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Mcslize:
It's your fault. Most of you ladies like forming champion even when you love a guy, always waiting for the guy to be the one to reach out to you. Common checking on a guy you're in a relationship with, you girls can't reach out to the person you claimed you love. How many times do you reach out to him? How many times do you check on him if he is still alive? Do you know what he has been passing through? Are you aware of his worries? Do you call him to find out how life is treating him?

Relationship is two ways directions. It is reciprocal. Don't always sit on the fence waiting for your man to reach out to you before you reach out to him. Don't always wait for your man to reach out to you before finding out how life is treating him. Majority of you girls don't know how to care for a man. We men want to be shown love too.

The only thing that will make a man to stop talking to you is if you are just there contributing nothing to his life. But you want him to keep chasing you, professing unrealistic love to you while sitting right there folding your hands. No text, no call and you expect the man to waste his time with you. No way.

The only thing that will make someone you've spent 5 years with to stop talking to you is because you as a lady is not playing your role. You are not reaching out to him to check on him as often as you should for someone who truly wants to build a future with a man. He sees that you are just there always wanting him to be the one to do all the communications and building of the relationship. Don't blame the gentle man.

He must have found someone else who is doing all that you are not doing for him. What does it take to communicate with your man and always get involved in his life? It takes nothing - absolutely nothing. But you girls will be feeling like Queens of the coast putting all the work of maintaining a relationship on a man without doing nothing.

Do you truly expect such a man to choose you as a partner? What makes men choose women for wives is how supportive they are to men. Men choose women for life partner based on how supportive they can be to them.

In those days we see supportive fiancées and that makes men take such ladies for wives cuz they are supportive and not parasitics. They give good advice to their men and encourage them to attain higher feats in life. If a man do not see you as the supportive type, he will surely not take you seriously.

Brace yourself up and move on my sister. When you see the next man, learn how to fully get involved in his life. It will make make a man see you as the serious type.

Newguyhere:
when she was a poor struggling lady, did you bother to ask about the source of her poverty?
useless people, always thinking everyone should be living miserable poverty stricken lives as them
no go find work.
Oloshi

phillippians:
Better focus your mind on industrial or environmental microbiology bcoz there's no space for microbiologist in the hospital Lab, i graduated from microbiology 2 years ago, worked in d lab for a while (hospital underpays, infact they only employ microbiologist to cut cost, started with 25k, over d years craw to 35k)now into business. Currently Med.Lab have a guiding body preventing d microbiologist from working in the lab, any hospital caught pays a fine of 200k. It's sad

MountainView:
Hello, everyone just out of curiosity,

What were your childhood dreams and aspiration

Did you achieve it, what did you end up becoming, if you didn't achieve it?

Mine: I wanted to become a pilot, I guess

Now I'm pursuing a career in Software Development and Physics,

Though I have a new dream which I'm pursuing, I do hope I achieve it though

angelEmade:
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Badboibipo:
You see how nobody can relate to my mindset, this is why I'm a very bitter person who ignores hoes that say hi to him. I just hate that nobody gets me, Bleep yall

Fountainofyouth:
If I should say my sexual fetish ehn, y'all will be wowed, society made us tame some things sha.

dyydxx:
It would come by Dec 31st after Boris wins a majority in the Dec Election. This last gasp of remoaner parliament will be dissolved before friday and the Dec election will be secured and the wrath of the voters will be expressed in that Dec election

helinues:
Brexit is not coming any time soon as UK were not well prepared when they voted in favour..

We should be expecting another extensions after Jan deadline ..

Only if the Brexit notion wont die should there be a new election or a new referendum

LordAzubuike:
Lol you can't eradicate this nonsense.

Reason why sometime you only see your lectuerer a few weeks to exam period or maybe just 3 times in a semester. Many of them lecture in other institutions.

maynation:
Check my posts and you will see there is not a time I claimed to be right.

I admitted I made a risky mistake, but when you claimed the mistake I made was because I was tripping for his additional 10k I really was mad and you know na , what's next is putting whoever does that in the right place.

That I am tryna laugh some shii off doesn't mean a part of me isn't hurting and damned and the least I expected is for someone to mistake my niceness for desperation.


I am sorry I insulted you, and i must admit your humor is a virtue.



And yes again, the epistle (as you tagged it) means a lot.
It helped a bunch.
Thanks.

Amebogists:
A 24 Year old graduate who has been identified as AZEEZ, Ahmad Tijani, a fresh graduate of Chemistry Education set a record as the "First Student to graduate with a First Class degree" in the Department of Science Education, University of Ilorin since 1981. He graduated with a C.G.P.A of 4.52 to become the first graduate to achieve that.
Until now the Chemistry Education which is a unit in the mighty Department of Science Education at University of Ilorin has never had a First Class Graduate. It's been arduous combining Education with Chemistry not even when one minor from Zoology and Plant Biology departments. It drastically means that one run three faculties at once. Master AZEEZ, Ahmad Tijani was able to break the record and set new one.

https://www.ameboggists.com.ng/2019/10/24-year-old-breaks-university-of-ilorin.html?m=1

justnairalande:
your lack of intelligence doesn't show unilorin in a good light. Benin city is the capital of Benin Kingdom. That is just a fact which I have already told you, but your brain won't comprehend. And also for your info the entire Edo-state and Delta-state were parts of the same Benin Kingdom.

maynation:
I fell for him because he paid my 25k loan with extra 10k?


How much have you given a lady in your life? Not even a lady how much have you given your parents?

Do you have any idea what it takes to send someone I met online 25fuckingK?

And now you say the additional 10k got me tripping.



B*tch yo the one tripping here.

Mad out.

maynation:
I fell for him because he paid my 25k loan with extra 10k?


How much have you given a lady in your life? Not even a lady how much have you given your parents?

Do you have any idea what it takes to send someone I met online 25fuckingK?

And now you say the additional 10k got me tripping.



B*tch yo the one tripping here.

Mad out.

justnairalande:
You didn't learn history correctly, Benin city is the capital of Benin Kingdom. Benin Kingdom is not a city, it contains many cities, just like nigeris is not a city. Abuja is Nigeria's capital. So stop the confusion. Unilorin taught you well ? I guess you are the first person it taught well because all the rest don't have level. I studied in several universities, all way better than unilorin.

area74:
@maynation,

I am publicly requesting to become your friend. If the chats I read are true without dilution, there is no point hiding behind a finger. A woman like you is so rare.

I need not to proof anything because you will naturally become wary of meeting new guys especially from a faceless forum like nairaland but I can assure you that my identity is real. I am the country manager of a popular company in Nigeria in one of the west African countries.

I am in a dire need of a girl like you. I believe that you will complement me. I need your maturity and intelligence. I hope that you will find my personality interesting. One bad thing about me is that I'm always very busy and constantly travels due to the nature of my job.

I am not shy to express my friendship publicly because what is good is worth chasing.

Here is my email : tyolamide22atgmaildotcom

CaptainMitch:
Cannicus the boss, welcome Sir.

maynation:
My BF was aware of his stay, they talked a couple of times.


Don't ask why he could allow such o, he def knows the kind of GF he has.

Trust did it.

ThatFairGuy:
Imagine The only thing I ever owe girl in my life is Birthday meat pie without giving her anything.... I don't know, they all ask me for financial support which made me scared of even talking to some of them
Oga o

justnairalande:
who told you I am not busy with other stuff ? Cultural appropriation is a real thing ! And I will denounce whenever I see it.

sinaj:
This is quite risky sha, aside been strong and smart I think you are lucky he didnt go diabolical on you to cart away with your savings or even kill you.

Pettyprincess:
Mumu you think she dates underage boys like you? Better go nd face your studies Maynation dnt mind this toddler o, dnt let them tag you paedophile,he is one of the yahoo boys here that you need to avoid!!

justnairalande:
You got proof ? Other than silly made up stories ?

justnairalande:
where is the word "migration" mentionned in what I wrote ? Can you read ? Giving a nuclear warhead to a guy who can't read would be a terrible thing to do.

Ginaz:
You don’t really need to prove anything babe. You should let it go and shouldn’t bring it to Nairaland .

People will forget it sooner or later.

*modified*

Oh my gosh. Maynation you’re such a rare gem. I took my time to read all that happened and thank God you came out to clear your name.

The guy is a complete asswipe and a gigolo. Such a loser. Thank God nothing bad happened to you while he was at your house . Girl please be careful next time don’t just allow people into your house .

What if you had been raped (I reject it) or robbed? God bless you dear for you kind heart. Keep being you but keep people at arm’s length you don’t know too well of.