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Martinez39:
You are not sensible. A man and woman can form a strong relationship without getting married. Ubunja did it. The basis on which you think he is qualified to be a hypocrite is an illogical and laughable one. You also presume a lot about Ubunja's treatment of his baby mama. You are trying hard to imply that he cruelly took advantage of his baby mama and that his baby mama was an unfortunate prey. Have a good night sleep and shove your deception and mental gymnastics up your drilled ass.

sensibility is perception and largely depends on your IQ,in a society like Nigeria, i would say i am not surprised that you find no sense in it, i mean a dark continent filled with black people still battling with Malaria which i think you have by the way,it is expected that you will act like a typical black man inferior to his white counter part.I would post this same answer on quora and get a different response why? IQ which the average black man lacks hence a patriarch society like Nigeria is still backwards, you black men just cant do anything right can you?


Back to the topic;
A strong relationship without respect and regard? So on what basis is that relationship strong?strong friendships i know are based on loyalty ,integrity ,honesty and mutual respect would you point out how the op has any of these for his so called "decent babymama" ?.

Both the op and the lady both have issues. The lady is a helpless prey who is probably still having "the first love syndrome" add a mixture of low self esteem and what you have is a good woman who doesn't know she deserves more hence she settles to being a babymama and a doormat to a man who doesn't know what he wants nor have a sense of responsibility.While the op is indecisive man with a pinch of narcissism who feels the has another human under this control so he will happily gloat about it and not even give the necessary worth to the person.

I also think the lady is probably like me who hates my children to have different fathers , born here born there ,i always hated it, maybe that is why she is trying so she can have all her children for one baby papa. Its more bearable to be a babymama to one man than to be for several men hence this lady is trying to minimise the wagging tongues so she does not end up like the woman Jesus met at the well with five husbands but this time with five baby papas.Or maybe she feels as a "second hand" no man will find her worthy of being a wife so its better she stays put after all as they say "the devil you know is better than the angel you dont know" .

I think by now we all know the definition of hypocrisy now lets apply it to the op who throws the word "hoe" with reckless abandone . This women he calls hoes might not necessarily be promiscous but they have one thing the OP knows the can't manipulate "self awareness" in pidgin they call it "tear eye". You see this kind of women will probably not stay in any net for too long without taking a walk. Let's not also forget the DMs and arms of these so called hoes is where the op crawls and sleeps,talk about eating what you condemn.

I once heard and even read on this forum how bad girls usually end up with the best husbands while so called decent girls end up with not so good, in as much as i dont want to hop on the band wagon of generalisation,we can all agree that one decent lady out there just met the wrong man who has not placed her on the pedestal she deserves cos i hear men every day say "a good woman is hard to find these days" but guess what being a good woman does not guarantee you will be respected and appropriated value as the op has just clearly proved it.


I am not here for any back and forth, but the op just opened my eyes to another parental obligation i have towards my daughters. This piece should even be used as an educative material to young girls so they know their worth cos if it quacks like a duck looks like a duck, then it is a duck and there is no inbetweens when it come to respect ,he either respects you or he doesn't.

One thing tho, the op thinks he is a trophy,lol i don't want this kind of trophy that brings me reproach (the baby mama tag) in whatever ways he is compensating for this reproach, I sure dont envy the ops babymama she can enjoy her so called trophy, I DONT WANT HER SITUATION.

truthsayer009:
Lol as long as you don't break any guys heart.

Then i go surely see you for heaven

lol,i go try my best.

truthsayer009:
Lmao after watching the videos, in my mind I'm like "Damn this models are hot hot".

The Bishop might have been thinking the same in his dirty mind. Last last Men will be Men.

That's why i pity all these women that call their Pastor Zaddy, forgetting that those Zaddies still have their Dicks thinking for them

Surely, dem wan knack.

lol we just dey decieve ourselves with all this religious nonsense ,las las we go see ourselves for heaven even me sef go dey there.

So someone actually sat down and said "oh well i think its a good idea to conduct a beauty pageant in this church" ran the idea by the church committee and no one saw how awkward the idea was? . from the participants to the Bishop to those in attendance all of them are crazy.

Maybe this is the many other ways the foreign religion laced with fictions and imaginations will be ridded in our african society just like Scotland Sweden and co.

Jokerman:
Why should you bring someone's mother into it?? That's not fair... Face yourselves

but his mother is my madam na why should i not let the world know his mouth trafficked me into prostitution that he is mocking me with. I think that is unfair ,i am the trafficked victim here

DatsAll1mSayin:
Stubborn Girl

i will sue you just wait let them finish passing the social media regulation bill

PennywysCares:
Abeg carry ur own go biko

What type of slay Queen are u?

waka jor

amazing , sophisticated slay queen with full package na im you dey talk to like that ? i will report you to the Igwe

PennywysCares:

in this men's world u a lady d talk
U want yab mouth abi
I go gather boyz for u

lol , yab? Wetin we never see for this forum wey you wan do? People wey dey wear "asshole" as badge of honor never fit troll me you know why cos i know they are nothing but miserable things hiding behind a faceless forum.

Ariza:
A very long way! I added more to my previous post. The equation has never been balanced. Just as a female child is trained to be a puppet, the male child is trained to be a robotic slowpoke who has been programmed to see his ability to provide as his only sense of value. He will continue to be relevant as long as he can make money and provide, he can do anything as long as he has the cash. When a man's sense of value is attached to what he has to offer, not only has he being partially condemned, he stand a chance of greater condemnation and humiliation when he is unable to deliver. The pains a male child suffers. For a male child he has no chance or excuse to fail, and we all can see where that has led the society so far.

We all have a very long way to go, but the first step is elevating SELF LOVE. Preach Self Love across all genders, no one deserves to be caged.

Absolutely., nothing but the truth ,there has to be a balance. I agree 100%.

Finchmgh:
Sorrows and regrets are really your calling. Your dp can attest to that

lol , oh my Una get time sha ,but it seems you are low on comprehension skills . only a smart person will deduce what the meme is all about, its deeper than your shallow brain i must say. This interaction was fun ,do take care .

Yinibixema:
Says a broke okokomaiko bitch wey no Dey receive order from men at ikeja anymore because of her infected pussy. Next week is your family meeting at ijora badia and take your broke wretched family out of ijora badia first okay.

lol , my God what a daunce ,any was it was a pleasure to interact with you . This is the beauty of the internet it makes one know there is a person devoid of sense that shares the same habitat with you . Have a blessed Sunday

Yinibixema:
You never fix your own life. You dey tell someone wey you no know to fix hin life. Wetin i no go hear for this okokomaiko bitch’s mouth whose family house is in ijora badia

lol may i ask where your own family house is that is if you even have one ? Banana island ? kitty cats are lions online

Yinibixema:
E pain am.. cry me a river. Frustrated idiot at 45 because men don Sabi her for Allen and dem no gree call her again once dey see her for road due to wider divergent 100cm diameter itching pussy. Get a life

all rants of a frustrated imp ,border closure must be dealing with you,poor thing ,i can send you small thing to pacify your condition .

Finchmgh:
E pain am

You are really pained...you can cry me a river, and I still wouldn't give a fuckkk

see this one ,will you log out and fix your miserable life. Or you think say trolling na work? oya speak yoruba for me na, i love that language ,omo see mentions from just one person oya , how many more accounts ,bring them all out

Yinibixema:
E pain am. Cry baby. Olosho no be work. Go find better work even though you no fit see husband because no sensible man go dey Bleep useless rotten wide divergent view infected pussy of a 45 year old ugly fat toad whose only achievement is 50 abortions. Ashewo kobokobo. Oloribu

your mother did worse ,heaven did not fall, see now she is still refeeshing her blood with small boys while trafficking young women. Maybe when i too retire i will be using your son to refresh my blood

Yinibixema:
If you no desist from oloshoism enterprise. Na ritual go end your matter last last. A foolish midnight newspaper at 45 is a wasted foolish miserable fool for ever because no womb to carry pregnancy anymore due to 50 abortions done at Allen

lol, yen yen yen , your mother did worse yet she still gave birth to you,thanks but i will be just fine

Yinibixema:
Lol e pain am. Wasted life wey dem don use do ritual. Evening newspaper into olosho enterprise at 42 after 15 abortions. I can smell the rotten pussy from here. Olofo

you nor speak yoruba again? Like i always say, you frustrated imps have turned this forum to your safe haven where you display your misery ,hurts and furstrations that if your mother had an account as a nairalander you will still call her an olosho so young boy ,its not new.


By the way i will never be able to match the record of your mother aka my madam in any of these things ,she sure was a heavy weight undisputed champion when it comes to being a hoe

Ariza:
If only mothers would pay more attention on their wards psychological needs like they do their physical needs. A mother will focus more on teaching the female child body anatomy but the male child mental anatomy. When a mother talks to her female child, You hear things like, don't let a man touch you, you will get pregnant, don't play with boys because you will become like boys, sit well so your pants won't show and boys will laugh at you. Learn to cook so that you will get husband, Learn to wash so that you will have a husband, don't talk anyhow no man will marry you etc.Right from the beginning this girl child's life has been mudded to revolve around , boys, Men and what men think. She's has been caged to live her life for men's validation and she can't be blamed for not knowing Self worth, Self value, Self esteem and Self Love because she wasn't taught.

couldn't agree more . New generation of women have alot to do. I hope we learn from the mistakes of our mothers and correct the abnormality.

Yinibixema:
Infected pussy olofo. Won ti do aye e baje. Omo adanu. My head self go enter the infected pussy, worn out smelling pussy, Allen Avenue regular customer. Alaye baje

lol e don dey speak yoruba , pained much? Cry me a river, your mums retired pussy has gone through all the stages of decomposition as my madam that she is .

Yinibixema:
Stinking borehole pussy daughter of a LovePeddler mother. Like mother like daughter. Smelly pussy. Ugly toad

e pain am o, i am going to remit money to your mother, i must say she is a wicked madam , imagine collecting 60% what a wicked human trafficker your mother is ,ruthless witch. Plus her pussy is always intching her that she even sleeps with customers for free especially small boys .son of a sugar mama with ichy pussy ,welldone. Hope all the human trafficking money feeds your family today since your father is useless to himself and family .

PennywysCares:

I love slay queens they know how to ride a man

That soft moaning alone

oh really? I heard your deeper life sister does anal to keep her hymen intact

Yinibixema:
Olosho shut up. Today’s Sunday. Do quick and go line up at Allen Avenue Ikeja for normal olosho routine. Obo ti Fe ba Je. Borehole pussy

your mama ,the real one is my madam,she retired and made me the senior girl . Tho she still takes small boys to enjoy herself. I wonder how your weakling of a dad is still alive seeing how emasculated he is ,poor thing

Ariza:
I feel pity for the young lady but then she made her choice just like every other women out there who remain in abusive relationships/ Marriages.
It all about Self esteem. They believe the partners in their lives are the best they can get.

you see why we need to wake up and teach our daughters how to value themselves and stop bending over backwards for men. Nature itself already placed women at a disadvantage to have to bear the off spring but why do women now have to put up with such in toxic attitude from these men?

Here is a woman that everyone here will agree is "a good decent woman " but what does she get in return ? Disrespect ,dishonour and disregard.And sometimes when people say women dont know what they want ,i laugh ,but do men know what they want? A man who knows what he wants would have wifed this decent lady ,but what does he do instead? He goes screwing with the same "hoes" he vehemently curses and slut shames at every given opportunity.

In conclusion i think the op has a mental problem, it maybe narcissism or even fear of commitment but no lady should make herself a victim for a man's short coming.

DatsAll1mSayin:
Why you vex anyhow? Today na Sunday o!

thundafire Yinibixema PennywysCares yes ,i as i expected a herd of testosterone oozing humans hovering over my comment like flies do when they see shit

So let me get this straight,you have a lady you met a virgin ,she has a daughter for you ,love you effortlesssly and even kneels down to serve you ,yet she is still your babymama? Wow you see why i said humans are insatiable? You just like every ingrate out there are the reason many women have had to borrow themselves sense and built up a defense mechanism so wicked men like you will not take advantage of them.

A man says he doesn't want a ho yet he cant wife a decent one who respects him, can you tell my why i should not call you a hypocrite ? Men like you are the ones who treat women anyhow because in their minds "she is not going anywhere,she will be waiting for me when i am done having fun with these hoes out here".

I must say you got yourself a perfect prey who isn't leaving your net any time soon ,so enjoy.

LordIsaac:
Today's moms are slay queens with only backsides to offer.

and the fathers are slay kings with nothing but empty egotistic souls with no sense of how to carry their masculinity.

Wickedtruths:
He doesn't have any business apart from scamming. I once caught the crook fighting for agency fees in Properties section.

This same boy is looking for vehicle to buy for hire purchase.

Very funny criminal.

lol. How people part with their money to online strangers baffles me. Even someone you know his family members and house address can still scam you not to talk of someone you don't know. I guess the greed of getting an imaginary 400% ROI is too juicy for the human nature to ignore

Wickedtruths:
Healthserve, Hspda, Planet3xi, Kunleweb, Essenceplus

Those are his Monikers. Someone revealed this in the investment section where he was accused of trying to scam people.

lol, i was right after all. . such an evasive character,would rather convince you on how trust worthy he is and even invoke religion than provide you with answers to simple questions about his business he wants people to invest in. As i have read somewhere, evading questions is a sign of a lie.

Mteeeeeeeeeew, Africa and superstition yet a dark continent only good at consuming what First world countries produce. Una nor fit use una juju take charm una leaders to do the right thing?

The summary of it all is "electronic babysitters". We have now gotten to a stage where we now allow the internet to raise our children ,even first world countries have already detected this problem.

There is this myth that a quiet Child is a good child so we do all we can to keep them distracted even if it is to put them infront of a screen. Children are supposed to be learning how to interact and grow emotional intelligence which can never be taught on the internet but people dont know that.

Social media is here to stay, but do we know how to navigate it and balance it so the scale doesn't tilt towards the bad? A child that has not learned how to speak or hold a pen but can navigate all the corners of a phone and the worse part is parents show off with it ,oh i can afford to buy my kid an ipad ,well good for you. Lol. Anxiety, stress and depression is already being associated with high SM users due to virtual reality portrayed on apps like IG and Facebook to think many kids are being exposed to this without parental control and regulation is alarming . I hope people take this seriously and the mods occasionally puts this on fp as a reminder .

As usual hateful comments from frustrated bitter Nigerians who have not took out time for serious introspection. . Hml to the beautiful couple.