₦airaland Forum

If Tinubu allows for license to import cement business men from the South especially Igbos would run Dangote out of the business by slashing cement prices.
He is the richest African because he enjoys monopoly and access to cheap dollar.
The advantage of flying Air Peace to London is that you can be served Ofe Nsala, Gbegiri with Amala and Tuwo Shinkafa

The only investment we want from you is to empower small scale industries and producers to utilise the abundant power supply.
Abia people are happy with you please utilise their goodwill for their good 👍

Risingblue008:
Putin don need to fight frnace

It just to librate french speaking african countries and france is gone

Small yash dey shake

They are already doing that which is why Niger Mali and Burkina Faso don't feel like returning to France controlled ECOWAS headed by Tinubu

phorget:
Dont just send her to Nigeria but send her to a village where she will have to go to the farm,fetch water from the stream, cook with firewood, feel the bite of mosquitoes and tsetsefly, attend village schools and then learn your local language and culture. By the time she is done experiencing all these then she will become a changed person and beg you to come to her rescue.

Mrperfecto:
Hey guys really need ur advice since I can't sleep. This evening when I came back home I met my 11 years old looking so sad , I asked her what was wrong and she said nothing.

Later in the evening when I was sitting ouside in the garden to get some fresh air she followed me and asked me what does bastard mean..
I asked her where did she heard that from and she said her mummy call her that. I asked her what did she do to mummy she said she was carrying her baby sister and she accidentally caused her to hit her head in the door, mummy got angry and call her a bastard .

It really shocked me and I had lied to her it doesn't mean anything bad but she said she knows the meaning because she had googled it. I wasn't happy with my wife no matter what the girl has done she doesn't have to use such words to her , despite being angry I was patient enough waiting for the little ones to go to bed.

I have confronted her calmly but I was so shocked that she has taken it to another level accusing me to be sleeping with my daughter mother.
We had a heated argument which she held me by shirt shouting at me if you are a man hit me without minding she is 7 months pregnant.

She knows hitting woman is not my nature and she was tempting me to hit her so she can call the police on me because she knows that we are in abroad and not in naija anymore. I have quietly left the house for her and I am now sitting in my car cooling down and I don't really know if I want advice but I just felt like to vent. Sorry for the long post

What can you add to your opinion on taking her back to the village after reading his post above from 2022?

This story has been confirmed as another fake news for cruise on another platform

ify2016:
What am seeing there is a faulty bus that awaits repairs from maintenance team which i believe the supporters have already been rescued with another vehicle.

Stop talking like a Ghanaian, people wey Nigeria no send their matter

FOOTSOLDIER2:
Drug lord Tinibu master strategist oponu in the muld

Kikikkiki

Them don humble Tinubu EBola

Mrperfecto:
Hey guys really need ur advice since I can't sleep. This evening when I came back home I met my 11 years old looking so sad , I asked her what was wrong and she said nothing.

Later in the evening when I was sitting ouside in the garden to get some fresh air she followed me and asked me what does bastard mean..
I asked her where did she heard that from and she said her mummy call her that. I asked her what did she do to mummy she said she was carrying her baby sister and she accidentally caused her to hit her head in the door, mummy got angry and call her a bastard .

It really shocked me and I had lied to her it doesn't mean anything bad but she said she knows the meaning because she had googled it. I wasn't happy with my wife no matter what the girl has done she doesn't have to use such words to her , despite being angry I was patient enough waiting for the little ones to go to bed.

I have confronted her calmly but I was so shocked that she has taken it to another level accusing me to be sleeping with my daughter mother.
We had a heated argument which she held me by shirt shouting at me if you are a man hit me without minding she is 7 months pregnant.

She knows hitting woman is not my nature and she was tempting me to hit her so she can call the police on me because she knows that we are in abroad and not in naija anymore. I have quietly left the house for her and I am now sitting in my car cooling down and I don't really know if I want advice but I just felt like to vent. Sorry for the long post

@bolded, I saw this post you made in 2022 and I could see that your wife has a hand in pushing her to the edge.
Because of your focus on your work to fend for your family you have negated your role in her life. i also have a 13 year old daughter and I can understand that its a delicate teenage period.
I would have advised you send her back to Nigeria to be culturally molded but when I saw this post of yours I have a change of mind.

Solution: try to spend quality time with her alone outside the house as if you are her boyfriend, make her see you as a confidante.
Tell her always how much you love her and want the best for her, ask her questions about her school and friends, let her know the things you don't like and the kind of attitude you expect from her.
Have a reward system for her good behaviour such as coming home early from school, all these may not go down well with your wife who will see her as a competitor but you have to save your daughter's future.

You have to create a father and daughter timeout as many times as fixable for just the two of you where your wife will not be present and privy to your discussions which could be in an ice-cream or fast food joint or take a regular walk in the park, teenagers love that.
Instead of getting angry to the point of beating her you create an atmosphere for her to privately open up to you without your wife being present and let her know she is a first daughter, an Ada in African culture who is expected to be a moral guide to her younger siblings, make her have a sense of pride.

At this stage in her life she sees your wife as a competitor and your wife also sees her as a rival grabbing your attention and will do some things that will make her to become rebellious without you understanding except you pay ver close attention to details, you must understand that this also happens even between a daughter and her biological mother not to talk of a stepmother.

You need to step up and play your role as a man and father, private moments between father and daughter is important, let your wife accuse you of favouring or even having intimacy with your own daughter don't bother about her blackmail that may arise but focus on achieving your aim and you will see changes in her behaviour.
Goodluck!

I don't have issues with their rules but them coming to force their own concepts of democracy on us and killing our leaders who deviate for the progress of their people.
See how they destroyed a prosperous Libya and creating insecurity for us

This generation should forget about love and relationships with their fragile hearts or else them go kill themselves finish.
I have not recovered from the gory pictures of the useless imbecilic ijiot that macheted his girlfriend for not showing up on valentines day after collecting N7k and now the fool will spend a long time in prison for allowing his emotions to rule him.
We have groomed a generation of emotionally weak boys and girls

NLPoliceWoman:
Mynd44 Dominique Justwise.
Rule 2

You have become such a nuisance on this forum that Nairaland placed your main moniker MANNABBQGRILL as a Bot

Nairaland will miss some of them constituting nuisance here for the period they will be in jail. Watch out for some monikers that will be silent.

The most annoying Nairaland miscreant called MANNABBQGRILL will soon spend his own 3 months in jail anytime Benue state start arresting miscreants like Lagos State has just done

Look for a trade and learn in addition to your law degree, go for Masters when you are in a position to pay your school fees.
I know a lawyer in your position who is now into agro processing and is doing pretty well

In all you do never take advise from the guy below you MANNABBQGRILL, who advised people to vote Buhari 2 times.
He also advised Nairalanders to be calling the evil Buhari as Darling Daddy for 8 years even when bandits were ransacking his home state of Benue.

Nairaland has even given him special status that he cannot be quoted.

Security agents are not taking the fight seriously because after risking their lives to arrest them they are released as Repentant terrorists

Na MANNABBQGRILL state be this but you won't see him here, he is one of those being talked about, a Tiv boy calling Buhari his Darling Daddy for 8 years on Nairaland. Tueh!

The guy has realised that he is not popular working with the corrupt politicians unlike his counterparts in Mali, Burkina Faso and Niger.
It's like he wants to carry out radical changes, he needs to cut off France and join the alliance of Sahel states

The one who was was divorced after donating his kidney is luckier than this President

If Igbos join it will be tagged IPOB and the Fulani dominated Army will be unleashed as we saw under Buhari. Do you remember how Igbos were mocked and Buhari cheered here with these humiliating and dehumanising pictures for peacefully protesting against injustice and marginalisation.

Not forgetting the killing by the Army of 'General' Ikonso (pictured below) young man who put his life on the line to protect Igbo communities from rampaging Fulani militia based on the warning by Nnamdi Kanu long before other Nigerians realised what was coming ahead now called 'bandits' which has led to the current food crisis as farming communities are no longer able to feed themselves as farmers are killed or kidnapped or asked to pay tax and ransom before planting and harvesting in several states.

Igbos have sacrificed enough for Nigeria, they are always the first targets of riots in the North with their shops either burnt or looted and never compensated by the Govt if they survive with their lives.

Please lets leave Igbos out of this, allow them to breathe

This is why they are not protesting in the South East

Konquest:
Indeed, your points are valid here. If she has those occasional mood swings, then with understanding, we'll let them be or even give a sensual body massage with a calming lavender oil fragrance with dim lampshade lights for full effects. Mood swings are not an everyday thing for women but occur due to monthly hormonal cycle changes and menstrual cramps, so it can be managed.

Chai all these fantasies, you never marry that's why you are saying this, mood swings are not dependent on menstrual cramps or hormonal cycle change, E go shock you that during her menstrual cramps or cycle is when she may want you most to sleep with her.

She can have a conversation with her mum that didn't go well and has nothing to do with you and next thing she will transfer the aggression to you for the next 2 days, mood swing don set over something that has absolutely nothing to do with you

JeffArmani234:
My fiancée told me that every time we had misunderstanding, she used to think she made a mistake by not following the other man she doesn’t love to travel abroad, she says at least she would be sending money back home to take care of her family (brothers, father and co) sometimes I think about it and feel she’s just thinking of how to better her family’s life and I feel like it’s not a good sign for a good companion
What do you guys think?

Guy focus on making more money to meet her expectations, you have been given advance notice already or else you will be under perpetual pressure from her to a point you will not even remember your own parents or family and it won't mean anything to her.
She wants to get married to you because she loves the sex with you and would have left you if she found emotional connection to the abroad guy but still misses the fact that he is based abroad and would have improved her family status.
For now she is not focused on building a home with you but how to firstly establish her extended family, she wants you to be a Ned Nwoko to Regina Daniel and her family (if you get my drift )

Maliqcious:
she’s light skin right?

Skin colour makes no difference to that gender, they can be afraid to use a broom to kill a cockroach but can deal with a man in several painful ways without remorse

Konquest:
Well said.

Indeed, there are strategies that can be used to make a woman literary do almost anything you want based on her own volition. If the romantic attraction, great spontaneous sex and effective communication are good, then she won't even think twice before releasing her car keys to her man or spouse. When a woman holds back from a man, sometimes it's due to not taking charge due to a downturn in personal finances and lack of romantic attraction.

E go shock you say that your Pastor preaching about how loving Mummy G.O is at home has been sex starved in the past several weeks for no just cause.
You don't know that women have mood swings and no matter how romantic you think you are there are times your touch will be irritating to her

zuby4real10:
I planned to surprise my wife with any small car of N3m(my budget) immidiately we got married in June so that she will be using it to be going to school cos she just started 100 level recently. But I swear after reading this heart breaking story I have changed my mind. I will rather use the money do other things. Women are really heartless.

Do whatever pleases you for her but don't expect anything from her in return so that you won't feel disappointed in future

Anything you do for a woman just don't expect her to reciprocate or be always there for you.
As a boyfriend I bought a car for my then girlfriend who later became my wife with all my savings just for her to be happy and fulfilled, I made sure I filled her tank always without bordering where she drove to.

Years later after getting married to her my economy suffered a downturn while she got promotion in her work place and a big salary package.
She bought a new big car while I am still managing my old car.
Anytime I ask her for keys to her car to go out or go see a potential client whom I needed to display a little affluent packaging because of my line of work, she will remind me how I am a car spoiler, how I plan to use it to go pick up a girlfriend, how her car will be in danger of being snatched, how my eyes is always on her car, how I don't buy fuel for her, how I overspeed, how the last time I drove her car she spent N1m at the autoshop to fix things even though its a lie, how she dreamt where the devil was following me when I was driving her car, hian!🤧🤧
This was someone I spent my last money to buy her first car as a bachelor even when I tried to force her to do my bidding she reported me to relatives.

When I met our relatives virtually every one of them will tell me "abeg leave am na woman, in marriage you have to tolerate, since she doesn't want you to use her car just let her be, na so God take create woman"
I realised that as a man you are alone in marriage.

greenermodels:
please,tell me that you're joking, please, this is not true.

Joking ke?
If many married men tell you what they are silently passing through and the betrayals they have had to endure from their wives at various times you go fear to get married, but in order not to discourage younger people from the marriage institution we just endure and move on which is actually not easy as it takes emotional toll on many men.

Putin has approval rating of 87% compared to Biden with 42% and German Chancellor with 18%

The experience is the most important thing you gained, utilise it well and the future will be bright

DatNiggaDaz:


Our SE brothers and neigbours are still learning the sophisticated political lessons from the learned sk" u"lla"rs"

When they finish learning the building bridge politics, your opinion will change Mr Professor. Until then exercise patience under Tinubulation

Oga Ruga let them be abeg

Allah Akbar

Wicked man
Why are you adding salt to their injuries instead of giving them soft landing and soothing words

Ugorjino:
Don't be stupid

What's the meaning of this?

Yevabi:
I know You are doing your best as a man but stop reproduction for now. Children are not easy to raise in this economy

He was advised here ehen they were 3 kids after he lamented that his wife was denying him sex and was seeking for advice.
Next he don give her another belle and was posting pictures of her stained underwear and infection she had and asking for help.
His poverty is self induced like someone pointed out and ge is reckless.
His wife is not upto to 25 years with 5 kids and 6th on the way