₦airaland Forum

shogsman:
So because her mother is a prophetess she should be dressing like deeper life people abi,Nigerians and their insignificant opinions sha.

if they cant keep their kids in check on what moral ground do they stand to preach to other people? All the youths in their church ,how will they correct them when their own children are wayward?

That is how one yeye pastor that doesn't even allow his members to enter the church without covering their hair, e daughter dey wear trouser come midweek service ,lol .They will be calling people sinners for the same thing their children are doing right under their nose.

khalids:
SO many people talking trash....they don't even know, on what the basis the case was dismissed....

The court did not say he was guilty or innocent....they said the issue had passed the statutes of limitation....

Simply meaning it had happened too far back for them to take up the case......

that is why Nigeria is a third world country tho, Bill Cosby and co were sentenced but here excuses upon excuses.Looking at how the Nigerian society is tailored and the burden of proof on victims in the Nigerian law i am not surprised it turned out this way. Even getting a conviction in a fresh rape case in Nigeria is nearly impossible not to talk of this type of case.


Just scrolled up seems another person is having the same line of thought as me regarding your comment.

No African country was good enough to host the so called "one African music fest"?

SalamRushdie:
Many hospitals in Lagos are run by quacks

not just lagos,most clinics in benin city are run by quacks. Na God dey save person. My neighbor lost her baby to a quack three months ago she is lucky to be alive, she bleed so much she had to be rushed to another hospital.

back2sender:
They have gone to sell thier market over thier to the Arabs. Potty business pays well.

exactly what came to my mind when i saw "all white party" ,same ol same ol,tales of Dubai coprophilia parties.

ABCthings:
what does this audio means? I tried searching it

its a song by rudeboy the title is actually audio money

AstroG:
Duggedised12:
YOU ARE NOT FAR FROM THE TRUTH ,ONE WAY OR THE OTHER THE MALE COMMENTERS ARE ALREADY JUSTIFYING THE ACTS OF THEIR BROTHERS ALREADY. As far as rape is concerned in Nigeria it just has to be the girls fault . vagabonds !.


Ah don't agree with the bolded

you already made that known ,what then do you agree with or what do you have to say about the topic.

AstroG:
Ah totally disagree with you on this one

so what are your thoughts? Lets hear it.

ubunja:
you have time to waste justifying anything to people on the internet. I have been more than a decade dealing with haters online. Their energy would be better spent elsewhere.

hate ? That is a very strong word mr man, i know you before? I came across this thread read it and dropped my comment. Which one come be haters again? Or na only asslickers you like ? Nor vex o.

Martinez39:
Read the op. Your answer is there.

You can't make me feel better. My blood is boiling. Good day.

Was she my type? No. She was from the wrong tribe. And was too reserved for my liking.

she was never the op's type, wrong tribe plus she was too reserved for his liking, which clearly shows from the word go the op knew he didnt want her but since in his words "she was the easiest girl he has ever bleeped oh well he might as well plant his seed.

whatever is making your blood boil, oga nor be me cause am nor dey come online come dey transfer am for my body and just know that there is nothing new under the sun, whatever you are going through will surely pass, lol boiling blood ,hope it doesn't pass through your blood vessels to your brain cells tho ,good day to you too.

Martinez39:
Go and sit down. Nothing can stop you from trying to punch holes on Ubunja's personality. Mtewww.

lol ,i asked a simple question. Before or after. Cos i know guys who will impregnate a lady as revenge for her farther refusing his proposal. That i have seen tho it was the guys parents who were against him marrying the lady,they have two kids still not married. So my question was a logical one.

And by the way, why are you always on the edge, are you this angry and grumpy in your everyday life? I can help feel better if you want to.

Martinez39:
Too bad. A girl, Duggedised12, here who don't know your history was accusing you of maltreating and dumping your baby mama.

her farther meddled before or after you got her pregnant?

In fela's voice

My friend wear e suit,
E wear e socks
E wear e shoe,
E put e tie
E say e be gentleman,
E go suffer ,
E go sweat all over


Heat stroke is real, someone should advice him o.

Ladycewhy:
The so called elder brothers at too busy fighting gender war with women ,so to them allowing their vagabond brothers turning Nigeria into the rape headquaters of the world is a win win for them, atleast it will be a form of punished to their perceived gender enemies.

A scantily dressed lady on Instagram is more dangerous to society than their brothers who are rapist,cultists ,ritualists ,fraudsters (both home and abroad) child molesters etc.

you are not far from the truth ,one way or the other the male commenters are already Justifying the acts of their brothers already. As far as rape is concerned in Nigeria it just has to be the girls fault . vagabonds !.

pocohantas:
They teach them to make money. Being a gentleman sef is now a problem. They will call you sissy and say you are trying to impress women- who by the way, do not like "nice guys". Na God hand we dey. If you see any young person wey get sense now, commend him or her...

The number of destitute kids is on the rise in that percentage young boys make up a high percentage ,go to motor parks at night and early mornings ,you find these boys sleeping in corners in the morning they start hustling for a driver to do conductor for or wheel barrow to hire. Its that bad.

Even the family unit is under threat with both sexes trying to out smart each other. There is a subconscious gender war going on that if we dont shield our swords the already fragile family system will be completely eroded and what we will have in our hands will be a complete disaster. I commented on a post here and the response i got was what i anticipated, a man who knew the decent lady was from a tribe he didn't like but he still went ahead to impregnate her and made her a babymama and came online to brag about it, could you believe these boys here found it a very mentoring article ? Lol . Even the ones who are supposed to be literate and a step closer to enlightenment are all reasoning like anyhow human beings,my sister na real God hand we dey.

crazyABO:
lol I grab sha ,,, but una too join follow

if customer nor buy market go close . tell your hypocritical brothers to stop going behind closed doors to eat what they condemn in public

pocohantas:
Exactly! We need to go back to the root. I was telling my loved one the other day- the family is the MOST IMPORTANT UNIT in a society. Once you miss instilling certain values within that subset, you will find it hard to correct it. That is if they don't get into major problem before you reach them.

These guys sisters might be home washing plates and cooking the food they will eat. I know so many young boys and girls that used to call my "aunty" years back- I see them now and shudder at what they have become. Guys taking drugs, girls scantilly dressed. But then, we know the one Nigerians will spend pages and hours talking about. While leaving to other.

Sis, I am scared too. I have always been unenthusiastic about leaving Nigeria. As it is now, I don't mind...

An old woman was raped by some group of boys the other day,about three houses on the street were raided. It so happens even in your home you are not even safe, old women too are not even safe ,can you imagine the depravity of "leave am,na man" usually said in homes have caused and is causing society? Na man na man that is how they end up releasing vagabonds into the society.

I ask again what do parents teach their sons?

trippleKAY:
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pocohantas:
They are already doing it. Nigeria ranked one of the most unsafe countries for women in the world. It is unsafe for humans and I believe it is worse for women. You are a target for every criminal minded individual.

Yet when some ediots see ladies dancing naked on instagram, they will start shouting they don't want girl child. As if the girl child is the reason our Nigerian passport and country as a whole has lost respect globally. Gosh!

The truth is you cant match a good female child and let the male find his path and expect the safety of the female child,the vagabond you created because "na man" will come back to disrupt the flow of tranquility. Many parents are so fixated on taming their daughters that they let their sons roam free and become vagabonds now we are seeing the effects.

They are nearly making this country inhabitable i personally fear for my future kids even the boys, sodomy is now on the increase, child molestation even in worship centers ,schools .

Its now a menace but na twerking and IG hoes selling market they will still go into their DMS to buy be their problem. 99% of death related to cultism is by boys, 99% of ritual killings is by boys, 99% of yahoo scam is by boys, 99% of fraud cases is by boys, 99% of kinappers are boys , lets not talk about child rape and sodomy,robbery unkor, politcal thuggery unkor?etc but na IG scantily dressed ladies be their problem ,OK o

From gang raping to nomadic rapist moving from village to village raping women as an occupation ,to rise in pedophiles to rise in sodomy ,one can conclude that Nigeria is gradually if not already the headquaters of sexual perversion ,child molestation and rape in general at least in the west African region.


Las las this boys will put Nigeria on the world map as the worlds number one rape nation,we are getting there ,slowly but surely until the laws are reviewed and parents learn how to raise their sons.

trippleKAY:
Na sweety oooooooo

I contacted it from a lady in my undergraduate days, she stays in the hostel. This thing show me Pepe for six months, i regretted meeting the so called girl.
But at the end of the day after spending almost 10k for test and drugs, na 200 naira drug cure am

what is the name if the #200 drug?

At this point i have to call out modath and omenka ,are you people asleep?why have you people suddenly gone numb ,especially modath, you used to be vocal ,this is not the time to sleep,there is fire on the mountain o.

crazyABO:
speak for yourself miss or the way your guy is treating u ,I was only speaking for myself thanks

sure you are by one man, but like i always say ,"if customers nor come, market go close". Your brothers are the ones encouraging things look this,infact they find it entertaining.

Sounds more like an increase in male gold diggers. Once they hear "i live alone" they set the ball rolling for "come and marry " scam, all of a sudden they need money for a business or to execute a contract.

3mmyz:
Wow, Today is already a good day then.
It's really a pleasure meeting a Dugged Intellectual.

have a gread day ahead.

A comparison between the diet of the Japanese( a country with the highest centenarians) and the rest of the world will tell you that diet plays a great part in you health and butter for breakfast is not the best healthy meal out there . I understand that big cooperations want to make money but the consumers need to borrow themselves sense. There is nothing healthy about butter spread especially for kids,its laced with high cholesterol and not too beneficial ingredients but only placates your taste buds.There is nothing light about fat ,same way it has been proven that zero coke actually does more damage ,its just coporate psychology .

3mmyz:
I can play by the rules.

Arrogance and bullying are potrayed by folks who are clearly Ignorant of the bright side.

Can you now let the 'entry door' open?

lol i will take that "entry door" literally. Nice to meet you .we are officially friends.

3mmyz:
Dugged Brillance *claps*

So can we be friends already?

lol, sure as long as you play nice, bullies and arrogant pricks are shown the exit door.

dermmy:
Exactly...Even in yoruba movies o. You go dey see gateman wey b stark illiterate him go dey blast english. Babalawo/herbalist go dey use phonetics. No b small tin o. Nollywood is a big joke

exactly. These producers need to up their game. imagine who goes to the market to be speaking English with market woman?

MNDY:
If women fear being hurt along the line for making the first move, Gender Equality should be discouraged then. Because men move on after their feelings are hurt. As a matter of fact, men are hurted the most - A man is made to train another man's child and later made to know about it by his wife etc.

You are saying all these to your fellow Nigerian women. Other women elsewhere are not like Nigerian women. The mentality is different.

the same way the mentality of western men is very different from Nigerian men,infact na when Nigerian men go abroad dem dey get factory resetting most times and their perception on relationship and how to be a gentleman changes,any Nigerian man that carries his typical Nigerian man mentality to date a western lady usually ends up in the streets ,so it works both ways.No woman should throw herself at any man just to prove a point of being equal , atleast not to a Nigerian man that will go behind you back and brag about it.


By the way the real agenda of gender equality was actually geared towards equity not necessarily equality but trust humans to misconstrued things to fit their own selfish agenda.

As for the man being made to train another man's child tho i don't see how this topic of who should ask who out escalated to that point but i will just say , no human male or female deserves to be deceived like that ,for a start i wouldn't want my sons to be. So there is no where you will find me supporting such great deception.

And lastly let me say this ,there is nothing like oh this gender is hurt the most ,hurt is hurt there is nothing to quantify it. Which is why down playing people's feelings is a bad idea. You will see people saying "people have been through worse" well too bad for them but it doesn't change the fact that this person is currently going through something too. So please drop that idea that one gender is hurt the most there is no statistics to back that up.

Local languages and pidgin it is then. They are subtly letting africans know they cant speak English more then the real owners. Start using pidgin and local languages add subtitles case solved.

In all honesty, i have always thought these movies were unrealistic ,you see house helps who are supposed to be not too educated blasting English,its just unrealistic.

Lol ,any lady that does this is in for a rude shock . why will you walk up to a guy and ask him out? Have you ever seen a hungry lion turn down a prey? Or have you seen who you will give sugar and will turn it down( except for people with diabetes,lol) ,goat dey e own you jejely carry yam go give am and you expect him to say no?Nigerian men that still slut shame and brag about how they have slept with a girl as if they will be given a badge of honor for it na im you wan go ask out? Even the ones that have never said hi to you will brag behind your back to their friends just to look like an undisptued fuckaholic, as a lady try it with Nigerian men,i sorry for you.

Ladies ask yourselves how you will feel when your bf in the middle of an argument tells you "i never wanted this relationship,you were the one that came to force /seduce/ask me out ". You as a lady don't have a microscope to know who is mature and who is not so don't screw yourself over by putting yourself in a corner to be labelled as "desperate".

Kings seek out their queens, even animals understand this that is why they seek out their partners when they are ready to mate. The only thing i see here is when women give the "green light" and starts playing hard to get, and we as ladies need to stop doing that but that is where it ends . Never accept the responsibility of chasing, this generation of men who are lions online and cats offline want to change the narrative .Even the good old bible said "he who finds a wife".

I repeat , never walk up to a man and ask him out ,send your signals , befriend him if possible and when you send those signals and he responds ,there is no need in playing hard to get. Thats just it.