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FERNANDEZISBACK:
Let her watch and observe..she is an innocent kid who has no idea whatsoever what you guys are doing..

Let her be comfortable around you guys when intimate... nothing wrong with it...

babyfaceafrica:
I will take this. Everyone should decide what makes them happy, not society

babyfaceafrica:
Can't a man be happy without marriage?

babyfaceafrica:
I don't agree with this, especially with the Nigerian settings. Single people seem more happy and free than married people. Marriage here seems like prison

babyfaceafrica:
All these just because one decides to marry, I envy single people!! Their peace is heavenly

babyfaceafrica:
You don't understand. Some women who instigate their children against their dad are doing it without even knowing.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Then you as men don't always live the nurturing and child bonding for the mother because you feel your wife's duty is primarily to them we have a new generation of kids and it won't always work like that
Fathers should play a key role and don't leave upbringing for their wives alone.

Anyway I agree with there is a difference between a husband and a father some men are good in both but some are good at one and bad at the other the scenario you painted is the one of the bad husband or terrible husband whose wife holds grudges and doesn't like how he treats her as a husband even though he may love his children and is a good father such a woman will definitely poison their minds towards the father and it is a bad thing children should be never be brought into the mix when a husband and wife have disagreement women should stop doing that

od501:
It's simple. Play your normal role as a father, but most especially, make sure your wife is not trying so hard to make them like u any less. Most women are often like that: always trying to weaponize the kids.

Kingpele:
Hahaha ,well am a man with kids ,if u don't want to have problems with your family members try to show real love to your wife and be faithful to her,especially during the early years of your marriage before she start to make her own money or before the kids grow up into Adults,she will be the person promoting you before your kids behind your back, because a woman can never talk ill of the real love of her life ,I travel to village for meetings and community elections for two weeks when I came back i saw that my kids really missed me cos my wife missed me ,out of the blues my second boy said to me u are the best dad in the world, I knew my wife taught him to say that while I was away ,so love your wife and take care of her needs according to your capacity u will have a peaceful life and your kids will love you and take care of you in your old age..

Draslo:
You want to drag your kids' love with your wife or what?
What if you're a military man and you're never around?
What if you're an expat in another country and you no dey ever dey?
What if you're a sailor and your presence at home is nothing to write home about?
What if......?


I could go on and on. Just stop there and do what your duties are as a father and husband to your nuclear and the love will never die. Don't ever expect all your kids to love you equally but remember that no matter what they all love you unconditionally.


What do I know anyways? I'm just a single guy without any offspring yet so maybe I don't know what I'm saying.

Biglittlelois:
This has always crossed my mind most times, and I always come up blank, even the all knowing Google always bring up unsatisfactory answers(to me anyway) so i decided to bring it here for more discussions, suggestions, and answers

Why are countries referred to as "she" and not "he"?

Amotolongbo:
Fallacy!

What about animals having casual sex, they will now be “downloading” their numerous partners’ problems

Sex is just a biological thing and activity like eating and drinking.
Don’t spiritualise it!

baralatie:
Vibrators will not solve the problem it will only delay the inevitable

optimusprime2:
But this is what we are looking for na??
This is actually the situation most of us want...

Quality20:
Please guys here, what is the solution to this kind of issue? How shd a man go about this? We all know that women sex drive is supposed to reduce after marriage and increased age but if the reverse now happens and she wants it more frequently than before? please help!

Truvelisback:
Good day, Fellas. The Biggest fear in a relationship is building ur partner for someone else.

aboyaji:
It will be very hard to hear that Kante got involved with rape and assault. Kante that loves himself and likes staying low. A very quiet and careful Human being.

He is always in control of things (situations and spendings).

When you're flamboyant, you can easily risk controversy.

Check out his small and very miniature car. Check out his black wife. You get it now, o kwa ya?

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Kpekus Matter

No doubt
Them fit put innocent niggarrr for trouble anyday anytime twice on the day they really decide to put a niggarrr in trouble

One shock me before na
She come greet me for house
I touch her she responded. I kissed her she didn't push me away. I sucked her breasts. Funny enough she even give me the other breast make i suck join

Only for the next two days her elder sister call me dey insult me as if say i force the girl
Quickly na im i call the girl say wetin happen. Why her sister dey insult me. She come dey tell me say normally she dey always tell that her elder sister anything she do

So she tell her everything.

Haba! As a real niggarrr na im i begin tell her say i hope she tell the elder sister say it was mutual and nor be force

She said yes. That she told her i didn't force her
O boy na so my mind come calm down

chubbyman:
Buy stud 100 delay ejaculation spray from jumia it's a vital expensive that the other generic ones but it definitely gets the job done,just spray it on your pens head and rub it on it very well before you wash your hands 10mins before action time,you'll definitely see a real difference believe me,don't use drugs to prolong ejaculation very dangerous long term effects associated with such.

bigcee:
And you think you are medically OK. Guy, don't even brag about that shit. You need help, bro. Don't brag about shitty things when you need help. Ignorance is bad.

Prettydevil:
Men don’t care about their deeks most of the time, we can show anyone willing to see in a second without feeling sensitive about it. Even the men with little deeks always want to show it off, and don’t even care if people mock it. But women are so afraid to talk about their pvssy even to their fellow gender, once the issue comes up they will start acting like it’s a forbidden topic, what’s the issue really? Why do women think their body is sacred or something? Even some girls don’t accept being eaten sexually in the pvssy, even some oloshos don’t like it too and will refuse your money no matter the amount. What’s really the issue? I don’t think there’s anything special about the vagina or the penisss, it’s just a body part that would turn to sand when you die so why the fuss? Women stop being too sensitive and emotional about a gaddam body part , it’s not that deep.

pansophist:
What do you have to offer ?

You get yansh?

Saintmary:
Maturity is a continuous process.

No matter how matured you are, once you see more of life, you'll understand that there's a lot you still need to learn.


I wish you all the best.

freddie009:
All these offshore brothers. Money talking.
Bro, I love your confidence, but you wouldn't get a girl this way. She will see you as egocentric, to get a woman you have to pet her a little bit non go turn simp.
All this info you have mentioned, na style you go use take find out, not asking her outrightly or you be will be perceived as being rude.

atheistandproud:
Agreed.

In the spirit of gender equality. As men are required to make to make money first, women should make theirs as well.

Nobody go marry, nobody go born, let the human race go extinct and the planet will have peace once more.

TheRealOwner:
Patiently waiting for a fatwa to be declared on her head and a rebuttal concerning this on Islamic section to hit FP on Friday

eventainment:
no vex boss.... This is nice.. then what I'm just trying to say is that you can learn with just tutorials online then cybersecurity you can go for certification on it cause that's what makes a cybersecurity analyst valid