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You want APC to field a leper for the contest so that the wolves in PDP can get the shot at Edo governorship. It is obvious to APC and everyone that even if Obaseki is allowed to contest and he wins, the PDP will upturn his Victory in court with the defective credentials that he has got.
I can see that this Clark of a man is PDP agent at heart.

For God sake! What is the shame in having sex with your husband? Any woman that comes out to shout marital rape should be packing her bags and leave marriage. It’s not suited for her. I don’t support forced sexual activity in any situation but to call it rape in marriage is going too far. If you don’t want to be available for sex at anytime, don’t get married.

Confusedgirl869:
Hello everyone. This account is created for this .

This issue has been bothering me a lot and I am very confused on what to do.

We have been together for more than 2 years now and we hardly have issues, infact we are a perfect match or so I thought.

I am 26 while he is 35, we both working and I never disturb him for money, I take care of all my needs myself. He is very calm and peaceful, doesn't hit me and I really admire him a lot. I on the other hand is also good, hardworking, not materialistic and all that makes a good woman.

So after thinking of our relationship thoroughly some weeks ago, I realised that there is really nothing stopping us from getting married this year or next. I decided to hear what he has to say because he never talked about us being or getting married. I also noticed that whenever he sees or hears about bad marriages he felt lucky he is not in yet. This always makes me feel bad because I know myself. I also wasn't a fan of marriage before I met him because of so many bad men out there, but everything changed when I met my guy, he is what I want. The very first day we met, the first thought that came to my mind was 'this is my him' I don't know why I had that thought being our first time meeting.

Anyways, few weeks ago I decided to ask him what his plans are. Are we in on a long thing or not? I got the shock of my life when he made me understand that he doesn't want to be tied forever, he loves his space and the way nobody disturbs him. That he only wants a baby mama, he wants me to be the mother his kids but not in marriage. I was mad and I cried for days. He was even sounding like nothing is wrong with being a baby mama, maybe not but I just can't.

Well, I made him understand that I can't be a baby mama and it will also be hard for me to move on with another person. I've bonded so well with him and all that. And I also hate jumping from one man to another. I told him to talk to people who are in successful marriages and stop looking at the bad ones. Today when we were talking I asked him about it and he is still maintaining his stand on the mama.

I don't want to give birth to kids that have 2 homes, I grew up like that(it took me lots of self discipline not to become useless) and wouldn't want that kind of life for my kids, I want them to grow with their parents in ONE house. At the same time, I don't want to lose my good man and relationship.

I need your opinions please.

If your values defer from his, then it’s time to move.

donbachi:
Go and transfer ur late father's corpse to another mortuary or u go back to that very mortuary u deposited his body,and warn them not to release his corpse to anybody,unless u come in person.as for the shop,buy another key and lock it.while u plan for his burial..do not give room to anger and exchange of words.

Be ready to be spiritually strong before you adopt this advice. Otherwise you may soon meet your dad in the grave. I am serious.

RenaissanceGuy:
That doesn't change the need for Nigeria to break up.

We all know every state has model schools.
Let Nigeria divide so that each of the six states in Niger Delta will start collecting ₦80bn monthly instead of the meagre ₦18bn you think is so huge.

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Even if $800 billion is given to South South and South East, it will amount to nothing so long as there are corrupt leaders among you.

He is not cooperating with the plan they laid out for him, definitely!

Trump knows he will lose the next election. What he is doing now is to dig the grave for the democrats before he leaves. So that Republicans will return in future. I can see that the firefighting of all the mess created by Trump will be enough to occupy the democrat president. Such leader will not have the slightest chance to move forward for 8 years.

What did you do at the hotel? Did you shout for help? Rapists must be killed. Death penalty is the only good thing for them. But the woman must answer those questions.

Go and read Epidemiology as MSc. From there move into healthcare field. There is plenty of jobs abroad and rarely in Nigeria due to man-know-man syndrome. WHO, world bank, other international organisations will grab you without having to know anyone. You can even do PHD in health economics or public health administration. You can see how you meander your way through?

Ausrichie:
You did not answer my question. God knows everything not that he knows what might happen he knows what will happen if I say a building will collapse in Lagos today and I am omniscient that building must collapse no matter what anyone does to stop it. Omniscience means being able to know what will happen and what will not, it is not what may happen brother. Go back read and answer the question if you don't have an answer just say I don't know. To prevent you from looking stupid.

To know what will happen is not the same thing as to cause or prevent what will happen. What will happen will be a result of your own handiwork.

TrajansKong:
The God you claim to worship is a creature of bottomless depravity.

You can't see anything vicious or moronic in what you just wrote, can you

How can a blind person see light, even if it’s shorn on his face?

TrajansKong:
This makes no sense.

So your god is omniscient but not omnipotent?

He knows all our fates from before our birth but will do nothing to stop our journeys into the hellfire he created?

Madness and inhumanity. Perfect Naija combination

He will do nothing to stop you going to hellfire because you have used your free will to do whatever you do to deserve hell or paradise. He will not compel you in doing that. And whatever your fate will be will be determined by you and only you.

Ausrichie:
I want to ask you a small question. God is omniscient as you people love to say. Since he is omniscient then why does he punish people who die in sin by sending them to hell? He already knows the beginning of man and the end of man, he knows how you were born how you would die, he knows if you would die in sin too. So why punish someone for the inevitable if he is omniscient.

The answer is this: omniscient does not mean control over your willpower. To know how you will end does not mean to control how you will end. If an examiner knows your ability and what you might score in your exam, it does not mean he will control your ability and prevent or help you in any way. You need to prove your mettle by yourself. You will be judged based on what you did, not what God knows you might do.

kingxsamz:
God allows. Evil to happen to innocent people because he wants to test them, even when he's omniscient and knows whether they'll pass the test or not. Yet when evil happens, people blame the devil. What a good loving god.

Why does God give you willpower to do whatever you like? It is because you will be tested for your belief in Him. Angels are not tested and no calamity befalls angels because they have no willpower. The innocents that get consumed in God’s punishment are treated differently from the guilty on the day of judgement. But it is incumbent on innocent to warn the evil ones about punishment from God if they did not stop their evil. Because everyone will be consumed in such punishment. COVID is killing both believers and unbelievers. But believers die as martyrs, while unbelievers get punished.

Christianity and Christians generally do not understand the concept of good and bad, heaven and hell, who does what and who has the power to do what etc. The basic thing is, God is most powerful and He created paradise and hell. He also created Satan. God does not do evil, but He can allow evil to occur as a way testing our faith in Him. Evil can come from two sources: our own handiwork and from Satan and his disciples among men and jinn. Natural occurrences that are not due to Satan or our own effort will be a worldly punishment for some of our sins. An example of that is soddom and gomora story, the story of the floods in Nuh’s time. This last example rarely occurs. None of these happens except by Allah’s permission. To suggest that they don’t have Allah’s permission is to suggest that Allah or God is not most powerful and that everything is not within His control.

I am moving back after retirement. Life is horrendous for pensioners who would have to live lonely lives in care homes with no family around.

Obierika:
As a single guy in Nigeria who is about to select a wife the biggest mistake you could possibly make right now is to marry a lady who is either not working or is not earning any sort of income.

Do not ignore this warning if you plan to get married soon!

The biggest mistake is to marry an irreligious and non-submissive wife. As Muslims we are expected to provide for our wives, not expecting her to provide for us. I am sure your post is directed at non-muslims.

Tinea cruris. Treatment: carnesten cream applied to the area twice daily for 2 weeks.

Lazy youth.

Are you not living together as a couple now? So what’s the difference?

AFRlCA:
We don't trust both the Nigeria Military and Boko Haram.

Prophet Muhammad brought terrorism to the world in the name of religion

I am sorry to say that this is statement from a mad person. You are perpetrating deliberate falsehood and should be banned from nairaland. You will be reported.

These people have come again. This is how they plunged Europe into dark ages with their antagonism to science.

Do they not observe social distancing in the courtrooms in Nigeria?

More Anglican than the Queen. Nigeria is blessed with plenty of imbeciles and ignoramuses. That’s why we can’t move forward despite all our natural resources. The law will answer his challenge.

Federal government should ban air travel from this shithole country immediately.

Sorry to hear that. Buy vaginal lubricants in adult shops. Don’t use KY jelly because it is injurious to vaginal during sex. Insert it in vagina and spread on your dick. Do more of fore play, you don’t need clitoris to stimulate her nipples etc. Not all of them have difficult childbirth. It depends on how radical the mutilation was. Some of those who had a minimal mutilation with very little scarring can go ahead to deliver child, perhaps with little episiotomy. Good luck.

SLAP44:
And they are ruled at home by a Man with no known certificate

Because those with certificates are corrupt or encourage corruption. Deziani served under Jonathan a PHD holder. She is still holed up in Britain, running away from justice after starching billions away from the treasury.

Agent of doom. Go and pay the contract money you refused to execute in Port Harcourt. Corrupt people. Feeding bottle has been removed from his mouth and he is crying like a baby.

Trump will help the Christians produce the Antichrist they want in Jerusalem. The “end of the world” activities will start from Trump. Mark my words.

The governors must pay them stipends from their security votes. That’s easy and straightforward.

You killed village people. You are in biiiiiiiig trouble.