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Nice analogy and reasoning

Maxvasia:
So i am a Medical Doctor who has been seeing patients a lot today. Today was uncharacteristically busy (Guess it's because of the ongoing strike).

This young lady walks into my office with a man old enough to be her father. This is not the issue. Here is the issue:

The lady is a fiancee to my friend, a relationship my friend let me in on just 2 months ago. They are engaged.

I felt i knew this lady's face as it looked so familiar. It was my her. I looked again at the pics of her my friend sent to me and it matched.

Here is the more shocking thing: The man she walked in with was MY FRIEND'S father. Another shock is that they came for a termination of pregnancy. Of course i turned them down politely. Neither of them know or have met me before. They havo no idea i know them.

What do you think? Should i let my guy in on it? I'd appreciate as many comments as possible. I pray many people see this so that I'll have as many angles as possible.

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Have you forgotten the rule of confidentiality?
As a doctor, you keep such informations to yourself.

Eyah..... E be things

Beloved3:
Lol you don't have to explain.

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Sure, just felt to catch a little cruise tonight

Exkandayee:
No go masturbate with her pictures, rather you cheat, you get the point now, nonsense boi

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Why do people masturbate?
That's animalistic. No offences though. Just appreciating the picture, can't even remember how the picture looks like except I check it again which I won't because I don't have the luxury of time to do so.

Ritzybeauty:
It just happens.. Its their nature because they are moved by what they see

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Lol, I am liking what am seeing on your picture

Timson527:
I will be cogent and coherent in this write up.

My name is Timzy and I have been dating my girlfriend for a year and 8months now, I have a major problem I have been facing in my relationship and that is anytime we have sex. Anytime i make love to my girlfriend after a day or 2 I discover I have been infected, more like a yeast infection, it pisses me off all the time and I have always been on drugs both native and co, she doesn’t accept us using a condom and moreover I like it raw, I met her a virgin and I can’t swear on her behalf but I believe I am the only guy she is seeing, I have talked to her about this so many times and each time I complain this to her she cry’s and always apologize and even send me money to go get drugs, I have tried breaking up with her because of this but one way or the other I discover I truly love her, this particular girl have been a saving grace to my life, any time I’m broke she helps me with cash, she brings foodstuffs and cook for me all the time, she’s loyal and her character is � but our only problem is how I get infected by her all the time we make love. She is in her 300L and she is coming from her family house mine while I am in my finals and I stay in a lodge (self con) the last time I complained about this she purchased drugs of 22k to treat herself, she even brought some for me and it worked, after 2weeks we make love again and lo and behold I saw those nonsense on my dick again(yeast) even still this moment I’m treating it. I am really confuse and I don’t know what to do. I think it’s from her family toilet or something. Tomorrow is my birthday and she have already planned a surprised birthday for me with my friends but my frds told me about it. Still pretending I don’t know. She have been angel to me but my life is important. Getting infected all the time each time we have sex. Please what should I do? Help a brother

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You're the one that who is cheating on her. Op, repent!

AutoChick4U:
Thank you

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You're welcome Ma.

AutoChick4U:
Wow, it ain't easy at all, it weakens my very soul that all I've worked for have really gone and no way of making ends meet for now.

Do I regret bringing another being into this world? Perhaps I do when I'm down and emotionally at my lowest but I've learnt to be strong atleast for my kid. Unfortunately finding a love interest to serve as that emotional anchor ain't even easy in our society, once you tell them, faim! Its all over.

I'm probably feeling depressed but I still hope on loving and being loved. Hoping on God wiping away my silent tears, hoping on a shoulder to lean on and a listening ear. I sooo need someone to talk to.

Please no one should come and act all holy and try to judge me o

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Op you can send me a message on WhatsApp, I can be your very good friend. I have particular Interest in Single mothers, I just love them naturally. If you need someone to talk to, I am always available. You'll be fine. Take care

Lol...

Wow.... That's one of the signs of cervical cancer bro. Other causes could be perhaps she is on her menses, genital tract lacerations. Is this the first time this is happening?

Blessed3434:
dontrulee
my other account was banned, please I'm interested, how can I reach you please?
@blessedemeritus.

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Strike oooo.
Ejoor...

blessedemeritus:
Hello Nairalanders,
Having read many comments, and response to persons who share their story here on Nairaland and received several advice and positive opinions, I now have the courage and confidence to divulge on you for your guidance and recommendations.

Am a Law student in one of the state University, currently in my sophomore year, I'm in state dilemma as to what step to take next in life, because of my present situation in life, I'm the first child in the family of 4 and taking responsibility of my younger ones'. Because of the burden and responsibilities on me, my school fees, my needs and that of my kid ones' considering how things are tough for me, i think it will be difficult for me to continue my studies at this time.
I'm considering dropping out of school to huzzle or learn handwork to meet my kid ones' need and make life easy for us, because things are really difficult for us now. But will appreciate your candid advice on what to do, drop out to learn handwork? Which handwork will you suggest for me?
YOUR OPINIONS,
ADVISE,
RECOMMENDATION
SUGGESTIONS, will be appreciated.
NO INSULT PLEASE.


Current CGPA 4.70

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Guy don't drop out Bro.
My dad is a lawyer, he can help you. You can reach out on WhatsApp if you're interested.

Op be careful.
This girl go kill you one day

NairalandProf:
Realistically, I can't stop thinking about her though I have stopped calling her too.

In fact, I summoned the courage by texting her that she shouldn't mind the way I was begging her that I didn't even mean it and that she can go ahead with her life but in the reality bro, I didn't mean it.

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Hahahahahaha.... You didn't die Bro, you'll survive it. Besides, stop being a Simp

Ruke1989:
The green light was there and I called the man earlier to warn him to refrain. He apologized but didn't change. She too stopped telling me about the Man subsequent behavior in the office except once I asked. Also, I told her squarely never to let herself be alone with the man in the office or elsewhere, never to followe him home or let him know her house. So she is unable to answer me when I asked how did he know where you stay?

Perhaps he got her address from her file

Before I hand over the mic to the next elder, let me talk small.
This is quite a tricky situation. As far as I know, she may be lying or telling a half truth or a whole truth. That's ladies for you. But there is a high chance that she was raped if not the middle aged man would not be rejecting your call. Anyways, move on with your life. You'll meet another person

Kobojunkie:
1. Judging by my own experiences, I believe my soul(my consciousness) links to my mind but since my mind does not always reflect my soul, I say they are not the same.

Alright, your experience isn't wrong though but there is much more to the subject of consciousness.

2. How exactly did Adam supposedly die this spiritual death you claim? [/quote]He died when God asked him, Adam where are thou?

3. God Himself, the one who instituted Death, is said to have defined Death as a return to dust from which we were made and this in Genesis 3 vs 17 - 19. But here you redefine it instead as simply a separation from God. Why? [/quote]That's not the definition of death. When God was giving the instruction to Adam, God said, the day you eat of the fruit thereof, thou shalt surely die. Did Adam die physically immediately?? The death God was referring to was a spiritual death, a cut off from the very source of Life.

4. According to the story in Genesis 2 vs 7, man was created of the physical elements of this earth.


Jesus Christ confirmed this in John 3 vs 6 while speaking to Nicodemus, who came to Him one night with a question. So how can a man die a spiritual death when he was never born a spirit to begin with? [/quote]Man was created in the spirit first in the image and likeness of God before he was formed from the dust of the ground. There is a difference between create and form. Eve was present in the spirit form in Genesis 1:27 says male and female created him them.

5. Spirits never die? Can you also include a reference for this as well. [/quote]You don't need a reference for this one. Ever since you've been praying for the death of Satan, has he died? Or has any of the fallen angels died? Spirits don't die (man inclusive)

wirinet:
The concept of eternal life is senseless to me. Why would someone want to live forever. Nothing lives for ever, not even the Universe.

Why not live your best life you can now and then instead of living for a life that is yet to come?
When I say best life, I don't mean coveting sensory pleasures, but creating happiness to those around you.

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True, before a man awakens, he would always want to live a long life. But a fully awakened man is never born and he never dies, he only changes form

Kobojunkie:
Ok.. so man in his entirety was to be reduced back to dust from which it was created. If you believe that, then explain your response below.

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You mentioned man as (body, mind and soul).
What's the difference between mind and soul?

Let me explain the concept of the underworld.
When God gave the judgement of death upon Adam, Adam didn't die physically immediately but he died spiritually. Death is simply separation from God(the source and author of Life). So when a man dies ( he dies both physically and spiritually) but since spirits never dies and spirit is a component of man, it means that when a man dies he truly isn't dead and that's why Jesus will say, he is not dead but only asleep because spirits don't die.

The underworld is a place where all men sleep before the judgement arrives (scriptural references coming soon). It's all in the Bible.

Kobojunkie:
The gates were open from the time of John the Baptist, remember?

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That the kingdom of God suffereth violence and the violent taketh it by force doesn't mean that the gate was open. Do you understand the meaning of the verse?

Kobojunkie:
Well, God gave but God's hand never really let go so did God really make any sacrifice in this?

I can more closely understand God giving a New Law/Covenant/Agreement but a "sacrifice", not so much since God lost nothing in the deal at all.

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Alright, if you think you're right, no problem.

Kobojunkie:
You are still not saying what God Himself said at all. God Judged the unbeliever Adam, declaring "....till thou return unto the ground; for out of it wast thou taken: for dust thou art, and unto dust shalt thou return." - Genesis 3 vs 19

God did not there say only your body will return to dust....no, instead, He declared that man(mind, body, soul) will return to dust when man dies.



You however believe there is an underworld where all men go to whether granted eternal/after life or not, and this idea is against God's own judgement in Genesis 3 vs 19.

Man is not mind, body and soul.
Man is body, soul and spirit.
1 Thessalonians 5:23

Kobojunkie:
The gates became wide open to what? How? I still don't follow at all.

So that men can be saved!

Kobojunkie:
God did not "sacrifice" Jesus Christ. Instead, He gave Jesus Christ, His New Covenant Law in the Kingdom of God, to the world so that those who will believe in Him will not perish- be returned to dust when they die - but instead be given eternal life instead- John 3 vs 16

And Jesus Christ, we know, died in order to make available the New Covenant/agreement/Law, promised by God since even the time of Abraham, to not just the lost sheep of Israel but also those of the Gentile world.

Now, it is one thing to make a thing available and another for that thing, in this case, the Law to be accepted by individuals. And according to Jesus Christ, only a few will indeed accept that Law that He made available to them - Matthew 7 vs 13 - 14 - the Law as it is in the Kingdom of God.

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Giving is sacrifice!

Kobojunkie:
Huh?
I don't follow at all.

Let me explain better. When Jesus made the statement that only a few will get to heaven, he was still on earth and had not died yet. But after he died, the gates became wide opened. (Do you understand now)

Kobojunkie:
So, when God said dust to dust, in Genesis 3 vs 17 - 19, you assume that He didn't mean it?

Of course God meant it and it's a reality. When we die we shall all return to dust. And that's why this mortal body will put on immortality on the day that Christ's comes again.
Ezekiel 37