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MeghaneMorgane:
Marriage is more than this display of holding private parts. Private parts cannot sustain a marriage

I wish them a happy married life

Loudest Marriage than this Yaff Gbas finished ... Anyway, No be dem be the First and dem no go be the last Freakish.

HML to them.

MufasaLion:
No wonder there are many broken homes.

Dude, You know Nothing like John Snow. If to say na by our Brain, there wouldn't be any Broken Home. Upon the Brains in Western Europe, Marriage there is a facade you know Why

The God I mean is not the God as Defined by Nigerian Street, My Own God is the God of Super Uncommon Sense which You will need to Spearhead your Home.

Invoke Almighty God to take over the Journey and sire all for You. You will be OK.

God is the Only Good.

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
If you must know marriage is against natural order.

Why should a man be banging the same toto for the rest of his life?

Marriage is a way you get hold of Nature because Nature do not actually send you.

If not for Ships, Do you think You can sail Atlantic and Pacific Ocean on Your own.

Marriage is the Means by which Human controlled their society which is a necessary step towards Evolution.

A society without Order will be destroyed. Marriage is one of those Orders.

efeteb:
My Candid advice

If the issue is not emotionally induced, Introduce your wife to Gorantula. This is a miracle she will thank you for someday.

Note: Gorantula is commonly sold around and there are processed one's. This is the main physical component of kayamata.

There is nothing spiritual in the use of Gorantula. Its an age long aphrodisiacs for woman used by Adamawa women for long.

Kayamata means woman's properties.

Does Gorontula has any health effects?

Amodi470:
Just add another wife.
The beauty of Islam, I'm proud to be a Muslim, Alhamdulillahi

That's not Islam. Islam states you must be Fair to all your wives. Nigga, If you can't manage the problem of one Woman, You can't manage the problem of 2 women albeit 3 and 4.

People like you if you marry more than a wife, You will Wrath Almighty Allah (swt) and Once such Happens, You will be Wrathed.

LINTUNE:
stop talking like a child,there are so many frigid women around...women that see sex as very painful and uneccearry..go and read about frigidity in some women,oga if u like be the most romantic person on Earth,she will not get wet,the only time this women can allow u have sex is when they want children...this is why testing before marriage is a bit reasonable..

You are the Child here.

Frigidity is caused by psychological defects or Biological issues. As her Man, You have to study your patner, understand Her issues and help them solve it by being supportive or take them to where it can be solved.

Marriage no be put woman/Man keep for House with the IQ that I've got My pvssy/D. ick desires all covered.

You gats maintain the Brain behind the Cherries and that's beyond Money, You must add Muscle and Brain. just like a Vehicle(Petrol, Changing Oil, parts, Fluids etc)...

Every human requires Management and if you don't have Human Management Skills, Kiss Your Marriage Bye-bye!

If you like test her for ten years, marriage is different from Courting. She will still Manifest what she will Manifest once Marriage stress pops.

So Don't use testing as an excuse to engage in Premarital Sex

If you ain't ready to put in the time, Muscle and Brain ... Your Marriage will Spashhhhh and the Children will become the immediate victim.

shakespere:
When a woman has children things are different. Been married for 17 years and have experienced this . House chores and the kids, plus her own job is enough to kill her, sex is the least on the agenda, and easily see the husband as selfish. He does not go through same thing. She has lost her mojo, threatening her with side chick is not the answer, she does not care.

Man should help her with the kids - home work, bathing, getting them to bed, cooking, washing etc. Create the atmosphere for her to want to, give her free time, rest time, me time, take her out, let her rest whilst you and the kids cook during weekend, massage her leg, tell her kids words, show appreciation- it is toasting her all over again. This thing can be really frustrating for women, and make them intolerant, untop, if you dont have money and she is the one working her ass off to take care of the family!

Little by little, she will change. Call her before you come home, buy food istead make she cook, tell her there will be show tonight, rest o, no give me story, bring her gifts, sebi thats what we do for side chicks, who dont do all the laborious things, so they always ready.

I have done this and she came around, i get it more regular now. Side chikcs is not the answer, safe money for old age income o

Na U be Odogwu.

Many People think the testing the Package before Marriage is the answer, some females also join those fallacies. Snagging each other before marriage is not enough to determine what happens as future comes in. Human body and mind needs alot to maintain Functioning, if not You will lose the MOJO instantly.

Everybody change as Body cells get older and the rate at which we handle stress and psychological issues differs.

The consequential effects affect sexual life and including Temparaments too.

A wicked Man will sit down read newspaper, watch football and eat great dish while the wife does all the chores including her own hustles. Immediately after food the Dik. Will respond to the blood rush and you will still grab the wife bumbum say u want to do then she just wanna kill you at that moment.

Sex is beyond poking a woman, sex is mental to women...

A mentally balanced woman will be chasing you up and down with her punny because she has more sexual nerve endings x3 of yours while you have the Raging hormone to clear her doubt. If your woman is not chasing you with sex, there is something wrong with your Manliness.

SirJerrie:
I once dated a girl who hated sex.
According to her, She was sexually abused(raped) when she was barely 10 years old by her cousin who was way older.
When we making out and I try to touch her p*$$y, she feels irritated (even when she's very wet).
First time we were supposed to have sex, immediately i pulled her panties, she felt irritated and started to cry(we are talking about somebody in her mid 20's). It took almost a year before anything happened between us...
The sex started coming frequently when she got very comfortable with me.

All I'm saying is there's might be a psychological factor causing your wife to lack interest in sex..
Maybe Stress... Or Trauma from a bad sexually experience. Or maybe she just doesn't fancy you
in a sexual way to want to get turned on by you.

Try Stuffs that help with libido for females... Like SPANISHFLY(get one and pour in her drink... Try to turn her on afterwards)



See why sexual compactibility is important in marriage...
Test your Merchandise before you buy!!

Everything sexual to a woman is psychological because once the canal is not lubricated then it feels like you are poking a big wound. To get the canal lubricated, you have to get her brain lubricated with resulting effects all over her intestines including vagina. To get Her Brain Lubricated, You have to be Psychological (Solution Provider/Problem Solver).

ukaface:
I wan ask question o
Please at what stage do men stop being sex starved?

At the stage he needs to Orgasm his Raging Testosterone and You ain't there to make it happen...

That's sex starved

ukaface:
Do men actually understand that they can't compare their libido to females?
Some females after first childbirth,will have a decreased sex libido
Menopause introduces low libido too.

Just because you feel the urge all the time, doesn't mean your wife must feel same.
Understand the female body, understand your wife. Everything is not sex biko.

The society has made it worse for women already to always open leg once the man ask for it, neglecting to know how the female body works or what is actually wrong with the woman

Abeg, make all of una getat

Giving the right Environment, Right Conditions(No Mental Worries from both gender) and Tasteful Atmosphere(candlelight and the Bluess and Winish Reds Sparkling Romance) ....

An average man won't match an average woman's libido .... You will run when She enter GEAR 5 ....

What most men lacks is how to help a woman eliminate her mental worries/questions.... A Man that hasn't eliminate His Own can't Help Eliminate Yours. Mental Worries is connected to women's sexual satisfaction.

This has nothing to do with Money but Higher IQ and Emotional Maturity from the Dude to read his Girl and Supply the antidote even before she knows what hits Her...

You won't match the sexual Prowess of a Happy Fulfilled Girl ... Hmm !

ukaface:
I love cheese balls, popcorn, stick sweet, biscuits

Catfish. Smoked or Fresh

pansophist:
Chai, you never propose sef you already wan emasculate me. When I'm not Bobrisky. I no do again. Keep ya ring.

U see say if you marry your Kind una go dey Loggerhead ni because Principle/Philosophy and Counter Philosophy will just be flying In the air with Everyone blowing English

chatinent:
1. Why do we apologize before saying anything in Nigeria? Eg “please don't be angry, where is First Bank located here?” “Abeg, no vex, where I go fit piss here?”


2. Why do we say ‘no problem’ or ‘no wahala’ when told to do sth after a conversation?

Aswear, If You don't Appease Nigerian's Brain, He/she will just transfer Aggressions to You. You self please no vex.

This Thread no be Joke oo ... Almighty God shall Cleanse our Dark Cloud so our White Cloud Can Spread, Amen.

SerikiFulani:
@Tired2022

After having sex with a hoe,I always feel empty and depressed ...Money ain't the problem but the fact that I keep laying my precious chest on strange women

Life is indeed hectic

That's the Objectives. To Empty and Depressed You. Since You are self aware, you have what it takes to fight it.

adedehinbo:
what is my gain If i decided to care for her needs without touching her and later she walks over unto the next available guys,i would feel like a loser,truth be told,most of these girls gets hurt badly when they notice a guy takes advantage of their body and dump them after.

That's Cultural affinity. A woke girl wouldn't give same Damn as You are.
Sex is Sex, u both banged each other except for the one that catches feelings get Hurt and by going back to her ... You can be snaked easily.

E get Level wey you go Reach for life and you go know drilling pvssy ain't an Achievements but Relaxation. A toxic girl's pvssy can't be relaxing bro, you just have to let her go and move dafvc on like you guys never meet.

Na why Chidinma killed Osifo

Uncle96:
No you know nothing , let me be a multi millionaire, and you're broke. Put me around your woman for a month, shes gone bruh , even though she does not leave you for me, she'll still cheat on you to an extent

You be Small Boy.
His Woman will collect money from You and Still use it to Sponsor his Education and both of them will drop Ya A.ss and Use Your Money Japa.

That's Loyalty not to You but to the Main Guy. You are just a Money Machine !

Truvelisback:
Nowadays, money buys Loyality. When some ladies notices that u are doing well as a guy, they tend to be loyal automatically.

They ain't Loyal. You are just a Present solution to Present Problem. They will turn away from you immediately SApA connect with You.

Loyalty is Forever even in Death.

Privacy is the only way You can Achieve concrete growth and development.

adedehinbo:
what is STD?since i was born i have never experienced any

That's why I said What You posted is Immature. Life ain't about drilling pvssy especially if you are busy with time and have real Hustles.... You didn't hurt a girl by drilling her, that's some white lies guys give to themselves to boost ego.

STD is Sexually Transmitted Diseases.

Ficient:
After abortion for two different guys while you were dating and you can still stand her sight, still sleep with her in the name of fcking machine. Na guys when dey smoke igbo fit do this kind thing

That Igbo must also be strong from Oshogbo.

adedehinbo:
when she calls again,ask her if she has reconsidered her decision?Bleep the hell out her for some time and dump her

This is Stupidity not Maturity. And God catch you STD hooked You

Westchester:
She had nothing to offer me only being a leech to me, imagine her telling me she doesn't want sex until marriage but has the guts to tell me that as her boyfriend am supposed to be taking care of her needs
Came one morning and told me she wants to travel to another state to help in making up a new bride and she needs some money for upkeep, I asked her if she has reconsidered the no sex until marriage stuff, she said no and that if that's what I want she can't continue the relationship. I just told her to go and think about it cuz I can't accept that condition from someone that's not a virgin
She left my house and blocked me on Whatsapp, I just deleted all her pictures and phone numbers immediately,
That happened last year November and she just called me last week saying it's been long she saw me and just wanted to know how I'm doing
She's one entitled mf, she couldn't even remember the stuffs I did for her and the money I've spent on her, just blocked me on Whatsapp and I didn't give a fck about it, didn't even call her up till today

I gat no time for entitled broke btches

She was just trying to Simplified You but You Hold Up and Simplified her.

Edusouls:
Left me stranded and traveled to Lagos to help her newly married sister cuddle her baby, I was the one doing the calls and trying to stay in contact for 5 solid years, of course I got tired at a point, women are one kind of humans not the type men are...

5years .. You are a SIMPle dude

Solutiontipsb5:
So what kil*ed your feelings for someone you were madly in love with?

Stubbornness.

you can drum logic into some people's hear from now till tomorrow, they will still be adamant.

I hate people who stick to odds.

Mistake can happen no shee, but don't dwell in shi.ts talkless of forming king Kong on it that Nobody fit change you.

The relationship will end immediately I see Unreasonableness/Irresponsibleness. No time for sheeeeeee...

.

So You guys just have to turn this thread to Meeting/dating Zone ... HRSweetness so na husband you dey find wey make u open this thread .. Now You collect number and ZoomZoomZoom ....

Goodluck Jonathan to both of you

Brightw278:
Pardon my manners, I know this isn’t suppose to be here but I just had to post here because I know it’s the only place I would get engagements.

I’m done with my barchelors, been applying and job is not forthcoming, so I decided to do odd jobs. I have worked in building sites, driver and I do cleaning services on weekends in my estate. This is what I have been surviving on since I graduated. I can afford 3 square meals, change cloths once in a while and buy data or gadgets I desire. I don’t waste money and spend on only important things.

I managed to save up 500k in the last 2 year from my hustle that’s all I have. I’m quite happy with what I’m doing but I’d like to add value to myself I can’t keep working like this to survive.

I have been thinking of going into tech for a while now, I priced a good laptop from a trusted friend and he told me I should get a Mac Pro 2012 which is ideal for what I want to learn (graphic design and web development) and would cost me 140k for the London used.

I would be left with 350k, I’m thinking of applying for masters in a Nigerian university. From my calculations 300k would cover the fees excluding accommodations, feeding textbooks and projects ( I can actually handle these as I would continue working while I school) .

The problem is is it a wise decision to spend all this on masters? I already made up my mind about the tech part and I would be getting a system soon. What would you advice a do.

Dedicate Your time and Hustles for the Tech and Your Side Hustles. After Your Tech Trainings possibly One Year of Sweats then Go for the Master. You would have saved More because Master is both Financial and Mental Zapping.

If What You are looking for is Mental Development to seeing the World in Bigger Perspective scientifically, Masters will help you with That because you will be imbibed with Investigative Skills and ability to Ask Succint Questions and Provide Succinct answers. Trust me, You will be trained and never be the same again for ever if you pay critical attention to the Modules of Knowledges dangling before You.

If the Essence of Your Master is to make Solely money (not Knowledge), You may be Dissapointed in the Long-run because Your monetary Objective will strikeout the Knowledge Module. But trust me Masters Knowledge will make You Money if you are truly equipped mentally.

Side Hustles and Masters together is gonna burn you out because M.sc is difficult than Them all depending on the school.

God will continue to reign Supreme in us, Amen.

Truvelisback:
The only Valid point u made is the child bearing. Men carries most of the stress,Bills/responsibities, which is why men's life seems harder.

And I respect Your Opinion.

Truvelisback:
U don dey turn am to fight. See as u dey misinterprete my comment as depression. U funny.

Oga leave me Jhoor ... Na u dey Emotional say a dude dey represent women Hustles