₦airaland Forum

saphiere:
Any man who invites a lady to his house and does not provide transportation fare is more useless than the lady who asks for transportation money. Why would you initiate a visit if you are not ready to take the responsibility?

Good question.
I will give him transportation fare if;

1. I initiated the invitation.
2. His coming is for my own good.

But if he just wake up and start coming to my place uninvited he will bear the cost of transportation and even feeding.

We all know that no Nigerian girl will just wake up and start going to a man's house.

These men always initiate the invite.
They tell the ladies to come probably for their own selfish reason so they should pay.

If the cost of pleasure is expensive, try the cost of displeasure
Care to know why we ladies don't invite men to our places? It is because they are of no value to us. So it's needless inviting them.

Men NEED women while women only WANT men. Know this and know peace.

And concerning having apartment, FYI, over 70% of families in Nigeria today, the wives are the one paying the rents... Transport myself to his place and still get raped? Hmmm! Oga you try.
DON'T ORDER FOR SOMETHING IF YOU ARE NOT READY TO BUY. THAT'S THE SIMPLE MESSAGE I AM TRYING TO PASS

Treasure17:
Nice one. Zenith bank left the group chat.

Jennyclay:
you lied my dear!! That’s the handwork of a pedophile cursed man

Women should never allow all these perverts, pedophile and nonsense men carry or kiss their baby .

mariahAngel:
I know it might be difficult for some people, but you can only choose one place.

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1Sharon:
Bullshit. If the property is in the man's name this cannot happen. Stop regurgitating what you aren't certain about.

labake1:
In a situation where you are seeing the person as a friend and he/she asked "what are we" , what is the best response to give?

April396949:
There are several reasons why people who borrow money find it difficult to return it in due time:

1. Financial constraints: Borrowers may be facing financial difficulties, such as low income or high expenses, which make it challenging for them to meet their repayment obligations. They may have limited cash flow or unexpected expenses that hinder their ability to repay the borrowed amount.

2. Lack of budgeting and financial planning: Some borrowers fail to create a proper budget or financial plan, leading to poor money management. Without a clear understanding of their income and expenses, they may struggle to allocate funds for loan repayment, resulting in delays or missed payments.

3. Prioritizing other expenses: Borrowers may have competing financial priorities, such as regular living expenses, essential bills, or immediate needs. In such cases, they may prioritize these higher on their list, making it difficult to allocate sufficient funds towards repaying the borrowed amount.

4. Overborrowing: Some individuals may borrow more than they can afford to repay, taking on loans beyond their repayment capacity. This can lead to a cycle of debt, where they struggle to repay one loan while taking on additional debt to cover their expenses, exacerbating the repayment challenge.

5. Lack of financial discipline: Some borrowers may lack financial discipline and be prone to impulse spending or living beyond their means. They may struggle to adhere to repayment schedules and make impulsive purchases instead of meeting their loan obligations.

6. Unforeseen circumstances: Unexpected life events, such as job loss, medical emergencies, or other unforeseen circumstances, can significantly impact a borrower's ability to repay their loan on time. These unforeseen events can disrupt their financial stability and make it difficult to meet repayment deadlines.

It is essential for borrowers to be mindful of their financial situation, create realistic repayment plans, and prioritize loan repayment appropriately to avoid these challenges.

1Sharon:
Look are this one. What do you know about kicking a man out of the house.

If the man's name was on the lease how can he be kicked out of his own house ?

GreatVocalist:
It's not the truth, but an opinion. Sorry to say, but that is not a good opinion.

There is nothing shameful about driving a tricycle as a means to a financial end, if the cards are played well. There's no shame in starting small.

If a person can't support their partner in the days of little beginning, then it's a blessing in disguise when that person leaves.

GreatVocalist:
It's very disappointing that this comment is coming from a man.

How you think it's okay for a woman to leave her man because he opted for something "below his social status" is beyond me.

You never know what opportunities will arise from his venture. Instead of you to advise him to hustle hard and not give up because of the emotional set back, you're here trying to justify the lady's choice.

That's very disappointing, as a man.

Eriokanmi:
All these are physical attributes which mean nothing. What of the spiritual aspect? Are you compatible spiritually? Would you guys last as couple and be fruitful in all areas? Most of those using physical and material attributes as yardstick for future partners end up regretting.

Last weekend, I was seeing a client on the island. They're very wealthy. If I mention the name here, this thread go full with attacks but it's not necessary. They have a son who's like 2 feet tall. He's in his 30s. He can't feed on his own. They always shut the door at him each time they're going for events. He's rarely known by the public.

Each time they see this guy, they always feel sad. Before you enter their house, you must go through all manner of security screening as if you're entering an embassy for a visa appointment. The wife is an epitome of beauty. She also schooled abroad as the husband. He's their only son. Marerial things and careers don't guarantee ultimate happiness in marriage.

See God's face before you marry. Also, don't marry because of material wealth or career achievements. Look at those successful people today. They had a history of humble beginnings. I never knew Dangote and Pastor Adeboye were never born of rich parents until I heard their history from Mama ijesha, a nonagenarian who lives at ijeshatedo area of lagos. Dangote came from Kano to lagos as a boy and was squatted by Mallam Maitama who happened to be mama ijesha's first tenant. She showed me their apartment on the ground floor the day I visited her. I bought my land from her son, who asked me to see him on his arrival from the UK. The woman said pastor adeboye once worked part time at her uncle's place, a popular cocoa merchant back in the days. One day, the man had to tell pastor adeboye to stop coming to work there so he could concentrate on his studies and gave him scholarship...many won't hear a story like this but the sweet sides when Dangote's uncle gave him money to start business and all. This generation is too materialistic.

LewisHamilton15:
Late last year, the company I worked with decided to reduce workers as a result of the high inflation. I happened to be one of the victims of the mass reduction.

I decided to use my little savings to buy a tricycle so I can be using it to do town service but my fiancee outrightly rejected such idea stressing that my societal standing is above that. After intense argument I went ahead and bought the tricycle. Since that day she has not picked my calls, call me or come to visit me.

I have moved on.

Franzinni:
Head wey go chop knock, even if e dey for plane for inside sky, when the time reach to chop the knock he go chop am,

See big house with all the amenities, wetin carry baba go hotel? Secondly as a dibia wetin baba need bodyguard for?

If no be format ... I no go supprise say baba dey do white powder business dey use dibia hold boys for work.

TemplarLandry:
This mushroom lawyer should go sit down.

Westerhoffe:
PM me.

tonywonder:
My friend's name is Funmi and she's been in a very serious relationship with an Igbo guy. He's nice, handsome and they've been dating for 2 years. He talked about her meeting his family and she was very excited little did she know that it would turn out to be her worse nightmare.

She met his mum and she seemed really nice, but her attitude changed when she realized my friend is a Yoruba girl. She immediately told her that she can't marry her son. Her reasons weren't clearly stated but she said she doesn't like Yoruba people. My friend's heart melted, hot tears rolled down from her eyes; She's Yoruba and she's in love with an Igbo "mummy's boy".

She spoke with him about it but he keeps assuring her that it would be fine. It's been almost 2 years now and the family are still not in support of their union. Every time she try to move on, he comes begging that everything would be fine and that they will get married.

She really love this guy, why she loves him she don't know because clearly he hasn't done anything to deserve her heart but... He doesn't have a good paying job yet, so she carter for most of his financial needs and even send some food to his village during festivity.

Just recently his mother called her parents to tell them that she can't get married to her son and asked that she should be warned to stay off her son. He has travelled to his village for a week now and honestly she doesn't know where she stand... She really love him but what should she do?

Source: https://twitter.com/_agneeess/status/1682651741672579072?t=1djSTr6Tw6yK5F_2QlMNCQ&s=19[/quote]She better move on ooO...

The only time you will see an Igbo guy getting married to a Yoruba girl, is because the parent, particularly the mum is dead.

As far as she is alive, that girl is wasting her time with him.

Igbos don't like marrying outside their tribe

Zulum:
Don't mind my English pls

Anytime we had an argument with my wife, she utter some words that I can't even tell that to my enemy...."I am tired of the marriage", "I am always praying for u to die" " I always pray something terrible should happen to you" and so on....

I am Muslim, we are married three years ago and blessed with one child, I can't stay for a good one week in my house peacefully without having misunderstanding with her......i am depressed, worried, always thinking.....

Samantha124:
Yes, I am.

But you need to understand that a person with HIV can still get married to a HIV negative spouse and have HIV negative kids.

But we can't say the same with a girl who did illegal abortions and has a damaged womb.

Will you marry a woman with a damaged womb from doing illegal abortions?

flokii:
It takes strong will and discipline to avoid intimacy with married female colleagues.. surprisingly, they are usually more appealing and they just know the right things to do to arouse sexual feeling in guys.

I won't say the Op has all the fault cos from his writeup, she is the one possesive of him and even threatening him so it's safe to say she initiated the whole affair.

Ourtruth247:
According to our history books, the 15th century was the first time Europeans "discovered" sub Saharan Africa and interacted with them. The sub Saharan Africans at the time lived in underdeveloped tribes and villages, a stark contrast to the Africans living north of the Sahara, that had built great cities and advanced means of transportation.

On closer inspection, this whole picture looks weird. How did every other part of the word develop advanced means of transportation, advanced architecture and advanced technology, yet sub Saharan Africa almost seemed like they were just begining their civilization?

My research has led me to a conclusion that lots of you will find interesting.

Let's begin.

Eriokanmi:
23 now

Eriokanmi:
I pity her

Eriokanmi:
I understand you. They're of same tribe. Only God can pay him back in his coin. People are terribly wicked. I'm not sure she's in any relationship now. She doesn't tell me anything than greetings anymore.