m, drunk.Every attempt to register my displeasure always goes with apologies but soon,she and her friends are in the game of coming home late. My suspicion led me to hacking her phone,got her un-deleted text messages,phone records,whatsapp,etc via a spy software.I kept a record of the messages as they were in sesotho language.While i sought the help of one of our cleaners to interpret the conversation.I was mesmerized.This working lady,despite working and earning well, and my support had been seeing different guys during lunch hour.Yet would come back home acting the bride to be and the one and only. And this is the same lady demanding for marriage and at least a child from me.Thank goodness i got to her messages and had been all along engaged in protective sex(she insisted on that anyway).It was the health care agency that handles her medications sent her a despatch confirmatory sms regarding her arvs.For the first time having been with her,i went through her wardrobe and saw the bottles.Imagine the surprise.To make matters worse,we had been together then for almost 6 months and by the 5th month,my contract ended with the second company i was with,therefore i was stuck. It took serious efforts and help of my Cameroon friends to help me secure a place and start all over cos when she realized i have known everything.she became daring.Every move of mine was monitored.If i go to eatery and come home,she would check the receipts to know how much,if probably i've started seeing someone. Anyway,i found solace with my Botswana lady.Part bots part SA.We have been together now for over a year and so far she have demonstrated discipline and commitment as i longed for.Although the food aspect is the only challenge.She just cant get Nigerian meal right.Besides,that,i say thank God so far so good. Do not be beguiled by their beauty.Yes they are attractive,they have nice shapes,they love to dress western,they tell you they want men who will be committed to them but most of them do not understand the meaning of commitment.To many of them,commitment is when you meeting their needs and demands yet they are free to flirt and socialize freely as they want to unhindered or questioned. You do not need to mention names,but feel free to share your experience with foreign women here for all to learn from that we also do suffer emotionally and abuse too as they claim they had been suffering from Nigerian men too.You never can tell, you might be saving your own bloodline from a predator in disguise. Lest have it brothers. |
There have been many posts on the web regarding West Africans,especially Nigerian men and their relationships with foreign women.However before i go on,i would like to restrict my post to heterosexual relationships and relationships exclusive to foreign women only. In so many examples, it has come to be a close observation Nigerian men are mostly painted in not so good a light.All sorts of names calling,tags,labels,stereotyping,generalization, even crucifixion. It begs as a food for thought, are all these conceptions and perceived notions been generally stamped on us true? From West Africa to the Sub-Saharan,North America to the Caribbean, quite many of the stereotypes have been mind boggling whilst i need to ask? Are we worse off than men from all other continents? Could it be there are certain expectations of our supposed partners in relationship we could not meet up with?(examples,Nigerian men not allowing themselves to be manipulated or controlled by the foreign partners). Also in so many instances,we have been accused of "using" these women for personal reasons such as "paper/permit". And once we obtain "the status" we care no more and then abscond.However,how many people have come out to declare such a union was in fact "an agreement between both parties with financial settlement"?And in such cases,most of our men have become 'hooked' as a result of pregnancy from such illicit union.Also,would it not be wonderful to inquire,why abandon women who had been 'good and helpful' to us,if indeed they are GOOD,in quote? ![]() That aside,What about the situation where we genuinely are in love with these women,shower them with affection, make available resources within our means,i.e support(finance,material stuffs,etc)but only for them to use same for their local ex-es,even become pregnant for them and yet present the babies as ours?. How often do people get to hear of such? Now to worsen the scenarios,the host country by-laws does not permit us to react (uncivilized as they term it)accordingly, in comparison to what their men counterpart who are citizens will do. Many of our men are dying in silence.Some were murdered by their supposed foreign partners for personal reasons.Too many situations time wont permit me to state here. Nigerian men are hard working,pace setters(good or bad),we are good lovers and yes we are polygamous in nature if allowed)we don't abandon our own nor our children whether at home or abroad.If we discover you playing on our intelligence, we strive to be one step ahead of you in the same game.We are made and raised tough and as such hardly give up.Each time we fall,we pick ourselves up again. I would like us men,to share our various experiences as well.Let us bare it all and let the world read our own version.Perhaps someone out there worrying about their relationship status with a Nigerian man might know who we truly are,what we have experienced and what they are up against with in case of eventualities. Lets level the playing field. Enough of the negative stereotyping. ![]() |
eGuerrilla: Here is an interesting take on the current clampdown. It is written by a Kenyan and definitely provides food for thoughtInteresting.Hold my peace. |
Beey: Is the drug trafficking defined as progress in Nigeria because as far as we Kenyans are concerned,our welcoming nature is getting us in trouble.We took in Sudanese refugees & what did we get in return? The crazy terrorist group called Al-shabaab.Nigerians came in & how did they thank us?By trafficking drugs & conning people from their pastors who promise miracles for singles to have spouses, led by one Chris Ojigbani & others claiming to make money & robbing unsuspecting citizens.Anyway I blame Kenyans for being too welcoming & too lenient with setting up some boundaries.At bolded,are you serious? Cos from what the ops posted,the plain clothe policemen assaulted the gentlemen doesn't sound like welcoming to me.Or perhaps that's how people are now welcome in your country? Just asking. ![]() |
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^^^^ All those ones i could manage...one thing i wont stand in any woman,race or tribe irregardless, is to tell me you cant stand a man that will control you.You want commitment yet be free to flirt as you wish.Not only you killed my true feelings but you get the boot fast.Use and dump. |
Like I care! My only bother is more taxes will go into the lavish burial ceremony and owambe to follow. Watch as they begin to invite dignatries and foreign guests now. |
Let the community use some of those cold blooded murderers as living examples.They have no value for life be it infant,young,old or pregnant women. I have no pity for them whatsoever. |
dnawah: She no get brain,her brain dey 4 her punny.y r some women stupid?She get brain well well. Such ladies don't like hard work but look for men with coins and automatically become the reigning queen. She don sabi all this okada men wey get 2 tyres,3 tyres well well.dem like free toto no be small.Okadas riders and commercial driver can nack any woman, black,yellow,browb,young, old, rich, poor, single, widow,married or about to. And e be like say she sabi nack wella.If not,why d one wey be d first oga go collect am back? Konji no good o...see where e land am. |
[quote author=Okija_juju][b]It was obvious to everyone around the country that the NLC guys were compromised.. Bakare didnt come out the following day to continue the protest. Infact, immediately the Army came out of the barracks, the 'leaders' ran to their houses. Bakare and co used us during that protest for selfish gains.. To increase their popularity. Tell Bakare that we, the ASSOCIATION OF NIGERIAN PROTESTERS, RALLIERS, RIOTERS AND REBELS make the following demand before mobilizing into the streets; 1. We must be paid for our services; - Normal protest (No violence) = 100,000 Naira each/day. - Angry protest (Destruction and carnage) = 250,000 each/day. - We must get subsidized food & refreshments during the protest for protesters. - Free T-Shirt for all the protesters. - Bulletproof vest and Helmet for all protesters. - Ballistic shield for protesters. - Face mask for teargas for all protesters. - 2 40ft containers of tear gas must be provided for us. 2. Insurance (life assurance policy) of atleast 10million Naira against death must be provided for us. 3. 1 plot of land for each Protester in any state of their choice. 4. 1 Kia car for all junior staff protesters & 1 German SUV for all Senior Staff protesters. 5. 100 Million Naira deposited in Firstbank to be used to bail our members from Police custody, bury the dead ones and other such costs associated with the protest. If he agrees, we can even capture Tambruwal, Yerima, David Mark and PEJ and deliver them to his church or house by tomorrow evening.. [/b][/quote]While his post may seem comical,they are actually pointers to the rot in nigerian society.everything is about money.And this is the reason why the much professed revolution will not happen.To fight for your right or vote for your own and childrens benefityou must demand for money first. |
Yomii: It is high time all the Pastors rise up and condemn this act not just on stage but in act. Mobilize us lets go to the house of Assembly and teach them a lesson.For where?? Dem go tell us,we should fast and pray for our leaders for God to change their hearts while they,MOGS and WOGS would be flying or riding to Presidency with enuFf cheques to "support their ministries" after. Shioooor. |
Pilot Oz: This is a picture of a Chinese woman who attempts suicide after her fianceSorry o.abeg Somebody tell that chinese babe,Naija boys full ground dey queue to marry akata o.When one closes,another opens. |
Pilot Oz: This is a picture of a Chinese woman who attempts suicide after her fianceSorry o.abeg Somebody tell that chinese babe,Naija boys full ground dey queue to marry akata o. |
daliki:Ol boy, your head dey dia.I thought I'm the only one shaking my head as I read the story and comments,but well,who are we to judge? If people knew the heart ache and havoc this small so called innocent looking girl caused in her first white wedding marriage...hmmmmm even her elder sisters nko,na so all of dem be..hmmm well,maybe she has truly repented,who knows. Let the past rest abeg. |
Congrats.But una see say no be only naija guyz dey arrange demselves for oyinbo or abroad partner.Na all of us dey the runs if chance dey.Ho ho ho ho. |
Hmmm...good old tactics during the hay days of military rule in Nigeria.Just set accounts and records office on fire and no trace or evidence of sharp financial malpractises whatsoever. Well just a thought though. |
Yeye, that's what most of you critics are. I read most post and shake my head with utter disappointment at the height of self appointed righteousness and pseudo knowledge of who is anointed and who is not. In fact,more non-nigerians should visit nairaland often and dash hot slaps of harsh words at you people. You have ABSOLUTELY no value for your own. None. See how you rate your clergies :- If he is a Nigerian Catholic clergy- "Ah he is false priest and idolator" If he is a NIgerian Othordox clergy- "Ah he's is not a living church" If he is Bishop Oyedepo- "Ah he is con business man with false miracles" If he is Pastor Chris- Ah he is smooth talker. bleaching and jerry curl preacher,no where is such found in bible therefore he must be a fake. If he Pastor Adeboye -"Ah don't let his quiet and humble appearance fool you.He is a thief collecting tithe and brainwashing his followers into man worship" If he is Pastor Kumuyi- "Ah he has propaganda agenda to brain wash his followers into man worship with his high-handed doctrines" If he,TB Joshus is to be pastor Adeyemi -"Ah yes he's got words of wisdom but the target is peoples purses and bank account". Now he is himself,Your very own naija born and bred Prophet TB Joshua, "Ah he is THE ANNOINTED PHILANTROPIC DEVIL" >: But were he to be Benny Hinn, Reinhard Bonkee, T.D Jakes, K.C Price,The revered Pope, The ArchBishop of Church of England,once its foreign or Oyinbo.." Oh yes,those are the saints and angels sent to set our mind free". Tell me,have any of you critics ever wonder how come Muslims hardly does this to one another,except you spiritual sons and daughters of Father Abraham ?.Why I'm I even surprised,when on this forum most you would praise foreign women above your own mothers and sisters. Shiorrrr! |
Madam Lazarus,a.k.a patience, would go on national tv which is to re-broadcasted on the international media for a debate with prof W.S? Puhahahahahahahahahahahaaahah you want Soyinka to send her to early grave with few english that won't be found even in oxford dictionary.She fit ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ? |
Beretta92: That bride was beautifully modestly adorned,but of course it's a big deal to dl.i thought they were permitted to carry on with d wedding, n kumuyi was even in a pic or 2 smiling.why so much fuss now? And i learnt love's father was suspended,that should mean kumuyi wud toe dat line too.it wud be unfair if kumuyi isnt relieved of his duties too.i've been in dl n i knw hw badly parents re treated n ostracized for d "sins" of their kids.kumuyi prolly didnt knw his hardline wud boomerang n hit him right between his eyes.What goes around comes around.No mind dem.Men and dia yeye doctrine. |
Abi no be me prepare my own lem so...see am if hunger no go hol you."Yen yen yen yen yen..men no sabi cook ?" Abegi speak for yourself jor.See sample make una open mouth
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Ashabie: No matter how good you guys think you are,it never complete without the femine touch you no. Am not referring to indomine babes nor the snacks ones. But confirm babes,If they prepare only water for u to drink u sure will no that its woman things u are just struggling to impress. My hubby is a gud cook according to himself, but to me he's preparing poison.Na lie u dey lie abeg go sleep.If na so e dey give u poison you for marry am?.many babes dey wey no sabi cook at all and they are graduates from expensive universities.na so one prepare stew,oil dey one side,water wey dey inside pass half of the pot.And na so d fish no done well sef. Mtshewwwwwwww |
toni tone: Table 2: List of Countries reported by US GAO to posses drones.@Naptu2,I know whenever I need info or updates on Naija military,you the right source to reach. 3 gbosa for representing jare. |
Ho ho ho...Many MOG's by now are sniggering with envy.Even Al mustapha knows a 'good devil' when he sees one. Ho Ho HO. Prophet Joshua,ride on.Jealousy go dash too many people migraines for free. |
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[/quote]Da fvck is, this is about (naija)man to woman relationship (heterosexual) experiences and not (naija)man to man(Homosexual)relationship.Also, having to do with foreign women and not home girls.You dig? 



This Bride has once been married to another man,while she was heavy with 2face's child (authoritatively). She's done a lot of "marital atrocities" hence she got booted out of the marriage by the family of the (Niger Deltan)man. All these was without 2face's knowledge.