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Brightw278:
Pardon my manners, I know this isn’t suppose to be here but I just had to post here because I know it’s the only place I would get engagements.

I’m done with my barchelors, been applying and job is not forthcoming, so I decided to do odd jobs. I have worked in building sites, driver and I do cleaning services on weekends in my estate. This is what I have been surviving on since I graduated. I can afford 3 square meals, change cloths once in a while and buy data or gadgets I desire. I don’t waste money and spend on only important things.

I managed to save up 500k in the last 2 year from my hustle that’s all I have. I’m quite happy with what I’m doing but I’d like to add value to myself I can’t keep working like this to survive.

I have been thinking of going into tech for a while now, I priced a good laptop from a trusted friend and he told me I should get a Mac Pro 2012 which is ideal for what I want to learn (graphic design and web development) and would cost me 140k for the London used.

I would be left with 350k, I’m thinking of applying for masters in a Nigerian university. From my calculations 300k would cover the fees excluding accommodations, feeding textbooks and projects ( I can actually handle these as I would continue working while I school) .

The problem is is it a wise decision to spend all this on masters? I already made up my mind about the tech part and I would be getting a system soon. What would you advice a do.

Dedicate Your time and Hustles for the Tech and Your Side Hustles. After Your Tech Trainings possibly One Year of Sweats then Go for the Master. You would have saved More because Master is both Financial and Mental Zapping.

If What You are looking for is Mental Development to seeing the World in Bigger Perspective scientifically, Masters will help you with That because you will be imbibed with Investigative Skills and ability to Ask Succint Questions and Provide Succinct answers. Trust me, You will be trained and never be the same again for ever if you pay critical attention to the Modules of Knowledges dangling before You.

If the Essence of Your Master is to make Solely money (not Knowledge), You may be Dissapointed in the Long-run because Your monetary Objective will strikeout the Knowledge Module. But trust me Masters Knowledge will make You Money if you are truly equipped mentally.

Side Hustles and Masters together is gonna burn you out because M.sc is difficult than Them all depending on the school.

God will continue to reign Supreme in us, Amen.

Truvelisback:
The only Valid point u made is the child bearing. Men carries most of the stress,Bills/responsibities, which is why men's life seems harder.

And I respect Your Opinion.

Truvelisback:
U don dey turn am to fight. See as u dey misinterprete my comment as depression. U funny.

Oga leave me Jhoor ... Na u dey Emotional say a dude dey represent women Hustles

Truvelisback:
U are only just being emotional abt women and this is making u not to see clearly abt what men go tru.

U down ooo, Where Ya sense ... you created thread still dey Judge my Opinion
If you want troll talk am oo .. no use me cure your Depression abeg ... I wrote what I felt is true

Oh Yes, I'm Emotional to Women's Plight but Never a Simp because no be me carry those duties give them..

Truvelisback:
Although, u have a point. Apart from pregnancy or bearing children, i don't see how women's life seems to be harder than men's life. Note: In most cases, when women gets married to a man, she becomes the responsibility of the man, according to GoodHardDick. The man caters for her need.

how many women actually enjoys Matrimonial Home all over the world compare to those who suffers

The Child Bearing(Delivery) day alone is tougher than all the men's Hustles over his entire life.

During sex, a woman that's not well lubricated feels poking of dick like you are poking a wound but Men just fvck dey go anyway ....

A woman without man lives a horrible life than a man without woman...

A Sane Man will Enjoy his entire life once he can handle Women

A Sane woman needs a Sane Man to function well else Depression sets in.

Women dey suffer bro

Truvelisback:
Good day, Fellas. I know being a man or woman has it's own challenges. So, i wanna hear ur views. Btw men's life and women's life, which one is harder? The other day Ilamina was saying men's life is easier because they do not carry pregnancy. I was just laughing in my heart.

Women's life is Harder and Harsher. Nature gave them more responsibilities than we Men.

Earth has her challenges for all Human, every gender is an Hustler

Women still need to Carry Pregnancy which is a Life and death event

Women still do Menstruation on a Monthly Basis coupled with All the Hish/hash attached to the Menstrual pains/cramps.

Women have More Brain Neurons (For Processing) than Men's Brain Neurons that's why Women are more Worried than we Men and When coast is Clear they are more playful.

Betrayal of Woman gets Punished by Nature if only You know...

Whatever Challenges we Men are Passing through is much more self inflicted than Nature's inflicted ... War, Greediness, Wickedness, Cheating or Love of Pvssy which turn on the mumu button aka SIMP.

pansophist:
Na only maths ? How about philosophy? Na that one I wan create. I see the world in a completely different way people see it, and I wan go defend am in my writings. Stay in touch.

Philosophies abound way too much. Notch up the Philosophies and transform them into Numbers(Algorithms) that can Conquer Next Planet for Humanity.

Most Algorithms set out initially as Philosophies then You Keep adding Value, adding value till Boom ... You just did something no one ever done .....

Academic is Bae if pursued for the purpose of Knowledges not job, Adaptive Knowledges always bring Money once you know how to apply the syntaxes to different situations. So never rule out advanced Education(M.sc and co) as you stated somewhere.

pansophist:
A lot. Generally I don't like to be known. I'm like those illuminati guys, I just prefer to be operating from the background. I live alone, and sometimes I'll just not touch my phone for days, I left Instagram, Facebook is next. I would prefer to go and live in an isolated village and be surrounded by animals, nature and silence.

If you don't use such opportunities to create Mathematics that will enable Humanity to live inside the Sun, Then You better off in the city.

Ademola47:
One of the things people use to decide whom to marry is character.

Nairalanders, can you marry someone with your kind of character?

Both the good and the bad side....

I always Pray for someone more better than me in terms of Characters and less worse than me at the Ugly side Amen.

Golan007:
May his soul rest in peace.

Amen RIP.

lucky4west:
all these na long speech, just give her plenty cash,

saturate the house with food stuffs and

pay attention to the kids....

always ensure the generator and car/s have fuel..

God bless You for this!
TV Subscription for ZWorld, Telemundo .

Say Sorry immediately there is fracas and you are the wrong one

Tap Current here and there with her

I love the Op but this is just Summary of everything .....

Ara21:
Just understand me, respect me, listen to me when I am talking very important, don't help me around the house I can manage. The first three nailed it for me.

If you are married with 3 bedroom flat ensuite with visitors, That Help around will be the most important ... U wan break down !

Bola146:
cute babies Lord bless me with twins as my first fruits

Why u dey rush na ... u wan test water, U start with two ... God is Wonderful, Amen!

Oiza131:
My bowlegs and smiles.. I don't know if they're whining me sha, but most persons tend to compliment my legs than my beautiful face. I don't take it as a compliment though.

But Your legs no bow now ?

Ishilove:
My boobs. I'm a J cup

Hiannn, how the back pain and sleeping pattern. Sorry, Nature gives you big loads .. Always give one to your husband to carry for you overnight so as to relax

SuperBlack:
Good Character and always having solution for almost everything

You be God ?
Dem Don give you Quantum Physics before to solve Talk to your environmental issues but not almost everything....

Go and Solve the Problem of Elon Musk on Engines to Mars

jaelz:
Yup we all have that one thing that always gets people attracted to you all the times, what's that one thing guys let's please share it here.

Mine are my dentition, they are perfect...

Versatility.

I speak to Your Innate Problems and Interest as if I'm right there.

Gbam, We become Superglue and Aradite.

HarunaWest:
America and other nations keep poaching our best and we are happy about it. For someone that was trained from the cradle in Nigeria. The black man has a fundamental problem...

You sound Racist .. He is now a Global Citizen and He is of better use to planet Earth with the USA

Arelyn:
Albert Einstein once said "Two things are infinite; the universe and human stupidity and I am not sure about the universe" ........

There is no problem if he Write an Apology letter whatever gives his Brain Closure with the Universal Absolute Power and Forfeiting the certificates doesn't mean Forfeiting the Skills imbibed while pursuing the certificates. Jamb will have to kill him...
Then Jamb will be a murderer.

Nonsense ... Jamb did the right time, dude did the right thing to ease his Brain.

Saintmary:
I know perfectly well how both male and female bodies work.

Perfectly
Which kain Weed be this ?

The DNA has a way of relating us with the Environment. Don't blame those you relate with, examine yourself. There are some innate characteristics you Possessed that makes people to react or behave to you In a particular pattern.

A past that wasn't learn from and altered will definitely reoccur in the future until You Pass the examination.

Saintmary:
Hmmmm.


No hidden manipulation tactics for me.
No astrology
No extraterrestrial shenanigans
Just simple and clear happy peaceful life.




Anything outside of that, count me out.



Go out there and see how people have bent their spirits out of shape by following unverified precepts that only lead them down the path of pain because they have chosen to not acknowledge God as their only Help.





I stand with God
I stand with Peace
I stand with Clarity
Goodness and Mercy follow me.


May my path be full of Light.
I reject every shadow.



There is no more hidden knowledge or new revelations to be found on this planet.



Everything has already been revealed.

You may never know you are being manipulated because You will immediately put up Resistance when sensed .. But When one just relied on Oestrogen and the inherent weaknesses... God is Good all the time, Hot Brain needed to cool off!

We shouldn't be a slave to our mental resolutions but Stand to Our Belief and Be open to Diversification when Obvious.

The Principles of God is Supreme and the Only Good. Nonetheless, Everything has not been revealed, there is More to Come but Come What May, The Axiom of God Stands till Eternity because God is Supreme.

Saintmary:
Exactly.

Once I understand your temperament and Charts of mental processing, Gbam. All I do is develop counter and Linear Measures to take Control of All our Situations.

Just like driving a Car once you understand the Machine phewwwwww that's all.. The Remaining is Mental(Temparent and Emotional) Management ... High it or low it at will.

All you see is Good dude, You won't see me doing it and next line of behaviour/response can easily be predicted then altered or allowed to flow.

Saintmary:
I'd rather rely on Psychology and Social sciences when it comes to compatibility and personality traits.


I still maintain that a planet cannot make me do or become what I did not decide. Being a human means I maintain my right to take charge of my outcome in life.


I'm very protective of my Will, Individuality and ability to make decisions.


But if course, to each their own.

You and Poco head just dey banging Hot

Saintmary:
Some people take it so serious it's shocking.



I don't understand why you'll think planetary bodies, particles and free space will have anything to do with humans.


Latching on to astrology is simply transference of dependency.

i.e. jumping from religious brainwashing to scientific brainwashing.



It's a new year, don't waste it on nonsense.





@the topic:

Really?


Choice of spouse based on astrology?


I can't see anything or anyone more stupid.


Anyone who looks at stars and planets before making decisions is simply irresponsible and immature.

The most important to me is Psychology(Emotional Intelligence) and Psychiatry instead of Astrology.

People can alter Behaviour and you would still be stressing yourself over some astrological positions.

tensazangetsu20:
So automatically the child is an American citizen and has a ton of opportunities open to him and one stupid pastor somewhere is telling us that God loves us all equally. You must be a big fool if you believe God loves you and someone who was born in the USA Canada Switzerland Australia Japan et al equally .

Congratulations between.

God loves us equally but we all don't love God equally.

To enjoy the Blissfulness of God, You must love God by Stepping up to Evolution via Discipline (Focus), Good Food, Using Your Brain(Not trying to Cheat Established Systems).

IdealDigiTech:
Looking at the way things are going in terms of technologies, ideologies, etc. What do you think life will be like hundred years from now?

What exists now that you think may no longer exist?
What doesn't exist now that you think may exist 100 years from now?

Let's speculate guys.

For me, I think both work and schooling will be done remotely. I mean completely remotely

Either Super Advanced Technologies or the Earth will reset Back to Villages and Harmlet ....

The rate at which Devil is Pushing Nuclear Bomb from Atomic Nations if succeeded, Everybody will be starting from their village in 100 years today

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KingDash:
na girls call pass oh.. Omo una never jam babe wey go call una 15 times a day.

That's after you pressed her Mumu button Scatter.

Sheleads:
You mean you can accept that everyday calls from a guy, especially a guy you are not yet into? Aside from that, does he not have things to do? I believe most ladies see it as pestering, i also do.

You are correct. A Real Dude with Stuffs don't call acquaintances like Hell. E no get work even Deep Friends only calls Maximum twice a day and the time is after work and shower ..

raquel97:
Currently in this kind of situation. This guy once gave me 25 missed calls in a day, like wtf. Yesterday I was on phone with my mum and this guy called like 5 times. Dude I’m sure you were told that the line was currently busy and you kept calling. The funny part is when he calls, there’s nothing reasonable to talk about than shouting I want to marry you in the next five years blah blah blah
The matter tire me and I don tell am make im no dey call me fah but he get coconut head lolz

Yourself block am now .. u dey enjoy the Disturbances!

Ffidelity:
Hello guys... There's a friend of mine who's trying to go into a relationship with a girl he love so much. In order to show more love to this girl, he decided to be calling her almost everyday. The girl do receive and pick his call normally. But until one day, the girl complain of the guy excess call, and she say that she can't be in a relationship with such a guy that do call her frequently.
Btw, is it a crime for a guy to always call and check on the girl he truly love? Because that was the only offense the guy committed.
Your contribution is highly needed. Thanks.

If a girl is feeling your vibes on communication, she will melt if you fail to call her in one day.

If I call a new acquaintance for 3 days straight and she fail to initiate call back once within that 3 days... I won't call again until you call me for 2days straight and I will call in the 3rd day ....

Scarcity brings Respect that's why Money is not Cheap and Most Everyone Respect Money cuz no be play to get am!