₦airaland Forum

0YorubaParapo0:
You want the same Yorubas you hate and abuse all over Nigeria to patronize your business? Is that how business work?
You want them to patronize your product, you make them trust you. Your downfall is your pride and hatred for "ofemanus" and "gworo chewer".
I fault any Yoruba that patronizes innoson until things change. It's even better for the SW to have their own regional car manufacturer. Competition is better, no?

Ur comments are so unfair and irrelevant. I mean do yorubas have this much hatred for igbos or is this just the nairaland inferiority complex taking its toll?

HardMirror:
You know what I am happy about? I have seen the op's pictures and have a fair idea of who she is and her life. I pray she falls into my trap someday. I know her type. All they need is a guy with a good business, good house and good rides. They are easy to get just be sweet and spend a little.

Thumbs up bro. Thats why I didnt comment and wont. I just dey enjoy reading as they insult themselves. Funny enof those kind of ladies you mentioned are those ones I used to enjoy breaking their backs cos they are too fake.

Jadekitana:
Don't let their suit and flashy cars deceive you, bankers are broke! Damn broke! I even heard a recent trend that bankers these days earn less than 70k and yet when you see them in clubs you would think they are Tony Elumelu's sons! Pretence everywhere.

Imagine this particular Zenith big boy has been disturbing my line for a hang out.I thought of honouring the invitation since its just a hang out.

This bloody cretin is so proud that even his shirts exude pride,he displays his expensive shoes on bbm,hangs out in exotic bars, always balling with the big guys not knowing he wasn't even a full staff of the bank.

He came to pick me few minutes to 6pm,took me to this strange lounge with flowers all over and ordered Asun.The waitress surprisingly brought a very small plate of Asun for both of us. Before I even picked my toothpick,this guy has finished the whole plate and the onions as well.I was just observing! I then called the waitress and asked how much was the asun,she said 500naira! I told her to bring 2plates. This shameful thing finished his plate and entered mine,i didn't talk.

That wasn't even the height! After this useless display on our way out he called the waitress and demanded for his change for drinks he bought, I was thinking the change was big that he had to keep us waiting! Hell no! 100naira!! He couldn't dash the waitress 100naira bloody stingy fellow.Yet when he starts displaying those fake dps one would think he's Jim Ovias Son! Fake life everywhere. Ladies don't get carried away, all na packaging,they have nothing! Just living a borrowed life style to fit in.



As usual his number has been deleted till eternity.

This one wants me to tell her something but I resist the urge in Jesus name.

greatiyk4u:
Take it easy bro, being full blooded Igbos doesn't stop us from having our individual differences..is hating BUHARI now a criteria for being more Igbo than others?....instigating every Ndi-Igbo to hate Buhari because of stereotype is what I still consider a crude ideology......................

I am the type that calls a spade a spade, human beign without Law and order are animals and that is why the Bible put it thus; "the heart of man is desperately wicked"........no tribe in Nigeria is free from crime of different kinds.....though I condemn in strong terms the wicked activities of the herdsmen in Nigeria but am sure Buhari has no hands in it........

Where were you when the Spate of kidnapping was unimaginable in the south-East? Did u associate that with GEJ? What of Omatse killings that consumed many of our security officers in Nasarrawa state during GEJ regime?

Gov. Ugwuanyi has wadded into the case as the chief security officer of the state and many of us are following closely to understand the root cause of the problem...

Just understand it wch way it suits you because. Everything in life is all about perspective, dog is a pet to some people while it is a delicacy to others........life itself is a game that unfolds itself at its own pace.

Bros well said. Don't mind those fools that mix sound reasoning with ethnicity and religion.

Pidggin:
Are you physically attractive?

Now that is not just uncalled for but unfair. The woman in question don born for am so the case of physical attraction should not come.
@Op, that problem cuts across many marriages. The solution is like someone else said communications. Talk to ur partner before you do what you would regret.

Ecoterrorist:
I will forgive you for the bolded cos you are a newbie here who dont know the hard knock pdp supporters

@newbie, lol I laugh at ur ignorance (no insult meant). Check my profile and comments and convince yasef otherwise. See newbie calling a hardliner newbie. @children of nowadayz.

Ecoterrorist:
I thought the budget with the amendments were fwded to him rather he is going for Nuclear summit in Obodo Amelika.


How did we get to have this dullard as a president

At the highlighted. U are asking question. When u were voting change one chance u didnt remember to ask.

ozoigbondu:
Why are we pretending that kachiukwu is the petroleum minster not bubu

Let's continue deceiving ourselves by going after the junior minster instead of the main one talking

Bros did u not know bubu is a demi-god. He is an entity unto himself, beyond the powers of the senate. Let them summon him, he will not come.

coolscott:
Because I did not vote for him, I do not regret.
I only regret that others were not wiser.
And as I had hopes that he would be an anti-corruption man, I have been disappointed that his actions in that regard have fallen far below expectation.

My thoughts exactly

Pidggin:
A simple operation will remove those breasts which may have been caused by the presence of female hormones, there is absolutely nothing evil about this.

Why are Africans this backward?

My sister, I cry for African when I see things like this and people believe it.

sofadj:
I own a hospital in Southwest- (not Osun state Nigeria ...lol). I currently have about 17 patients on my ward each of whom I have admitted at several occasions through emergency. None of these patients has paid upto 30% of his/her bill. Some of them have stayed upto 7 weeks on the ward. I admitted and attended to them based on the fact that their conditions were life-threatening as at the time they came. I made their bill known to them - and they signed before they were treated. But there is a common trend, as soon as they felt relief and became stable they pleaded for their bills to be reduced - this I vehemently refused.

About 4 weeks ago a woman was rushed in with Eclampsia having just convulsed while pregnant and she was unconscious. I promptly took her straight to the theatre without collecting a dime though i had informed the relatives of the charges - #120,000 for her operation and medications. They signed and I carried out the surgery succesfully. Mother and baby survived. Within the following 6-days they paid a total sum of #12,000 and they began pleading to go home for the child's christening ceremony. I looked at them with disdain. Till now, they have only managed to pay a total sum of #14,000.

Another man who was managed for strangulated hernia has only paid 20,000 out of 75,000 bill. And the list goes on. Their failure to pay has made it difficult for the hospital to replace consumables and medications needed to manage other people's condition.
In the early hours of today 1:30am, a woman was rushed into the hospital following delivery at the referrral center. Blood had refused to stop gushing out. I did a quick assesment and realised she would need more materials than the hospital pharmacy currently had in store. I could have my staff get from a nearby pharmacy too. However, the husband said he had no money on him and so did the numerous relatives that accompanied. It was indeed a familiar pattern. I decided to let them go. I referred her to a government hospital. Ofcourse they pleaded for me to help but there was nothing I could do. Few minutes after they left - just few metres from my hospital gate, she collapsed. She had lost a lot of blood. I rushed there and rigorously tried resuscitating her right there outside the hospital 2am early morning, but all efforts proved abortive. A young woman of 28years had just died after having her first baby. Screams, wails, cries ensued. I felt bad - this is not why i became a doctor. But her blood is not on my hands.

Her blood is on the hands and heads of all the patients on the ward who can afford to pay but refused to - on the grounds that - "What will they do?. Her blood is on the hands and heads of the government officials past and present who have made it difficult and impossible for workers to get paid for their work. But the government officials are not the target of this my narrat. It is aimed at those who take hospital healthcare and medical doctors for granted. Those (including myself) who emphasise that doctors should not put money first before treating emergency conditions. In emergency cases, relatives would go to any length through any struggle to get money. As soon as the situation becomes calm, they relax and then they refuse to pay.

Last year a distant relative of mine was delivered of her baby via Caesearian section (in a hospital in Lagos- not mine). They were billed #180,000 which they accepted before the operation. After the surgery, her husband called me and asked how much I charge and i told him. He then began pleading with the management of the said hospital to review his bill. They declined. The husband being who he is, paid #120,000 and absconded with his wife and his newly born son. How he did this, I do not know, but i know that at the christening ceremony a week later, he had two cows slaughtered to celebrate the birth of his first son.

Many times we complain of doctors who ask for charges before treating patients but no one has ever bothered to ask the doctors why they do? Doctors are humans too, we need to pay bills. This is our trade, our profession, our means of livelihood. We have needs too. We can not go to the market place with the ID showing that we're doctors and hope to get food items on credit. We need to pay our children's school fees, we need clothes , shelter etc just as you. Everywhere in the world healthcare is expensive, both services and materials are exepensive. Well we understand that you may not have money. The government should find a way. The government should find a way/policy that ensures that we get our money back after we have rendered our service. In the UK there is the National Health Scheme, in the United states they have health insurance schemes too in addition to Medicare, Medicaid. In Nigeria we have the barely effective, poorly regulated and massively corrupt National Health Insurance Scheme.

Well i have decided to change the modus operandi of my institution. The previous one has not benefitted anybody. Henceforth if any one comes to my emergency room without a dime. I will not attend to. If such a person dies, the blood is not on my hands, its on the hands of those who have received treatment in the past and failed to pay afterwards.

Bro I feel ur pain. Its the same story everywhere. The reason I myself withdrew from hands on medicine to diagnosis. The deaths where depressing and the nigerian health ministry is irresponsible.

MosakuAW:
There are some things you do on your wedding day and people will shout Whaoooo!!!.

Not this kind of entrance. This is not unique, this is just stupidity at its peak.

Anyway, it's their wedding i wish them best of luck and i hope tractor will not scatter their marriage in the future.

Taking panadol on another mans problem. This ya headache no het part two.

Bloggz74:
Its really common and sad.
Same way one of these girls came withe the mum to my office and she was asked simply to write a letter applying for ATM.
Na so this sweet looking diaspora student in UK dey mumu.she was smiling around not knowing where to start pen and paper staring at her untill the mum saw what was on and rescued her.
The mum wrote the entire letter and submitted.
All these indomie-brain-made-in-heaven-angels?
Fear them!

Na wah for this ur comment ooh.u think say to study abroad na beans? Though many of them no go survive for naija education system but them go be first to cast naija schools. What that little bread and butter gal was suffering from is common. It is called "they are watching me syndrome" a.k.a inferiority complex. I met many of them, have associated with many of them and schooled with many of them years back. If u meet that chick one on one for UK on her turf she go rubbish u, cast u down, treat you like dirt. No mind all those fake ajebuta.

bamirotola:
May God deliver us from Nigerian ladies , big Girls small sense..
She walked into the banking hall, her pointed shoe announcing her arrival minutes before you saw her.
She wore that kind of dress that convinces you that heaven is missing an angel.
The aroma of her perfume would easily finish a bowl of eba for its sweetness.
And the phone which she gingerly held to her ear, without minding the security guy frantically waving at her that calls are not allowed in banking halls, will cost a small fortune.
She stepped forward, picked a deposit slip and searched frantically for a pen.
About five guys offered her their pens but, shame to bad people, she took mine maybe because I was closest to her.
After a while, or a long while because time stood still, she stood up and inched closer to me.
She whispered: "Please can you spell 'thirty' for me?"
I looked down at her deposit slip in surprise.
She'd written:
'tarty tausan'!

Olodumare oooo!!!!!!

I hissed and snatched my biro from her hand.
Fine face, no brains, nothing turns me on than a beauty with Brain

#OlodoOshi

OP n wah for u. I didnt want to write a comment but aam forced to do so. That she had momentarily blacked out does not mean she is an oludo. Every human being suffers black out, I myself writing this am suffering from writers block (its a black out common among writers).
I can tell u categorically that I had once in a time of my life forgotten how to spell "of". Anyone I asked would look at me as if I were mad. Till I asked the lady who became my wife and she smiled, shook her head in pity and told me. OP, who knows but u have just lost that one thing that mau have made you happy. Dont be to quick to judge.

amokeme:
You got to be kidding me!
Nigeria is politically messed up!

My broda, I see the think and kept asking myself. WTF is wrong with Nigerians and their country?

hardywaltz:
Ooh please shut up

Just watch and see how FCC will deny his sorry asş.

Buhari should order the sack of all 909 staff that were secretly recruited and begin a fresh recruitment process which should be handled by an independent consultant.

Really, even d sack of his own nephew. U really must be joking.

menabae:
Haba that no 5 is very annoying,it brings out the real gold digging in him by asking such question,someone like me don't waste time in discarding asap

Its everywhere. Madam the issue there is not all about lagos boys as ur thread states but for people in general to be wise.

Toeyoursea:
He was embarrassed

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I thought the man embarrassed himself in my opinion

Watch the video again

Strahovski1:
Before I read your story you registered Jan 23 and did not say anytin till March 8? U wanted to post it then? But waited to see if she will change but nw it's worse? Right?

I understand. Let me read your story.

Modified- I've read your story.

Now my comment:

All I can say is, she is dangerous and she needs psychological help. From your description, she loves you. If she doesn't she would say No to your proposal and even if she said yes due to the heat of the moment she will later tell you I'm not marrying you. You know why? You can't do sh!t about it. She loves you man.

Sit her down and talk to her. Don't try to play boss with her. She is violent and ready to kill and be killed. Like you said she is stronger than you. She works out. She needs a gentle counsel.

Play this game called trust fall. Tell her to stand behind you on cement floor or don't tell her so she doesn't think it's a game just ensure she is standing at your back. And just fall towards the ground at her direction and see if she catches you. If she doesn't, take her to a doctor, if she does, man she loves you she is only upset about something and you kinda remind her of it so let her tell you what it is and share it with any therapist.

Also stop spending money on her. She clearly doesn't need your money. Only give when she asks. Take her shopping once in a while. And give her space. Don't ask for sex. Let her tell you what she wants and ask her this question 'Why do you hate me?' It works alot. She will break and tell you why If she does hate you because the woman you describe got balls. She can say anything.

Bye.

I see it in another way. Love is trust and I am yet to see someone that loves one you don't trust. Lets forget infatuation.
I think she doesn't have feelings for you. If she does she would have calmed down ages ago. I think she agreed to ur proposal cos she wanted or needed the stability that comes with her having man which doesn't necessarily mean she has to love you.
The only way to tackle this is to look at it in three scenario.
1) Keep quiet and let her have her way. Then watch as she would blossom into a beast, a monster and ur family members will mean nothing to her.
2) Walk away let her go afterall if you love something you let it go but you may loose her forever.
3) You give her fire for fire. Met her madness for.madness. Show her as crazy as she feel say she be na your own way pass. Sometimes they cool down and become sane and funny enough start getting to love you back. I once knew a lady that dropped a guy that was dotting on her for a guy that was giving her hell. Women come in different mixes. You just have to know the one yours is.

Guy its ur call, ur problem, ur solution, ur cross. Whatever decision you make na you go live with am. But then all through my years and what I have seen. I have learnt it pays better to love who loves you rather than spend years trying to keep a one-sided relationship going.

AZeD1:
Are buses for animals?

No for dogs and cats. Thats ur elected officials. The PM of Britain has been known to use the commercial metro to go to work. Our leaders are vampires. So cos you are elected to that position you can walk anymore. Na cars u dey find.

Teophilus96:
Name of school is withheld,for security purpose.

I was in a hurry to attend a physics lab practical today.On my way I received a call,so I had to wait to answer the call for like two minutes.After I finished answering the call,a guy walked up to me; you know the usual is to shake hands,but I noticed something;I noticed he had a style of hand shake I don't know abt,and there was look of surprise in his face.The first thing he asked was ' are you not a vickings?'. O boy fear catch me .I was like 'I don't understand you ' before he could answer, another guy came to me to ask the same question. Another thing I noticed was that their eyes were wandering as if they are up to something bad.Another thing is that, I noticed was it was not just the two of them but many of them all at different positions; All eyes was on me.O boy fear catch me die.
As a smart boy,I started wondering in my mind what might have attracted this 'O it was my dress code;Red and black ,eh! O boy I don die'
The second guy asked me the question I was expecting'why are you putting on this code' As fear catch me reach I was like ' sorry let me pull it off' .The next thing I heard was 'I hope you are with a condom if not I will f**** your yansh like that' I nearly fainted .
And thanks be to God one of them from a corner told them 'Leave him he is a freshman'

I have never in my life had this kind of experience before. But it thought me something I never knew- Don't you ever put on a red and black combination in the school.

Vanity upon vanity and all is vanity

Questions Nigerians should ask is not what they are asking.
A governor's aids is arrested for money withdrawals. If you have worked for someone before you would know the boss is always aware of such transactions. Who says Rochas was and is not aware? Why arrest the messenger and leave the Oga sending them?

Xposer:
The heavy downpour this morning brought down a high tension wire by Guinness Nigeria Plc Headquarters at Ikeja area of Lagos. The incident caused a heavy traffic gridlock in the area as authorities sealed of the road to prevent further harm to motorists and road users -before the arrival of Power Holding Company of Nigeria, (PHCN) officials.

http://www.nationalhelm.com/2016/03/authorities-seal-of-road-in-ikeja-as.html

OP no vex but the power lines I see in ur pix are low tension lines. The high tension lines u spoke about are those that are sky scrappers tall, one don't usually see those in residential areas.

lol, doctors bashing has resumed again. Let me sit down and watch as this one unfolds.

rheether:
Igbo kwenu!! Let's move the country forward.

If u believe that shit then u believe horses can fly

onuwaje:
Well since he visited all d states during his campaign maybe he hasnt seen d need to re visit dem again
#justsaying

Oh really and u feel that is justified?

Progressive01:
Albert Einstein was Igbo I heard. You guys are so great you make god envious.

Looks like u smoked something, where did u read in history that Einstein was igbo? Pls stop such comments. Igbos are enemies onto themselves.

divinehand2003:
Trump the trumpeter blowing his trumpet aggressively as ever. Kudos though on your latest victory. Wishing you all the best in your campaigns.

Its bad for the american political system. If trump wins he will place the USA in a worse situation as nigeria currently is.