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Crime › Re: Lady Escapes From Ritualist Den In Delta After Being Hypnotized by Dshocker(m): 11:36pm On Nov 14, 2018
Going through her facebook pictures, one would see the kind of person she is...i don't pity any girl caught in a ritualist den through prostitution.
Crime › Re: Lady Escapes From Ritualist Den In Delta After Being Hypnotized by Dshocker(m): 11:32pm On Nov 14, 2018
Lovelyjessica:
Thank God for rescuing you
Don't mind her... She is a street hustler
Crime › Re: Lady Escapes From Ritualist Den In Delta After Being Hypnotized by Dshocker(m): 11:27pm On Nov 14, 2018
IamPlato:
...



So You Just Untied Yourself Like That and Escaped Like That...


You Think We Are In Primary 2 abi
Don't mind her... she went hustling and what happened, happened.But shame wouldn't let her open her mouth to tell the whole world that she is into prostitution.
Christianity Etc › Re: Man Gets Visa To 3 Countries After Placing "Miracle Sticker" On His Passport by Dshocker(m): 11:19pm On Nov 14, 2018
I hate stories like this,because it reeks of marketing to me...... Churches be looking for customers in Africa since 1960.
Romance › Re: Sexual Harassment At Workplace - My Story by Dshocker(m): 11:13pm On Nov 14, 2018
deturla:
I know that there are several sexual harassments between my plight and what most opposite-sex face.

I've always known my boss to be friendly and accommodating but didn't get the picture at first when Madam started giving me extra cash for t-fare, lunch hour treat and all. I thought she was being nice.

Things were going smoothly as other staffs were growing wary and getting jealous of our boss-staff relationship. But I never knew what the consequences might give birth to.

Months later, I realized I was the only one out of 12 engineers the company is still owing three months salary. Every other field engineers have been settled except me. Haha! me of all people, Madam's favourite engineer.

Days after I noticed, I confront the accountant about what's going and to my surprise, she said Madam haven't acknowledged any of my documents and she tried knowing what prompt such actions but Madam is not ready to hear her out.

Okay, if that's the case I'll ask her myself, for about two weeks, wasn't able to go office due to field work and all, traveling from one state to another.

Thought it would be convenient if I push the issue to the official WhatsApp group, after complaining and all she still didn't acknowledge any of the chats.

Then she chats me privately, saying she purposely delayed my documents that if I need her to sign those paper we need to sort things out privately.

I took it like it was normal, till she initiated a WhatsApp video the following night, on seeing her I blink off because I couldn't believe what I saw she's half naked and to my surprise she said "OH SORRY, I WAS ABOUT TO GO FOR A SHOWER" and I replied maybe after you're done ma! at that particular moment, I wasn't looking at the screen. She continued with DON'T TELL ME YOU'RE SHY. Couldn't answer any of her questions, I press the red button and ignore her video calls afterward and message her that it would be convenient if we chat.

She didn't respond to any of my chats, but keep initiating the video call, at this point I noticed she's careful of chatting. To cut the story short, I went over to her office to put the issue at rest once and for all.

She called me into the conference room, shut the door and held the key, closed the blind and switched on the AC. She started to cling towards me, and at that point, I was not bothered. At least Madam wouldn't effectively force herself on me, hurt or blackmail me. I wasn't stressed or bothered about it until it took a turn I never expected.

She leaned forward and told me how she'd love to have me and all other gibberish my brain couldn't comprehend because of the fact that I wasn't feeling the atmosphere. I was shocked and just frozen at first and then she turned from being nice to commands and threats that if I didn't oblige to her request she wouldn't sign the document and all.. 3 months effort, 330k go just fly?.

I tried to explore the circumstance precisely, played it off as though she was just pulling my legs or some sort of silly pranks. One negative word from her about me would paint me black. She's trying to utilize that as a leverage, accentuating the influence she has.

I tried enough to stay away from her closeness by expressing gratitude for all she has done and smiling inconveniently and all, but most importantly sending a NO NO signal to her request.

Regardless of what I said or did, she veered back to IT WON'T TAKE LONG, JUST 5 MINUTES AND WE'RE OUT OF HERE. Still couldn't believe what I heard.

She moved back with some threatening statement like "You don't want your job anymore shey?" I smiled it away, knowing my position at the company and that it wouldn't be appropriate. At that point, she started grilling me on why I wouldn't want a decent sensual pleasure from her coupled with other freebies I would have access to and also rubbing shoulders with the big guns in the company.

At that point, lots of positive and negative thought flooded my mind; WHAT IF THIS WHOLE SCENARIO CHANGES TO A RAPE CASE, and I know no matter what I say people won't believe my side of the story and they will react with unsurprising drivel: OLOJU KOKORO NI, OTI RI OLOWO, OLOSHI ( That I was just a gold digger, an idiot). At that point a thought just flew in, why not record this, I did and minimized my phone to the home screen.

At this point, she started to unbutton her suit and removed her earrings, my feet trembled, sweated heavily despite the AC. And all I could pray for was, I need to wake up from this nightmare and all this should be over with.

My prayers answered but this time it wasn't a nightmare but an actual reality, her phone rang, and then she picked up. After a lengthy conversation, she ended the call, hissed and said, Akin (not real name for legal reasons) we will continue this other time, but for the main time think about it. She then zoomed off.

I Couldn't believe what just happened, I rushed out before she changed her mind to come in again. I went down to my desk to pack my tools, laptop with other necessary things and went home.

I was to supervise a BTS installation the following day, I called the site FSCE that I would not resume work the next day and that he should notify the project manager, so it won't look like I didn't notify them of the development, this was after much deliberation and legal consult from my dad's lawyer.

Madam called me that night to ask why and I told her I quit since I couldn't provide what she wanted. She laughed it off saying YOU DON'T MEAN IT. and she hung up.. That was the last I heard from her.

After two days she called me that since I refused to resume work and let us settle the issue amicably then what happened between us should stay between us, but to me, it didn't stay between us, it has taken a legal turn and the issue has been reported along with the conversation I recorded.

As of now the case is still pending but heading the right way.

There's nothing good about sexual harassment. It's profoundly perplexing and frightening. In a society where people find it hard to secure a job and in another turn some trying to keep their jobs and with the alarming rate of sexual harassment, you can feel disempowered and lose your job or career. Let us learn to report any sexual harassment or abuse case to the appropriate authorities.

A concerned reader of [url=https.deedeesblog.com]Deedeesblog[/url].
Interesting fiction
Politics › Re: President Buhari Returns To Abuja From Paris After A 5-Day Official To France by Dshocker(m): 8:03pm On Nov 14, 2018
Jubril is back
Celebrities › Re: Nina Looks Gorgeous In New Photos by Dshocker(m): 8:02pm On Nov 14, 2018
Isn't this the girl that opened her legs on national television....Well,her linage will definitely see what their ancestor did years back.Becauce the internet never forgets cry cry cry
Sports › Re: Diego Maradona: "Jose Mourinho Best Football Manager In The World" by Dshocker(m): 7:57pm On Nov 14, 2018
I guess he means the opposite
Health › Re: Nigeria Records 1.3 Million Unwanted Pregnancies, 735000 Abortions In 2018 Alone by Dshocker(m): 12:12pm On Nov 14, 2018
Galaticos444:
Nigerian ladies and their luv for unprotected sex ar like 5 and 6.i once dated a gal dat persuaded me to av unprotected sex with her like her life depends on it,she even went to do hiv test jst to convince me to sleep with her without condom
You are lying bro
Health › Re: Nigeria Records 1.3 Million Unwanted Pregnancies, 735000 Abortions In 2018 Alone by Dshocker(m): 12:10pm On Nov 14, 2018
Narldon:



Who counted the number of abortions?


Osinbajo did!
Celebrities › Re: "Don’t Lose A Good Side Nigga Over Your Boyfriend"-juliet Ibrahim Advises Ladies by Dshocker(m): 6:50pm On Nov 12, 2018
Juliet should be somewhere around 37yrs or there about....So why does she think like a juvenile seeking her first ever relationship....WHY?
Crime › Re: Osmond Eweka Who 'Scammed Job Seekers' In New York Beg Court To Visit Nigeria by Dshocker(m): 6:36pm On Nov 12, 2018
ahnie:
He just brought disgrace to the igbinedions.
The so called igbinedion clan are thieves themselves,so nothing to worry about.
Food › Re: Jubilation As Villagers Kill A Huge Python, Set To Prepare Pepper Soup(photos) by Dshocker(m): 6:26pm On Nov 12, 2018
Am beginning to like snake meat
Romance › Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Dshocker(m): 3:29pm On Nov 12, 2018
Funkybabee:
Sorry to say sister, she is really useless!!!

U don't play business with family, that's the rule


Please Op don't marry because u may later regret it, I know what am saying... I'm a woman too
I love the way you are being plain....it is not as if we are bashing women,but the action she took was wrong.Or why didn't she let the boyfriend know first,before spending it on her family.
Romance › Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Dshocker(m): 3:19pm On Nov 12, 2018
Liliyann:
Your mates are spending more than that on their girl and you are here crying coz of 500k!!!

If you are truly in love with that girl, everything about her should come first!!
I can't date someone that doesn't have the welfare of my family at heart!!
So, you allowed her to use the money to settle family issues when you could have done it as her boyfriend!!

You are such a pathetic broke ass guy!
Free that girl so that she can be with someone that loves and value her!!
Sister am so sorry that you have low I.Q....Try and eat more of vegetables and fruits.it helps.
Romance › Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Dshocker(m): 3:09pm On Nov 12, 2018
MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.

How is she a useless girl.

Its not by force to be in a relationship

If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.

Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man
I feel like slapping you over this comment

Romance › Re: I Sent N500k To My Fiancée To Open A Shop, She Used It To Settle Family Issues by Dshocker(m): 3:08pm On Nov 12, 2018
MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.

How is she a useless girl.

Its not by force to be in a relationship

If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.

Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man
May you never be the kind of girl the OP is talking about.
Fashion › Re: Winners Of Mr. And Miss Nigeria International 2018 by Dshocker(m): 2:27pm On Nov 12, 2018
Both of them must have paid the price
Fashion › Re: "I Am Happier In Bikinis": Yvonne Nwosu Shares Photos by Dshocker(m): 1:25pm On Nov 12, 2018
Noooooo... Just take a look at her weak shy breast
Celebrities › Re: Maryam Charles: Nigerian entertainers are too broke for me by Dshocker(m): 12:27pm On Nov 12, 2018
Liliyann:
My kinda girl!!!
Most Nigerian guys are broke!!!
Especially NL guys, they are all broke and frustrated!!!
To the ladies,never settle for less,date someone that is ready to prove his love internationally and not the text message kind!!!
Be with someone that values you and is ready to ignore his family and friends and focus more on you to show his love!!!
Stop taking monkey tail please!
Romance › Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Dshocker(m): 11:39am On Nov 12, 2018
AryEmber:
Fact for her, maybe in her world but definitely not mine.
I guess you are a virgin
Romance › Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Dshocker(m): 11:32am On Nov 12, 2018
AryEmber:
Fact for her, in her world not mine.
But the truth still remains that most girls have done it
Celebrities › Re: Lorraine Lionheart: Abuja Vs Lagos - The Difference By Botswana Singer by Dshocker(m): 11:28am On Nov 12, 2018
kennygee:
So the long and short of this story is?
She came to prostituted in Nigeria
Investment › Re: The Effects Of Online Betting On Nigerian Youths by Dshocker(m): 10:39am On Nov 12, 2018
Since 2013 till now,i have lost more than N1.5m to betting companies.
Romance › Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Has Had An Abortion Before? by Dshocker(m): 10:21am On Nov 12, 2018
AryEmber:
Don't tell me you think every lady in that age gap gas had an abortion before
She wanted to say every Nigerian girl has done an abortion before #fact
Romance › Re: Nigerian Lady Lists All The Things her man must know how to do by Dshocker(m): 10:15am On Nov 12, 2018
highqueen:
Ahhn. What's the fuss about this?

It's a man's sole responsibility to know how to do all these before being called a man.
Mtchew.
You are just a sadist
Politics › Re: 'Any Benue Person Voting APC Committing Suicide’ - Rebecca Akpedzan by Dshocker(m): 9:42am On Nov 12, 2018
Not just the people of Benue state,but the whole 36 state inhabitants should stay away from APC political party.

Due to bad governance most youths have ventured into prostitution(girls) and yahoo yahoo(guys).
Romance › Re: Nigerian Man Stares At His Partner’s Backside In Their Pre-wedding Photos by Dshocker(m): 2:38pm On Nov 11, 2018
computergeek:
Nasty piece of sh!t.
It is just an advise... Nothing personal.
Celebrities › Re: Photos From Charles Idibia's White Wedding by Dshocker(m): 12:01pm On Nov 11, 2018
Why is he so slim and standing like someone that has kidney problem
Politics › Re: Primaries: Governor Offered Oshiomhole $500,000 Bribe In Cash - The Nation by Dshocker(m): 10:35am On Nov 11, 2018
Rochas is a greedy man
Politics › Re: Presidency Backs El-rufai, Says Peter Obi Deported Northerners From Anambra by Dshocker(m): 10:19am On Nov 11, 2018
yarimo:
That is very commendable from the presidency. Infact OBI Is a international fraudster. LOBATAN
Your use of english is a fraud!
Romance › Re: Nigerian Man Stares At His Partner’s Backside In Their Pre-wedding Photos by Dshocker(m): 5:59pm On Nov 10, 2018
computergeek:
The man looks happy, the girl looks happy, that's all that matters. Nigerians will never stop being judgemental and quick-to-assume.
The girl may be from a very rich home and is not after money. Love has no boundaries.
Can you please close your mouth?

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