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Rubbish...

Out of the 80 million people intended to benefit from this, only 2-10 million will get theirs, while the rest goes into the pocket of politicians...

DyshApp:
After days or weeks of great conversation, you decide to take things to the next level by saying yes to a date.

You get there, and the conversation and drinks are flowing. No red flags so far. You are both vibing and already planning the second date. Life is great.

Then your server swings by with the bill, and awkward silence falls upon your previously chatty table. The mood changes as you stare at the cute guy, waiting for him to make a move to pick up the check, only for you to catch him also staring at you. You both sit for what feels like forever, waiting for someone to finally pick up the bill.

Back in the day, social norms dictated that "the man" pick up the tab. But times have changed a lot, with more women getting paid just as much as men and continuously fighting for equality. As a result, the question of who foots the bill on a first date has become a constant, thorny issue.

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So what do you think who should pay on the first date,the Man or Woman?

I think the girl's grandmother should make the payment.

Ikaeniyan0:
Whats the reason the lawmaker from Abia do not want keyamo to be confirm as a minister?

Haaa, na wa ooO.

You just read the reason why he was against him to become a minister, and you are still asking why.

Omo, even with expo in exam hall, you will still fail, because you will end up copying the wrong answer.

Samantha124:
Take that eraser and erase this mentality your brothers have of using money to buy women's love.

Caution them against it... Because if you guys keep doing it, then no woman would take you seriously if you're broke or earn less.

What is left now, is to shoot you, because you are too stubborn 🤣🤣🤣

Samantha124:
Most SA women are hard workers and they don't mind being with an SA man who earns below their salary.

But they can't do that with Nigerian men... You guys have already given them the impression that a Nigerian man is supposed to spend on his woman no matter what.

Maybe in Nigeria not every man throws money at women... But when they come to SA, they'd start doing it because they know that no SA woman would bother looking into their direction if they don't promise to shower them with money.

Well, since you are adamant with your ideology, i will hands off from trying to make you understand it otherwise.

I need to buy a big eraser, to erase that thought from your brain

Samantha124:
Have you ever seen an SA lady with a broke Nigerian man?

South Africa, or no South Africa, women generally hardly dates a broke guy, anywhere in the world.

Besides, not every Nigerian men thrown money at women.

Samantha124:
Of course they'd agree to get married to them just so they could keep showering them with money.

Let those Nigerian men in SA go broke and see what happens.. .. that's why your women in Nigeria also treat you guys the same way, you made them believe that there's no love without money.

That is what you assume...

There are those who genuinely fall in love, not for the money, and there are those that came for the money.

It all depends on the guys manner of approach.

Samantha124:
When I tell your brothers here that those SA ladies who go for Nigerian men only want their money because you guys are free givers, they think that I'm bashing them.

And I've never been approached by a Nigerian guy before, I only heard stories from other ladies who dated Nigerian men.

In as much as Nigerians are free givers, there are South African women who genuinely fall in love with Nigerian men, and some of them get married.

From what you've heard; Bad news spread faster and wider than good news, they told you the bad news, but didn't tell you the good.

Before this year runs out, one handsome Chukwuemeka will approach you 🤣

AdesegunSanni89:
Tinubu is still greater than all igbos living or dead. Ojukwu (the nincompoop that led 3 million of his kinsmen to their untimely miserable deaths) , Azikiwe, Obi (the fool that took his race 24 years back in politics) and other Igbo leaders are not worthy to tight Tinubu's shoe lace.

From Maiduguri to Ogun state, a good man is a good man, and a bad man is a bad man.

Your past defines your future.

No word i drop for you so.

Dcass:
I have tried everything to buy my sewing machine but nothing work am only able to raise 10k out of 90k plus but no problem I believe I will do anything to feed my baby and myself but only God know why he took my husband and left me with the whole responsible.

God knows I have worked begged and even done things just to be able to raise money for my sewing machine but I still didn't work and I don't have anybody.
I hope am not committing a sin because am doing this for my child and after doing it if I can raise 90k I will stop and start working.

If any can borrow me I will be greatful and it will save me



Matured mind please.

Once you start, you will not stop, i bet you.

If you can sell your body for money, then you can sell or hawk in traffic.

Or better still, you the 10k at hand to open a fries business.

Samantha come in here to confirm this report 👀👀👀

Late Alhaji Mai Deribe's $100m home.

I watched the video last week, and was laughing.

Asari should have been arrested.

He is shacking bumbum and twerking for Tinubu 🤣

Candidlady:
He should have added last chance too.. for those using taxi at night... Never to sit in front.. ihad four of my friends robbed that way

Loool.... Madam whether back or front, if you enter one chance, they will rob you.

Abi you expect the person to sit in the boot?

Samantha124:
I'll come back to share my own story once I have a child..

8 children will do

alizma:
Kudos to the president, may God grant him the needed wisdom to handle this challenge successfully. As for the enemies, you will be consumed by your hatred.

No peace for the wicked, he should return the mandate that he stole.

Wetin dey occur hai 🤣🤣🤣

Another fraction of the family is responsible for the disappearance...

Internally we've not solved our problems, but wants to deploy soldiers to another country to tackle issues.

Everyday people are dying as a result of insecurity in Nigeria.

I don't think we are serious as a country.

Obinoscopy:
Phone: Samsung Galaxy S21
Network: at&t
Country: USA

Bro you are living in the future with 540 mbps.

Nigerian networks are somewhat around 15mbps-50mbps.

It is terrible.

justking:
Red alert:

If you receive any money in your bank account or recharge card on your phones from unknown source,
pls do not withdraw the money nor use the recharge card.

The first thing you are advised do is that, immediately such thing happens, make prompt report at the nearest police station, that you received an alert of an unexpected money from a bank or individual account or recharge card from so so so number, write a formal letter to your bank , instructing them to reverse the transaction complaint but if it is call card just lodge complaint at the police station and request for the extract. Take note of the date and time your complaint was booked.

Some men of underworld are outside now & very much into the act of deliberately putting people into trouble. They would transfer money into your bank account or call card on your phones, then write petition to police higher authority immediately that they were kidnapped and the ransom they collected from them were paid into your account and recharge card to your numbers as requested.

The police will now track your bank or phone number and you will then be invited for a case of kidnapping that you know nothing about.

Please let's be on the watch out. Kindly share among your family, friends, relatives and loved ones.

Good morning team.

Where have you seen a kidnapper receive money through transfer?

Oga, even the police will know it is a set up.

DrAda:
It's only an arrogant fool that believes that aliens don't exist. How likely is it that we are the only living beings in this universe? Does that even make sense?

You call yourself a doctor, but you don't reason like one.

Show me prove of 1 single alien?... And please don't come up with blurred pictures that are all over the internet.

Meerahbel:
if you men don't ask them out they would not have a bf, it alarming now that 15-16yrs old ladies have countless body counts. Thanks to you

I wanted to insult you, but no need, i won't do that, i would only pray for your mental condition.

16yrs -20yrs old girls are on the loose.... They are fearless and brave in this present day.

Years back, who born you well, even as a 20yrs old to have a boyfriend, talk more of having sex.

At times you here issues of a secondary school girl, skipping school, just to go to a man's house.

Parents are to be blamed 80% of the time.

Orubebe01:
What a beauty. She even speaks Igbo.

They are from Isuofia in Anambra state...

siofra:
I love sex with someone I love. I don't care if you call it fornication ☺️☺️

I hope he is not a Nigerian man, else you've brought curse upon yourself, since you've sworn never to have anything to do with Nigerian men.

thrillionaire:
There's this girl I've been seeing, she's very decent and holds strong religious views.
When we met, she told me she didn't want any relationship for now as she's been celibate for two years besides premarital sex isn't her thing and she can boast of having just about 3 body counts or so. But I managed to convince her date me sha.

We got along fine. No problems. She's busty, jovial, great smiles and laughter. She's fine.

Today we went out and she saw her old male friend - a former colleague at work, they exchanged pleasantries and hugged. She's busty so I didn't like the way the guy hugged her or the way she hugged him but I chested that one.

They then got all chatty while I bought roasted chicken. I occasionally looked up to see them and I noticed my girl being all touchy with this guy.. touching his chest, holding up his arm in hers, standing too close to him and kinda rubbing her busts on him (maybe unconsciously, I don't know).

Well I was angry and felt disrespected. You can't be with your guy or hubby and behave like this with another male friend you see. What happened to a dignified way of greeting and a healthy space between you two?

Afterwards I reprimanded her properly and told her how disrespectful it is to her man especially when he's there with her.. she tried to argue that it was nothing and that I'm overreacting but I told her that acts like this can send the wrong message to a prospective suitor and he'll just believe you a girl guys have easy access to. She apologized and promised not to do that again.

What y'all say? Is it okay for your girl to be all touchy with male friends?

If your so called girl is not having sex every now and then, make i bend.

Seems you are the soft type 🤣

Omo, she don lay egg for your head.

DECENTBWOY:
Good morning nairalanders, I know its too early to post this but this issue has been troubling me for a while now.
I can't sleep, even if i eventually do, i can't stay asleep, for example if i sleep by 2am, i will wake up by 4am and thats it for that night.
It has been going on for months now, and i hardly sleep in the afternoon too..
If you observe when i made this post, I slept around 3am because today is my birthday, i was answering calls and chats from well wishers, now i am up again around 5, thats why i made this post, i am fed up...

Please can you guys suggest a very strong sleeping tablet for me? I really need to sleep and stay asleep, i mean lock everywhere up, eat, take the tablet and sleep a very deep sleep, a kind of sleep that i will not know what is happening around...

Please help a brother, i don even begin de slim like who them de squeeze blood commut for body....

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY HUMBLE SELF BTW...

But Paranight

ahnie:
7 cone of eggs
I Benny chicken flavour stock
2 sachet tomato sachet.
Oil
Culinary.
2 tubers of yam.
Sachet pepper
A lil bit of butter spread!

Since you reside in Delta, i urge you to buy sweet yam, that taste as if sugar was poured into at Onitsha

ahnie:
7 cone of eggs
I Benny chicken flavour stock
2 sachet tomato sachet.
Oil
Culinary.
2 tubers of yam.
Sachet pepper
A lil bit of butter spread!

How does this describe being cheap?

ola6:
We are watching igbos. With the way they are going, they will NEVER lead in Nigeria

So you that have been ruling, what particularly has you and your tribe achieved as a Nigerian?