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Sexxkillz:
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Excuse you?

You can only cheat on someone you are married to. That hasnt happened here. By the way I can as well ask many questions.

Why do people start sleeping with someone they just met and not really know? Why did your friend start sleeping with your cousin without telling you or asking about him from you since you are her friend and he is your cousin? Who told you she loves him? Why are you taking her side? Why do people only open up when _shit hits the fan?

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emelda86:
He should quit and face your friend na

I wish he will see how your friend loves him

emelda86:
I don't know what people gain in cheating

If u have someone that's happy been around you why would u cheat anyway different strokes for different folks.

Davash222:
Girls cheat more than guys.

Your cousin was sincere to accept he gat a girlfriend while your girlfriend is a bloody liar!!!

Guys hardly tell lies that’s why most people thinks we cheat a lot. A girl will have over 6 boyfriends and still claim she’s single.

1x2x3:
The bolded contradicts the unbolded statement. It means you can be unfaithful as well.

Olalan:
Finding a faithful girl in this age is a big task

NeekolazWorld:
I know this girl, we are very good friends and business partner. We do business together, we sometimes hangout together and we sometimes get down together. But the thing is that we are not dating, she claims she has a boyfriend and she doesn't mind if I have a woman because she is not even thinking of anything relationship with me. We both like each other to an extent and the way we are doesn't bring room for quarrelling or jealousy so we are just free with each other and do everything a guy and his girl would do normally. There are times I want her to come over but she tells me she is going to be with her boyfriend so she won't be free and tell me she might see me the next day or another day. Sometimes she also wants to be with me and I will give her excuses that am not available because my woman is around even if that's a lie because I don't have a woman and there seem to be that understanding because she would just say I let her know when am free.

I really enjoy the enjoy the relationship the way it is because I don't have to stress myself like I have a boyfriend responsibility towards her and that has kept me going.

So am thinking, is it actually the best thing doing this no strings attached relationship as there is no stress or headache involved. I even asked her one day what if she gets pregnant and she clearly told me she will keep the baby and take care of her baby even if I choose not to be the dad. The thing shock me.

Fountainofyouth:
What a wonderful relationship, but the lady is loose, if you want this kind of relationship with someone, you shouldnt be in another committed relationship, it just doesn't make sense cos she definitely is not in love with her boyfriend.

calgaryFriend:
I did not cancel her out immidiately, I spoke to her gently and let her know it is disrespectful to the other person. I have asked her out and I have even gone as far as letting her know I really would love to start a serious relationship with her, the fact she still continued after I let her know I dont like that shows 2 things.

1. She does not understand the word respect. My time is also precious and I have many people to chat but I show respect to her by not chattin g multiple people at the same time. HOW can you be discussing with someone about how you guys want your future to look like and she is typing away while still on the call ? You may justify of trivialise that but it is a red flag. Mutual respect is important in any relationship.

2. She may have another relationship or several other relationships.

HealthOfficer07:
Yes my side-girlfriend is pregnant and she declines aborting it. She said she had a dream not to abort it else she will die. How do I handle this unfortunate situation now, and I just did my introduction to my fiancee 3months ago. With the wedding in 4months time. I was quite loose on girls especially because my fiancee is not always around and doesn't come around much, we do see like once in a month or in two months, but how am I going to tackle this situation now!! I think I'm in a big mess already!

PrettyMelly:
Good morning, guys! Wat's ur take on this?


I met my bf January this year, at d time he said he was having issues with his gf of 2yrs n wanted calling it off. I told him to make amends with her. He kept saying I won't understand.
He's not a stranger, he's someone I've known for some years but we become really close this year. We kept in touch regularly n the love starting growing from both sides.
Two months into the relationship, I noticed he was back with the other girl, cos she was always calling. Asked him abt it, n he was truthful with me and told me to give him time. I opted out of the relationship n told him to continue with the girl. He kept begging saying he can't afford to loose me.
I accepted him back. But I told him it won't be the same. Knowing dat he loves someone else. We r in different states. Same with the other girl.

Although I love him, but I want a relationship where I can give it 100%.
Pls I need matured advice on this.

liberalchick:
I would assume ‘good’ is girlfriend. Once a guy lets you know he has GF, that’s a hint he is not really that into you.

You knew he had a girlfriend, you don’t go into a situationship with someone that is not single hoping you would be good enough to make him leave his GF. It seems he is in a long distance relationship with his GF and you are available. If you want to be his GF, and not a side-chick, stop having sex with him and tell him to breakup with his GF if he really loves you, then take a break from him. If he wants you then he would do the above. If he doesn’t then just cut your losses and next time make sure a guy is single before your proceed if you don’t want to be a side chick.
Good idea

Rachael30:
Hello fellows am new here on nairaland. I have issues at hand. I met a guy who made it known to me that he had a good when I asked him, I was not bothered because I wasn't interested then. We became good friends , he helped me out in so many things.
Along the line he said he had feelings for me, by then I have started liking him .one thing led to the other we are already having sex even though he says he hardly see his gf due to issues they have which I hardly believe.
I don't want to be a side chick to anyone , wat do I do because I don't know how to kill my feelings for him and don't want to be hurt at the end.

Pubichairs:
Toxic relationship , there is nothing to advice..

Mr Nice guy keep on sticking to one woman, na u go tire

IamD18:
The best way to handle heartbreak is to avoid heartbreak, and the best way to avoid heartbreak is by not letting anyone be in charge of your heart.

What do I mean? Have it in mind that LOVE does not exist in relationships of this generation, it's all about self and personal interest of both partners. Nothing more.

Be wise! You can't love and be wise at the same time, so choose wisdom over love.

Ilamina:
she said she doesn't want to come back to America

That America is cold and lonely

Which normal person chooses nigeria over America

ev4real:
my brother we just got married last month. It's too early na.

funmijoyb:
Have spoken correctly not all Yoruba men are like that... Many women in Nigeria will still prefer Yoruba men above all other men.

ledamaster:
Another single but seriously strafing ladies of these generation. You need love abi youvare looking for a captain save me? A rich man to ease your financial burden? Na today? If you want a man, first stop sleeping with all those guys you are servicing. Face your life squarely and improve on it. Learn a trade, get an education or a job and be serious. Improve on your wife material qualities, how to make nutritious meals, snacks and also social and interpersonal skills. in between these period a good man will come around.

Oluromantic:
Hope you enjoyed the easter break?

ojun50:
i hv sent you a pm, or u can't text me on my number

Oluromantic:
OK. I just copied and pasted though. Sorry abt that.

Good morning.

sweettease:
BS!!!

I agree that finding true love is quite difficult but don't condemn yourself to that pessimism of it only ever happening once. It will only make you panic and make the wrong choice. Better safe than sorry.



You sound like you've tied a lot of your happiness with being with someone. Stop carrying it as such a burden and divert all that energy into self development. It will help you chill a little, build your confidence and you'll be better relaxed for your next relationship.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
When it comes to finding love, opportunity comes as many times as possible.