Atouke:


Where was that established? You are just spinning rumor. I bet you have not read the charges against mr onyema or you are just being obtuse.

He is charged for funneling money that was supposed to he used for purchase of aircrafts into accounts of companies that the US suspects might be a shell company. And forgery of letter of credit.
Those are the allegations so for nothing has been proven in the court of law . The case will go to trial, all mr onyema need to do is hire the best American lawyers and prove that those companies are not shell companies and that the Letters of credit was authentic.

Its not as big a case as it sounds, it's just because of who is involved. And so far I am not pleased the way he is handling the case.

He is charged in Georgia USA and his lawyers are speaking from Nigeria! Really by now a law firm in the state of Georgia should be speaking on his behalf not some Nigerian lawyer with some weak language.

Atouke:


Where was that established? You are just spinning rumor. I bet you have not read the charges against mr onyema or you are just being obtuse.

He is charged for funneling money that was supposed to he used for purchase of aircrafts into accounts of companies that the US suspects might be a shell company. And forgery of letter of credit.
Those are the allegations so for nothing has been proven in the court of law . The case will go to trial, all mr onyema need to do is hire the best American lawyers and prove that those companies are not shell companies and that the Letters of credit was authentic.

Its not as big a case as it sounds, it's just because of who is involved. And so far I am not pleased the way he is handling the case.

He is charged in Georgia USA and his lawyers are speaking from Nigeria! Really by now a law firm in the state of Georgia should be speaking on his behalf not some Nigerian lawyer with some weak language.

Sanchez01:

My point is, your mindset reveals you have a space already reserved for 'wàhálà', particularly when your other half buys something solely in his name. Before it gets to that point, spend more time looking/talking for/about these stuff prior to marriage.

If you sit a male down and he tells you that he sees no reason why he should buy properties in both your names, then by all means bail or walk away to avoid future problems.

The idea of doing things seperately, particularly property related voids marriage design. I know some would claim 'anything can happen tomorrow'. The idea of 'anything can happen' in itself gives an idea that they are going into a lifetime commitment with a higher probability of bailing tomorrow.

I sincerely wonder what people discuss in courtship these days.

midnighter:


Haha a medal...hope it's gold?

midnighter:
But you're still going to marry her in the church so what actually is the problem?

Somebody told you something ahead of time, you say you did not take her serious. now the thing is coming to pass and you're complaining. Nawa

Church wedding is important to some people because of the spiritual implications, why did you go ahead with a born-again if you can't even respect a basic decision like this

And on top of it you put the wedding on hold so you can force her to compromise on her principles Wow

Shouldn't you be happy that you married somebody who actually stands on their word and does as they say? Is this not a good quality to look for in a spouse?

pocohantas:


These chicks need some orientation on how to unlock a man's heart...

In their defense, they can only give some kind attitude to the limit men permit them. I see some people claiming I am making sense, because this one favours them- turn the table and they might not think same. That is how life should be, people of same ideology should date, don't be hypocritical about your choices and values.

pocohantas:


He doesn't have to meet up with anything. She has no right to put a young man under (financial) pressure. If she wants the good life, the one her father can't give- she should get a job. He can only assist when convenient.

-A woman who goes back to her ex every other time for assistance has no respect for her man.

-A woman who is greedy will always go elsewhere to makeup for her supposed deficit. Seeing that women are now invalids that men have to be responsible for, even in relationships.

-She isn't doing him a favour dating him, so he has no duty to prove his capability.