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Candidlady:
Cuz she is tempting me


Deep down you know what you want... You only brought this issue here so your fellow freaks can encourage you on how to lash the poor lady

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So the girl is a poor girl?

Lexzeey:
This girl was a casual friend for a while, we live in the same street, we were close friends, I noticed she was into me for two reasons, first reason is she gets angry when she sees me with other girls to the point of not talking to me, second, some guy from her church came to warn me to stay away from her because he's interested in marrying her, and I told the guy we're just friends, when I told her what happened, she laughed and told me she's with the guy because she got tired of waiting for me to ask her out, which I never did.

So I gave her space to be with her guy, we only kept in touch online, she left for her home town, for almost six months I didn't hear from her, I later found out she got pregnant for the same guy who warned me to stay away from her, funny thing is, the guy abandoned her with the baby, she was ashamed, she couldn't tell me she got knocked up by the guy, she's now back from her home town, living with her sister whose house is down my street, we met and I didn't act surprised or anything, I just ask about her baby and everything, now the problem now is, since she returned, she's been doing stuff I find uncomfortable, trying to initiate stuff when she visit me, trying to get me to visit her, calling me every now and then and getting mad if I don't check on her, she kept trying to ignite a relationship by telling me stuff she should have saved for her baby daddy, now I can't outrightly abandon her based on the fact that we were close friends before the whole pregnancy thing.

How do I let her down easy without loosing the friendship, to be clear I don't want a relationship with her, the baggage is too much and I don't want to walk right into that, I just want to stop her from making another mistake by getting pregnant a second time.

Na wa for you ooO, if it is pregnancy she is looking for, impregnate her the second time, who knows, she might even give birth to twins 🤣🤣🤣

Goodlyhrt:
I don't even want to talk to anyone in this my broke state.

I feel like a burden even to myself.

People see me in my street and conclude that I must be very quiet.. heck some people even tag me a "pastor" because they don't see me engaging in drinking or smoking or womanising. I don't even talk to anyone in the street, occasionally Sha.

I am just angry with everything around me.

In this state of mine I don't think I will ever get married to any lady. I might be single till forever because I will be the last person to bring children into this world to suffer.

I feel very toxic right now.

Asake sing say; Lonely at the top

You dey talk say; Lonely at the bottom

So na who make we believe? 🤣🤣🤣

Teaveapoet:
Why is Pastor attached to your name again? That's the thing with African society, it's a man's world. Can you stop with all these stereotypes and narratives?

Wait, do you think those ladies also care about marriages or having children, infact some of them might have had and don't wish to have.

About comparing gender, it is the same everywhere. Men oooh, ladies ooh. They just want to enjoy pleasure. Some men still throw themselves at these ladies too, yeah!
I see no comparison between anyone of them because they are all the same, they have lost it.

Dey play you hear, dey play.... Just dey play.

Since they are the same, come and try it naaa, and see if doors won't be shut out on you forever.

Puss360:
Lol.. this one is quite baseless...

He just told you 100% gospel truth...

Puss360:
Who are the girls acting porn with? Is it not with men/guys?
If hypocrisy doesn't kill us in this country nothing will o...

We condemn and criticize our girls acting porn...
But yet we like watching local porn ..
One thing is sure in business, once no demand, no supply....

Even the so-called local and international porn, despite the fact we ring bell concerning practicing of "Safe sex", majority of porn viewers likes "Raw sex".....

Nobody wan die, but dem wan go heaven

Apparently men owns, and dictates what happens in the society.

Teaveapoet:
You forgot to mention the guys too,
Are the guys too not going to be someone's husband looking for a decent girl to marry in future?
Are the men not concern of other jobs they can do aside porn?
Their faces too are uncovered, displaying all kinds of dicks online without protection.

These things are both gender, may devil not win our souls.

If a guy acts porn, the society are quick to forget he did such, but if a girl tries it, omo na for ever ooO, even after you are dead, people will be using you as reference to describe to another person...

For example; A conversation between an indigene and a foreigner

Foreigner; please i am looking for Bamidele family

Indigene; Which of the Bamideles are you looking for

Foreigner; They told me once i get to the village, i should ask anyone, because the family is popular

Indigene; We 2 Bamideles in this village, is it the one that a girl in the family acted PORN, or is it the one that their grandfather was a military man 🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️

My sister, if a guy acts PORN, his chances of getting married is reduced by just by 40%, but if a girl acts PORN, her chances of getting married reduce by 97%.

So, do the maths.

Pastor137:
This question has been on my mind lately, and it has to do with Nigerian female pornstars especially the ones that act porn with their faces uncovered. They are soo many now in sites like xvideos, porn hub etc. Channels like casted raw, nollyporn and so on show them in all their glory. This girls fvck different guys raw on camera with their faces fully shown. Now my question?

Don't this girls think about their future? I mean what is posted online stays forever. Will they act porn forever? What about the stigma attached? With time some of this porn stars will want to get married, have children etc. Don't they think of the long term repercussions of this act?

Secondly, Don't this female pornstars have family members? I mean they display their pvssy, boobs etc and Fvck openly uncensored in front of camera. Don't they think of the effect this act will have on their respective families?

Conclusion, no matter the amount of money this girls are paid, I don't think it's worth it at the end. Dignity is priceless. Thanks for reading guys.

Majority of them are orphans and children from single mom that never connected to families.

For instance; A single mum from Ogun/Enugu/Delta/Benue comes to Lagos and gives birth to a girl, and for the past 24yrs of her daughter's life, she never connected with her mum's family, neither did she travel to her mum's village.

Those are the people without shame, that acts such movies.

You can't be a daughter of the soil, and attempt such, never.

90% of children trained by single mum, grow up with terrible and bad character....

Marrying a girl from a single mum is a no no for me ✍️✍️✍️

Edipet:
Till date I don't still understand why person go leave him village/ lhouse go dey hustle for another Man village, then use the money just to pay house rent bill, buy food. Pay NEPA bill,pay high transport, Maybe hire experience olosho, at the end he might die without achieving anything part from paying those bills. Whereas in his village, there is free accommodation, cheap food, fresh food, farmland to plant of the things, cheap NEPA bill, cheap transportation and cheap girls .
Human never know wetin them want. We over labour ourselves unnecessarily. And animals will be laughing at us.
How can we be earning salary just for bills and House and food.

So why are you not in your village?

turmacs:
Idiots..

We understand that you like dressing half naked, but we are pleased with the decision of the university.

Jennyclay:
Oh no!! Not again .

Now the little girl will be traumatized in the rest of her life . This is the same reason I hate me so much

Nigerian court are the ones encouraging rape in our society because I don’t understand why they can’t sentence these foolish and stupid men to death ASAP

All what Nigerian men knows how to do is to rape and murder. Foolish men everywhere!!!

You hate, but keep having them in you 🙄🙄🙄

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

Your tone as to how you are warning him matters, probably you are using a smiley face and a low tone to ask him to mean.

If you really want him to stop, slap him next time, and raise your voice at him, then he will get the message.

It seems you are not Nigerian?

mushroomFarm:
First picture here is roasted meat and fish (from the wild chicken out pastor hunted down in the forest. He caught the fishes too)
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Second picture is a friend and another African student from Zimbabwe.
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Third picture is my own plate of food. That was the fourth plate I got lol because we actually had lots of meat and roasted fishes.
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If it were Nigerian pastors, they would prefer taking from you, rather than give to you.

100% clout, even a 5yrs old knows this.

Am tired of the internet already.

fyzaila:
What are sill doing with him? Force him to marry you or what? You made the mistake of cohabiting with him without marriage already. And with that he and his has no regard for you.

Pack up your things, take your kid and move far away from him and start your life afresh. This time around be more disciplined and don't allow any man ride you for free like this one.

You said "Don't allow any man ride her for free" 🤣🤣🤣

My sister ride is present tense, while ridden is past tense... She has been ridden, and all her condiments and nutrients has been extracted.

You don't want to tell her the truth ba; She should join seminary school to become a rev sister 🤣🤣🤣

Puss360:
Wahala.. if all these are present, then what actually attracted you to him?? I'm very sure it's not money... Is it sex?? What exactly?

Just file for divorce on grounds of irreconcilable differences....
Rent a small apartment, and go with the child...
Move on...
Don't involve his family or your family...as the case is, you don't need dialogue, you don't need "To exercise patience", you need space!!!
Move on...
He can come visit his kid...
But you move on... There are other men out there who are better than him in everything including the Sex aspect... Check well

Case Dismissed...
Next Case Please...

After the man has extracted all her nutrient, you are talking of another man falling in love with her...

Gerard28:
The funny irony is that Edo isn't even exactly a witchcraft state as people painted it.

I use to have that general mentality that Edo and witches na 5&6 until I lived there.

They're just Traditional not necessarily "Witchcrafty"

Truly, akwa ibom has the highest number of witches in Nigeria

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LagosFirstSon:
And your point is?

No Osun state person living in Niger republic?

The number of Yoruba people living in Niger republic are way more than the South east people living there .

Big fat lie...

The problem of the Yorubas, is that you guys don't travel around domestically.

Pukkalolo:
In Nigeria, prostitution is illegal in some states (especially the northern states.)

And since the term prostitution has a negative connotation... The society and the women decided to package it and give it a more presentable name. The name is now called "HOOKUP"


Hookup is a highly lucrative profession. A woman could be dumb as hell and still become a millionaire by lying on her back. This is why alot a young women are trooping into the business; yes, even that so called good girl you know is doing hook-up on a low key.

Many Naija ladies are into hook-ups on a low-key. I've met a lot of ladies who are into hook-up. Sadly, if you see them, they seem "classy, innocent and responsible".

I'm suave at asking ladies "key" questions that gets them to easily trust me and open-up about their low-key hookup activities. When some women open up to me about their hook-up activities and the kind of men they do things with, I tend to be very shocked but I often try my best to maintain straight and non-judgemental facial expressions. And the painful thing is, these ladies come across as responsibile good girls.


For women, Hookup is actually one of the easiest ways to get rich quickly, but sadly plenty of these hookup girls don’t ever get rich. This has more to do with their bad spending habits, i.e. spending their money on expensive human hair, designer bag, clothes and other materialistic stuff...

And further more, they believe that as long as they have a vagina, the money will keep flowing in...duh!

But at some point, the law of diminishing returns will kick in... so they are quickly forced manipulate one naive brother into committing to her.

Then they go online and scream, "My past doesn't matter."

Ladies, are you kidding me


Anyways.... Let's continue.

We are just starting....


I had the wrong thinking that only frustrated losers sleep with hook-up girls or pay for sex.....but the reality is,

IT'S QUITE THE OPPOSITE.

On the island where I do my run around, I discovered that it's these rich folks that pay for sex and sleep with hook-up girls.

I'm NOT talking about the average 9 to 5 cubicle fellas or the dudes who are managing to survive.

I'm talking about those rich folks who runs their own successful businesses; rich kids living off the wealth of their family; top executes in tech companys and banking sectors; Yahoo boys; senators; high rank government officials and other rich folks.

These rich folks do not want to bother with a relationship just to get sex. In fact, they don't even give their main woman real attention because if they are not busy working, then they are busy fucking hookup ladies.

The worse is that, guys have the wrong believe that being in relationship with woman is better than sleeping with hookup girls because in a relationship they get free sex.... But with a hookup girl, they have to pay few thousands to get laid.

My Man, if you calculate the entire money you spend on the last girl you were in a relationship with: calling and chatting her all day, giving her cash, buying things for her, taking her outings, doing things for her, buying her new phone, sorting her bills here and there.....you realize you have spend over 700k.

To humanly honest, with that same amount, you could have bang about 15 different hookup girls.

In the long run, the fact remains that: sex you directly pay for is actually cheaper than the sex gotten while you in a relationship. Only the smart ones among us understand that.

These rich folks know better, and that's why prefer to pay the hook-up lady for sex....

The poor man may value money, but he doesn't value time. That's why he waste his time trying to beg and convince a girl to accept their relationship proposal.

The rich value time and money. They realize that banging a hookup girk saves more time (and money) than having a girlfriend because of sex. Because that so called girlfriend is only there for the money anyways...



Wait, wait... I'm not tryna encourage you to go bang hookup girls... My point is, it's a waste of time and money entering relationship mainly because of sex... because you can get cheaper sex outside relationship with the benefits of NO unnecessary drama.

If you actually "know" women, you realize that the relationship bullshit you go through with women because of sex is normally not worth it.

You should only enter serious relationship with a woman if she willing to add extra value to your life, not extra unnecessary billings and drama.

So in other words, guys should quit their relationship and patronise hookups?

How old are you?

Hi!

My name is boredberry... I'm 19... And I need a boyfriend... He must reside in Abuja or be willing to travel to Abuja if he resides in other state... I don't discriminate but I would prefer a southerner, esp from these south-south states (Delta, Edo, Port Harcourt) or a south westerner excluding those from Ogun and Osun...

He must be tall... I'm 5.5 so he must be above 5.7...

I prefer dark men... Who doesn't love chocolate? But if he's fair and attractive I might consider...

He could be a Christian or a muslim... But I don't want someone who's too religious... I'm not really a believer but I'm very tolerant... I hate fanatics...

I need a man who's a lover of science! And mythology, astrology, history and so on...

A pan-African...

An avid reader...

He must be creative... Someone who sees things from many perspectives... Thinks outside the box...

He must be funny! And polite enough to laugh at my lame jokes...

Be considerate and kind... I need someone with a heart... Emphatic and with a vision to change the world in his own little way...

I need a man who is a lover of life! Drinks, smokes, enjoys going out and meeting new people...

Someone who takes risks... Loves adventures... Anything but common...

He must enjoy travelling... Excited by foreign cultures, esp those that are African...

Be a foodie...

I love public display of affection! So he should love holding me and being held... Kissed... Etc...

Be a dog person... Love the idea of having pets... I grew up with dogs and cats even chickens! So I love animals!

Someone who's childish and fun to be with... Silly and cute... I love men who are boyish...

He shouldn't be an alpha... He should love himself and all that... But I like men who are sensitive... So he shouldn't think feeling sad or even crying is a sign of weakness...

I'll continue...

Please don't be offended ooO, are you an animal, since you bear the name Boredberry?

Because i know the doesn't belong to a human being.

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The United States of America is using Tinubu's dark past records to cajole him into sending troops into Niger.

And when that happens, things will escalate and blow out of proportion.

That way, our resources like crude and that of Niger's Uranium will be bought at a give away price, in return they will supply ammunition.

I am not a supporter of Tinubu or APC, but he should tread carefully

The United States of America is using Tinubu's dark past records to cajole him into sending troops into Niger.

And when that happens, things will escalate and blow out of proportion.

That way, our resources like crude and that of Niger's Uranium will be bought at a give away price, in return they will supply ammunition.

I am not a supporter of Tinubu or APC, but he should tread carefully...

Born2Freak:
As I am writing this, my friend's sister is considering divorce just after 5 months of marriage. She recently learnt that her husband is a serial debtor- a specialist in borrow-posing (borrowing things and acting as if you own them).

The husband in question is from a rich family but he spends money recklessly and borrows recklessly. His family was covering up for him and she thought that the man is responsible.

The point is that the woman (my friend's sister) was fooled by her husband's rich family and big house in Lekki. The family has a house in Lekki while the man rents in Ibeju Lekki.

But can we only blame the man? If my friend's sister was wise enough to do investigation into the man she was marrying, she would not have married him. She saw a rich family and didnt ask questions. The man does not really have a job. He just helps to manage the family's properties. The man also parties like a wild animal. But because he spends on her, she believed that he was a "big boy"

Now, the reality has set- loan apps and police have come looking for the husband at their apartment. The wife is getting different threatening phone calls and the husband quickly ran to the village to chill.

Please, for any woman that is going to get married, please do your proper investigation.
-Is your husband to be financially responsible (does he have a steady job or business?)
-Does your husband to be flirt with other girls or have cheating spirit?
-Is he a wife beater?
-Is he respected in his own family?

Open your eyes. Ask questions and be careful. Marriage is not a joke. My friend's sister is depressed today because she was carried away by greed and didnt look into her husband.

Tell her; Marriage is for better, for worst.

She has to work with the man and help manage his finance.

But before then, he should get a job, or start a business.

BOSSkesh:
Don’t worry baby
Call me later let me take you out

Peter Obi is the last person on earth to chase women.

Probably you guys think he is acting up, because of election.

The United States of America is using Tinubu's dark past records to cajole him into sending troops into Niger.

And when that happens, things will escalate and blow out of proportion.

That way, our resources like crude and that of Niger's Uranium will be bought at a give away price, in return they will supply ammunition.

I am not a supporter of Tinubu or APC, but he should tread carefully

It dem dey talk say Anambra too know book, e go be like say na another thing....

Anambra state; Without bragging has the highest number of IQ in Nigeria.