₦airaland Forum

Dupalmer:
In as much as I don't support domestic violence, your effort at apologizing and sincerely promising not to repeat it is more than enough to make you guys come back to normal if she's a reasonable woman.
don't call or beg her anymore else she will see a good stance to manipulate your sorry ass forever.
She will come back in a matter of days if you ignore her but if she doesn't, find a way to make yourself happy. You can't kill yourself over a trouble she ignited. She will loose if she tries to make it a hard or competitive game.

There are many ladies young and old with very good character that will be willing to marry as second, third and even fourth wife.

... This dude go don scatter marriage tire .... una trolls go just strategise unaself come do formation!

pennywys:
Such women who embrace education doesn't grow old quicky unlike others

I don't know if anyone have notice this

Yes, because they don't have time for Heart ache issues ..... And Tatafo ....

if you are academic and exercise adequately bingo Nigerian factors and village people ..... You will definitely live long!

aolawale025:
The bill should be taken down permanently

With that Bill, things that happened to Sowore and The Judge might be sweep under d carpet and anybody that share such clip hunted down. ....

Unnecessary bill.

OVIHINNO:
Obaseki doesn't have the Political Clout to restructure anything. Those Political Neophytes cheering him up will have their voices drowned when they realize this was never a war to start in the first instance

You mean if Edo central supported him he won't still be able to concentrate power in Benin !

I think that is what he is trying to do and Oshiomole felt cheated that Obaseki rode on his back now to turnaround to change the power game !

OVIHINNO:
Oshiomole is a WISE MAN. You choose your fight wisely. By the way, what do I even know that I'm talking?

This is a fight between Edo North and Edo Central.

I think Obaseki wants to restructure the power game.

InvertedHammer:
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Did Jonathan deserve 2nd term? Never! God forbid. He supervised the plundering of the national treasury.

Did Buhari deserve a win over Jonathan? Yes! Anything but GEJ at that time was in order.

Did Buhari deserve 2nd term? No! This is where Nigerians got it wrong. They reinforced failure. His first term was abysmally painful. One would think that Nigerians will continue voting out mediocres until they get it right. I didn't see Atiku as a better option. The issue is that Nigerians respond more to emotions than logic which is why it is very easy to distract them with inconsequentias. The political class knows this very well and use it to their advantages. 2019 election was held on zero ideologies. Did Buhari possess WAEC? Is Atiku a Nigerian? Nobody was keen on addressing major challenges facing Nigeria. Even the once respected but bastardized professionals called journalists were harping on these gimmicks instead of asking tough questions.

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Do the votes count .... Are the people the one voting .... abeg, Nigerians ain't foolish ... we have autocrats everywhere and the youths ain't ready for showdown .... !!

kollinz1234:
Banking/ DSA (Marketing) is not as bad as portrayed up there my dear. In life u learn to start. Please accept the job. It will give u an opportunity to meet people and create important relationship that will decide and make things easier for u in the future. For instance, I know someone who is a marketer but then published a book, invited his key customers for the launching and mad #3.2m from the launch. Some get better paying job (like federal and state govt jobs) through these relationships, while others learn a lot and put in the knowledge in their own businesses and prosper. My only advise is that "don't get dubious or try to do deceptive things to make momentary or quick money" as that will lead u to no where at the end of the day.

You are correct ... I know of some1 that joined Civil Defence through DSA to FideeBank ... it will surely give you connect and if you are smart you can use such connect to port!!

id911:
Whatever Major General Mohammadu Buhari likes, he should do to Ex-Chief Justice Onnoghen because most Southern Leaders are fools. If Onnoghen as Chief Judge has seen Buhari's file on his table, he would have ruled in favor of Buhari. I don't understand why Southerners asslick Northerners who don't bring anything to the Federal purse. We don't need them to survive but rather they are the ones that need us to survive.

Imagine all the taxes collected in Lagos and the Oil and Gas royalties in the Niger Delta being use to develop only SW, SE and Niger Delta, what do you think will happen to our growth and development here down south?

Since EFCC was established by OBJ, no Southerner has ever become EFCC Chairman and no Northern Muslim Ex-Governor or influential looter has ever been convicted, only Southerners and Northern Minority Christians are convicted. Most of these so-called educated and enlightened Southerners need to have their heads examined

Leave them to be speaking english ... look at incarceration of Sowore , No northern elite has said anything and any major clampdown on southerners, The northerners will not say anything either on Television nor Radio , they already brainwashed their people that Southern wealth is theirs !

Now let Buhari denied El-rufia two months federal allocation, It is the southern elites that will shout pass the concerned northern elites.

It was only Sultan of Sokoto that has condemned Buhari's lack of respect for rule of law .... The whole north don't care !!

abbatoir:
You seem to have high level of intelligence..u must be a street guy..

"Must" ... No doubt ... Street-Corporate ...we beat d odds bro

aminusodiq:
One evening like dat in 2013... . I was coming from a friends place. I was on bike, plying a road I've been plying everyday. Along dat road was a dam which has been in existence since decades But I always glance at it from afar. Instead of going home straight... I told a bike man to stop around d dam. I treked to througg a pathway to d dam (I can't go Tru d main gate) and behold... I found myself unclothing myself and eventually jumped into d dam at d expense of swimming!! (I don't knw hw to swim) intact dats my first time in a large water body!!! As I was crowling under d water... I felt a kind of sloppy moment. Im abt 6ft tall so I belived my head shld above while standing!!! Behold...its d opposite... I was grasping for air... I almost drowned!!! How I got out of that water is still unknown to me till date!!! Dats d last Tim I visited any large body... Or something... Nd I didn't tell anyone till after 6years!!!... Ever since den I don't joke with anything water

Na ya people call u

Samueltemi337:
When I was five or six I went to fetch water from a big tank filled with water but I was too short to reach for the tank so I started pulling myself up just to reach for the water then the next thing I saw was myself inside the water drowning I was shorting and shorting but who would hear someone shouting inside a water but before I knew what was happening my mom came and drag me out of the water

Sweet mum ... Greet her for me , tell her DonroxyII from Nairaland! ..She hears !!

The New thing now is new moniker , new issues on a daily basis and all of us we just be pouring our hearts .... How all these issues enter front page is captivating ..... !!

Ok: It has happened to me too before

Classyuniquebae:
Firstly she is not proud and dresses decently as well . As for the high taste ish, she really does but not like looking for a rich or financially stable guy. She said one of her problems is that she can't find a man with a vision . That even most rich guys simply do not have any plans or visions for their lives . They just want to make money and talk of how sexy she is and all of that .

I literally forced her to give this rich guy a chance and for like 2 months it was going well . According to her , the guy seems to be intellectually ok for her as their conversations were very engaging and they both share mind blowing ideas until she asked the guy about his future plans , visions and passion .


The guy lost it . He was like " what kinda stupid question is that ? That why does he really need to start making plans for his future when he is thinking of how to make money ? Lol


She came home crying ,saying she can't deal with these men . Like "where did I go wrong ? I'm about graduating but I've plans for my life. Why is it so difficult to get a sensible man ? "


So you see what I mean by she has a high taste but not on the negative side.

Attimes it is not as if the dudes ain't available but how many lady are ready to stay with a dude till he break through and for one successful all in all guy, there are like 200 ladies available for him and among the 200 ladies like 20 are first class well graded woman ... now he get confused on who to finally roll with .......

He is the only one you are seeing because he is d only one that fit the taste , but he has like other 19 girls that fit his taste and if you miss him, it will take eon time to nabbed another one like him while he will just move to the next graded girl !

The real problem with some ladies is taste and that "Cross-Qualities" they are looking for in a man .......Another problem is approach, how many ladies have the courage to beat the societal norms of toasting a guy that fit their taste .... You will wait for him to make d move , a move that he might never make .... e no easy !

The present society is not easy for most men to quickly breakthrough and some that breakthrough can not even add head or tail together ..... I.e. They don't have structure and they don't like being challenged .... if you ask a guy where do u see urself in five years, he fit vex for you ..... Change am for you .... simple question ... U will hear ur wahala too much, my exes don't ask me silly questions .... u be God ni


I used to say this, it is difficult for a woman of substance to get married these days because many guys around are fvckboys and most that are not fvckboys have fallen below the economic indices of well being .... They have the brain but the system keep fvcking them!


Those men that are above economic indices of well being and clearly defined in terms of:


moral Principle/Godliness:

Philosophy of Life:

Versatility:

Romantic:

Physical Appearance (Dark, Tall, Packed, Beards),

Career (Academic and Professional) and

Financially loaded .....

Your friend loves the above qualities , you love the above qualities and most graded ladies love the above qualities .....

Unfortunately, Such a man is fiercely competed for by ladies. Even when he is married .... He is a toast of highly graded ladies infact 10 ladies are ready to be his baby mama and make him their baby daddy .......

They don't want his money but his bloodlines ..... Even the married women in his office or neighbourhood are all salivating him because most of them don't get to enjoy such from their husband ....


Now, How many guys have such qualities ??

How many ladies want such qualities

and How many ladies are ready to wait for a guy to develop such qualities over time ......

I now read on Twitter, If he has potential but not yet made , Drop his a.ss ... na who potential help

Most ladies will manage what the society have to offer and if you don't wanna manage .... just stay unmarried ...

Every weekend Marriage occurs but how many happy homes do we have in Nigeria ..... Aisha Buhari self is not an Happy woman in her matrimonial home .... It was Mamman now na Garba Shehu

SirAce:
Nigerians Una be hypocrite sha, If it was Goodluck or OBJ that did this, Una go scream Corruption Country wey people hate themselves especially here on nairaland

Wetin Obj dey do wey go make am buy house of $12m for USA , Na corruption....... As Obama and Michelle paid $12m for that Mansion , FBI would have already commenced investigation into the source and movements of that Fund and if any issue doesn't add up Whistleblowing straight .....

such a transparency is not here !!

Stevecovey:
Good. The private sector needs to provide solutions to problems affecting a country. Nigeria needs more creative entrepreneurs.

You don't grow an economy by depending on the government for everything. Most people don't know that the private sector (billionaire businessmen) built the London underground and overground rail lines.

The government too should provide the enabling environment for. business to thrive .... how much is interest rate in london and Nigeria , what is the inflation rate in london and Nigeria and what is the cost of manufacturing those boats in london and Nigeria...

Now, if the government should do their jobs , you don't tell private sector what to do ... if you see an opportunity to render service at a margin , you will jump at it ......

Davash222:
How do you expect someone who can’t manage his family to lead a country
Seems we’re experiencing mass hypnotism in this country. It baffles me.

The Gap between literate and illiterate is very wide like 25/75 ratio.

Among the 25 literate, those that received education for the purpose of acquiring knowledge and using the hard earned education to make money are just 10 % while those that goes to school (Any school) just to make money without improve in IQ are around 15% ......

Thus fate of 10% of learned people are being determined by 90% anyhow people ....

Education is the key to liberating Nigerians !!

RiyaGoddess:
Lols Obas have been failing since the time of MKO...
All we have now is audio Obas.
Obas for the gram...

What do you want Obas to do : They are not independent and Operate at the mercy of the Governor who can render them useless within one second !!

Hmmmmm .... learning

yeye mods , if na Chelsea dem beat 2:0 e for don update

ETWs:
Pharmacology is for people who want to study any course that ENDS with .".......OLOGY."


Pharmacy is for people who want to study pharmacy.

Nairaland will surely die the day madness comot this forum

slimfit1:
As long as it's not in my village I'm ok. However, if they want to build it in your village na your problem be that. We cant maintain a plane you want to play with nuclear energy Hausa people with their cluelessness is dangerous to human survival.

A power plant in Wales have been closed for years. It generates nothing to the grid, yet employees more than hundreds of people, another hundred years to clean it up. Jesus do these people know what they are playing with at all. Niger people please carry on with your lanterns and generators.

They say plant will wipe out Nigeria and beyond ... u dey talk bout ya village ... Shey ya village no dey inside Nigeria ni

Nuclear plant is not a play ooo , they already inflated the contracts. This one is not corruption toy ooo ... na GbaGboom !!

JESUSBOIY:
what's the hash tag

RuizJoshua2

it is sweeter and factual on Twitter than on Nairaland... lot of lies here

YOUNGELDER1:
She’s right tho

Na her papa be shi.t .... Hiannnn .... Her left Nyansh !!

lefulefu:
so he has no sister to advice him? what of his parents? are they not there to advice him? in this day and age u are struggling to make a living and u still also struggling to sponsor a girl in sch under the guise of gwenfwend .if the guy has a sister then the sister na im i go first blame b4 i blame the guy.

This is a relationship that both families are aware of ......Both families already approved..... baby dey spend weekend for dude's Famz house self .... it is only d girl that is sceptical because of d level of d niggas development...... if d nigga start M.sc/PhD tomorrow , she go glued to him ...... U know girls like flaunting their man ..... and hyping things !!

truthsayer009:
Friend of your Sister also makes your Sister a Bronze Digger

Show me your friends and i will tell you who you are.

U correct na .... Me self be umpire and I dey chop residue sometimes .... .... My sweet babes dem

ZionMyWorld:
Well if we get to that bridge, we shall see.

Divorce isn't the best option, but the situation is getting me frustrated, I understand nobody is perfect, but sometimes the best option may not be sustainable...

I have never caught her with someone, though i spend less time with her, I stay far away... But I hate the distractions she is entertaining, they serve no good purpose for me, the kids and the marriage.

This thing is simple .... You already show her you can give her all she ever wanted in life and that's why she is so relax and too relaxed ..... Bro, if you divorce her, it will only complicate your life and her life .....


The reason why she glued to online is because you ain't providing the necessary attention she needed and she gets all d gists and attention from online .....

My recommendation:

Try to discover the platform she used to play : Twitter, Nairaland, FB, Instagram, Quora, Reddit etc Ascertain all those things that interest her :

Family, Romance, Cooking, Sexuality, Investment etc ....

Then develop ya interest in her areas of interest and tatafo it with her b4 u realise it both of you will become gist mates and u woulda take her from her online paddypaddy....

e.g

" Babe, I was surfing Nairaland and you won't believe Pocohantas went to La Campagne Tropicana only to write Mynd44 name on the beach" , are you sure there is nothing between those too .... She be like "Mtcheww, U sef u see am, na so dem go dey do, if u see one dude wey send me PM yesterday" ..... blah, blah blah !!

Na those Tatafo go bring ya wife back to ya side ... Before you realise it, she will tell you about all those guys sending her PM and what they really want ....

A sane dude will control her girl from those scenarios ...... If you ain't in her world, you can't control her interests.......

If you understand those interests and satisfy them , There are ways by which you can manipulate ur ways to uninstall them from her brain box and reinstall ya own values ....

very soon , I go open shop sef dey collect money to teach boys n girls things oooo

aro1:
bro..You need only one virtue now to address this issue PATIENCE..
I wish you best of luck!

and watch it flow

Gopitoto:
I still de try to recover from the shock.......3 solid years for that matter.....well God de

Such is life bro !!

Always think about the end game before you put ya money .... I wonder why Guys do this ......

Life is highly competitive and it is a capitalist world , every1 wants the best and be associated with the best .... I don't blame d girls though .... I blame d dudes ......

A BF of my sis friend is into ubber , sponsoring his gf in d University.... d girl is planning to drop his A.ss after graduation....... Na now she dey see say he be Ubber ..... Now, She want Doctors them, Engineer dem, Accountant dem .... U go blame her abi .... Blame d Ubber dude wey suppose use ihm own money develop himself!! ....

OlaitanAkanbi:
Today I invited a girl we have being chatting for 2years on facebook so we met today I really love this girl no be small but .
This girls once they see you are fresh they will empty you by fire by force with billing

We just met today she came with here friend I took you to my house
She said she was hungry I told her to cook she said No
I took her to buy food for she and her friend almost 1,500naira
She said she won’t to sub I bought card 1,000naira
After eating the food with her friend she said she will be going home soon
She no even use pass 1hour for my house
She then told me I will give she and her friend transport money she just started complaining she want to do hair
I was like which kind wahala be this
And I really like this girl oh
I then give she and her friend 3kfor transport
Can you believe this girl said the money is too small that she and her friend will use ( O-pay) bike home
I give her 5k
She then start asking for money for hair I told her next time she come that am cashlesss
She said ok
Na so she go oh I delete her number instant



Mind my English oh
Is true love real I beg
Every girl out here is always billing

Na u still loss ... she hustled 9k within 1hour from u without doing Nadder !! .... Maga !

Gopitoto:
Exactly...... You have spoken the truth..... Am experiencing the same thing now, I supported this student (Girlfriend) all through, today she is a graduate and dating another man she met this year because the man is well to do than me. She even celebrated her birthday this week and preferred to tag that new man than me. Never again I go date any student again.

... Chop your "L" silently !!

I dey tell guys, don't expect a damn thing from money you spent on another person !! ....