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I remember that year wey I be machinery for EKSU. I never enter university then but I dey write exam for final year student. And na A's I dey get. Those bad-good days Sha ..

hapydaddy:
Dr Akinola dept of Anatomy unilorin
Dr Olawepo dept of Anatomy( walking Keith Moore)
Dis two lecturers will make u understand Anatomy and are very fatherly
Prof Awe dept of physics unibadan.. This man took me classical physics in ui..very good, down to earth and knows how to take d class along.

Also Prof Bruni Girieli..an Italian prof of statistics..
Took me medical statistics..very down to earth..wears short and T-shirt with a canvas or sandal..

Dr. Akinola and Dr. Olawepo are now professors. Those guys are very very good. I respect them!

Jaylynn:
Lolzzz. I'm coming.

Missed you baby girl �

It can be found on WhatsApp

saphiere:
Men are evil. This year I vowed not to collect the least thing as recharge card from Nigerian men.

They always have a way of coming back to get something in return.

Work on your mindset baby girl, grow up
Sorry for all you had to go through in the hands of Nigerian men

This guy is a simp
Your wife dey cheat on you and you don't even know. No lady On earth can try this nonsense with me. Impossicant

Bad man looks good in Dior.

Rita005:
There's no gold digging anywhere as I'm doing well for myself. I earn over 200k monthly and I'm on track in my career path. I also have older siblings that send me as much as my salary every month. I am not in anyway a girl that falls for money.
As a lady, if you meet a man that's smart and ambitious, it is almost normal to like him. The question I raised on this thread was about my concern about his marital status but unfortunately, you guys took it to a different level. I understand you guys don't want me to become a prey but it seems an average Nigerian has a messed up mentality. I don't blame us because it's what we grew up into.
Anyways, he has initiated the divorce process and it's on. Since he noticed I'm skeptical about the whole thing, he suggests we should just be friends until he gets the divorce.
Thanks to you all that adviced on the divorce issue. To those who were concerned about him being a scam, thanks to you too lol.

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Open your eyes well and don't let your emotions cloud your intelligence.
How such are you that he wouldn't divorce you in the future

The reason many people fall into trouble is because they don't think far enough.

Rita005:
Hi folks! I feel like sharing my predicament with you and hope to get a solution. Please bear with me cuz it's a long read. I'm a 26 years old banker (not contract staff) in one of the south south states. Recently, I met a beautiful soul and I think I'm getting so fond of him now. We connected after the close of service in church and exchanged contacts. He was kind enough to drop me off my house. This guy is doing very well for himself (lives in a nice estate and owns a good ride). A short while after our first meeting, we spoke on phone and I didn't know when I asked him why he isn't married. He told me it's a long story and would like to talk about it when we meet one-to-one. Fast forward, we met and he told me all there is about him. He's 34, got married about 2 years ago, but now separated from his wife. The reason he gave for the separation was lack of trust from his wife. According to him, his wife is so insecured to a fault. According to him, the first week he got married was when he started regretting his actions. After their marriage, his wife travelled down home to bring her remaining baggage. Before she returned, he made sure he cleaned the house thoroughly. However, when his wife came back, she headed straight to the fridge (she had made soup and stew before traveling) and the next thing was cry! According to him, he said he was confused at first. it was when he asked her what the problem was that she said he brought a woman to their matrimonial home. He said he cried so much and regretted marrying a woman with a possessed mind. According to him, all the signs were there before marriage and he ended the relationship more than 5 times but she kept begging. What she was holding on to was that there's no assurance that the guy will marry him, hence ,her fears. According to him, the woman has accused him of sleeping with his former neighbors and she insisted that they move out of that area. for peace to reign, he agreed and they got another accommodation. Again, she started accusing him of having something with his new neighbors (even the married ones). To be honest, this guy is admirable and very reserved and I'm not sure if he's doing all the things his wife accused him of. He got angry when his wife decided to report him to the church authority. According to him, this woman has no single proof of him cheating but her reprobate mind is affecting her badly. She even went ahead to share demeaning messages about him (her husband) on her whatsapp status. This guy said he has pleaded with her to stop but it's getting worse. Now, they were married for about two years without a child. He said he could manage to live with the woman for more years without a child but can't do that when his peace is been threatened. He said his wife nags a lot and it was driving him crazy. According to him, his mum was never in support of the marriage but dad was interested in it. As it stands now, he has left his wife and moved to another state where we both met.
I have been friends with him for about 3 months now and I must say that this guy is a sweet human being. He asked me out but I told him we should just be friends, owning that he's still legally married. However, my feelings for him is growing everyday and this guy knows how to get one emotionally attached to him. Even though I can perceive that he wants sex with me, he never begs or act too anxious over it. He's so calm and mature and this is making me to admire him the more.
Note: He said he has talked about divorce with his wife but she's refusing it. This is where my concerns come in.
Now, I'm scared of going into a relationship with him knowing that he's not divorced yet. To be honest, I can hardly concentrate these days because the thought of this guy has occupied my mind. Can I go ahead with him or the implications would be overwhelming? To be honest, I've not met a guy has coolheaded and admirable as this guy but I'm scared.
please I need advice on how to handle this situation.
Thanks

You're 26years old and you're this dumb??
These are the format irresponsible married men use to get cheap single Ladies. Every married man that is cheating on his wife will always claim that the wife is the one having the bad character! This man just wants to chop you and clean mouth unfortunately you're emotionally attached so I wouldn't be surprised if you fall and get heartbroken. I am too stingy to buy handkerchief for you, enjoy your future pain!

subzeroth:
Secondary infertility actually...
Op, listen to this guy's advise.

Yeah, it's secondary infertility.
In primary infertility, there is no history of pregnancy. Thank you for the correction!

Most likely a fake picture.
The moniker can even be a male in disguise!

I understand how bad hunger and poverty can drive one to extremely dangerous limits, so I am not surprised about this. Not everyone you interact with everyday is human, majority of Nigerians are sick in the head. The person you call your best friend may be busy plotting your downfall. I have heard Numerous stories of betrayals, so I am extremely careful. May we meet the good ones and may the bad ones never come near us!

Mylordmygod1:
Hello nairalanders...

i got my girfriend pregnant since september, and it really got me crazy..

when it was 2 months, we tried to abort it, and so we met a chemist who gave her drugs and injection, he told us that the blood we rush out, but it did rush out just small and stopped.. So it did not work even after i paid him 8k..

now, we are about to carry out D & C abortion tomorow, but she keep saying she is scared.. Even me, i'm scared too..

i don't know what to do..

please, don't feel bad reading this, i only need advice on this, it is a wrong move but my mind is already made up to do it..

how i wish i can just allow her to birth it..

though, one of my mind is still telling me to keep it, but how can i be able to take care of her and the baby?

And she is just my side girlfriend, not my real babe..
pray for me nairalanders, i need strenght this moment to take the right decision..

lalasticlala..

Hmmm.... This is how it starts. Visiting Chemist for abortion is a very wrong and dangerous move. In the near future, she may come down with primary infertility secondary to asherman syndrome secondary to post abortal sequelae. It's four months already, let it grow.

Dailymice:
You see prick, it can make you do wonders and regret later. You can have an erection for a lady you can't even wife but still go ahead to have X with her and then regret later when its flacccid.

Prick has brought men down but discipline of prick has lifted men up.

Yes, many men get strength like Samson but their prick is their downfall. Transcending sexual energy into higher level of energy is part of the best things that has happened to me.

Jaylyn my love.
Come kiss me baby. �

Girls are not cheap but majority of them don't have sense, so they're still cheap.

If a girl likes you, she can give you free sex and even give you money on top If you can play the game well, if she doesn't like you, you may not see her pant except she wants something from you. In conclusion, don't trust a Lady..

UYEMDO35:
Please pardon my grammatical errors. I am still learning.

I happen to love a girl who is into a relationship. I have been in a relationship with dis girl for close to 11month now, though! When I approached her, she told me dat she has a boyfriend which they have been dating for close to 6yrs, but I ignorantly didn't listen to her for been sincere with me.. I had to follow my own desires by still going after her thinking she is ganna dump the guy and concentrate on me alone but instead things didn't turnout the way I expected.

though! It's a long distance relationship, the guy normally comes home every December. As am typing dis right now, the guy is still very much around and I have become a stranger in their means, the last time I went to visit her,I was very disappointed in what I saw.

Some girls are just too blind to see when a real guy is in love with dem. Though! Am not perfect but the guy is a rough mafia which she's not suppose to keep as a boyfriend. I think i made her understand that the love I have for her is genuine, but still yet' she's not seeing it. It got to a point I had to call her to let me know if am forcing myself on her and her reply was No. That she loves with me with her whole heart. I had spent a token on her which she doesn't deserved...

About her, she is cute,loving and has that innocent look on her face but she's capable of hurting someone's heart.
I didn't go home for d short break we were given in school, I decided to stay back to see the scenario that will transpire between us.
Though! Before then she has been disturbing me to go home.

I had crush on her far back in my year one
and am now in my final year. and I decided not go after her until when I was force by my friends to woo her last year.... And now dis is what am getting for loving her.


Oh....my...heart.

( I just love her so much)

Am in my Early 20's

Right now... I don't know whether I should quit the relationship or not.
Please ur advice is welcome.

You're just emotionally immature.
Your case is pathetic!

Girls will tell you or beg you not to cheat on them while they're actively cheating on you

It's hard to find a girl who doesn't cheat, an average beautiful girl is being bombarded left and right by many Hot folks and unfortunately ladies are affected more by what they hear, so they fall into one or two traps.... It's just the beauty of Life, enjoy

You didn't suck enough breastmilk when you were a baby that's why you're obsessed with boobs. Thank God I am free and obsessed with none. No girl can tie me down with food (am not a fan) and no girl can tie me down with sex ( I have found esctascy greater than sex).

AmancalledGod:
Good morning friend's, please i really need an urgent answer to this, thou for now I'm still staying with my people (parent's) pls is it proper for a friend to carry a woman to your parent's house to sleep over obviously to have sex with the girl, when your parent's is not around. He has be begging me to allow him come over with the girl.

I have agreed shaa, but I'm still thinking of it if i could have a change of mind.

Abort, abort.
Most times the story doesn't end well, except you guys want to have a party??

Sha flee fornication because when the bite comes, it's usually very painful.

I have thought about it deeply, whether to loose my virginity this year or still keep to it?
After weighing the pros and cons, I have decided to keep it this year.

My then ex girlfriend who is a single mother with one child they claim say she be virgin. I just dey laugh.

FernandezPabIo:
When you meet with them physically, they'll communicate well with you but the moment they give out their contact and you chat them up on WhatsApp they'll respond to you with monosyllabic replies as if you're a complete stranger.
Some Even go as far as ignoring your message after reading them and this is an attitude similar to all naija girls.
Why do naija girls like forming on WhatsApp
Guys can you relate?

Girls have a lot of toasters especially on WhatsApp and messenger. So they're used to giving monosyllabic answers. I don't chat ladies up, never. If you don't message me, I won't message you. I no get time for nonsense.

daben1:
After I came back from the cross over service, my elder brother was the first person I called followed by my friends, what about you, who was the first person you called or who was the first person that called you to wish you a happy new year?

No one.
Only one person called me today but I didn't pick.
From tomorrow, calls will start coming in.
The first day of the year is for my God and for myself, I no dey share am with anybody.

... yesterday my Dad's elder brother told me after I dressed his leg for him, please limit the sweet things you take. I felt touched because I have been drinking soft drinks like crazy and as a doctor I Know the implications. It felt as if my future self was telling my present self not to get addicted to sweet things. Unfortunately, it Is the nature of humans not to listen to advise especially if they're not directly involved or if they don't see the consequences yet. Diabetic foot ulcer isn't a good thing at all.

Well, I am human and as I am typing this, I am currently taking a bottle of coke.

If you're not Careful, you'll kill someone's daughter

My first crush and very good friend Basiroh nicknamed Belloxy.
Now she is married with a daughter.

arleck:
Nothing my brother. Every single day Is same as the last day of the year..... No difference. People are just being delusional about it

Exactly, everyday is just the same.
New year
New day
New month.

It's all 24hours in them. No bloody difference. You just dey hype new year.

Benzemma:
No be that kind early, the scripture dey talk about OOO.

Lolz.... Na Early ooo.
New year never start, you don enter church, no be Early be that.

Honestly was thinking about this just before leaving home for church with my parents.
Would have preferred to stay back at home and think and relax.

Cross over service is nice if you maximize it. Unfortunately, Many Christians pray but are very lazy to take actions. Prayers and actions should go hand in hand! Don't be lazy!

Bola146:
And these dogs will be accusing the police or Buhari doing evil. See your life oponu

You're lucky you're not his victim. Thank your stars