Romance › Re: Help!! She Said If He Doesn't Impress Her On This 1st Date Then Its Off. by drnoel: 2:24pm On Nov 22, 2016 |
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Politics › Re: Women Supporting Patience Jonathan Storm High Court In Lagos by drnoel: 2:16pm On Nov 22, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: 20 Ways Girls Trick Guys To Spend Money On Them by drnoel: 11:59am On Nov 22, 2016 |
Captainbells: Nigerian guys with these their sense of reasoning. Always thinking they are Nigerian girls Lords! Not a lot of girls want sh.it from you lots. Rise above that mentality that every girl out there is on the hunt to rip your pocket apart!!
Met a Nigerian guy sometime ago, dude didn't even ask me my name and he already listed his achievements for me and how rich he is!! Like hunny no one is checking out for you.. Guy wanted to get to jehrico. Thats only when some foolish guys do such. Hope u closed the gates of babylon cos such men are kids. |
Romance › Re: 20 Ways Girls Trick Guys To Spend Money On Them by drnoel: 11:54am On Nov 22, 2016 |
Kalatium: Girls are very smart they try many different tricks to make guys spend for them. Below are 20 tricks that women use—
#1 She starts listing her standards. That moment when she realizes she has you and you’ve completely fallen for her. That’s when the list comes out on how to keep her happy. Often an expensive list…and you know you’re screwed.
#2 Unpredictable bursts of affection. You can never tell when it’s coming or if it’s going to come again. You don’t know what made it happen, but you try figuring it out anyways thinking doing it more often will get her to like you.
#3 Gets you in a good mood, then makes her demand. You know when things finally seem to be going right. You have a good conversation, she smiles at you while talking…and then tells you about that purse she wants. Of course the guy thinks “Crap, things are going well. I don’t wana ruin it now.”
#4 Talking in a way where she longs for what she wants. Maybe she doesn’t use Trick#3. Instead she talks about what she wants in a longing voice that gets the guy to fantasize how happy he’d make her by getting it.
#5 Uses the “If someone can get me that I’ll love him forever” line. Oh this one is a killer. This affirms what the guy is already thinking, except she actually said it. #6 Attacks your sense of manhood. By telling the guy (in a manipulative way) what a “real man” does to keep women happy.
#7 Talks about other guys in front of you. Jealousy is extremely powerful. By talking favorably about other guys she creates a sense of competition that someone has to overcome.
#8 Ending every interaction with you not getting anywhere. If she’s the in-demand HOT type of woman, the guy will go home each time thinking how things could’ve been better. Like a post-game assessment in sports, and try to please her more in different ways the next time he meets.
#9 Starting with small requests and going on to bigger ones. Basically it’s commitment and consistency. Once you’ve done a small favor you’re likely to do the next one even if she wants a little more. We are habitual beings. Once you get someone in the habit of doing something they will continue doing it. If you gave into her demands it’ll be harder saying “no” the next time she asks.
#10 Starts eyeing other guys in front of you. Another jealousy trick, this time the competition is right in front of you. It’s that subtle communication from her that says “You better do as I say, or else.”
#11 “I don’t think I can see you anymore.” What happens when a girl says that? The guy starts showing up at her house with flowers, chocolate, takes her out for MORE dinners in hopes that she won’t leave.
#12 “What if I do this _____ for you?” She will give you a kiss in exchange for something or she’ll hold your hands, let you take her on a date etc… #13 Openly lowers your self-esteem so it feels like if you lose her attention you’ll never get any other woman’s attention EVER again.
#14 Gets her friends to pressure you. Dealing with social pressure can be tough, especially if most of your friends are actually HER friends. It gets to a point where they get disapproving of you, make you out as an outcast for not “making her happy”.
#15 Threatens with telling her friends about you. So she used trick #14 a few times, now all it takes is a mention or hint that she’ll be complaining to her friends and it does the job in getting what she wants.
#16 Talks about the things her Ex-boyfriend did for her. Showing you that you’ll never measure up and if you can’t top what her ex did then why should she give you a chance?
#17 Random acts of kindness making you feel there is something. After all that, she still does something nice once in a blue moon. Maybe gets you a scarf, brings you doughnuts. Just enough to justify to yourself that something special is happening between you two. #18 Pretends to be a damsel in distress.
The type who is in need of financial help…except when you talk to other guys you find out she’s always doing it to them. She uses her allure to get guys into “helping” her. Frankly if a grown woman can’t take care of herself it’s not your problem. You’re not her daddy.
#19 She remembers a long list of all the things she did for you in her mind. If there is ever an argument she brings up a list of all stuff she did for you – no matter how menial. And blows it out of proportion no matter how unfair it is. And lastly:
#20 Goes along with your plans and ideas…then starts changing it last minute to fit her needs. Let’s say she’s just a friend. Let’s say you and your buddies made plans to see a movie and you invite her and her girlfriends. Then last minute the girls change plans to a place closer to them, and you guys reluctantly go along with it driving to the other side of town…because you don’t want to lose their approval.
Source: http://www.dygest.net/20-ways-women-trick-you-into-spending-money/
Feel free to add yours Still young men don't learn. I can't believe a guy took time to compile such a list and people are patting u on the back. Its only guys new to the game that will be scared of what u listed. OP ur list is full of holes, girls can be much more manupulative but all really depends on the guy and the hand he gives her. Every girl will try her new guy so that she sees where she can place him, just like guys try their new catches. Its a human thing and theres nothing wrong with that. The problem starts where couples keep playing games with themselves after months or years of dating. Young men need to know that nothing can be won without effort. U mold ur woman how u want her just as she will do to u too. The problem there is when u start falling over urself to please her every whim then u create a monster that will swallow u. A lady a friend of mine once dated by a pal of mine said and I quote "Marriage is really not for the weak minded. After I got married I played all the games I used to play with my boyfriend ur pal on my husband and he fell over himself trying to please me. Meanwhile ur friend was hard and resisted. I thought that was how my marriage will be till after 3 years them my husband showed me his real colours. I had to respect myself cos of my kids". |
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Romance › Re: This Nigerian Couple Brought A Dog To Their Prewedding Shoot (photos) by drnoel: 11:14am On Nov 22, 2016 |
Davash222: Na all these can things girls dey like, 
Can't imagine a full grown man suggesting a pre wedding photo shoot.
Anyways, happy married life to them. No mind dem. Foolish people. |
Politics › Re: South West Governors Unite, Say, External Influence Wont Divide Us (PIC) by drnoel: 9:56am On Nov 22, 2016 |
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Culture › Re: The Importance Attached To The 2nd Child(orlu) In Igbo Culture. by drnoel: 9:12am On Nov 22, 2016 |
Abagworo: Maybe I did not do my studies well but I guess Ihiala and Okija are in Anambra State and they happen to have the culture. It is probably more prevalent in the Imo/Abia axis. Imo/ Abia axis u say. Did grow up there but worked there a long time and never heard of it. Did I also mention my dad is from Imo around Orlu district and I spent sometime in that region and never saw it practiced there too. I did hear mentioned that such was in effect in the past. |
Culture › Re: Brazilian Tourists Vow To Promote Yoruba Culture by drnoel: 9:07am On Nov 22, 2016 |
danot1030: the ipob youths will come here to tell us that the Jews tourists is planning to promote the yiibos culture now. Idiocy at its highest. Its not relevant what they say bros cos facts remain facts and igbos are no lost tribe of Israel. |
Family › Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by drnoel: 1:43pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
harbibi: Go for the older guy. Guy reading in between lines could save u lots of headache. The story is incomplete ans hence advice would be improper. There are many unanswered questions. Still any advice given u would probably go down the drain cos from ur post u have already chosen but want us to confirm it for u. |
Culture › Re: Brazilian Tourists Vow To Promote Yoruba Culture by drnoel: 1:32pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
strenghtt: YoRubA rocks!! Just love d tribe. Yep on that we both agree. Just like igbos, niger deltans, igalas, efiks e.t.c rock. Enof said |
Culture › Re: Brazilian Tourists Vow To Promote Yoruba Culture by drnoel: 12:47pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
Mockinbird: We've got a rich root and culture to unveil. We're not like the basterrd ugu hawkin isreli wannabe Igbos. Insults uncalled for. Isreali wanna be u call them but they have sound minds amongst them |
Culture › Re: Brazilian Tourists Vow To Promote Yoruba Culture by drnoel: 12:45pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
zero8zero: Do Biafrans Inyanmiri have any extension aside the landlocke region?. This news will make them drink OSU poison. Truth is mine* Ur idiocy has no remedy |
Culture › Re: Brazilian Tourists Vow To Promote Yoruba Culture by drnoel: 12:44pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
biggboy: Some tribe won't like this news ooo
Omo Yoruba ni mi oo Like which tribe? Smh |
Culture › Re: Brazilian Tourists Vow To Promote Yoruba Culture by drnoel: 12:42pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
Olu20090: Yorubaa culture rocks. Haters go and die! No hating bros only in ur mind |
Culture › Re: Brazilian Tourists Vow To Promote Yoruba Culture by drnoel: 12:27pm On Nov 21, 2016 |
Olu317: Looking at Yorubas of Hispanic complexion though far away but not forgetting their ancestral home and wanting to learn more about their Ethnicity. Indeed ,this is beautiful to behold...Kudos to Yorubas for finding their ancestry home back in Yoruba land. God bless my Yoruba Race Please someone shout out to the Brazilians, the lost tribe of yorubas. Not like some peeps here on NL claiming to be Israeli. Isreali should claim to be igbos not the other way around. |
Politics › Re: Huge Cash Payments To Justices Uncovered By Detectives (photo) by drnoel: 7:56am On Nov 21, 2016 |
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Politics › Re: Only Igbo Will Survive If Nigeria Breaks – Fayose by drnoel: 10:26pm On Nov 20, 2016 |
RockHard: Oshoko is being contradictory here. No other ethnicity stands to lose more than the SEasterners if Nigeria divides because their survival as a people is intricately linked to the rest of Nigeria than any other group. Not only do they depend on other regions for imports, the fact that they are mostly traders and migrants is actually a pointer to their vulnerability than strenght as they need a large enough market to thrive and be successful. Oshokomole must have been overly excited and high when he made that exaggerated statement. Giving yasef headache gor noffing |
Christianity Etc › Re: Will There Be Partial Rapture? Will All Christians Go Up At The Time Of Rapture? by drnoel: 10:19pm On Nov 20, 2016 |
jiggaz: My brother, Rapture is real oo. Which one is partial rapture? Abi na cmplete rapture? Smh |
Politics › Re: The Second Coming Of Goodluck Jonathan - Dele Momodu by drnoel: 8:53am On Nov 20, 2016 |
NaijaMutant: Dele Momodu is another sore loser of the Tinubu APC faction who has been sidelined by the daura cabal in aso rock.
They are unofficially wailing through different means and channels but we are not buying it cos if the daura cabal had not sidelined Tinubu and his loyalists which includes Dele, all this wailing epistles wouldn't have been written.
Watch as they rewrite history so quickly, praising a man they so maligned 18months ago.
Expect more praises of GEJ and more criticisms of Buhari from these political nonentities called loyalist, even though well educated but lack any will of their own, they sheepishly follow the orders of the godfather, they love whoever he loves and hate whoever he hates  These sets of humans are worse than Buhari's zombies  Call a man hungry and people forget. Say he is a liar and it sticks with him. Madam hate the game and not the player, take the message and leave the messenger. If I remember correctly Momodu had alwayd said in the past that he was a friend of Tinubu but expected nothing in return. Anyway time will tell what happens. |
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Romance › Re: BF That Can't Give You ₦50K To Make Your Hair Every 2 Weeks, Is That One BF? by drnoel: 5:56pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
MackBrooklyn:

Lol, Baba na so we am nowadays too OoO. If you no get money wey you fit spend, all those girls no go give you love OoO 
Funny enof thats not true. When I was younger I used to think that true but it is not. In my young days I too used to spend money I didn't have then on those daughters of Eve but got nothing in return. When I go older and had enof to spend, I didn't see any reason why I had been a fool in my younger days, spending for peeps that didn't value what l couldn't give them then. I mean one girl had the audacity to tell me when in my Uni days that if I didnt have I should go and borrow to spend on her. Now am much older I feel for young naive men who have to go thru what I went thru. The thing about most women young men don't know is that they mostly don't know what they want. They will follow almost anything that catches their fancy, it could be money, muscles or looks. Young men should learn how to assess in the first few minutes they meet a girl cos that will save them lots of headcache and heart break. Since I got older and know what I do, I have never gone after a woman, they come for me. Cheers. |
Romance › Re: BF That Can't Give You ₦50K To Make Your Hair Every 2 Weeks, Is That One BF? by drnoel: 2:42pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
MackBrooklyn: Bruh, if you get the money, nobody go tell you before you go give her OoO 
Bros that's the point. Money worked hard to get should be spent as one see fit and my hard earned money won't be spent in such blatant way by some tramp who doesn't deserve it. So to re-quote u, I get am but choose to spend it in other ways and it irritates then hell out of me when I see little girls demanding what they never worked for. |
Romance › Re: BF That Can't Give You ₦50K To Make Your Hair Every 2 Weeks, Is That One BF? by drnoel: 10:12am On Nov 15, 2016 |
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Politics › Re: Ben Bruce Questions Why Pilgrims Get Forex At Special Rates by drnoel: 9:31am On Nov 15, 2016 |
ceeethru: Ben murray Bruce your always talking about what people should do, I think it's high time you start telling us what you're doing as a senator of the Federal Republic. Yep that comment of urs I also subscribe to |
Politics › Re: Ben Bruce Questions Why Pilgrims Get Forex At Special Rates by drnoel: 9:30am On Nov 15, 2016 |
jegz25: Not now Bruce...don't join d likes of FFK u r better than that Still the words are true on all counts |
Politics › Re: Ben Bruce Questions Why Pilgrims Get Forex At Special Rates by drnoel: 9:29am On Nov 15, 2016 |
NwamaziNwaAro: BEN MURRAY BRUCE is a hypocrite... May be u are right about the hypocrite part but I would say that u must also be a hypocrite for being unable to see the message. The question was a plain one and didn't demand u calling the messenger names. The question stands still unanswered. |
Education › Re: No Graduate Of Medical Radiography Is Unemployed, Anywhere On Earth! by drnoel: 2:25pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
EbonyCy: I love d course,I wish its possible to study it under PGD and masters level than starting afresh It can be studied inder postgraduate level and masters but one must have a foreknowledge and a degree in that field before being accepted. |
Education › Re: No Graduate Of Medical Radiography Is Unemployed, Anywhere On Earth! by drnoel: 2:23pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
johnyumez: WOW im so happy i bumped into dis topic... im a fresher studying radiography at unn.. its realy nice to hear frm our elders in d field.. thnx OP for this..i made sure i read thru evrytn..and i was enlightend nd motivated....thnx 2 d debate from "themail"and "drNoel" i enjoyd it lol.. i'd b doing more research and wld kip folown ds thread nd wld love to hear 4rm u guys more.... cheers! Thanks to u too for reading. Themail is obviously an expert in his field and I give such people optimum respect. The discrimination we doctors have for other health oriented areas like radiography is not justified I must say and should be looked at by our elders. That is not to say that the respect doctors (in this case radiologist) deserve should be underestimated. |