Travel › Re: How To Succeed As A Man In The US by DreManuel(m): 12:20pm On May 20, 2020 |
khia: When did Chicago become a state?  We know, it’s in the state of Illinois. What exactly is your motive? To troll or add to value to the conversation? |
Family › Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by DreManuel(m): 3:14am On May 20, 2020 |
Weebo: Feminist propaganda bullshit! Also in the stats, they often classed divorced and widowed men as “single men”(Clearly men who chose to be single and men who are single by circumstances will never have the same outcome. it is obvious the data is skewed).
There was an article that said woman and nagging causes strokes in men and heart attacks. Guys end up having strokes because of a nagging entitled wife. Also married men are more likely to eat unhealthy, drink more hard liquor(alchohol) , have less time to relax and put less time in the gym, clearly not healthy choices…
Now I am single and I have a routine to go to the gym, eat healthy, do what I want to do with my free time and spend my money where I want to spend it.
The research you sourced can be easily skewed to get the result they want.
And even if it were true, SINGLE MEN DIE HAPPIER! I´d rather die with my bros than live with a hoe anyday lol. You’re a thinking man. |
Travel › Re: How To Succeed As A Man In The US by DreManuel(m): 2:33am On May 20, 2020*. Modified: 12:18pm On May 20, 2020 |
neurosci: I've deleted my posts, since you consider them a derailment to your thread. Like I mentioned, I agree with every other thing you said except the student loan part, and I commented because I thought someone else might benefit from a different perspective, but I think you simply want us to agree with everything you post. So, please kindly delete the areas where you mentioned me so that my posts can disappear completely and I'll delete this one too. Let me add my take on the student loan a bit. Depending on your credit score, age, test scores, program or school, you can get a decent student loan. Student loans can be paid up to 20 years. Interest rate can be something like 7.5%. For comps, average S&P returns is 9.8%. That means loan makers are better off buying index funds than issuing loans. I guess that’s why most firms who issue student loans are into impact investing. So, think about what you make without education compared with having an education. They are light years apart. Do the cost benefit analysis. I won’t do the math here, but you can be better off. The only caveat is that; choose a profitable program. Think long term. As an international student, don’t take student loans to study courses like Social Work as your American counterparts sometimes do. |
Investment › Re: Us Stocks Pick Alert by DreManuel(m): 11:20pm On May 19, 2020 |
For experienced traders preferably in the U.S.:
How do you navigate the wide gulf between short-term vs long-term capital gain tax rates? Do you have any strategies for tax-loss harvesting while circumventing the wash-sale rule?
YerYer et al. |
Romance › Re: Anita & Jide: Man Who Earns ₦15m Asks His Fiancee Who Earns ₦42m To Quit Her Job by DreManuel(m): 5:13pm On May 19, 2020 |
Sounds like a badly written Nollywood movie script |
Investment › Re: Us Stocks Pick Alert by DreManuel(m): 1:16pm On May 19, 2020 |
ChybuzzDD: I keyed in yesterday @126. Just hoping for it to get to 135 today so I can sell. #Daytrading This is looking good |
Romance › Re: Finding A Good Man Is Like Finding A Needle In A Haystack by DreManuel(m): 12:43am On May 19, 2020 |
lammylam: I personally do not agree with playing hard to get for a man!
You either stay, or go! As a lady ehn the best thing is to work on ourselves! We can't be bad ourselves and expect the men to take us for what we are because they do not have a choice they have to marry us!
Either man or woman,we all have our bad sides! Its left for you to decide if you can cope with that bad side, or not!
As a lady, you know what you want! We shouldn't let desperation push us into dating any kind of man! Have your standard and work towards being the kinda woman that standard you want would like. IRE o God bless you. I prefer women who know what they want and go for it. Hard-to-get-mentality is so antiquated. Men who are worth their salt don't play games. Ladies, be wise. Be a woman of value, and you will attract the kind of men you deserve. |
Investment › Re: Us Stocks Pick Alert by DreManuel(m): 12:31am On May 19, 2020 |
Alexandre7: Do you have a mechanism of picking your stocks for short term plays?
I'm planning on making some short term plays with penny stocks but want to do my due diligence first.
I'm mostly buying on market order, but with time I'll become used to limit order, stop-loss order.
Taking it gradually one at a time so as not to confuse myself. I use S&P Capital IQ (because I have free access to it), Yahoo Finance, Simply Wall St, and finviz (especially for charts) to get info. What I’m looking for are high volume, price, moderate price-earnings multiple, positive insider transactions (could signal the true value of the stock), the chart patterns to spot resistance and support in order to guess the price to enter or sell via limit order, etc. Finviz really helps to screen based on some criteria. With time I’d subscribe to gold membership on Robinhood to have access to level II data. I have a Fidelity account too, although I haven’t used them to trade, but they have more good info. I would love to hear the thoughts of experienced traders in the house on this. |
Investment › Re: Us Stocks Pick Alert by DreManuel(m): 6:24pm On May 18, 2020*. Modified: 6:42pm On May 18, 2020 |
Alexandre7: I finally opened a trade with TD Ameritrade today after reading all the pages. You guys are an inspiration.
I've a couple questions:
I haven't traded stocks before so I invested $2000
Then I bought 25 shares of American Airlines, 25 shares of United Airlines, 25 shares of Delta Airlines & 25 shares of Southwest Airlines.
Do you think these are good stock?
I'm planning to hold long term till at least December.
If travel resumes then the stocks will fly.
What about Bankruptcy? Can all four airlines go bankrupt as the same time?
I feel like all four airlines are too big to fail and the government will bail them out before the go bankrupt
What do you think about hotel stocks like Marriot?
I'm also planning on investing in that sector long term but just wanted a different opinion. I'm a rookie myself but I bought 20 shares of Delta today. Given your investment horizon, I think they are good picks. However, I think the portfolio is not diversified enough given that risks are correlated because they are in the same industry. Nevertheless, some of those stocks are undervalued because the EPS multiples are relatively low compared with the market, so I think you may have gotten them at a bargain. So, If I want to invest further, I would look at another industry especially those blue-chip companies with undervalued stocks. I gambled on ACB on Friday and cashed out this morning with a yield of ~40%. Tbh that stock is way overpriced, but I'm looking for similar opportunities to trade within a day and take away my "loot" but I'm learning to be patient because I lost money on SRNE, but I'm glad I cut my losses before it became really bad. I'm using robinhood and might switch to more sophisticated brokers as I gain experience but I encourage you to learn how to use a limit order, stop-loss order, market order, etc. Also, watch out for frequent trading so as not to be categorized as a Pattern Day Trader. I almost made a mistake there. Again, I'm still a rookie, I'm only using my knowledge of finance plus a limited knowledge of the market, so take my submission with a grain of salt. |
Romance › Re: Finding A Good Man Is Like Finding A Needle In A Haystack by DreManuel(m): 1:12pm On May 18, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl: And when you offer it on a plate on the first day, the same men will call you an "Olosho" or a "Runs girl". It's seems this is a losing game for women which ever way they play it. So, not having s3x on the first date is playing hard to get now? Ok got it. The truth is, every woman knows where to find a “good” man if they truly want him. |
Romance › Re: Finding A Good Man Is Like Finding A Needle In A Haystack by DreManuel(m): 4:34am On May 18, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl: I am sure ladies you can all relate with this, many women all believe that all men are nice but in fact they are shy, sly and slick. Women get carried away and get loved up and think love is true but these men walk all over women
Many women do not look before they leap and end up in deep water. So ladies, guard your heart, play hard to get or you will regret the day you were born when he leaves you for another woman/man because "Good men are like finding a needle in a haystack". What’s your definition of a good man? Playing hard to get doesn’t work. Well, let me speak for myself; it doesn’t work on me. It won’t make me love a woman more or less. I’m not also claiming to be a “good” man. Only God is good. Water seeks its own level. If you want a “good” man, be a good woman. Stop taking relationship advice from your friends who are not in good relationships themselves. They will get you confused and might even encourage you to leave the “good” guy when you find him. |
Investment › Re: Us Stocks Pick Alert by DreManuel(m): 10:54pm On May 17, 2020 |
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Education › Re: What It Takes To Get Admitted To Top MBA/engineering Programs In The USA And RoW by DreManuel(op): 10:08pm On May 16, 2020 |
Ekuns007: Hello DreManuel...Can we chat privately, need to ask you some question. Pls hi me on ekunseitank@yahoo.com. Thank you Do you have any personal questions? Otherwise, it might be best to ask here because there is a chance that others might benefit from the conversion or contribute. |
Investment › Re: Us Stocks Pick Alert by DreManuel(m): 3:16pm On May 16, 2020 |
Now that JC Penny is filing for Chapter 11, analysts are proposing that TJ Maxx might cash in on this. Is anyone else monitoring TJ Maxx? |
Investment › Re: Us Stocks Pick Alert by DreManuel(m): 3:08pm On May 16, 2020 |
Onboard1: I tried to register with Robinhood but it requires social security number. Did you put yours? Yes I did. |
Education › Re: What It Takes To Get Admitted To Top MBA/engineering Programs In The USA And RoW by DreManuel(op): 2:19am On May 16, 2020 |
Sherlock5577: Nice Initiative DreManuel. Followed a couple of your posts back then on the GRE thread!! It’s good to have you here Sherlock5577 |
Investment › Re: Us Stocks Pick Alert by DreManuel(m): 11:04pm On May 15, 2020 |
YerYer: You can short Zoom (ZM) from the Robinhood app by trading options. You can buy puts or sell calls. I know most brokers will ask if you are an experienced investor while opening an account, based on your response they will either allow or deny you access to certain products such as margin and options trading. Try contacting them to grant you access, if they say you don't have much experience, just keep trading stocks on their platform for now. You can now proceed to opening an account with TD Ameritrade, but make sure you don't select you are a new investor. TD Ameritrade charges $0.65 per option contract.
But honestly, read and watch instructional videos about options trading. It is very very risky and one of the fastest ways to lose money. TD Ameritrade has a paper account if you want to practice strategies first before actually trading a live account. I know Zoom (ZM) is overvalued, but investors are piling into covid winner stocks so it may go against you. Worst of all, shorting this thing is too damn expensive and if the stock keeps rising, you can lose 100% of your money in a blink of an eye. I find this very informative. Thanks so much. I just joined Robinhood and I've made my first trade. I've downloaded TD Ameritrade but haven't registered. Now I know that I have to say that I'm an "experienced trader" just to have access to more trading options. |
Investment › Re: Us Stocks Pick Alert by DreManuel(m): 7:43pm On May 15, 2020 |
What do you guys think about shorting Zoom (ZM)? I think the stock might be overpriced since it's COVID that's really fuelling its upswing in cash flows. Robinhood doesn't allow shorting, does any one have an idea of the right platform to short? |
Education › Re: How To Achieve High Scores On The GRE by DreManuel(m): 4:56pm On May 15, 2020 |
stainless91: Thanks DreManuel for your contribution. I am grateful.
Does the offer really worth taking?
Issuance of visa nowadays is mostly contingent upon having adequate funds, won't it raise a red flag? Honestly, the ball is in your court since I don't know your risk tolerance. However, it seems you've not even applied to the school you are referring to talkless of an offer of admission. It's the content of your offer letter that should inform your decision making. That's why it's the best practice to edge one's bet by applying to a couple schools so you may have options and even negotiate with schools if you have a leverage. |
Education › Re: How To Achieve High Scores On The GRE by DreManuel(m): 2:58pm On May 15, 2020 |
stainless91: Hello everyone.
I am interested in applying for PhD program at the University of Florida, Gainsville. I wrote my department graduate co-ordinator as regards securing graduate assistantship.
She replied: "The program will allow you to conduct research and assist in the classroom without compensation."
Although, It is clearly written on the department website that:
"If awarded an assistantship, a graduate student will receive a 1/3-time appointment of $16,000/year (M.S.) or $20,000/year (Ph.D.). The assistantship will cover in-state and out-of-state tuition. However, students must pay non-matriculation fees".
Please, I still don't understand the above statements. I need your contributions and opinions.
Thanks. Generally, it's the professors that hire Ph.D. students into their labs, and students then function as an assistant. In many cases, tuition would be waived and the professor will pay stipends (from his grant money). I would spend most of my time getting to know professors in the program I'm targetting and try to get them to bring me on board. There are also cases where the program also hire TAs or GAs and they should waive tuition and pay stipends. However, there are some programs where tuition waivers are impossible (but they are generally professional programs). To the response you received, I think it was too generic. My take on that is that even if someone doesn't receive an official assistantship, they can still be allowed to conduct research. |
Travel › Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 15 by DreManuel(m): 12:40am On May 15, 2020 |
Predstan: South Africa have tested over 350k samples with only less than 15k cases and 238 death. I'm not sure this is about testing capacity. There is something alien going on in Africa that even WHO does not understand. This is interesting. |
Travel › Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 15 by DreManuel(m): 10:24pm On May 14, 2020 |
Snakedoctor1: God will help everyone. I am due to resume this Fall, but things still look so uncertain. Just paid for I-20 and the courier said school ain't ready. Deferred once and they said that was final with the funding. I don't know what becomes of us if they are not resuming in Fall. No need to panic. The school can send you a scanned copy and that should be fine for now. I think schools will resume in the Fall no matter what happens. At the least, lectures would be online. In the last quarter, international students that didn’t make it back to the US before border closure didn’t violate their their F1 Status. By the same token it’s possible that incoming students can remain in their countries and be duly enrolled in a US school. I would check with the International Students and Scholars Office tho. |
Travel › Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 15 by DreManuel(m): 8:25pm On May 14, 2020 |
Predstan: I had the same opinion and people argue this with me. I believe the Covid-19 is not deadly as painted by the media. We have to learn to live with it because its not going soon or anytime. We cant continue to close down countries for months. People will die of hunger than of the virus.
Self-isolation and Quarantine should be for the vulnerables. I am currently scrapping some datas online. I want to see the age range of the majority of people that died of the virus.
On the other hand, Look at the cases in Africa, do you think that's normal? Under-reporting or the virus cant survive? I agree with you. I’d be interested to see what data you find. As per underreporting in Africa, I don’t think there are any incentives to do so. My guess would be that we’re not testing enough. It’s possible the weather is helping a bit to limit the spread. I think one advantage Africa has is the young demography. It’s interesting that Lagos with population that’s 3x the size of New York still has an extremely low Mortality and Morbidity from Covid. This could really mean that something is in Nigeria’s favor but I don’t know for sure what it is. |
Education › Re: What It Takes To Get Admitted To Top MBA/engineering Programs In The USA And RoW by DreManuel(op): 6:13pm On May 14, 2020 |
Eniolakiite: Thanks for the thread
If I may ask, why are you pursuing MBA after the Engineering Masters? Any particular reason  That’s a good question. My reasons are fairly straightforward. Most of the job opportunities I had in the course of my engineering master’s were at the entry level but I wanted to begin my career at the middle-management cadre in the US given the years of experience I had back in Nigeria. Thus I realized that an MBA would easily pave that way for me. Furthermore, I wanted a less technical role and more of strategy/ business development. MBA offers the opportunity to pivot. In fact, one of my friends moved from a teaching career to investment banking and another into consulting. An MBA offered them such possibility. Finally, I wanted a network I could leverage for my mid and long term goals. I didn’t have that through my engineering degree. People have different reasons but those were mine. On a shallow level, post-MBA pay was attractive to me too! |
Travel › Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 15 by DreManuel(m): 5:59pm On May 14, 2020*. Modified: 6:17pm On May 14, 2020 |
rkarang: Based on what we know
Bill Gates and Dr Fauci are confident that scientists will soon get vaccine to eradicate this virus.
Dr Fauci believes that since many are recovering from CoVid 19, it won’t be that difficult to get a vaccine for it.
However, the timeframe is what’s important to governments, business leaders and even the households. Honestly, I don’t think it’s sustainable to continue the lockdown in the developed world. Developing countries like Nigeria shouldn’t have been locked down to begin with but borders be should partially closed. Most of the cases are mild. The person whom I share an apartment had the disease and recovered without any real medication. I might have had it too without knowing but tested -ve when they eventually tested me. Covid19 is deadly but it’s overrated in my opinion. They should let us go back to our classrooms in the Fall and let businesses open. Those that are high risk should self-isolate. I’m tired of the liberal media that won’t stop stoking fears. |
Education › Re: How To Achieve High Scores On The GRE by DreManuel(m): 4:27pm On May 14, 2020 |
suleyoung: hello my people I am a graduate of Accounting with first class honour
I wish to ask my people in this great forum who had pass through this route in gaining admission to graduate school what GRE and TOEFL score should I be aiming for? my target is to seek direct PhD admission thanks for you warmth response. Aim for 340 in GRE. If you don't reach your goal you may fall to 330, and that may be alright for your goal. |
Travel › Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 15 by DreManuel(m): 4:20pm On May 14, 2020 |
NaotoKan: I'm not trying to discourage anyone from pursuing quality education in the US but if Donald Trump wins, I believe it's important to try other countries especially if one plans to permanently base in the US in the long run.
https://www-forbes-com.cdn.ampproject.org/v/s/www.forbes.com/sites/andyjsemotiuk/2020/05/12/as-us-closes-door-on-international-studentscanada--welcomes-them/amp/?amp_js_v=a2&_gsa=1#referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com&_tf=From%20%251%24s&share=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.forbes.com%2Fsites%2Fandyjsemotiuk%2F2020%2F05%2F12%2Fas-us-closes-door-on-international-studentscanada--welcomes-them%2F I agree with your line of reasoning. This is really scary but I still think there is hope. I still maintain that there is no country in the world that can beat the U.S. in terms of post-studies job opportunities. Trump will come and go, so I would think long term prospects in my decision making. The role international students play in reasearch, development and innovation in the U.S. are well-documented. So, my guess is that DT may not completely ban OPT, CPT and H1B completely but he may radically restrict it. I think the US would have taken a page from UK's book by now. Indians and Chinese students currently bear the brunt because they are overreprented, but if DT makes good his promise of implementing a point system like Canada, Indians may come up on top, but I can't say the same for China due to the current anti-Chinese rhetorics. I think PhD students may be safe because the last time I checked, they are not taking any jobs away from Americans. CS/ECE majors are also heavily in demand by the tech giants and start-ups alike and U.S. citizens/PR alone can't fill those jobs. Manufacturing companies operating in rural areas too frequently need international students since young Americans are too picky to live there so other Engineering graduate students may still be needed. Based on my observation, most of the jobs that are lost now due tho COVID are not the typical jobs F-1 students typically have. So, Trump is only playing politics to rally his base. Notwithstanding, I know a few people that have been laid off, and some whose internship offers have been rescinded. I know one or two who took pay cuts. I know a few who are still searching for employment. Darn it, I have a friend who recently got a job on Wall St., during this COVID. Yeah, you may argue he got the job because the OPT policy has not been changed but this points out that top companies still desire international students even in time of crisis and uncertainty, and they may be willing to lobby to ensure that international students are still allowed to work in the U.S. post studies. While I can't predict how challenging or easy it would be for those currently in Nigeria to make it to the US, if I were to come at this point, I would ensure that I'm coming for programs with high job placement rates for international students, and have other solid back up plans. Before COVID, employment for international students was competitive, and post-COVID, it might even be more duanting. |
Investment › Re: Us Stocks Pick Alert by DreManuel(m): 3:04pm On May 14, 2020 |
YerYer: Welcome brother man!! You've come to the right place! I’m always glad to see BM especially Nigerian men share investment ideas. We still have a lot to learn from the Jews but this thread puts us in the right direction. Kudos for a the great insights! |
Investment › Re: Us Stocks Pick Alert by DreManuel(m): 1:02am On May 14, 2020 |
YerYer: I use TD Ameritrade and Robinhood, I live in the U.S though. I just checked now and TD Ameritrade doesn't allow Nigerians but allow Ghanaians. Sad. I’m in the U.S. too, just joined this thread and I’ve been reading from page 1. Would love to connect some time. |
Romance › Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by DreManuel(m): 10:46pm On May 13, 2020 |
Jainine: @DreManuel @riskywowoz
One of you quoted me saying black men are the most desired the other one said white men are.... Lol not like it's important, it was just funny coincidence I thought I should point out.
This has nothing to do with physical attraction, let's be clear blackmen and women are the most attractive! so this is not about kissing white boys ass... This is about how to treat a woman right and why egoistic Nigerian men find it hard to cope with Nigerian girls who know they deserve better, Home or abroad but same girls tend to be swiped away by some random white dude.
I didn't even point out how, from the start a white guy is not trying to woo a black girl with material thing but being there, caring, supportive, loving, Sweet, Building a real thing.
Not Nigerian men, they will say they don't have time for all that... Soon they will say women leave when they get broke. Where as all the foundation of their relationship was built on money money.
Thats by the way, I'm sure your biracial couple friends fight over how much pepper go into the meal when they are cooking 
And on a final note. I respect men who respect women (white men or black men) and that_shit doesn't make you weak, It's sexy as hell!
Peace out! I’m not delusional, being attractive is different from being desired. Don’t know who told you that BM are the MOST desired. I don’t know about the pepper fight o, but at least they could always cook their meals separately. Peace and blessings. |
Romance › Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by DreManuel(m): 7:40pm On May 13, 2020 |
Kobojunkie: I have equally observed this myself ! Many of my Nigerian gals married to white men, have less drama to deal with in their relationships compared to the gals married to Nigerian men. The difference is like night and day in some cases, almost to the point of boring since the gals married to whitemen rarely have real complaints for me to listen to..  If that’s the case, then I highly encourage Nigerian girls abroad to actively seek and only get married to WM. They deserve all the happiness in life, and should not get with the purported kill-joy and oppressive Nigerian men. |
Romance › Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by DreManuel(m): 6:12pm On May 13, 2020 |
I co-sign this: Rickywowoz: I agree with your points...Most men (not just black men) that are new to America worship white women but the ass licking wears away with time especially after you sample a couple of white puna. Nigerian women are well educated and earn good money (I respect them for that). But no matter how much they earn, the average naija girl still expect the man to spend & pay 90% of the bill in every relationship.
Also are we gonna pretend that naija girls don't kiss ass when it comes to white boys? You guys demand heaven and earth from naija boys but all a caucasian boy need to do is say hello and y'all spread your leg for them. Marriage between white men and black women has the lowest divorce rate because black women abandon all their standards and requirements for any basic white boy. They cook, clean, work, pay bill and do as the white man demands. So keep the same energy for both gender Jainine: This is getting interesting...
You see, white boys (not the racist ones) actually respect black women, I am not even talking about relationship wise yet, I am talking about generally, the white guys are not brought up to see their sisters or other women as any less than they are, if anything they are brought up to respect and support women. When they meet Nigerians, they bring that same energy into the room, and even if she is always on her guard, she will loose her guard quite easily because most people actually shouting for equality in and from Nigeria do so because of level of disrespect Nigerian men have for women.
Before we make this a debate on white vs black, I should quickly point out what point am trying to pass.
Even when a Nigerian woman, pays her own bill and doesn't beg for money from Nigerian men, they will want to bring her low to the level Nigerian culture set for women, under a man's feet. But when they meet white women they can't keep the energy
Secondly, white boy/black girl relationship or marriage is winning because the white boys do not have the same values and disrespectful upbringing. They adore women, respect them and love them.
All I'm saying and from what op has said is for Nigerians to learn humility and respect toward women. That is the reason for the happy marriages between black women and white boys
Cheers! Even in your response, you're elating WM as pure, perfect, respectful, and chivalrous. Isn't it funny how you described the "white boy/black girl relationship or marriage" as "winning"? Let's cut the crap, BW have different standards for BM, but that's none of my business because I don't give a flying fck who they date or don't date. Again, not all non-racist WM are respectful. In fact, they feel the most entitled because they are arguably the most desired (every race wants them and they know it). Side note, most things Yte boys do that BW may consider sweet and chivalrous, but if a BM does the same thing, they could consider him weak and lame. You can't just win. It's common with AA women tho but a few Nigerian women act that way too. In one of the schools that I attended, I saw how "our" single "sisters", especially the attractive ones, change tone when they are talking to Yte boyz. In fact, I've seen how a few of them didn't like to talk to fellow African students that are male (they acted like though you're subpar) but these were the same girls drooling over yte boyz who often dog them, and toss them around. The Nigerian men that I know may not be perfect but they are not that snobbish. Nigerian women that are more relatable are those that are married, "old" and are under pressure to settle down, in a relationship, or not too blessed with looks. We may be viewing this issue from different lenses because I don't know the social class of the Nigerian women and men you're talking about, but most men in my circle are professionals in no need of anyone's paper, looking to build with someone and not to tear anyone down or subjugate them. So I won't be too critical of your perspective. I don't "own" Nigerian women or BW, and they don't "own" me too. Let everyone date or marry whoever makes them happy, and let no one question them for their choice. |