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Timson527:
I will be cogent and coherent in this write up.

My name is Timzy and I have been dating my girlfriend for a year and 8months now, I have a major problem I have been facing in my relationship and that is anytime we have sex. Anytime i make love to my girlfriend after a day or 2 I discover I have been infected, more like a yeast infection, it pisses me off all the time and I have always been on drugs both native and co, she doesn’t accept us using a condom and moreover I like it raw, I met her a virgin and I can’t swear on her behalf but I believe I am the only guy she is seeing, I have talked to her about this so many times and each time I complain this to her she cry’s and always apologize and even send me money to go get drugs, I have tried breaking up with her because of this but one way or the other I discover I truly love her, this particular girl have been a saving grace to my life, any time I’m broke she helps me with cash, she brings foodstuffs and cook for me all the time, she’s loyal and her character is � but our only problem is how I get infected by her all the time we make love. She is in her 300L and she is coming from her family house mine while I am in my finals and I stay in a lodge (self con) the last time I complained about this she purchased drugs of 22k to treat herself, she even brought some for me and it worked, after 2weeks we make love again and lo and behold I saw those nonsense on my dick again(yeast) even still this moment I’m treating it. I am really confuse and I don’t know what to do. I think it’s from her family toilet or something. Tomorrow is my birthday and she have already planned a surprised birthday for me with my friends but my frds told me about it. Still pretending I don’t know. She have been angel to me but my life is important. Getting infected all the time each time we have sex. Please what should I do? Help a brother

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You're the one that who is cheating on her. Op, repent!

AutoChick4U:
Thank you

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You're welcome Ma.

AutoChick4U:
Wow, it ain't easy at all, it weakens my very soul that all I've worked for have really gone and no way of making ends meet for now.

Do I regret bringing another being into this world? Perhaps I do when I'm down and emotionally at my lowest but I've learnt to be strong atleast for my kid. Unfortunately finding a love interest to serve as that emotional anchor ain't even easy in our society, once you tell them, faim! Its all over.

I'm probably feeling depressed but I still hope on loving and being loved. Hoping on God wiping away my silent tears, hoping on a shoulder to lean on and a listening ear. I sooo need someone to talk to.

Please no one should come and act all holy and try to judge me o

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Op you can send me a message on WhatsApp, I can be your very good friend. I have particular Interest in Single mothers, I just love them naturally. If you need someone to talk to, I am always available. You'll be fine. Take care

Lol...

Wow.... That's one of the signs of cervical cancer bro. Other causes could be perhaps she is on her menses, genital tract lacerations. Is this the first time this is happening?

Blessed3434:
dontrulee
my other account was banned, please I'm interested, how can I reach you please?
@blessedemeritus.

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Strike oooo.
Ejoor...

blessedemeritus:
Hello Nairalanders,
Having read many comments, and response to persons who share their story here on Nairaland and received several advice and positive opinions, I now have the courage and confidence to divulge on you for your guidance and recommendations.

Am a Law student in one of the state University, currently in my sophomore year, I'm in state dilemma as to what step to take next in life, because of my present situation in life, I'm the first child in the family of 4 and taking responsibility of my younger ones'. Because of the burden and responsibilities on me, my school fees, my needs and that of my kid ones' considering how things are tough for me, i think it will be difficult for me to continue my studies at this time.
I'm considering dropping out of school to huzzle or learn handwork to meet my kid ones' need and make life easy for us, because things are really difficult for us now. But will appreciate your candid advice on what to do, drop out to learn handwork? Which handwork will you suggest for me?
YOUR OPINIONS,
ADVISE,
RECOMMENDATION
SUGGESTIONS, will be appreciated.
NO INSULT PLEASE.


Current CGPA 4.70

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Guy don't drop out Bro.
My dad is a lawyer, he can help you. You can reach out on WhatsApp if you're interested.

Op be careful.
This girl go kill you one day

NairalandProf:
Realistically, I can't stop thinking about her though I have stopped calling her too.

In fact, I summoned the courage by texting her that she shouldn't mind the way I was begging her that I didn't even mean it and that she can go ahead with her life but in the reality bro, I didn't mean it.

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Hahahahahaha.... You didn't die Bro, you'll survive it. Besides, stop being a Simp

Ruke1989:
The green light was there and I called the man earlier to warn him to refrain. He apologized but didn't change. She too stopped telling me about the Man subsequent behavior in the office except once I asked. Also, I told her squarely never to let herself be alone with the man in the office or elsewhere, never to followe him home or let him know her house. So she is unable to answer me when I asked how did he know where you stay?

Perhaps he got her address from her file

Before I hand over the mic to the next elder, let me talk small.
This is quite a tricky situation. As far as I know, she may be lying or telling a half truth or a whole truth. That's ladies for you. But there is a high chance that she was raped if not the middle aged man would not be rejecting your call. Anyways, move on with your life. You'll meet another person

Kobojunkie:
1. Judging by my own experiences, I believe my soul(my consciousness) links to my mind but since my mind does not always reflect my soul, I say they are not the same.

Alright, your experience isn't wrong though but there is much more to the subject of consciousness.

2. How exactly did Adam supposedly die this spiritual death you claim? [/quote]He died when God asked him, Adam where are thou?

3. God Himself, the one who instituted Death, is said to have defined Death as a return to dust from which we were made and this in Genesis 3 vs 17 - 19. But here you redefine it instead as simply a separation from God. Why? [/quote]That's not the definition of death. When God was giving the instruction to Adam, God said, the day you eat of the fruit thereof, thou shalt surely die. Did Adam die physically immediately?? The death God was referring to was a spiritual death, a cut off from the very source of Life.

4. According to the story in Genesis 2 vs 7, man was created of the physical elements of this earth.


Jesus Christ confirmed this in John 3 vs 6 while speaking to Nicodemus, who came to Him one night with a question. So how can a man die a spiritual death when he was never born a spirit to begin with? [/quote]Man was created in the spirit first in the image and likeness of God before he was formed from the dust of the ground. There is a difference between create and form. Eve was present in the spirit form in Genesis 1:27 says male and female created him them.

5. Spirits never die? Can you also include a reference for this as well. [/quote]You don't need a reference for this one. Ever since you've been praying for the death of Satan, has he died? Or has any of the fallen angels died? Spirits don't die (man inclusive)

wirinet:
The concept of eternal life is senseless to me. Why would someone want to live forever. Nothing lives for ever, not even the Universe.

Why not live your best life you can now and then instead of living for a life that is yet to come?
When I say best life, I don't mean coveting sensory pleasures, but creating happiness to those around you.

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True, before a man awakens, he would always want to live a long life. But a fully awakened man is never born and he never dies, he only changes form

Kobojunkie:
Ok.. so man in his entirety was to be reduced back to dust from which it was created. If you believe that, then explain your response below.

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You mentioned man as (body, mind and soul).
What's the difference between mind and soul?

Let me explain the concept of the underworld.
When God gave the judgement of death upon Adam, Adam didn't die physically immediately but he died spiritually. Death is simply separation from God(the source and author of Life). So when a man dies ( he dies both physically and spiritually) but since spirits never dies and spirit is a component of man, it means that when a man dies he truly isn't dead and that's why Jesus will say, he is not dead but only asleep because spirits don't die.

The underworld is a place where all men sleep before the judgement arrives (scriptural references coming soon). It's all in the Bible.

Kobojunkie:
The gates were open from the time of John the Baptist, remember?

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That the kingdom of God suffereth violence and the violent taketh it by force doesn't mean that the gate was open. Do you understand the meaning of the verse?

Kobojunkie:
Well, God gave but God's hand never really let go so did God really make any sacrifice in this?

I can more closely understand God giving a New Law/Covenant/Agreement but a "sacrifice", not so much since God lost nothing in the deal at all.

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Alright, if you think you're right, no problem.

Kobojunkie:
You are still not saying what God Himself said at all. God Judged the unbeliever Adam, declaring "....till thou return unto the ground; for out of it wast thou taken: for dust thou art, and unto dust shalt thou return." - Genesis 3 vs 19

God did not there say only your body will return to dust....no, instead, He declared that man(mind, body, soul) will return to dust when man dies.



You however believe there is an underworld where all men go to whether granted eternal/after life or not, and this idea is against God's own judgement in Genesis 3 vs 19.

Man is not mind, body and soul.
Man is body, soul and spirit.
1 Thessalonians 5:23

Kobojunkie:
The gates became wide open to what? How? I still don't follow at all.

So that men can be saved!

Kobojunkie:
God did not "sacrifice" Jesus Christ. Instead, He gave Jesus Christ, His New Covenant Law in the Kingdom of God, to the world so that those who will believe in Him will not perish- be returned to dust when they die - but instead be given eternal life instead- John 3 vs 16

And Jesus Christ, we know, died in order to make available the New Covenant/agreement/Law, promised by God since even the time of Abraham, to not just the lost sheep of Israel but also those of the Gentile world.

Now, it is one thing to make a thing available and another for that thing, in this case, the Law to be accepted by individuals. And according to Jesus Christ, only a few will indeed accept that Law that He made available to them - Matthew 7 vs 13 - 14 - the Law as it is in the Kingdom of God.

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Giving is sacrifice!

Kobojunkie:
Huh?
I don't follow at all.

Let me explain better. When Jesus made the statement that only a few will get to heaven, he was still on earth and had not died yet. But after he died, the gates became wide opened. (Do you understand now)

Kobojunkie:
So, when God said dust to dust, in Genesis 3 vs 17 - 19, you assume that He didn't mean it?

Of course God meant it and it's a reality. When we die we shall all return to dust. And that's why this mortal body will put on immortality on the day that Christ's comes again.
Ezekiel 37

Kobojunkie:
Those are supposedly the words of Paul, not God. And we know that God is True so He cannot contradict His own self.

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Alright Sir. So you feel God will sacrifice is only begotten son just for few people to make heaven? Did Jesus die for a few people or for the whole world? Jesus understood that his mission to die on the cross was to give man the access to eternal life (which is a gift) but unfortunately man has free choice and hence can refuse the gift of eternal life and choose death instead.

wirinet:
Gbam. To the discerning, you have achieved enlightenment or Buddhahood. God is a personal experience. Different people have their own personal experience of God and some don't experience it at all. It does not make one person's experience more valid than another. The greatest tragedy to me is trying to convince others to accept your own experience of God as the only valid experience, while everyone else experience is invalid.

Exactly Boss.
The concept of spirituality is a personal experience. Some are interested in God, some are not. It's Choice

Kobojunkie:
1. Ok

2. I understand you better now.

3. Where exactly did God state that He wanted all men to be saved and come to a knowing of the Truth(Jesus Christ) ?

Didn't the same reveal that the soul that sins must die - Ezekiel 18 vs 1 -3 ?

Wasn't it Jesus Christ who declared that only a few who enter into the Kingdom of God will make it into Heaven - Matthew 7 vs 13 - 14 ?

4. Ok, so those in the underworld are those who have been granted eternal life - this by believing in God -, and not those condemned to perish upon death on this earth.
Then, If they already have eternal life and this through Jesus Christ, why do the Sons of God need to go preach to them again?

Everyone who dies and have ever died will go the underworld whether they have been granted eternal life or not. What will seperate those that have recieved the gift of eternal life is when the trumpet shall sound, they shall awake and meet the Lord in the air while the remaining shall remain asleep till the judgment day. (Do you understand)

Kobojunkie:
1. Ok

2. I understand you better now.

3. Where exactly did God state that He wanted all men to be saved and come to a knowing of the Truth(Jesus Christ) ?

Didn't the same reveal that the soul that sins must die - Ezekiel 18 vs 1 -3 ?

Wasn't it Jesus Christ who declared that only a few who enter into the Kingdom of God will make it into Heaven - Matthew 7 vs 13 - 14 ?

4. Ok, so those in the underworld are those who have been granted eternal life - this by believing in God -, and not those condemned to perish upon death on this earth.
Then, If they already have eternal life and this through Jesus Christ, why do the Sons of God need to go preach to them again?

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The reason why Jesus mentioned that only few will make or enter the kingdom of heaven is the same reason why he declared that he is the way, the truth and the Life. So that it wouldn't just be few who will enter the kingdom but as many that believed on his name. (Do you understand)

3. Where exactly did God state that He wanted all men to be saved and come to a knowing of the Truth(Jesus Christ) ?

Didn't the same reveal that the soul that sins must die - Ezekiel 18 vs 1 -3 ?

3. 1 Timothy 2:3 For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Saviour; 2:4 *Who will have all men to be saved, and to come unto the knowledge of the truth*

B. Romans 3:23, Romans 6:23.

[quote author=Kobojunkie post=104124571]Maybe not everyone has a constitution strong enough for that kind of experience that Paul supposedly had.

You may be write and maybe that's why the Bible only recorded Apostle Paul as having only that experience of intense light shining on him. Or do you have another example?

Kobojunkie:
Maybe not everyone has a constitution strong enough for that kind of experience that Paul supposedly had.

I likened myself a Jeremiah as well - a tormented soul- before I came to truly understand who Jesus Christ really is. So when you compared yourself to Jeremiah, I really desired to understand what the similarities could be.

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That's a nice experience. I wish everyone can come to the understanding of who Jesus Christ really is but unfortunately, it may not be possible before the end of the world but it will become a reality when the new world shall come for the scriptures says "the earth shall be filled with the knowledge of the sons of God even as waters cover the sea" (that's a story for another day). The reality is that we all proceeded out from God, even lucifer before he fell proceeded out from God until he became corrupt. So every child born into this world has a call of God upon his Life to manifest and express the nature of God, unfortunately, man also fell and disobeyed God until Christ came to remedy the effect but it doesn't appear to be so now because the god of this world is still the devil. Atheist argue that God doesn't exist because he is just watching and not interfering in the evil that is prevalent on the Earth. It's almost as if God is silent but I tell you, God is not for God resides in each and every one of us. We are our own worst problems and enemies and unfortunately, the solution to a problem doesn't exist at the same level of the problem. The solution to a problem is always higher than the problem if not, how will the problem be solved. The entity we call the highest is "God" and that's the solution to the problems we created ourselves but God doesn't dwell in the sky but within us.

Kobojunkie:
1. God showed you things in a night vision like He did Jeremiah? Jeremiah had more than one night vision though.

2. How does one live a "successful" life outside of God? By what standard is this success you speak of to be measured?

3. If you believe that Jesus Christ already went to the underworld to preach to the souls, for what reason then do you believe and expect that those who you refer to as sons of God will do the very same?

4. And since you believe that the souls that did not hear the Gospel are somewhere in what you call the underworld waiting for these sons of God, am I to take it that you do not believe God's definition of death as given in Genesis 3 vs 17 - 19 - from dust you(mind, body and soul) were made and to dust you(mind, body and soul) shall return?

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1. I have and still have numerous encounters though.

2. "Success" is a relative term. For me success is simply a life of fulfillment. You can have all the money in the world and may not be fulfilled, that's not success. The Bible says, "the blessings of the Lord maketh rich and addeth no sorrow to it". Look at the world richest men, many of them are atheist and don't believe in God. And of course the notable ones among them are divorcees. So one can be successful in career, finance or whatever outside of God. Success follows principles, it's just like the law of reaping and sowing, you don't need God for that. (I hope you understand)

3. You need to understand that the underworld isn't hell fire. There is presently no human in hell or heaven at this moment (I'll add the scriptural references later). After Jesus preached to the souls in underworld, of course many joined later after Jesus left to be sitted at the right-hand side of God. Why I am sure that the sons of God will still go to the underworld to preach is because, God wants all men to be saved and come to the knowledge of the truth. He wouldn't want the death of his son to be in vain. That's my personal opinion though.

4. The concept of death is very interesting and intriguing. But do you know that we shall not all die but many that are alive at the lord's coming shall be Transformed. When paul will talk about the believers in Christ that died, he didn't mention them as dead but as asleep because they have eternal life in them. An asleep person can be awoken but a dead person cannot be awaken. The underworld is a place where men are dead( but asleep) for there is a second death and that's what will differentiate enternal life from eternal death.

Kobojunkie:
Ok.

You likened your God experience to that of Jeremiah, the prophet, why?

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Many times I wish Jesus can just appear to everyone like he did to Apostle Paul. I don't know why he doesn't do that. Paul before he encountered the intense light was a strong persecutor of the gospel of Christ but the light converted him.

Kobojunkie:
Ok.

You likened your God experience to that of Jeremiah, the prophet, why?

Just like the prophet Jeremiah, the Lord (I like calling him the spirit or king of Kings) appeared to me in a night vision and showed me things but before I continue I'll like us to know that in the end days, many will depart from the knowledge/experience of God because really, you can live a successful life outside of God. That will be the time when gross darkness will cover the earth and the people but a supernatural event will happen and the sons of God which the Bible mentioned will begin to manifest. The darkness will be so great that many if not all Will rush to the light to be saved. Unfortunately, many will still decide to perish. Did you know that when Jesus died, he went to the underworld to preach to them there? But am very sure that some people didn't believe him there and they remain there till today. In the time when the manifestations of the sons of God shall fully awaken, they shall go to the underworld and preach to the souls of men that were not privileged to hear the gospel during their lifetime. Many will accept, some will not. That's the power of our free will, it brings in the factor of the possibility that we can reject, deny or rebel against the one who made us. In the end, many will self destruct just as lucifer in the first age.