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LarochelE:
This woman wasn't like that When I met her and her boy child was really obedient. But I guess things changed when I started confronting her about the lies she told me about the father of her child. I've done a lot for this boy, and I think I deserve to know the truth if at all I'll be taking full responsibility.

Now she refused to unblock me on my WhatsApp and Instagram despite my begging yesterday. Her friend that I sent to her to help me call and beg her did nothing to help the situation. I think that one has interest in me which I had, in the past, constantly told my woman to avoid her.

I've decided to go to her place later this evening. The outcome of our conversation will determine whether we'll still be together long term or not

LoL, they've charmed this one.

Be like say na to go return old notes wey I withdraw this morning from POS.
If not that I was in a hurry, I wouldn't have collected it.

It's so sad.
Wanted to withdraw just 4k this afternoon and I was told charges was 600# funny thing is it's old note. I didn't withdraw it ooo.

POS business is quite profitable, I have a friend that has about 10 POS shops with two restaurants and does online trading stuffs, that's a smart move. He travels anyhow he wants and he's richer than many professors and doctors.

It's better to build and grow a business than just rely on salary. The beginning may be hard and painful but the reward is sweet.

Op, your thinking is flawed.
A lock that can be opened by numerous keys is a useless lock while a key that can open numerous locks is very useful.

In summary, you're the one getting used and yes, you're very very cheap!

I wonder why you guys are abusing the OP.

OP, the first thing I want you to know is that no lady on Earth can love you as your mother. Does it mean that your mother is always right? No!

Does it also mean that you should listen to your mother all the time? Also NO!

You see, life is a risk, choosing a life partner is also a risk but if you're sure that you both love each other and it's till death do you both part, then go for it. Life is too short to marry who you don't love or who doesn't love you

Nairaland of the olden days use to be more fun. Unlike now that's toxic people that's in this space.

Nia69:
Yes. 🙂
Isn't that what you men want?

Not necessarily. Majority may want sex but not all. Sex is quite cheap you know.

vybzkartel:
Ah

Yes, trying to reason a girl matter won't help you, you'll get confused along the way. So just go with the flow and things go occur. It's a simple game of observation

Lolz.... You too dey reason matter.

See, do what you like heaven no go fall.

This uniben students dey para ooo.
See how dey 'mend' and clear one korofo soldier. I just dey laugh. The humiliation mad so the soldier gats revenge.

It's quite difficult to succeed with an older virgin. Even if she likes you, there will be some restrictions.

I am a guy that have many virgins around me, and they keep it for different reasons. They're very free and vulnerable to me that don't mind sleeping on my bed naked because they trust me to the point that I wouldn't take away their virginity.

That aside, let's analyse your situation. If she is making moves like touching you, or you touch her and she reciprocates, then she's into you but she may not give you sex yet. Most of them are great manipulators, they want to see if you're after their bodies. If a lady knows you're not after her body alone, she will come and give you on the platter of gold. Always remember that life is more than just having sex.

What will you gain from sharing it??

In life, one must learn how to mind his or her own business.

These days, people are struggling to survive and they end up doing many under handed jobs just to say afloat.

I remember in my final year, someone wanted me to serve as a mercenary for him in one international exam and the person was willing to pay up to 700k. Me that I needed money very badly that time because the previous year, I lost about 1million plus including my school fees, it took me great will power to refuse the offer and suffer in my final year during that time.

In life, people make decisions that may not even be beneficial to them in the long run, it is not your concern to make them worse or feel inferior. If you cannot help your fellow man, at least leave them the way you met them. Thank you

If you like expose everything, e no concern me.
If I see you for street, I go just pass you and mind my business.

Girls dey dress indecently these days, and the funny thing is that I'll not be moved. It's like a turn off to me, seductive dressings makes me feel nauseated

Even the virgin's are going bad and crazy these days. Doing all for of "sexual practices" apart from the penetrative sex.

Some are pro in anal sex, MouthAction and the likes.

Food Is essential, so it can't be deleted.

Football: many gain pleasure and relaxation from it but am not a fan, so I can delete it

Music: soothing and relieving but I hardly listen to music, I prefer listening to tapes or messages instead. So I can delete music.

Women: These folks are necessary evil. It will be quite difficult to avoid them totally except you choose to be a monk or MGTOW. For me, the women game is a fun game, just have fun

HazardAwka:
Is the Course you studied more important than the result you came out with?

For example: Mr A studied Medicine and came out with 3rd class degree.

Mr B studied Botany and came out with first class degree.

Does Mr A still have a higher chance of getting employed than Mr B?

Lolz, Medicine doesn't have first class or second class or third class degree.

OptimistBrain:
In 2019 one certain politician in Lagos took two bullion van to his house some days before election even when he wasn't contesting.

I can bet you, with this redesigned naira note, where will he see bullion van of the new naira notes? Which bank will openly give him two bullion van of the new naira notes this time around?? To be sincere, Emefiele should insist on the deadline and not shift his ground.

This policy will affect the masses, but it will affect the politicians more, no two ways about it..

You dey sleep, you don't know what's going on.
What stops the politicians from going to the bank directly or indirectly to change the old notes to the new ones. .

It won't affect them at all

Hmmm... Nawa ooo.
Wishing you all the best ooo

This is business. Business is about win or loose, but sometimes you should loose for the sake of bigger win. I don't mind loosing at all, so far the loss is beneficial to me in the long run.

The truth is, you may need the help of your brother in the long run or vice versa, no one knows how life will turn out to be in the future. If I'm in your shoes, I'll definitely buy from my brother (in as much as I will still have some little profit to myself) blood is blood for a reason (although it looks as if you're loosing at the moment, but try and look beyond this moment and see that you've actually gained).

Your brother may be hurt if you sideline him and get the materials elsewhere. The funny thing is that you extra money you intend to save from getting the materials elsewhere, you'll still blow it away and it would definitely finish. Think it through Sha and I wish you the best.

In addendum: Family and finance never mix, family and business is a bad combination because of familiarity!

BabyOku2022:
@ADVANCE-DNA

Why attention givin choking?is long distance rship not abt communication and tlkin more?cos I used 2believe its the only ting we have 4now since we cant meet any time soon...
I only point out dat He behave weird cos I neva experienced such from anybody whom I dated.
N I dnt tink he isnt a talking type cos i know he like bein on fb Or whatsapp alot.jst dat it hurts when he threaten 2 Block me Or leave me if I ask him any question.
So how Im I supposed 2 know him better?

I like the way you type, reminds me of my younger self. Please leave relationship for now and focus on developing yourself. Your long distance boyfriend is just using you to catch cruise.

Tunagee:
Wow! She must be very rare to find.

Lolz, na format jare.

Just like we have good people and bad people, we also have good single mothers and bad single mothers. Everything has their own advantages and disadvantages but I can explicitly say that the disadvantages of marrying a single mother is far greater whatever advantage you can think of.

If she has more than one child from the same or different baby daddies(and they're still alive) , that's a serious red flag. Run for your life.

They're great manipulators, they've been through a lot of emotional torture and damage and they are very great pretenders.

Single mothers can be nice and lovely but that's only on the surface. No single mother will ever blame themselves for the stupid and senseless mistakes they committed, they will always say the baby daddy was irresponsible. Why will you choose someone irresponsible if you're not someone irresponsible in the first place??

I can type more than ten pages about single mothers since I have dated close to twenty of them. My conclusion, let single fathers marry single mothers and virgins marry virgins but unfortunately life no balance. Some people will still choose to be unfortunate by marrying a single mother. To be forewarned is to be forearmed.

How much dey go share?

Most people think headache is a small issue and a simple thing. Yes there is simple headache but sometimes it can be sinister and lead to death. I will forever remember the class on headache I had with late Prof E.O Sanya. May your soul rest in peace Sir.

Ladies and sending of nudes are 5 and 6.
Nawa ooo. It is well

Bvlgari:
C'mon face your studies...

Do you even have a face? Talk more of a study.

Money that you don't have.

You dey do your wife's role.
You dey shout and nag.

You no be man, you be woman.

I know a lady who is a millionaire, yet she still begs for urgent 2k or 5k from me. No be juju be that??

Give a lady money at your peril except you're comfortable to give it. It's very hard to find a lady who will give you money except she genuinely loves you or she has calculated that she will benefit later in the future.

Most ladies don't want to spend their own money, very wicked beings.

No be you dey look for sugar daddy??

Na big baby you be.