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compatibility then love!! Believe me!!

Notice how a man calls a girl ugly then after a long while of knowing each other - well he becomes used to her and begins to find her attractive. Compatibility is more important IMHO!!

I agree with sistawoman - That is what all male should aspire to. I do not see how that means you will be the main person multitasking in the house. I see we are so used to the way we see the so called 'dominant male' doing stuff. There is nothing wrong in caring for your wife, There is nothing wrong with taking an interest in the kitchen (men in the past needed to know how to cook - how the fvck would they survive on the road? you think it was by buying from peeps on the road - when you catch deer, na raw you go chop am? Arent the best cooks in the world male? Not to mention being well versed in the kitchen allows for a fair bit of lvoers' play in there!!) - Is it taking an interest in the house cleaning? No be your house as well? Shuo? Now my problem is if she asks me to wash her undies- I have never done that ish for anybody and I dont intend to do that now. We have a washing machine - stick it in there!!

Now with financial stuff - the way I see it - there has to be joint account - fvck that hiding money from each other. We will have a degree of autonomy to making decisions - but fvck the woman who decides to call me if she needs to spend money on some minor object. Only call for discussion if it is some expensive stuff or some irrelevant thing that either of us want to use to oppress.

Sex - Pls I am beginning to realise I have a high libido and from what I see - my current girl matches me in it - although we are now in our born again virgin mode - we aint doing it till we tie the knot - tough and requires trust but hey - that is life (as Keshi would put it).

Did I miss anything that I feel it is relevant for all ball-less males and cotton brain females? Most of the things I read here sound like they are coming from insecure brats!! you dont need to prove you are the man - you are already the man - if they like let them cut off your dick and balls - let them amputate all your limbs - cut off your head - You are still the man - Aint nothing gonna ever change that - Quit with the frigging insecurity- So what if the dumb female says 'you are not a man - i am more man than you - eff da ho - dont marry that girl - she is confused , you dont need no confused woman by your side at home with a kitchen full of sharp knives!!

Help me ask them - the thing wey vex me na the naive Nigerian girls wey dey fall for this. One girl - guy meet am ask am to marry am - they no date - it be like say they don gree. When she ask me for advice - i simply yarn am say 'make she dey careful of men wey wan enter her pant!' see vexation!!