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Opeyemiextra:
I'm glad when I see comments like this. As long as it's possible that marriage should work, I have made up my mind and working it that mine would work and that should be the mindset. I see beautiful homes around me and it gives me hope. Are there bad ones? Of course, yes but that only encourages to work towards mine.

Add God to the Mix and Blend it all to Your Mindset trust Me, Your Home will Work as far you allow God and Science(Reasonableness) to Lead.

The reason for Most Divorce is the absence of the Principles of God.

Go for the ECG test and keep us updated.

Late to me should never be later than 30s which is middle-late...

40s is late-late ....

above 50s is "Worst-late" for First Marriage...

Late 20s is the best-Late......

Always Good to raise kids when you are agile and energetic. Also your manliness/Masculinity before your wife is assured and Such gives You Control not that You will be Forcing things.

Advantages of Late Marriage is "Maturity" and Ability to stand before the Marriage Challenges especially for someone from humble background with no one to Prosecute 21st century Home. Except You wanna go back to the Village settings Kinda Marriage, You need to Be a Man and It takes Considerable Time to Build a Full Fledged "Man".

DannyXpress:
Because a lot of people are lonely, bored and depressed.

They just need someone to talk to, a person to share an emotional connection with. You don't need to be fed up, it is what it is.

Op Gan sef is depressed if not why you dey Para untop other people matter .

What happened to Minding your own Hustles

NoToPile:
But it's a sibling relationship according to both of you though it seems wrong, a brother would over look it as since you both see each other as siblings it not supposed to be a major issue. Except there's something else you are not telling.

Plenty Overlook sef. U go Para and mellow Noni... she will still gist you how the thing go and carry Fish Barbecue come as Apologies...

Mariangeles:
She took him for granted and made a fool of him.
She made him cancel his plans, telling him that she was coming over, only to give the guy's address to some stranger who came and took her out.
She was playing some kind of game.
She probably wanted op to see what he was missing, since he only saw her as a friend/sister.
She was too obvious.

She Apologised twice Publicly and Privately. They are Siblings to her and only God knows how many times the girl woulda crawl up to him for Love but nigga rebuffed her for lack of no feelings for her. Once you show a girl you ain't interested, whatever she Defined you to be in her mindset is what you are to Her. You may never be able to change that unless you are a A-Gamer ...

She just wanted to catch real cruise with real dude but she no dude was forthcoming, she decided to chill with her brother but fortunately the Opportunity pops and she went for it ....

BigBro was just jealous because if she were to be his Biological Sister(Since he claimed his body no dey move) would he not forgive her ....

The Girl will not fvck him because he has Zero Game and the girl will be rewarded with Someone better because she apologized twice publicly.... na who no dey fvcked up.

He brother Zone himself and the girl only took him for What he took himself .....

Height2:
Had a friend in school back then who's gonna finish it and still soak garri like two cups join. He is a very lean guy

But e go tall sha and I'm sh.it go plenty on a session.

You are just far from your God. Go back to God and Pray fervently for your Hustles and work smart ... flee From Sin !

Human/Animals do sends electrical signals to one another so you have a clue what the other party is Feeling and how to Counterract such Feelings via Plus/Minus.

All Nature's elements exchange lights. If you pay critical attention, you can easily decipher what the other party is saying/doing/thinking even before action.

The Best Human Being is a Psychologist and a Critical Thinker Devoid of Obsessions and Emotions but just the Sciences and the Counter-Sciences.

Shegzdave:
I love the scientifically oriented part.

That's the Means by Which God will reward us for dedicating ourselves to Good.

Shegzdave:
.No form of religion should be practiced.

Don't Wish Evil on Anyone talkless Carrying it Out and Everyone Must be Scientifically Oriented!

osualanobleson:
Control Systems and everything surrounding Automation is so modelled after the Human Body.

.Human Body is the Model behind all "Engines" ... Oyinbo yaff Scammed Everyone ... while Africa dey do Blacksmith, Oyinbo dey do Engine ....

Immorttal:
let's start from a CPU first. And high optic zooming cameras, and radios (wifi, bluetooth, radars) This has shown that any being is capable of assembling (creating) things more proficient than them.

All of them ain't intelligent than the Brain that created them. That's why they all needed upgrade and new versions in response to new Horizons

You ain't intelligent than the Brain that Created You, You are nothing but just some Organs Assembled together and connected via some Wirings and Heart pumps makes you Whole.... How could you think some wirings now have sense

The Bush Rats also think High of themselves but they are nothing to us same goes to Lion in a Big Pride but What we see is just mere Game in the Wilderness......

Same Way our Sciences and Explorations is only sensible to our Brain and Civilisations, it doesn't actually Addressed Billions of other hidden treasures in the Universe ...

Everything we have built and all our Sciences can be destroyed within seconds by an Hurricane. The Hurricane to an Higher intelligence might just be same as using Spoon to stir Water in a Cup of Tea but to we Human, that could be the huge Hurricane every occurred in our Civilisation.

The Universe is beyond our Sciences(Brain Computational Spheres) we are only trying to find meaning to our environment in languages better understandable to us and we are only Correct to the extent Nature wants us to be Correct.

The Cockroaches in my room also have their Sciences and they think they have Brain and be doing yanga among themselves until I decided to Sniper them all.

You are only reasonable to Yourself, We might still be very far from Nature's level of Reasonableness. That's why the We haven't gotten the Earth Right and We Keep Changing our Theories .... but of course, We have tried and we still keep exploring but not enough to think We are God or There is no God, God here being the Most Powerful Force/Energy in the Universe in terms of Vastness and Absoluteness without Limitations ... Now, Do we have enough Sciences to conclude "No God" .... But it's quite obvious our Sciences is not Absolute.

Nature can change everything we hold dearly Tomorrow and all our Scientific axioms will collapse on us

The Biggest Coackroach in my room is a Piece of Shi.t to me. Einstein is Brilliant to us but may be a Dullard to God!... Who knows What 100th generations from today will find out.

How can some piece of Wirings conclude they Have "Sense" ....

BigBashiru:
How?

You only viewed the Blessings of two women under your blokos what about the Cost of having them underneath You especially when they lash at each other or competing for your attention or when one wants more of You ... or the just increase their demand of you jointly above your Capabilities

BigBashiru:
My opinion below:

Don't marry just one woman... pls marry several. Marry the 32 yo then later also marry a younger girl.... it doesn't hv to be just one given current market conditions.

... Market Condition is Favorable until Products start bitting Your A.ss

sandra50:
Looks like that depression is what you are facing at the moment..I don't even have your time..

Ur mouth be like Fork and Shovel .. Ur Left Nyansh there

LebanonCedars2:
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How you treat your spouse in the marriage will go a long way in keeping him or her in shape mentally, physically or sexually.

Gbam.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Which stats

You make it seem like ladies in their 20's especially of this generation are in a rush to marry or planning or being reliant on men.

So if the men are not financially stable what other cogent reason is there to marry them?none then it can be said that such marriage is not of love but one of convenience, which is the point I have been making no young lady will easily be attracted to an older man without a convenient reason to which most times involves money

Higher IQ, Maturity, Mentorship, Leadership ....

Most women do not actually wanted to lead the Home, they want their Man to do that but the Bigger Question is : Is He Manly Enough ?

Women Mature more faster than Men but Men later catch Up mostly in 30s. Thus, a 25yo girl can Withstand even a 40year old man maturedly within 2-5years depending on the Man's game and aura around her.

Now, how could a girl who has related and cohabitted with a 40yo Maturity suddenly dropped to 29yo Maturity .... Their is gonna be a huge gap to fill in her Brain...

Higher IQ ladies can't be "husband" by most of their peers age group, it's gonna be like Two Bosses inside a Vehicle.....

The beautiful aspect of some ladies life is to find a Man that has the Aura they can willingly submit to without being coerced to do so ... Like, He is a Man Enough to Sire My Womanhood by His Upstairs, Downstairs and By Hands(Career/Financial) .....

So many factors than the Money you mentioned to consider while Marrying Other Men ....

If poco Is 25 now, a 40yo dude with superb IQ will sweat small sef to leash her ... Guys of her age group must definitely run except he has his A game on while Matured men will just laugh at her childishness. Imagine your wife wants to bring the building down and all you do is smile and hug her and tell her baby sorry tis OK... A young dude with Raging testosterone will help her tear the house down ....

Many many other factors and instances depending on the couples in context and the Situations on ground.

Feelings79:
OP,l will advise you move with caution.A number of questions and issues persist as to why one should think twice about marrying a 32 years old.Firstly,why would no one find her suitable for marriage all these years? what was she doing with her life all these years and what is she bringing to the marriage in terms of career since it might not be very convenient for her to be starting a career now in the midst of child bearing and rearing? how will age affect her fertility? having experience much in life, will she be as submissive as a younger woman would be?and most importantly, the female gender is known to age faster than the men, can you handle that? I'm married to a thirty something years old and I know a woman's sexual life can be on the decline in her thirties and so on.So many questions and issues bro

I was told by 40yos women that a woman's sex life peaks after child bearing age but that's when we men can't cope at same age. All things being equal(Remove stress and economic hardship) ... A women's libido peaks post menopause and that's when they look for youngies to ram them ...

Na so I hear am oo from older women in 40-50s ..

Make man sha plum himself well, there are Works to be done

sandra50:
Oga you will not find..infact you will regret ever letting her go.

This is Depression written all over You . Why cursing a Stranger You never know one hoot about his life or Future other than what he shared here?

Why Emotional on another Person's Life .. Maybe the 32yo lady will even reject him if he proposed you never know. Maybe the 32yo has someone better in her life than him while Oga thinks he is the alpha in her life ... you never know

All shades of Wrong and Obsession from You. Mind You, You ain't the girl in the 32yo ... Don't go Emotional, Common!

Mercychen:
I don't really know how to explain this but for some reasons I just think it may not be right.

There's this ex of mine that looks so adorable and I missed him so much after we parted ways.

Now, the thing is, I keep seeing little girls that look so much like him and I just take to liking them. As in.. I try to be friends with them just because of that resemblance they have with him. I begin to see them as the baby girl I would have had for him. They too naturally like me and always want to come around me.


Only mature and sensible responses.

You are Simply Depressed and Suffering from Hallucinations.

Be engaged and take your mind from Him before You become obsessed with those kids and started hurting them and their parents once you sense they wanna be taken away from you. Emotional/Obsessive Mien is your issue because you are obsessed with the dude ...

His Aura must have done something to you mentally ... What a Demon

Get Engaged with something else, You are Depressed and couldn't let him go.

Those kids do not look like him but your Brain placed his face on them because Your Brain already imagined those kids to have been the kids you woulda had for him all things being equal..

Brain Deceiving Itself. The day You sense those kids don't actually look like him, you will withdraw from those kids and they will wanna play with you then you will bark at them like a Gba-gbos ....their parents will look at you like fvck u b.itch gadafvck outa our kids ....

Mad Love!

I Praise God for Wholesome Whole and the little challenges to make us Realise this is "Earth" so we can Learn Better and Most Importantly: The Intelligent Quotient, The Masculinity and The Health.

If you ever see mentally Deranged people and Depressed Soul, You will fear the Inverse of Life ...

A man has to be a Man, Kai, For A man to be demasculated is Depressive especially the Dck area then Financial and Aura.

Health, Health is Life itself.

God Thanks for thy Grace, More and More the Most Immaculate Being.

BadRadio:
Some partners can be good with all the sex style and have got gargantuan stamina.... while some may not be too interested about sex, but have got an interesting mindset.


Which will you pick?

As far as she has sense, she loves sex once communicated sensibly.

But as far as she Loves sex, she may not have sense and sense is the most difficult to teach

Southernigbo:
Is it just bcoz of ethnicity, simplicity, lean body build or high sense of morality /religion? As for me, I believe we are all first and foremost human beings before any of the above features. So the it should be is that wherever one finds love, one should go for it and not put out any artificial sentiments.

Northern girls dislike Southern Guys except the one that speaks Hausa.

Dangrace01:
My question is how do doctors get aroused after doing operation on several female bodies and seeing so many women naked.

If i am a doctor i dont think a woman's body would move me

Na dem get aroused pass because after the hectic work on resuscitation and Restoration, they always need a Soldier and a Shoulder to rest Upon and that's when the game's On.

Female Doc like sex much but in a Defined Relationships like Marriage. Sex is relaxing U know dem work no be easy !

CHAVINCI:
mine was one pirate film that I bought and took it home for me and my family to watch,the name was "pirates,stagnetti's revenge",my mom,dad,brothers and sister all sat down to watch and lo and behold,we were watching raw porn,I still cringe whenever I remember the looks on their faces,especially my mom,immediately after I removed it she brought out our daily bible study guide book saying that we needed to flush out whatever we just saw from our system.

She did the right thing

Datboredberry:
The small one...

Like Agege bread....

Sowie u hear .. Go gym to Balance both sides of the Equation.

Datboredberry:


It's fatter than the right nyansh...

Discombobulated Nyansh ...
Which one dey softer ?

Datboredberry:
Mister I too know... I'm already aware... I just had to give them the 'correct' definition of 'Alpha male'... Nairaland standards...

Ur Left Nyansh

Ikea81:
Taah! If you see her , she is now miserable . Crying every night on how I treat like like a pussy. The dick don ravage her soul. She is now my slave. Most weekends I chill with her i pity her, cos she now looks helpless, running errands trying to make me comfy. Calling me chairman. I bang her in the most degrading manner, women just like to be used and abused..now I told her never to wear pant any weekend I am around. Last night banging her on her freezer was just too sweet..

Don't Worry Dude ... If what you say is true ... E go clear for your eyes soon na

Truvelisback:
People have different mindset or meaning abt what Redpill is all abt. Even though, i am not a redpiller. Redpiller doesn't necessarily have to do with hating women as many have assumed, even though many have abused and misused it.

RedPiller implies You don't have time for Women Shenanigans and the Arrogance that comes from their Womahood/Feminine. A redpiller is always alert to Female Tantrums and Draw the red lines immediately.

In the Long-run everyone is controlled by Hormones and Estrogen and Testosterone doesn't range the same way ....

Thus, A woman will eventually be a Woman in the Long-run by Yearning for Care, blaming you for her mistakes, taking advantage of you and expect you not to criticise her because you are the Stronger Hormone but a Redpiller doesn't have time for such Nonsense, Blame Yourself for your Woes.

A Redpiller is a Response by Male to SIMP especially when the female folks has thought you bitter Lessons during your Simp days ....

Now, Women can never like someone that doesn't make them feel like a lady and a chick but A Redpiller doesn't give a fvck about all that.

A Redpiller is also a response to Feminist movement ...

Alpha Male is another ball game entirely... He doesn't care who you are, if you cross him you will be well taken care of in Measures you wouldn't understand what hit you .... Even if he cheated You, You will bless God You Encountered Him ...

Alpha Male is what every female fight for including alpha females..... Alpha Male holds the lady by the Jugular and He SIMP all the lady along his path Wether Alpha Female, Beta Female or SIMP Female ....

placeofallure:
God! How can a woman become like that? Don't you think it's some kind of disorder? And the men doing free banging, doesn't it look dirty to you? How can you poke where somebody has poked before when she hasn't cleaned up? The whole thing is disgusting, you are not scared of infection, everyone is not clean. I used to ask my 'egbon' at home how prostitutes cope with so many dicks entering and leaving. How do they do it? I'm trying to cope with one even cos his urge is a bit high. Some girls, Lai s'afise!

You must have given Birth. His urge ain't high, You just have divided attention.