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mightyhazell:
Gbam! Let me add dis,...

Wot nigerians need is igbo leadership! Nigeria is running around in circles because Nigerians are deliberately stiffling the igboman. Give the igboman nigeria and in 5years,nigeria will compete with singapore and malaysia,...give him like 15years like has been given 2 the yoruba nation and nigeria will compete favorably with countries like france and canada,..well den give dem like 50years dat has been given to the north and watch nigeria sit pretty with countries like usa and china!


But for the time being,..







Igwebuike

Pls name atleast 10 igbo honest politicians. If u can't find one u can add names from south south too.

MyGeneration:
I would like to give this stern warning to seccessionists and their sympathizers that Imo state is a full fledged state of the federal republic of Nigeria, we might be having some challanges, we might not be there yet, our state might still be under developed but we would always prefer to be Nigerians first before any other nation.

We are igbos to the core and we would continue to be igbos and would always associate ourselves with all who wish igbos well, but since IPOB,Massob and the rest dont want to us to all seat and talk before we under take this Biafran venture, since they hv decided to declare anybody who tells them the truth and decides to rid them of their ignorance as yoruba or hausa/fulani.
Since they dont want to stop this suicide mission we wud keep praying for you and trying to convince you to stop but if you continur and maje progress, please keep my dear imo state out of it.

I am writing this out of being tired of debating issues with ipob on social media and in real life, of recent i watched a video on radio Biafra where one Madukamadu(he is one of the people arrested along side Nnamdi kanu) was shouting that he is not a Nigerian. The only reason he cud give was that Nigeria does not mean anything in his language, and d crowd was supporting him.

Is this a viable reason to seek for seccession, to show u how ignorant and shallow minded most of the followers of radio Biafra are they were all supporting his notion.

I cant say further as am tired, anybody who wants self determination is free to do so and i wish him Goodluck in his or her pursuit but keep Imo state out of it thanks.

Speak for urself

posh8701:
After the company I had worked for 3 years plus announced they were leaving Nigeria due to the harsh economic situation, I was happy when I secured another job on 30th of November 2016, which was the last day of my previous job. I couldn't wait to share my testimony here, lol.

Upon resumption, I realised people worked like horses for the company(Monday to Saturday)with no overtime bonus for working till about 10, 11pm if u have to, the best u get is a hotel room for the night if you can no longer go home. I was the only one going out for break and closing by 5.I understood because I was new, they didn't want to complain and wanted me to settle down. Hmmmmm, see work Oooooo. Although I had heard of such companies It was beginning to dawn on me that I had just gotten into one.

I terminated my appointment and no amount of persuasion from the management could stop me (If the offer is so cool, they should give it else with my experience and pay the person, shikena!)Why beg me?

I know the situation in Nigeria is terrible and many people doing such jobs are holding on till they get another job, its not easy to bear, sincerely.Employers especially Lebanese are taking the advantage to enslave Nigerians. Unfortunately, our government is still asleep.

I resigned because my circumstances at the moment does not demand for me to work under such poor conditions of service. But then, not every Nigerian has same circumstances and can take such a bold step.It is really heart breaking to see people suffer like this.

Have u worked under such conditions before? please share.

Probably the best decision but then how do u survive after quitting?
Worked in a place before as a research assistant where we were expected to work Monday to Monday with no free days. The pay was horrible but I hung on cos I was desperate then and didn't have enof experience. They took 3 years of my life till one day I couldn't take it anymore I approached the boss for a raise, he refused so I told him I would quit. He just laughed at me and called my bluff. I quit 3 days later. He called me immediately he got my quit and asked me what my terms where to restart. I told him. He told me I didn't have the credentials to ask for those terms. That was when I started fishing out my documents. I joined the research team as a student, did my masters with them and my post doctorate which he had personally supervised. I submitted all those documents before and never heard anything. I had before then tried severely to speak with him but he kept avoiding me hence my decision to quit.

He looked at the documents I presented him and smiled then said that he had seen those documents and would offer me a lesser position to the one I felt I was entitled to, the position he accepted to offer me was much better than the one I initially had but still under my level. That was when I knew that he had no good intentions for me.
I told him what I wanted and he said if only I had a certain professional certificate he would have given me that position within a twinkle of an eye. I looked him in the eye and pulled out the certificate to that professional exam he had just spoken about.

I had taken that exam a year before and had done it behind his back. Normally one needed to inform the departmental director before sitting for any professional exam but he was so convinced that I needed him so he didn't bother to read some documents I had slipped him to sign a year ago.
U can imagine the shock on his face as he saw the certificate. Still he told me "let me think about it".

They offered me the job and position I asked for but I refused the salary scale and asked for something higher and it was approved the next day. The contract was brought to my house by his secretary. I apologized and rejected the job.

When he called me to find out why I rejected. I told him cos I felt my efforts will be better appreciated elsewhere. He freaked out.
Met him at a seminar some weeks back and we spoke like old friends

dainformant:
Jonathan always smiling whether good or bad

Those kind people are usually heartless

Jeanjohnny:
There is a popular opinion that women lose interest in sex as they grow older, but it is not true. Many women want to maintain active sex lives well into their fifties and sixties.

A Nigerian woman in her sixties writes comedian, Alibaba, over the frustrations of women who are sex-starved by their husbands who run after younger girls while they abandon their wives at home for years.

She said,

Let me talk my own and let every person hear am. Many women in my age grade nowadays are suffering from sexual neglect. Husbands have stopped playing their sexual roles in the bedrooms. Many women are dying in silence, I know a former governor’s wife. The only thing she got for 10months was peck on her cheek on her 60th.

After that birthday she was never touched by her husband. To make it worse, they even have their separate bedrooms.

Ali, we dey suffer. Let me tell you sometimes, the only time we get to dance with our husbands is during weddings, funerals, old boys, and Yoruba tennis club parties. That is if you are invited.

The last time my husband touched any part of me is five years ago, and it was because I begged him. And if it was not that we were in AMERICA. Who born me. Then it was because we thought Yaradua’s death will cause wahala. so we ran to US.

Aburo, at least I senior you. it’s not easy for us women over 50years o. Especially the ones like us who are still under a man’s roof. The ones who get a bit of it are the ones who are separated or who are divorced or widowed.

Where do I want to start from, to open my legs at 60 something for another man when I am still under my husband’s house.

That is why you see that containers of intimacy gadgets come into Nigeria every month, and in weeks they are sold out. I swear to God, plus pastor’s wives o generals, governor’s MDs of companies, chairman sef. all of us dey buy to help ourselves.

This is what you should be writing about not all these girls who marry people that are beating them and because of the money they will sit down there and say they are abused. Them use juju gum their yansh there. Koshi danu.

See this matter of sex starvation I am talking about is even getting worst. Young ladies who are below 30 are also complaining. Young men will now keep them at home as baby making machine and be following small girls up and down.

Me I don’t have pity on these girls between 20 and 40 who get married and their marriage does not last. How will it last. Before some of them got married, Ali my brother, if you see what they used people’s husbands eyes to see.

We are just bearing the husband’s name for nothing. They are the ones that are enjoying him. They stay in 1004, lekki, whats that place behind shoprite and even dolphin, parkview ikoyi. But to rent common shop for us to do business, our husband will ask if someone is not been catered for.

Many men after 40 years cannot make a wife orgasm again. They are now lazy. once they enter its premature ejaculation. They will now be claiming tiredness. Awon oloriburuku. I can beat my chest to say the men that can make a woman orgasm 2 times are not up to 100 thousand in Nigeria.

And even that sef they are all below the age of 30. all the rest when they come, that’s all. The woman will go and find her own. You may think this is funny but this is the real problem nobody is talking about.

This is why you see young men are having sugar mummies up and down. the men of 30 and above have sexual problem. They like to follow young girls who deceive them and tell them they are lions in bed. Lies! I have nieces who tell me how they pretend and the men too would fall for it and give them everything they want.

Some will now marry them after they have one child for him. How is a 65 to 75 year old man going to satisfy a 22years old girl. Ali, be honest. How?

All that Viagra is a lie. If it stands up, which blood will remain for his heart to pump. That’s why they are dying anyhow.

Imagine my friend just went from park to see the husband in the office behind mega plaza and this girl that walk pass her at the reception had the same lip stick that stained her husband’s sokoto. And he went to mosque that day oooo.

shebi she came to collect the weekend money. My friend too collected 300k that day. So now every Friday she goes to his office. Then after, these same girls get married they will say they don’t want to catch their husbands with another girl. You can’t escape it. You will share him like you shared other people’s own.

Ali let me level with you if after 5years my husband doesn’t touch me I will find a young man that will do his job. Because I swear that he gets it from those little girls running around Lagos half dressed. So help me post this. Let them be ready for their own turn. Your husbands will be shared. They shall feel our pains too. If you like post it o.

Lol, hilarious

Chikelue2000:
Good one but what about senators defecting to other parties?. I think he or she should automatically lose his/her seat

That's one area they will delay to pass.

Vick4rill:
drnoel this your post rakes of hypocrisy and myopic reasoning. so because white me dont do it we also must not do it.? you are giving me hint on who is really delusional between yourself and the religious people you bash on religion section.. secondly how do you encourage people to keep their virginity if you dont publicly talks about it and show them the pride in it? guy, virginity is a pride and should constantly be talked about. a girl or a guy who is able to keep their virginity in this immoral time, deserve an accolade. we need to get ride of people like you in our society in other to restore some sanity. gone are the days when virgin girls are been celebrated. now adays they hide in shame and even find it hard to say what they are just because of people like you, who have relegate their moral instincts to trash.virginity is the pride of any woman. a lady who maintains her virginity till marriage is a gold and should be treated as such.

Yea yea, it is obvious u intend to sink in ur myopia and irrational thinking. For all the celebration Nigerians have given to virginity has it changed how young girls see it? No. Has it changed how society see it? No. Only change to that equation arr women who parade themselves to deceive and lure men. Smh to that.
So guy pls stay in ur ignorance and myopia. I wish u shallom.

Miles300:
U can see the difference , even tho they are rich yet he is fixing everyone of them in there field of expertise to head ministries , not here where u av a lawyer as a power minister , a surgeon as minister of labour , a lawyer as minister of sport ! How will Nigeria move forward

Why don't u sit back and watch first before exposing ignorance?

asorocker:
and you think now if they start forcing you to accept Hausa as your lingua franca igbos would repeat the regrateable mistakes they made in the 60s , I thinks igbos have learn their lessons , only fools make the same mistake twice

True but u should know thats its only a dead igbo man that will willingly learn and accept hausa as second language. The reason is simply cause they already have a second lanuage which is igbo. It will feel like loosing their identity and igbos are a very proud lot. They are also very fanatical about their identity. Its will be a mistake if they try cos it will be another reason they ignos will hold on to to reunite warring factions

TippyTop:
This is why I want Igbos to remain part of Nigeria, if Igbos leave, Hausa would become our lingua franca.

Lol, u can hold back a flying horse

Vick4rill:
guy stop contradicting your self. if you agreed that virginity is a good act and should be encourage how then have it become disgusting to publicize it. if something is good what is wrong in telling the world about it.. and did the governor in anyway complains that his wife does not have good character?

Guy sit down before u hurt urself. Think and listen before u talk. U obviously forget that there are things that should be said in public and things not to be said. Who cares? Who cares if his wife was a virgin or not.

The 8 years Obama governed the US did u ever hear him say at any point that his wife was a virgin? That information is not necessary and we don't want to hear it. Which foreign leader have u heard say such a thing.

Or is it cos we are Nigerians? No don't support something silly and stupid. The mentality should be buried once and for all. Virginity is overrated when people like that come out in public to start giving us rights in their marriage that we don't want to hear.

Viginity is overrated when ladies lie about it cos they feel men prefer them that way. Virginity is overrated when it is used as a means to an end,..simple. Virginity is something private for an individual to nuture and hold to themselves. When it is made public it becomes overrated.

Oyiboman69:
So na recognition these our Igbo brothers want?see them

Let me pitch my tent here. Some peeps are going to have stomach ache cos of this. But still let me use this opportunity to scream at all ipob members to organize themselves, set their house in order and then form a political party. They should go about getting what they want the peacful way or like in the animal farm the radical way.

seunmsg:
Hate filled iPod spewing trash as usual. If hatred and jealousy doesn't kill some of you, nothing else will.

Pls what did he said that was wrong or that is not already common.knowledge? Smh

Johnnyessence:
Good one from the igbos faithfuls. At least if they av vote for chris ngige he will av been senate president by now. The earlier the better.

Why should we recircle these guys? While ngige was in the Senate did he make any contributions to the east or his state? No.
He was just a bench warmer so why recricle him out of sentiments? Na wah for some people. Smh

Vick4rill:
if this is what civilization has turn you to, then i must proclain that is gradually taking ur senses away. even if you an atheist what happends to your moral concience? why are u sounding like it h a crime and a very disgusting thing to be a virgin. will it be a crime if you marry a woman that has both the virginity and good conduct?

Will it be a crime if u don't @ highlighted. Its disgusting, annoying and irritating to see or hear men talk so about virginity. It has nothing to do with being an atheist or being civilized. Don't get me wrong, I don't propagate promiscuity and I am still very traditional in my thinking. But many men havr being mislead by this fact thinking if a woman is a vrigin then her character is good, which is just plain rubbish.

HungerBAD:
Very nice.

Oshiomhole boasted one time he met his wife a Virgin.

This Governor too met his wife a Virgin.

My wife Ishilove is a Virgin too.

And what about you guys writing below?una wife/girlfriend no be Virgin?

Lol.

Virginity or is it Virginia is overrated. This rubbish must really be a Nigerian thing. Someonr ask this governor who cares? Abi in nefa scatter d thing by nau? Abeg make we hear word. Neext!!

HungerBAD:
Do I need to say more?

When a sworn political enemy,can't bear to watch Tinubu getting ridiculed sums everything up.

Omokri is suppose to be rejoicing,but no man with conscious will be happy with the treatment of Tinubu.

In the wise words of my father(RIP) and he said,everybody can plan how a fight can start,but how it ends is very unpredictable.

The end shall tell (TEST)

Well said Sir. Very well said but I would like to add this words from my late Igbo father and he said "To all those who dream and plan bad for people who may have been of help to them. They should remember that to keep a man down in a fight u can't hope to wear ur best cloths in the event cos u must have to hold him down in that fight". Events don't necessarily treat men fair but history always determines how the man is seen and called. Hitler was called a monster and GEJ the supposed clueless one was called a Hero. Time will tell.

Tallesty1:
Made in China, packaged in akwa ibom

? How difficult can it be do make toothpick? There are already local toothpick manufacturing machines so I wonder why u comment.

Cadamlk:
I wonder why PMB did not include this guy in his cabinet.

Cos it would have been vendetta and Nigeria is still struggling to recover from Bubu's mission to destroy the country

optional1:
Not the first not the second and not the third..

I keep slapping guys in my dreams in public cos they keep stepping on my toes.
The one of last night the guy touched my bum bum in public, I thought it was a mistake I didn't say anything, he then touch me again I turned and gave him a hot dirty slap in the public. He wanted to slap me back but I over powered him and beat him up warned him never to try what he did to me to any lady again.. I woke up.

Please those anyone knows the interpretation of this dream?

Chai, now I believe I have heard it all on nairaland.

WILLYBABS:
Change is here finally

Nigerians, please adjust, you wanted change and you've seen change.

I no even sabi anybody wey I wan send money to or receive money from, except God pick up my call

Hehehhe, next time Nigerians hear the word change. They will know it is one chance.

BeeBeeOoh:
This month shall bring us joy, smiles, happiness, peace of mind, laughter, more digits to our account, good health, long life & prosperity. Happy new month my e-Family here on NL, you guys rock jare. Loving you to the bones..

cc

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Jarizod

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Drnoel

Purityval

Tunery004

Dexpendable

Bitterleafsoup

Lalasticlala

Mynd44 (though you ban me for no just cause at times, but I love you )

Franchise21

And you lots that I can't remember, I LOVE YOU ALL

Bros I see u. Thanx. Wishing u a wonderful season's greetings

asunnu:
Dear Nairalanders, please advise a sister.
My marriage to my husband is just 13months and it's like I don't know him despite we courting for 6years before settling down.

My husband is so desperate (so to say) for money, he is into a lot of things I.e Lotto, MMM, get help, e.t.c that I'm not cool with. He has a well paid job, though I'm a stay home wife. Already told him he should let me know if the burden is too much on him so that I can get a job since he was the one that actually told me to stop work at the initial stage.

Please what's your take on it?

Madam first thing first. U omitted the rules of having peace in ur marriage. Did u not go for marriage councelling? Ones of the issues that cause problems is money.
101 of marriage says among other rules. Its not really wise to have ur eye in where ur hubby invests his money cos it spells out trouble later. Now as u have already put ur eyes into it and seen what u didn't want to see. Do u understand why u should have not have looked at all in the first place.
People will tell u to talk to him and sometimes it works but I have seen times it didn't. Then will u not just have a hubby who thinks u don't understand him but also a stranger in ur bed. Now to prevent this I have always advocated for women to never give in on their careers when their husbands ask them to stop work. The reason is that it makes u dependent on him and this gives room for u to always put ur nose in his business weather he wants it there or not. Am sure if u had ur own money u won't bother much where he puts his money so do the right thing. Get urself a job or set up a business and remove ur eyes partially from his stuff. This will save u a lot of headache and make u independent just in case for a rainy day.

Toks2008:
Many hot chics tend to believe they are just too desired by many men hence the difficulty in taking the risk to be faithful to one guy but then what is her gain if she starts jumping from one man to another or keeping string of guys and in the process making a total mess of her beauty.
What is the value of your beauty if Tunde, Paul,Richard....can describe your interior dimensions?

It is indeed laughable when a lady feels so arrogant because she has so many guys wanting to be with her because the truth is that a hundred guys may woo you in one week and none of them will be really interested in keeping you but just to have their way with you and move on.

The honest fact is that if a lady feels she is too hot to be faithful to one guy then she must be ready to be shared by many men...in other words,she practically becomes a slut.

No other alternative.

Too much talk. Just let her go. History has so far shown that when they finally realise their mistake they will be at the mercy of the men they treated badly

dumodust:
Amokachi gene strong o... see how the black gene overpowered the wife's light skin

Turkish people na fake white people

oldninja:
That's your way of registering your grievances, Nigerian?

Sorry but u got it wrong again. I have no grievance to register only disappointment that the youths like u being used don't sit up and tell em "NO".